April 2013 Chemo Group
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Hello ladies, hope everyone is doing well, see lots of posts. 2nd chemo yesterday, was warned by the nurse it may be worse, but it seems to be much better. I hit it hard with the nausea meds before, and consistently now with no vomiting in 24 hours. Took Claritin last night and just gave myself Neulasts, so we will see if it helps! My Dr. found I had gone out yesterday with a blad spot, so we cried and shaved last night. Wore just a hat out today, saw the post above, hat etiquette, wow not ready for that! Not as hard as I thought, just ready to DO THIS and get this surgery. Welcome to all the newbies!
Heather
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Hello ladies, hope everyone is doing well, see lots of posts. 2nd chemo yesterday, was warned by the nurse it may be worse, but it seems to be much better. I hit it hard with the nausea meds before, and consistently now with no vomiting in 24 hours. Took Claritin last night and just gave myself Neulasta, so we will see if it helps! My daughter found I had gone out yesterday with a bald spot, so we cried and shaved last night. Wore just a hat out today, saw the post above, hat etiquette, wow not ready for that! Not as hard as I thought, just ready to DO THIS and get this surgery. Welcome to all the newbies!
Heather
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Hi ladies! So I have to admit my nerves are getting to me, as I now start chemo this coming Thursday as a preventative. My treatment is once every 3 weeks for 6 treatments.. With it being like this, are the doses higher? Side effects worse? As I know everyone is different, is anyone else the same type of pattern as me?
Sending everyone lots of well wishes, hugs and a wonderful weekend
Irene -
Erin, I can also tell you my anxiety has gone way down now that I'm in the process. I am hopeful yours will to. You're at one of the hardest points. Indenial had great advice. I breathe all the time
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We're with you! -
You are all amazing. Thank you for reaching out.
I will keep you posted and hopefully I can be the next hand reaching out to help another
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Irene - I am doing 6 cycles each 3 weeks long just like you. I get Taxotere and Carboplatin on the first day of each cycle and Herceptin every week. They can also just do all 3 on the first day of each cycle for convenience if you don't want to come in every week. They have standard doses for all the medicines that are based on your body size (height and weight) and the Carboplatin dose also depends on your kidney function. Are those the same drugs you will be getting? The side effects are supposed to have more to do with which drugs you get and their doses rather than how often you get them. Whenever they give drugs weekly the doses are smaller than when you get them less frequently (i.e. I am getting 110mg each week of Herceptin but will get 330 mg every 3 weeks after I am done with my Taxotere and Carbo).
My first treatment was very doable. I felt like I was sick for several days but now feel near normal. I do have neuropathy in my left foot already which I will discuss with my MO on Wednesday. I have also been seeking advice about it on the TCH discussion board. The support available on these boards is amazing! All of these wonderful ladies who have been through this before and know exactly what I am going through!
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Kirklandgal- thank you! Yes, that's exactly what I am getting. I will be getting all three at once and after the 6 cycles I will just get herceptin for a year once a month.
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Just finished my firs chemo infusion. Although the day was long (8 hours total, that included meeting with MO first, a short teaching by the oncology case worker, and then the rest of the day was in the chemo chair). The day went very smoothly and surprisingly the time passed quickly. I'm home now and feel just fine. We'll see how long it takes before the SE kick in.
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Good Day all
I start my first infusion of TC on April 24th. Will do 4 cycles..my TE replacement was scheduled for the beginning of June but now I will have a delay. DARN! Well..it is what it is. I hope I don't have to do this ever again. I have turned into a blubbering, cry at the drop of a hat, MESS. DH says the stupidest things sometimes but I have to remember that this is new to him too..so I try to hold my tongue. My daughter(23) is busy with college and her equestrian events and I am happy she has distractions. She is usually quiet and keeps things inside. Thank goodness for my puppies who are at my side constantly! I swear my female knew I had BC before my DX! So..I join this group and hope we can all make it thru this time gracefully and with little if no tears(but I know better)..well..the tears part anyway. I have a question on advice for what to bring along to my first session..i.e. I pod..etc. I saw a thread in this site before I had my MX and someone listed things to take to the hospital and to have available after and it was SO helpful. Is there a list for chemo group? Thanks for your time and all your honestly in posting and sharing..it has helped me thru to know I am truly not alone. HUGS runnermom
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I wanted to ask if anyone is icing their hands and feet. I have neuropathy in one of my feet after my first treatment. The TCH board suggests icing for prevention. Is anyone doing that? If so, what are you putting the ice in? Is it working? How uncomfortable is it for you? Thanks for any input!
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Good morning Wonderful April Ladies!
I just got caught up with the posts. Welcome to new ladies and know you found an amazing group of women here. I am happy to see second chemo cocktails went well. Mine is Monday and I feel like I am going on a big trip to get all shopping and chores done. These last two weeks have been busy but wonderful. Lots of walks, normal mom stuff and dr. appointments.
Many of us just lost hair. Thank you for the support. I ended up buzzing it this last Monday. I cried over it the day before but was ready Monday. I could pull out 20 strands at a time and I didnt want to leave clumps all over and freak my kiddos. To be honest i didnt like the reflection staring back in the mirror, but this too shall pass. I need to remember my mantra "whatever it takes". My 11 year old daughter was upset but then once it was done was surprised that it looked ok. My 5year old son just smiled at my funny head. He wants me to wear my funny hair (wig) when i get him at school. Yesterday, two moms told me Ihad a nice haircut. Lol. I felt like an imposter!!!!! I have been sporting bandanas under hats. At home I am topless. I don't like the acne or bumps on my head... Not sure where it came from- will ask mo.
Going out in public has been weird. Most folks don't look or say anything. One woman winked at me- the sisterhood.
I have continued to drink lots of fluids, vitamins, exercise, probiotics, stool softeners, glutamine, mouth rinses, zantac and ativan on my off weeks.
I had a realization that it is cancer that sucks and the chemo is good.
I had a fill for my tissue expander and no pain at all!!
I think of you ladies everyday and i send you positive thoughts and gentle hugs. -
I had my appointment with the clippers yesterday morning. Met a friend for breakfast and treated myself to two Mimosa's, then we went for the appt and I cried like a baby. Snot bubbles and everything. Honestly it was more traumatic for me than the surgery and the first chemo. It took me until just about an hour ago before I could even look at my bald head in the mirror. Anyway, after the shave we went to the ACS wig bank and picked me out a sassy brunette wig (been blonde forever), then we went and got my prescription filled for a "cranial prosthesis" and I chose a red wig and a blonde wig! At least that part of the day was fun.
I'm not quite ready to walk around the house even with no one home with my bald head exposed, I'm wearing a little sleep hat with a scarf over it right now. I thought I looked like I gypsy so I put on a pair of big gold earrings to finish the look.
I'm on a three week cycle right now, so I get chemo #2 on Wednesday. I hope it is as uneventful as chemo #1.
Enjoy your weekends, ladies. xoxo
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It so nice to know that its ok to cry! I try not to let my husband see me,its harder on him then me I think! But we work together in our pizza shop so hard to hide it sometimes.My first chemo is Wednesday and because of everyone here I know I will be fine! Thank you so much for being here!!! But I know when the hair goes I will lose it. I got it cut short last week. But I have at least a few more weeks before that happens. So again thanks for being here but sorry we have to be here!
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Hello Ladies,
Chemo day 6 is turning out to be another (new) typical day. Think I'll give up the "chemo watch" and expect normal as it appears that is what I will experience. What a relief and hope it lasts. However, this did not come without planning on my part. Most of it on tips from you fabulous women. I think it's great that we each find what works for us then share in the event it can help another. For me, a gallon of water daily with lemon, no mouth sores, nutritious meals balanced with fruits, vegetables, carbohydrates and lean protein and healthy snacking has me feeling well and has headed off any digestive issues and nausea. I found a great application for tracking my water, food and activity and find it helps keep me on track. My Fitness Pal is so easy to use, just a few minutes a day will allow you to track water intake, food, nutrients and activity, and I like that instant visual feedback lets me make real time adjustments. Plus, it's keeping me focused on what I control instead of what I can't. It's free in the online App Store.
What bone pain I have experienced from the Neulasta seems to have been remedied by a daily Claritin and a nightly acetaminophen PM (benadryl). In addition to curbing the bone pain, I'm sleeping through the night for the first time in a month and waking rested and refreshed. So, like most of you I've been freaking over the hair loss but am realizing that if I'm feeling as good as possible, it too will be do-able and it's starting to be less upsetting. Actually beginning to think I might like a summer in Florida without hot hair.
We all know this sucks but for me I find focusing on that alone zaps any positive energy I can use for the fight. Best of all, my smile has returned. You know the one, it's the one that's not manufactured for others' comfort, it's spontaneous, it's happy and it's free of anxiety. I hope yours' has too. -
Now It's Personal
The Chemo Clinic nutritionist, when inviting me to attend the Friday night Relay for Life, exclaimed "it's not all about you and the breasts" when I said I thought October was cancer month. Of course, she meant October was breast cancer month and April was Relay for Life but I was a little taken aback under the circumstances and then I realized how very wrong she is. Forgive me if I seem selfish on this one, but it must be all about me (and each of us dealing with this) and it will be until our disease allows us put this in the past. Every person facing cancer treatment must learn to make it all about them. Their life may very well depend on it. -
Hope all of you April ladies are doing well. I am on day 4 after my first treatment, so far it has not been too bad. Today I have been experiencing terrible hip pain, I did not have the Neulasta shot. Has anyone else experienced this?
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Did the buzz today. Glad I did because it was really coming out. I didn't sleep last night thinking that I'd wake up with all of my hair on my pillow (I know it doesn't happen that way but its what I was thinking at 3am). I'm feeling much better now that its over! I hope to sleep well tonight!
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Newbie here! Had my first treatment on April 11 - Taxotere, Herceptin and Perjeta. I'm just now getting my appetite back a little and getting past the diarrhea that plagued my first several days. I'll be going 5 more times three weeks apart; not sure what happens after that. Probably surgery. (I have Stage IV inflammatory breast cancer.)
Looking forward to learning and contributing here.
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Carol, will you be getting a shot of Neualsta? I did and I took the Cleratin day of and day after. I had fatigue and no taste from my chemo. Chemo was Tuesday and yesterday was my first GOOD day. I felt good all day, good energy level. Even made it to a birthday party, and stayed out til 9:30 p.m. Lol
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Speedy4 how long has it been since your first chemo? I know I will be faced with buzzing sometime in the near future. I went yesterday and had my hair cut chin length bob, I kind of like it. Bought a couple cute hats I found dirt cheap $2.40 at Kohls department store.
It's still cold here in Cleveland OH, it still will be chilly in May, when I will need my "gi Jane" cut. -
Welcome to the newbies! I'm sorry that you have cancer, but grateful for the company here. I have been bald for a few days now, and while I am adjusting, I have been more weepy than I ever have been. I've decided to stop looking in the mirror, at least for today. It raises my anxiety level too much. And I want to be happy today and have some fun.
I will have chemo #2 tomorrow. My MO and I decided to change the antiemetic they give me during infusion to help with the constipation. But that makes me a little nervous about getting more nausea. I have ginger products at home (my step mother swears by "Gin gins") and strategies I can use. I know I'll be okay.
I have lost weight, which is not necessarily bad (I was on the high side of normal before BMX), but my clothing options have dwindled! I'm going to go buy some "foobs" (fake boobs) today so that more of my clothes will fit. I'll report back on that.
My husband is in the kitchen prepping our veggies for the day. I feel so blessed by all the helpers in my life.
To all who have chemo this week, best of luck.
To those recovering from a recent round, hugs and a quick recovery.
To those who are waiting to get started, courage--I found the waiting to be the hardest part, but this is totally doable!
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runnermom -- There is a great thread for chemo prep here: http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/69/topic/706846?page=3#idx_61 That is more about items/OTC meds to stock up on, things like that. As far as chemo day itself, you can bring whatever would help you feel calm & relaxed & entertained. It looks like you're getting the same cocktail as I did, and that took about 3 hours total for me. It could be longer for you if you need to see your MO first that day or if they need to slow the drip down. So basically you are sitting in a recliner for minimum 3 hours. You can get up to use the bathroom, you can eat, you can chat with the other patients, move your hands to do things, etc. So you can bring a laptop, music, knitting, a good book, a journal or sketch pad, things like that. I brought a few things with me but mostly ended up talking with the nurse & my roommates the whole time. You might get sleepy when they give you the Benadryl, so you may want to nap for a bit. If you have a cozy blanket or shawl, it might make you feel more at home (and sometimes IVs make you cold!) Snacks are a good idea too, they may have some on hand but bring your favorites. I also brought lunch even though my infusion was after lunch time... I knew I'd be a little too nervous to eat lunch at home beforehand! Some women bring ice to chew on & to ice their fingers and toes during the Taxotere portion, and/or cold caps to ice their heads (I did not ice anything). I think that's it. Like the others have said, the anticipation is the worst part!
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Whew- six days out from second chemo and it was no much better than the first (so far). I have heard that it gets worse as you go, but this one was by far easier. Just extremely tired days 3-5 and woke up early with energy today. I have had a lot of eye twitching this time which is really annoying, but I've been using some eye drops which seem to help. I've also been drinking prune juice in addition to using the Senokot and haven't had the constipation issue this time. It's actually not too bad if you mix it in a yogurt smoothie. Also, I have a cup of chamomile tea every night, sometimes with a bit of lavender or lemon balm from the garden. Its very calming and helps me sleep.
A couple of questions - Has anyone's doctor advised them to take Glutamine or any other nutritional supplements? I had started taking glutamine but then someone on here said that it can cause liver issues and I've read conflicting reports on other supplements. My doc told me not to take anything extra. So, I'm just wondering if those who are taking them are just doing it on their own or actually with the advise of their docs.
Also, how do you ice your fingers and toes? The nurses at my place don't seem to know anything about it.
And one more thing....I am pretty amazed at just how strong you all are. Not surprised, but amazed. Especially those of you that have children at home. I cannot imagine having had gone thru this back when I was raising mine.
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Oops, I meant to say "so much better" on the previous post.
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Morning Ladies, Welcome all newbies~
Hope all is well and everyone is hanging in there...well, I STILL have no voice
but my brother help me come to a realization, it could be LACK of GOOD sleep...I'm only averaging 5 hours a night....the dr has given me script for two different sleeping pills, but don't think they're helping...still have a good appetite and eating lots of cottage cheese, yogurt and last night enjoyed some great Brunswick stew!~
Still off the Diet Coke and had to change out the 5 gallon water cooler yesterday....that's 5 gallons intake since Wed....so I'm staying WELL hydrated....
going to a ear nose and throat dr tomorrow, since i kinda need to TALK to do my chosen profession..they've been great about me calling out....
Hope everyone has a peaceful Sunday....so glad this board it here....Thanks for your courage as we all walk this chemo road.....
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Virginger -- I hope your voice returns soon! I am not getting any "good" sleep either. Definitely not helping the chemo brain!
AllieM, the nurse navigator told me to take glutamine, she even put a paper about it in my chemo packet. MO said he didn't think it would make much difference but that the nurses swear by it & he was OK with it. Curious what you've heard about liver issues with glutamine? I was also told I could take vitamins in moderate amounts (not exceeding 100% of the recommended daily value) and I do take a calcium & magnesium supplement sometimes to help with a sleep/jaw issue. I was advised by my MO not to take anything else, especially the day before/of/after infusion.
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Thank indenial,
gotta love the internet....this morning was able to video chat with my 81 widowed dad in Alabama.....i sometimes worry MORE about HIM than myself...but that old dog figured it out....even called me back...puts my mind at ease that he can see i'm OK>..that's been my biggest concern....hopefully I'll sleep a little better tonight not worring about HIM...
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Happy Sunday all!
Quick question- I live alone but have plenty of support. I'm wondering if I need someone to stay with me the first few days after my T/c round?
It's my understanding that more than likely I will be fine for a day or so afterwards but I'm not sure if I need to line up friends to stay over ? -
Erin, if you have friends that are willing to stay over, I'd have them come the first few nights 'til you know how you're doing. Hopefully you'll have minimal side effects & can send them home early & won't need anyone for subsequent rounds but at least the first one, 'til you know how you respond to it... especially if you think you might feel anxious about being home alone. I definitely didn't *need* anyone with me and did spend parts of the day alone (well, alone with my 4 year old) but it was really reassuring to have a friend or my husband there at night just in case I had some bizarre reaction or something... which of course I didn't.
Mental health and peace of mind are just as important as any physical/medical need for someone staying over!
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Hi erinm216 happy Sunday to you too...I live alone also.....had a friend stay with me...but that's only because she traveled flew in to be with me...I've been fine physcially, and she only stayed a few days...Thursday - Sunday...I've got folks that check on me via text, phone and face book....you should be fine....but I enjoyed the company...plus she's very OCD....and got a back splash tile job for my condo outta her visit....but it's a personal choice...I like the company for the 4 hours my treatments so and it's a good excuse for folks to fly in....
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