Work Discrimination?
I really need some advice on this. Last year i was out of work approximately 5 weeks for my bi-lateral mastectomy. Thankfully i did not need any rad or chemo. I returned to work and resumed my responsibilities. Just recently i met with my boss to ask for a raise as I had assumed additional responsibilities and workload. She gave me a number of reasons why not, but ended with "you were out a lot last year i couldnt possibly ask for a raise for you because of that" I couldnt believe she had said that. Some background..this is a huge healthcare company, i have always gotten stellar reviews, including my recent one and someone else in my area who was out on maternity 3x as long as me was promoted and given a big raise. I am in a quandry of what to do. I wrote her a letter and expressed how i felt and she responded with "she didnt intend to say that etc. But im still reeling from this. Any ideas?
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Wow, I can see why you would be reeling! I was a bit stunned just reading it.
I'm no expert on human resources and/or questions about discrimination, but I know there are others on BCO who are, so I'm mostly stopping to bump your question to keep it active until you get some firsthand input.
You didn't tell us how long you've been there, or if there have been other cutbacks in recent months, which might help us get the bigger picture of your situation. My initial reaction, based on the fact that you've had stellar reviews in the past, is that your company, like so many these days, is using every little excuse they can find to keep costs down, including holding back even deserved raises. But hopefully others can suggest how to handle things going forward. (((Hugs))), and good luck! Deanna
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i'm stunned too! You need to find someone who knows employment law (I think there is a thread somewhere here), but my experience tells me that the employer has to treat everyone in similar fasion: If Employee A used FMLA, had a baby, and received a merit raise, then Employee B, who also took FMLI, for whatever reason, must similarly be eligible for a raise.
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Thank you so much for the replies. I have been at my job 15+ years and there havent been cutbacks in years. I just feel she doesnt like me as she has only been there 4 years and she brought the one on maternity with her. I dont think i have much recourse because if i do make a complaint well you know how that goes.
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It sounds as though you work for a fairly large corporation, which has significant advantages for you. Your human resources department will be acutely aware that there are legal protections in place for those with discrimination complaints, as well as significant corporate financial penalties for failure to follow through or allow payback. Most likely, your department budget is under pressure, but your supervisor clearly indicated that her refusal to recommend a raise for you is not a department-wide salary freeze, and not a performance issue, but specifically your five weeks of authorized, and legally protected, absence. Even worse, she indicated (hopefully incorrectly) that this might be a corporate policy.
In my ever so humble opinion, you really need to follow up on this, but only after you have some more concrete information about how, and how not, to proceed. I've seen those with human resource and employment law experience post in various threads here. Perhaps you could PM a couple of them?
I'm rooting for a nice, big, juicy, raise!
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