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  • NatsFan
    NatsFan Member Posts: 3,745
    edited March 2013

    Isn't it sad that when it comes to LE, it's too often the patients instructing their medical teams instead of the other way around???  Something is terribly wrong with this picture. 

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited March 2013

    Mary, it's very sad and very frustrating.  I fully understand if my primary care doc isn't conversant in LE.  She and I had that conversation, and she gently explained that she knew OF the condition, but not much more. Primary care physicians are held accountable for covering a lot of ground. I wish she knew more, and I have trouble accepting that months after I gave her a book on it (not huge...65 pages or so), she admits she still hasn't had time to look at it. 

    But I reserve my real frustration for the breast surgeon whose apparent LE knowledge is minimal and outdated, and even the onc, someone I really like, has made some statements that reveal her to be way out of date. How on earth LE is not part and parcel of what these professionals are accountable for in their practice of medicine simply baffles me. 

  • Cindyl
    Cindyl Member Posts: 1,194
    edited March 2013

    Yeah.  You want to know who, other than my LET is the LE savvy medical professional I've encountered?  My dental hygienist. Yell  She has a sister who is one of us... Most of the others are willing to listen to what I say about sticks and bp cuffs, (although not all) but they just aren't up on the topic, not even the ones who should be.

  • NatsFan
    NatsFan Member Posts: 3,745
    edited March 2013

    Agreed about PCPs - they can't be expected to know much about LE. But when we have to educate medical professionals who work in surgery, oncology and radiology instead of them educating us - that's beyond belief.   

    And worse - often they resist any education and minimize our concerns!!! Yell  By contrast, my PCP is my best ally in writing scrips and doing anything else I need.  She knows she doesn't know that much about LE, and knows that I know a lot about LE, and she respects that.  I am eternally grateful to her.   

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited March 2013

    My PCP is very accommodating on things like writing prescriptions for garments and therapy, so I don't have insurance issues. But when I initially asked about a filled prescription for Keflex, to carry with me on my constant travels, wow...did that take some convincing. That's the only time I felt like her lack of knowledge of LE might be actually harmful to someone. I didn't hesitate to push back quite hard, but I don't know that everyone would.   

  • RosesToeses
    RosesToeses Member Posts: 721
    edited March 2013

    I'm beginning to realize just how fortunate I've been with this LE stuff--my BS was the one who told me about it, both before and after surgery. His nurse navigator also brought it up as a possibility and I was given a multi page handout with precautions. When I called my MO's office about the swelling I was starting to see, the NP talked me through ruling out cellulitis and got me in with a LANA certified PT the next week.



    There are some good ones out there--here's hoping that becomes the norm, not an exception!

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited March 2013

    Roses, you ARE fortunate! I am aware of one hospital system in MA that has made a serious commitment to giving all BC patients the kind of experience you have had, but it is certainly not the norm. But standards of care are I think often improved when well regarded institutions pave the way. Let's hope you are on the leading edge of a wonderful, if slow, trend!

  • NatsFan
    NatsFan Member Posts: 3,745
    edited April 2013

    I have to fly cross-country next week for a conference.  I'm annoyed that I have to take up valuable suitcase space with my tribute sleeve and vest (but I'm glad to have them).  Annoyed that I have to wear my compression sleeve, gauntlet, and some kind of truncal compression, annoyed that I have to drink fluids with resulting multiple bathroom trips, annoyed that I avoid those yummy salty snacks, and annoyed that I have to do the arm exercises in flight.  If my carry on is too heavy, I'm annoyed that I'll have to check it as I absolutely refuse to rely on the kindness of strangers to help me hoist it into the overhead rack.  (Even before LE, I always hated people (yes, it's almost always a woman) who packs a heavy carryon that's way too heavy for her to hoist into the overhead rack and then at the critical moment when the aisles are jammed and everyone is just trying to get settled ASAP, she stands around helplessly and somehow expects other passengers to help out and hoist her bag for her. I hated it then, so I refuse to be one of those women now.)

    Arrrggghhh - travel is annoying enough without having to deal with all this.  With my luck I'll be next to a crying baby.  Yell 

    The only good thing is that the conference is in San Diego - can't get much better than that!

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited April 2013

    NatsFan, that's such an eloquent rant!  And it's such a rant-worthy topic!  

    Do have a wonderful trip, regardless of all of the above.  

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 3,296
    edited April 2013

    Maybe one of us should be snickerdoodle and one should be gingersnap?

    So I flew a few times between surgery and rads...I have no idea why I was so hot to trot since I was in a lot of pain, but I did it. I also flew about 4 weeks after rads.

    If I had it all to do again, I wonder if they contributed to my LE.

    A few weeks after my LE started I took one more flight, my last for a few years, since I did not have a sleeve that fit I used kineseo tape and hoped for the best.

    I had to fly cross country in December. I was really worried about it. I was compressed.

    I did feel a bit swollen during and after the trip but honestly not much more than on a warm humid day.

    I wish the silverwave bi-lat came in higher compression, I still sometimes feel like it "does" more than a regular sleeve by making all those little wiggles.

    It's not a perfect fit for everyone, but I think it's a good beginner sleeve since it's low compression, it's not too tight, and I feel like the chevrons help, but your milage may vary.

    I am being guilted by a spouse into flying again in June. I would rather not do it, but it wasn't the end of the world.

    I will book a LE treatment for before and after the trip I think, especially after.

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 3,296
    edited April 2013

    Nats Fan I feel your pain. I now consider me someone who needs extra time, If you wear something sleeveless so your sleeve shows, someone will offer to hoist for you!

    Heck this is one occasion that some tacky pink ribbon wear may be useful!

  • kira66715
    kira66715 Member Posts: 4,681
    edited April 2013

    I have to fly to California to visit family in a few weeks, and I've been trying all my expensive closet dwellers to see if they'll manage my hand on a 6 hour flight, and I tried my Tribute, my Caresia arm with a wrapped hand, my ready wrap, and the decision....I have to @#$#ing wrap....It's stressful enough and to get off the plane with a swollen hand just wouldn't be good, but I'll be met by my mother who burst into tears the last time she saw me wrapped.

    The best bet for pre-fab is the Caresia arm, with a finger wrap and two short stretches over it. I wake up with an okay arm and hand.

    I usually fly with the older Tribute with a short stretch over it, but I haven't taken such a long flight. The newer Tribute chafes my fingers....

    The flight to California has historically beaten me up, and it's SO MUCH worse with LE....But my parents are aging and I have to go.

    Whine, whine, whine.

    And, with the sequester, there will be less TSA and longer lines.

    Whine

  • kira66715
    kira66715 Member Posts: 4,681
    edited April 2013

    Cookie, the last longer flight I took was to meet Binney and go to an "Essentially Woman" conference: all things breast cancer, a surreal experience on a lot of levels, but Binney kept me grounded, and at one booth they had pink ribbons on a pin, and as I'd broken my hand a few months earlier, I flew wrapped, and Binney told me to pin the ribbon to the wrap.

    I did get patted down, but they were nice about it.

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 3,296
    edited April 2013

    Kira, I feel you on hating the cross country flight.

    Psychologically, I thought a one stop trip would be easier, but I think the brain trust felt non-stop was best. (I felt like if it was bad I could turn around and take the bus back from Detroit.)

    I am still putting the kebash on vacations in hot places....the last thing I need to do it get off a plan and into the heat. SoCal in June may be warm, but not too humid.

    Good luck!

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 3,296
    edited April 2013

    BTW this trip is a little more chill if anyone knows a good LE in the Inland Empire section of Cali, let me know. Thanks

    Original Cookiegal, now with more chips! (hee hee, that Femara really wants me to gain weight!)

  • kira66715
    kira66715 Member Posts: 4,681
    edited April 2013

    Cookie, I'm going to the Bay Area where my family complains about the cold: did they forget we're from CHICAGO???? So it shouldn't be too hot. We're staying at UC Berkeley with the nuclear scientists--no lie.

    Don't mention those evil adjuvant agents: I am scheduled for my THIRD D&C on tamoxifen and when I had the pre-op meeting today, I reminded them that the last brilliant anesthia guy decided that lymphedema=congestive heart failure and withheld all fluids. The consult thought I was kidding and read the note with shock. Her solution: "If he's on, ask for another anesthesia MD." Right.

    Between the D&C and the cross country trip, I am not a happy camper.

    I hate LE, and throw breast cancer in there as well.

    I'm meeting with my onc the day before the D&C so she can share my quality of life and risk of secondary cancer, and iatrogenic over-exposure to operative risk joy....

    And the AACOG statement on tamoxifen cites a Bernie Fischer study that more than 5 years increased risk without much benefit, so I agree with the blogger who discussed the ATLAS study (pushing 10 years of tamoxifen) as "Atlas, shrug"

    On a tear here.

  • hugz4u
    hugz4u Member Posts: 2,781
    edited April 2013

    You girls are so brave to get on the plane. I still am chicken , the family packed up and flew south for spring break and I stayed home.Cry  I just couldn't take the anxiety contracting a flare in a hot country. I am slowly working up the courage though thanks to you girls posting that you do fly.  My wrapping skills are really coming along,the only drawback is I fear that I am not getting the correct gradient compression with my wrapping. More practice for sure. I am also testing out my new biacare sleeve with 2 wraps and the oversleeve at night. I like it but it really stiffens up my arthritis in my hand by morn.

    Kira,  I hope you sail thru D&C.  For sure a chocolate sundae is in order. Maybe a little Kahlua dribbled on top because you have had to endure 3 D&Cs.  Don't forget if docs give you a problem about needles/bps ask what they would do if you had no arms. That should be a real head scratcher for them.

    Cookie Calif in June will be perfect. Hot... but not like Arizona. If you are near the ocean you will catch the breeze plus the evenings cool nicely. No problem with humidity.

    Natsfan, I hear you on the need to pack all the Le stuff, Yah the LE gear is a suitcase-hog for sure. I have visions of it somehow getting lost even stowing it near me! I went on a van trip and wouldn't let it out of my sight.

    A kiss for all for your LE travel woes and medical appointments coming up.Kiss (ps. I don't give out many kisses...only when necessary)

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited April 2013

    Carol

    I love your idea ...how about it MODS?!

    Nobody can believe that a hospital like MGH ( which actually claims to  run trials in LE that I believe I am " in"!)  never ever ever ( EVER!) mentioned a single word about LE, or handed out so much as a one page risk reduction paper. Nada ...nothing...zip!  I want the world to know- not because I am knocking them ( although I freely admit it angers me )  but to ' save' one poor soul from what we all will go through.  Does that make it all worthwhile ? 

    Would I " give up the health " of my arm/self to save one woman?


    Shamefully, no.

    I am not that selfless.

    BUT

    if I can't have my " old arm" back, and I am stuck with this one (and I am Undecided) then I WILL feel better, yes, much better, thinking perhaps  one person has escaped this because of risk reduction information and better care.

    Cookiegirl

    Please keep us informed - I hope your journey (pun intended) ends happily. You're a gem.

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 3,296
    edited April 2013

    Thanks purps! Will be nowhere near the ocean, but we are close to the foothills.

    Kira, it never ends does it!

  • kira66715
    kira66715 Member Posts: 4,681
    edited April 2013

    No, Cookie, it just keeps coming, and I once read that tolerance for a chronic condition wanes as the condition lingers, and that sure is the case here.

    I'm spitting nails about the third D&C on tamoxifen....And the institution where I'm getting my surgery is the same place where I was treated for breast cancer, and their attitude is surely lacking...And I've given lectures there to their surgeons/oncologists/fellows on LE, but it clearly hasn't filtered down.

    "We'll put a band on your wrist". Yeah, I feel secure.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited April 2013

    "We'll put a band on your wrist". Yeah, I feel secure.

    UGH.

    Good Luck, kira!

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