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  • Marianne52
    Marianne52 Member Posts: 78
    edited March 2013

    Doreen,

    How long did it take for your hair to grow back? I finished Chemo Jan 9th. I only have about 1/4 inch. I finished all treatment March 15th. Congratulations to you also for finishing up. It has been a hard year as I am sure you will agree. Hugs..Marianne

  • DorMac
    DorMac Member Posts: 155
    edited March 2013

    Marianne,

    I don't really remember but I have pictures taken 5 months after and I definitely have enough hair that I didn't need to wear a wig - so, sometime before December. You will be there soon, hang in there. BTW, did you lose your eyebrows or eyelashes yet? I think mine got quite thin (didn't lose them entirely) around the time my hair started to grow back in. Luckily they come back much quicker.

    I noticed in your signature that you were diagnosed the same day that I finished my last chemo - sort of like I passed the baton to you to run with. It has been a hard year but I have certainly been lucky with how things went - hope the same is true for you.

    Good Luck, Doreen

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2013

    Wishing all of my wonderful,  kind, loving, supportive ladies a wonderful Easter.  May you have lots of fun, laughter and love.  Annie 

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2013

    I just love the hairdryer to melt him with lol

  • Marianne52
    Marianne52 Member Posts: 78
    edited March 2013

    Hi Doreen,

    Thanks for the info. I have lost my lashes and eyebrows three times. The last time I lost them was seven weeks after A/C. I was shocked that it happened so long after Chemo. I still have side effects from Chemo (last one was 1/9/13.)

    Still have Fatigue, shortness of breath, bone pain and upset stomach at times. Is this unusual? Finished Rads two weeks ago and dealing with Radiation burns now. This had been some Journey..

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited March 2013

    Thank you, Annie, for the laugh!  I think it might actually get warm here again today but we have had another two weeks of a cold snap in Tennessee.

    Marianne, I still have shortness of breath at time and I am more than two years out from diagnosis.  I also had rib pain on and off until about two months ago - it may come back again but seems to be resolving.  I'm not sure if it was from chemo, surgery, or rads.  I just had a clean xray about a month ago and got my CA 27 tumor marker results yesterday and was thrilled that they are the lowest they have been - 13!  At one time, during treatment with neoadjuvant chemo, they were 38. 

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited March 2013

    Good one Annie.

    A beautiful weekend forecast for the sunny Okanagan - cant wait 4 days off... bliss !

    Wishing everyone minimal SE's, hugs and finding their happy.

  • Marianne52
    Marianne52 Member Posts: 78
    edited March 2013

    Christina,

    Congratulations on your tests. It must have been a great relief to you. I finished all treatment in March. Don't see the MO now till June. She hasn't ordered any follow up tests. She said do to having a great response from Chemo, that means I am NED. Don't know if I totally agree with that. Will ask her to follow up with something when I see her next. I get really anxious now with every little pain I get.

  • Hopex3
    Hopex3 Member Posts: 397
    edited March 2013

    Marianne...I finished chemo the end of December. I too have bone pains that come and go. Sometimes even in my finger tips just like when I Was on taxol. I'm very tired after work and some days short of breath. It scares me..I don't want to have this ugly fear all the time so I try to push it all aside. But it's hard! So I totally get what you mean.

  • Lady_Miz
    Lady_Miz Member Posts: 62
    edited March 2013

    Hello ladies!



    I've been quiet the last few days but am following posts and prayers are going out to all of you, along with good ju-ju and happy thoughts!



    Enjoy the holiday weekend and stay blessed with this little gift called life!



    xoxo...

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2013

    One for my beloved Titan

    Tonight - Go Buckeyes!

  • DorMac
    DorMac Member Posts: 155
    edited March 2013

    Inspirational story of a young woman who lost both breasts at 32 and, 3 years later, has been diagnosed with Stage 4 bone cancer. She wants all breast cancer victims to know they are BEAUTIFUL:

    http://thebreastcancersite.greatergood.com/clickToGive/bcs/article/The-Light-That-Shines398

    I pray that all stage 4 people will go into remission and will get to live long and happy lives.

    Doreen

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2013

    DorMac what a beautiful story.  With or without breasts she was simply gorgeous.  If love can keep you going then I hope she lives more more years yet because she was very much loved.

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2013

    ahaha READ this sh*t!! <img class= @[502531326475302:274:Gage Cooper]™" width="280" height="373" />

  • 5thSib
    5thSib Member Posts: 141
    edited March 2013

    DorMac --that is a beautiful video. A little hard to watch in places. I loved the part about the wig. I was getting ready for church Sunday (only the 2nd time I had felt like going since starting chemo) and put on my wig. My husband said, "take it off and put on a scarf. I'm used to you in scarves and hats. You look pretty in them." The other time I had gone, he told me he would go with me even if I wanted to go bald. Bless him!

    I only have 2 more chemo (Taxol) treatments to go -- can't wait for April 11th when I can say goodbye to the chemo ward! MO said they woud set up an appointment with RO after my last treatment and that I would see him every 3 months for 2 years. I can't wait to start getting back to a more normal life. I'm ready to get back to exercising and hiking. I love to go hiking and take pictures and I can't wait to get that camera back in my backpack. We missed getting to go on our usual fall trip to the Smokies for my birthday. I don't want to miss spring photo opportunities.

    I'm going to be participating in my first Relay for Life event at the end of April. My company is sponsoring a team for the first time ever. We've raised almost $4,000 already which I think is good for our first time and since we've only been fundraising for a month. It will be two weeks after my last treatment, so I hope I'm up to an all nighter. I'm hope I can make it through the survivor's lap. I tear up every time I think about doing it. My sister who is a 5 year BC survivor is going to walk it with me. I'm also hoping my two brothers who are also cancer survivors will also walk it with us. My other three sisters will be there cheering us on. And, we will also be walking in memory of our dear brother who died 3 years ago with lung cancer (and also had bladder cancer). Out of 8 siblings, five of us with cancer.  Genetic or environmental? Who knows? My MO thinks we should do some genetic testing. My other sisters are worried now that two of us have been diagnosed with breast cancer. My sister was ER+, PR+, HER2- though.

    I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend with few SE's.




  • Hopex3
    Hopex3 Member Posts: 397
    edited March 2013

    DorMac....Loved the video. What a beautiful girl. I too loved the part about the wig. Last night I was at a staff party and a few people walked me to the door and they wanted to see my head. I took off my wig which has been bugging me so much, and they were all in awe. They said don't wear that thing anymore. But I work in a middle school and I don't want to freak out the kids. I don't know though ifi can go all the way to mid June with a wig. Anyways, I felt so liberated in taking that off and threw it in the backseat of my car. Opened up the sunroof and drove home loving the feeling of "head freedom" .

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited March 2013

    Hi...I am new here because until this week, I thought I was ER+ and have been taking Anastrozole for over a year. The other day at my 6 month MO visit, he told me my ER+ is only 2% and if I wanted to stop the meds (SE of hairloss and bone loss) he would understand because of my low %. I was shocked because until now, he had insisted I take it. I asked was I triple negative and his answer was "that's just a number". So my question is...have any of you taken Anastrozole or Tamoxifen even tho you have a small percentage of ER+? Thanks for any info you can give me.

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2013

    schatzi- I am 3% ER+ and my MO treats me as TN- no Tamoxifen or Anastrozole. Again, I think this is a case of different doctors having differing opinions on the whole positive/negative thing. I do believe there is someone on this thread, forgive me because I can't remember who, that is taking Tamoxifen for low ER+. At first I was upset because I thought any positivity should have Tamoxifen, but there are side effects with it so then I was relieved not to have to take it. If it ever comes back and it is ER+, I will be pissed. Crappy cancer makes it so hard to know if you've made the right decision about anything!!

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited March 2013

    Hello everyone,  And welcome to the new ladies.  I have been off-line for several days.  Took a long-planned trip to tour NYC with 3 of my gal pals.  I had a wonderful time.  But back to reality for me today.

    I have a question:  Have any of you came up being Hypothyroid?  I just got the news that my TSH level has jumped up.  It was normal just 12 months ago.  My PCP wants me to start on Synthroid and I am dragging my feet about having to take yet another medication.  Any Thoughts?

  • placid44
    placid44 Member Posts: 497
    edited March 2013

    Navymom,



    I've been hypothyroid for eight years -- long before my breast cancer diagnosis. Ive been taking synthroid the whole time. I haven't noticed any side effects, maybe because all it does is replace real thyroid hormone with a synthetic.



    I would recommend starting soon (if your doctor advises that) because hypothyroidism is progressive and the symptoms of being low are pretty bad. It took five years for me to be diagnosed and I got more and more tired, along with other symptoms. My endocrinologist looked back at the TSH tests from my PCP and said I had been hypo for five years.



    One more thing: Endo doc said some labs still don't know the correct ranges for normal/abnormal. Hypothyroidism is so common that some hypo women got measured with the normals and the reference ranges got skewed.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited March 2013

    TifJ...thanks so much for your input....you are so right...who knows what is the right thing. My hairloss is getting significant and I am afraid after another 4 years, I will be bald in the front. Jeez I am starting to look like my husband. I doubt it will ever grow back.

    I must also tell you I am 69 so would probably have had some thinning anyways but then there is the bone thing. Also I had one node involved.

    I am also have the beginnings of osteopenia. He can't put me on Tamoxifen because of SEs of blood clots which I got during chemo. So I am screwed!

    NavyMom...I have been on Synthroid for over 35 years (because of surgical removal) and there's never been any side effects at all...and I have had a lot of different dosages too. My thyroid is totally screwed up but yours will be easy to adjust. Trust me, you will never know you are even taking it!

  • minxie
    minxie Member Posts: 484
    edited March 2013

    I was on Letrazole for a 1% ER + local recurrence. The original TN was 0%. But the SEs from the Letrazole made me so miserable, so achy sore all the time. I stopped taking it. Have not told my onc because I haven't seen him since last summer. Honestly he doesn't do much for me - asks how I'm doing, feels around for lymph nodes, does a CBC and metabolic panel. And that's about it. I'm 4.5 years out from original diagnosis now, and almost a year out from local recurrence.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited March 2013

    minxie...I have been seeing my MO every six months since I finished treatments. I honestly don't know why because he doesn't order any tests/bloodwork or mammograms. My PCP does all that.

    He doesn't feel for nodes or anything. He sorta answers my questions but of course I always think of things to ask after I leave. I am so fed up with this. I am debating stopping the Anastrozole when my current script runs out. I don't think he would care. He offered to change me to Aromasin but what's the point and I bet I would lose hair anyways. Hair loss is the only SE I have after a year. He said if I really wanted to stop, I could. Funny because in the beginning, he was adamant that I had to take Anastrozole.

    Just wish I could make a decision and stick to it. I am going to my Daughter's for dinner tonight and she is a retired nurse...will ask her opinion.

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited March 2013

    Thanks for the respnses regarding hypothyroid.  I will be putting a call into my PCP tomorrow to request further lab work.  Once that is drawn I will start taking the Synthroid med.  My sister has a history of Hashimoto's and eventually had to have her Thyroid removed.  With that info in hand, I would be shocked if my PCP declined my request for a more thorough look at thyroid lab work.  After all, he is the Doc who ordered the Metformin for me when I told him about what the current research was showing.  He is pretty open minded and willing to hear me out.  I'll post again a let ya know how it all turns out.

    Happy Easter to all that celebrate.

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited April 2013

    Here is some information that I came across today regarding probiotics:

    http://www.reuters.com/article/2009/07/07/idUS174822+07-Jul-2009+PRN20090707

  • JazzyJ
    JazzyJ Member Posts: 126
    edited April 2013

    Hi Ladies - I need help understanding something. I finished treatment in January. I had a PET Scan in March and had my port removed after getting clear results. Today, I went for a follow up Mammo. They then sent me for an Ultrasound to get a better look. The Radiologist said that I have a lot of scarring so he could not conclude anything, so they scheduled me for an MRI on Friday. 2 questions:

    1) Since I had a clear PET, isn't that enough?

    2) Ever hear of this?



    I'm scared out of my mind :-(

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2013

    Hi ladies!  I made it back home to Nebraska on Saturday.  I am SO glad to be home! 

    I saw my MO and my surgeon for follow ups last Wednesday.  The new tumor that she (surgeon) removed was 8mm and irregular in shape.  She barely got the 1mm clearance that they want.  It had a little finger/neck thingy that was almost to the chest wall. 

    She removed all level 1 and 2 axilla nodes.  46 of them. 46!!  Only one had cancer (the one that the needle biopsy was done on).  It had cancer within the node and also some cancer cells outside of the node.

    The physical therapist said with 46 (plus the one sentinel node from last year) nodes removed, I should wear my lymphedema sleeve and gauntlet forever.  That was news that I didn't really want.  Frown  I will do rads on the level 3 nodes after chemo.

    My MO said that although I am not considered to have metastases, he wants to treat it as though I do because the cancer was back within 5 months of rads.  He is suggesting Xeloda with Ixempra for 6 rounds of 3 weeks each.

    Have any of you done this?  Does it sound reasonable?  When I google it, I get articles and posts on boards from 2010 and one on the TNBC Foundation site from 2012.  Nothing says it's cutting edge or tried and true.

    I have to say that I'm pretty worried and trying not to be.  It makes me want a cigarette just thinking about it....and I haven't smoked since 2002.  I will resist the urge....but just sayin'.

    Thank you all for your help, good thoughts and prayers.  You're the best!

    Phyllis

  • washingtonwoman
    washingtonwoman Member Posts: 19
    edited April 2013

    Phgraham I can't answer your questions but I can send you a hug & say a little prayer for you:-)

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited April 2013

    Phyllis, I have no experience with this, but sounds like our MO is staying on top of this which is good. Sending only strong positive thoughts and calming hugs

  • SherylB
    SherylB Member Posts: 450
    edited April 2013

    phgraham,

    I pray for you to find your answers and have peace of mind. Sending hugs and blessings.

    Sheryl

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