April 2013 Chemo Group
Comments
-
My chemo start was pushed back a week to April 8th. They also put me on a week break from radiation. I have an upper respiratory infection and started antibiotics yesterday. Well, I guess it gives me more time to mentally prepare myself.
-
Greetings to everyone....
I will be starting TC on April 11. Reading (and shopping...my favorite therapy modality) is helping me feel more in control.
Also started at a local support group run by an oncology nurse - very helpful. Since I had hyperemesis during pregnancy 6 years ago she advised making sure my oncologist knew.
peace... -
Hi Kerri, I'm glad you got a little reassurance. I know you've been so torn. And it sounds like you have a great team!
XO -
I started chemo TCH March 6, six cycles with weekly Herceptin. I had no bone pain after Neulasta. I used Claritin D one day before Neulasta and four days after. My MO ok'd it. Claritin D can affect blood pressure.
-
I started chemo TCH March 6, six cycles with weekly Herceptin. I had no bone pain after Neulasta. I used Claritin D one day before Neulasta and four days after. My MO ok'd it. Claritin D can affect blood pressure.
-
I'm joining the April club too. My first chemo session is April 18. I plan on using cold caps and have been growing my hair from very short and layered to all one length (still short) so that I have versatility to cover thin spots, if I get them.
I have discovered my vanity. I have no problem with losing the hair. My fear is that it might grow back thinner. It's very thick now and I shudder to think of struggling with thin hair for the rest of my life.
At least that's what I've been telling myself since diagnosis. Actually, I see now that it's about having control over something.
It's also about wanting things to return to "normal" when I'm done. While I know I will be impacted by this for the rest of my life, the more I can minimize that impact, the better. This is not going to run the rest of my life.
-
Shipsgirl, I am also starting chemotherapy sometime in April and will be trying cold caps. I agree, it's about having some level of control over this awful situation we all find ourselves in.
-
I had my port put in yesterday. It's still sore and just uncomfortable. I got some good news, I'm BRCA negative. I feel a little better knowing I won't be passing that gene down to my daughter.
-
I start on Thursday (3/28), but it is so close to April that I feel like I'll relate more to the April group. Hope you don't mind if I join!
-
Welcome Jenny. We'll be thinking of you on Thursday.
-
Hi,
I was supposed to start chemo on 3/22, but was pushed back to 3/28 because of the need for additional scans and uterine biopsy. Jennie, you and I will be staring the same day.
I originally joined the MArch group, but feel I will have more common experiences with the April group.
I have had my port implanted, purchased a wig and appropriat head gear. My husband gives himself haircuts, so I have asked him to buzz my hair off next week. I am sure this will be traumatic.
Yes, I am scared, but I feel ready to go. All of the waiting was killing me. I was diagnosed just before Christmas, had the lumpectomy in February and just want to get this part over with. I agree with what many of you said about being in control. I feel as though I have had no control over my life for the past several months.
Positive thoughts to all,
Denise 51
-
Denise and Jennie, I hope things went well today! Take good care!
-
I am not sure when I will be starting chemo I am waiting to have my port installed, it will probably be around April 11 so thought I would join the April group.
I will be doing 4 treatments of A/C every two weeks and then 4 treatments of Taxotere very 3 weeks. I feel that this is the most scary part of the entire process, the biggest unknown - not knowing how my body will react to the treatments.
I am trying to read posts from past months to gather as much info as possible on how to deal with SE's. My MO has gone over SE's with me but everything is so overwhelming. I am trying to stay as upbeat as I possibly can but some days are hard. I want to try and work during treatment and I am hoping that I will be able to.
I wish everyone the best of luck, and positive thoughts to all. -
Hi everyone! I have been checking out this site since I found a lump in my breast a few days after Christmas. I never thought I would join, though! I was expecting my lump to be benign. This site has helped me through the three months it took to remove and diagnose the lump. What a process! I start chemo on April 2. I will be doing 20 weeks of dose
dense AC/T. I guess it is time to shop for a wig, scarves, and hats. I am still in disbelief and don't know when the reality of my
breast cancer will sink in. I am scared about how my body will react to the chemo. When I read this site I know that I am not alone. I hope to find advice and support from other women starting chemo in April. -
Hi Everyone - well I purchased a wig today and arranged to get my head shaved on the 15th. My first chemo is on April 3rd. My port will be placed tomorrow and I am so ready to get this done. Like everyone else am wondering how my body will tolerate the TCH. I am really lucky that I am retired and do not have to worry about work or young children like many of you. I am 66 and single. Fortunately, I have a great family and friends for support. This is all so overwhelming and scary, but am working hard at staying positive.
-
I was never given the choice for a chemo class. I will start chemo on April 1, my husband is taking me I was told it will take about 21/2 hours. I'm exausted getting ready for this.
Making sure I have everything I need and organized. Were told each person is diffrent with the side effects.
I have epilespy with grand mal seizures and this makes me nervous.
I am starting a yoga class soon and working on my Medatation also.
I am greatful for all your post and friendship.
-
I am going for an echocardiogram this morning then chemo class this afternoon. I'm not sure how involved the chemo class will be. My mom is going with me since my husband will have to miss next Tuesday to take me to my first chemo treatment. Tomorrow I am going to a flea market to check out the wigs, hats, scarves. I have heard that there is booth run by
cancer survivors who sell these
items and that the selection and quality are nice. I received a free beautiful silk scarf from a company called Good Wishes. It's lovely...but my kids thought I looked silly when I modeled it for them. I think I heard the word "pirate" from my youngest! This journey will surely be interesting... -
Deb3kids- I am from the Jan chemo thread. My 10yr old said I looked funny when I buzzed my head. I told him what was going to happen with my hair and then never made a big deal about it to him. Now after a few months he rubs my head and giggles.
I found 2 websites that have nice wigs for a good price. I thought I'd pass them along. I have 2 wigs from the Vogue website each were about $200. They have some that are under $100 that are nice too. The other site I haven't ordered from yet, but, liked that some of the wigs were less expensive here...
http://www.wigselling.com/productlist-lace_wigs-141-2.html?limit=40&type=upprice#USD
-
Skigirl72-Thanks so much for the websites. I will definitely check them out. I have made my children aware about what is going to happen to my hair. Unfortunately I don't think I am going to look as pretty as you do with no hair! My children are ages 7,11 and 14. There are so many end of the school year activities coming up and I worry about how I will look and feel. I don't want to miss out on anything. I see that you are doing the AC/T treatment just like I will be. Has it held you back from life's activities? How have you felt? Will I need help with my kids, making food, or cleaning the house? My husband is very supportive but works long hours. Thank you for your insight.
-
I did reasonably well with AC. I was tired and I slept when he was in school. I stayed on top of the constipation and I stayed on the anti nausea meds. I had a bad night the first round because of constipation. So, I added colace the day before tx and while I took any meds. I went back to work part time after the second round and did fine. I actually worked the nights of treatments. I took full advantage of the steroid high. So, first three days were fine with the emend and dex. Day 4 I would lose my taste buds. Day 6/7 I'd get them back and it also was the steroid crash. I was tired and sad. I took the compazine for three days after finishing the emend and dex. Other than that, I just had a general feeling of being tired. I needed a little help with the kid and housework just because of that. I would suggest having a girlfriend/sister/ husband someone cook meals that you can just heat up quick. I had and still have friends that insist on bringing casseroles every week. It really does help.
The first round was the hardest psycologically. I was freaking out about my hair. I must have asked people 100 times when my hair was going to fall out. I thought I was going to be violently sick the entire time. I thought I was going to lose 50 lbs and look like I was near death. It sucked. Needless to say, none of this was unbearable. My hair did fall out around day 14. I buzzed it a few day after. I am done with AC and my eyebrows and lashes are very thin but still there. I never got sick. I haven't lost more than 10 lbs. I think the weight loss is because I am a bit more careful about my food choices now. I also learned to speak up when I needed help. People don't really know how to help. So, just ask for help from your support people. You will do fine. It is doable.
-
Hi girls
I'm now 5 years post dx. It's a really scary time for you all. Chemo is a scary word and I know you're all scared stiff (I know I was), but it's OK as long as you make plans for it. Yes, you feel rough sometimes, but you can carry on your life as normal (well almost).
I did work through chemo, but don't recommend it. You need time for yourself to regroup (as it were). When working I would hit the proverbial 'brick wall' and had to go home and go to bed, but I did feel 'useful'.
Just concentrate on 'you'. Take time to rest, when your body tells you to, and take things easy.
You'll soon be out the other side.
xx
-
Today I had an echo and attended a chemo class. The class was very helpful and made things feel a little more real. I was by far the youngest in the class and received many sympathetic looks...which of course brought tears to my eyes. My mom came with me and she kept tearing up also. The instructor suggested that I take my 14 year
old daughter wig shopping with me. She said to try to make a fun afternoon of it. She also mentioned that I would start losing my hair 10 days after the first treatment. That seems real soon. I thought 15 to 17 days was the normal time frame for hair loss.
Skigirl72-Timing all of the different medicines with the treatments and side effects sounds so challenging. Did you have to write everything down to keep it straight? Or does it eventually come natural to you? It sounds so overwhelming. I hope I can stay on top of everything like you did. Thanks for sharing the details of your treatment.
Maltomlin- I can't wait to be on the other side:) 5 years is something to celebrate! Thanks for the encouraging words.
encouraging words! -
It really wasn't that tough. I took the emend the day of tx and 2 days after. I took the dex (steroid) morning and night for the two days after tx. so I ended the dex and emend the same day. Then I took the compazine for a few days after the dex/emend combo. I took one compazine in the morning and one in the evening. I had some with me if we were out and I started not feeling well. I never needed to take extra. The nurses will tell you exactly what to do on your first TX day. Bring all your meds with you so you will know. I wrote on the labels how to use and when to use the meds. It seems so overwhelming now but I promise you it will be ok. you will learn what works and what doesn't. I had a dry erase board near the basket of meds and vitamins so I could keep track of what I was doing.
-
Deb3kids- first off hello! My chemo nurses and my MO's PA made monthly calendars for me when I did ACT. They wrote what time my appointments were and what meds I needed to take on what day. I taped it to my medicine cabinet so I never forgot
Deyla
-
I see the Oncologist for the first time on April 3rd. My BS is really prefering I do chemo, before she does surgery since my tumor is so big, and close to the chest wall. I don't think it is attached yet! They can get fingers under it. Once I have the appointment, I hope they will start quickly. Either way, I will be joining the April Chemo group.
-
Hi Everyone! I will be starting Chemo on April 12. I'm meeting with a second MO on April 5th. The first MO is having me decided between two treatment options: AC x4 and THx 4 or TCHx6. His words to me were "Both treatments are just as effective but AC is more agressive. I personally would go with AC and TH but it is a personal decision that you have to make." To top it off the Oncologist Case Manager that I was suppose to meet with before my treatment started is on vacation and won't be back until April 15, so instead of getting an in depth explaination on what to expect on the first day of treatment I got a nice short email that said to dress warm, eat a good breakfast, and bring snacks since the chemo room does not provide food. Nice! Hopefully I will get more information from the second MO and he can shed more light on the differences between the two treatments. Otherwise I feel like I'm pulling at straws here. Anyway can't way to meet more of you ladies so we can compare notes and support eachother.
-
Sounds like I am going to need a white board, a calendar and a lesson about all of the different medicines available to help curb the side effects. Thanks Skigirls72 and Deyla for all of the tips! I will definitely read over your posts again when the side effects hit and I am trying to juggle the meds. I got 4 prescriptions filled today. I still need to read the info on them to see what they are used for and when to take them. I almost want
it to be Tuesday so I can get started. I'm starting to feel more
confident. Wish my husband was, though. He is very nervous and stressed out about the next few months and doesn't want things to change. I keep telling him everything will be okay and it will not be as bad as we anticipate. He should be encouraging me, right?! I guess we all handle stress differently. Plus I have this site to help me sort through my fears and emotions. He tends to keep things to himself.
Tricia81-I will be 10 days ahead of you with the AC/T treatment. I have learned a lot from the wonderful girls on this thread and I'm sure you will, too. Hang in there.
Well, it's off to bed now so the Easter Bunny can visit! -
Hi Skipgirl72,
All the meds have me a little confused also. I'm sure I will get a white board to stay organized.
Were you asked to stop taking vitamins during treatment? Or were their any foods you were told you could not have? -
I was told to stop any antioxidants. I dont remember why or what ones. I will try to find notes I took. I take: One-a-Day women's multi, Vitamin D3, Lysine, B6, B12, cal/mag/zinc, and prilosec. All those are fine with my MO. I was going to add a CoQ10 but I havent done enough of my own research to get a good feel for the benefits. Of course I do a quick check with the MO before I start anything new.
Foods- I was told to limit caffeine, alcohol and dairy. I have a cup of coffee in the morning and every few days I have a beer or a glass of wine. I am not a milk drinker but I love cheese. I haven't totally eliminated these, I just cut back. I was also told to increase my protein intake. I heard somewhere to try to get around 100g of protein a day. I added a protein shake daily just to help with that increase.
I also drink 3 liters of water a day. Stay well hydrated.
You will figure out the meds. The names are weird and we just aren't used to them. I had my dry erase board and every time I took something I just wrote down the time and what I took. They gave me three different types of anti nausea meds. I settled on the Compazine (prochlorperazine) and the Ativan (lorazepam). The other ones I never used. They worked great. I never got sick. I had a bit of constipation the first round so I added a colace till I stopped taking the meds.
Happy easter!!
-
How did your treatment go, Denise51? It was easier than I expected it to be. During the Cytoxan, I had some burning in my nose and sinuses, then a bad headache. They are going to slow down the IV next time. I've slept a lot over the past few days, but I think a lot of that is related to the nausea meds (which I take at the slight HINT of nausea). Next up, the steroid fall. We'll see how the next few days back at work go!
For all of you who haven't started, you can do this. It isn't as scary as you have made it out to be in your head.
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team