Lymphedema and our pets
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i just found this thread. Binney, it is so hard to part with our animal families.
My horse died about a year before my bc diagnosis. I have been leasing a wonderful horse for the past 4 years. He is most likely my sanity. My son and i volunteer at our local animal shelter. I am more careful with the cats because of LE and luckily have not been bitten but many scratches. We foster kittens and have 5 cats of our own. If i get a scratch I wash it quickly and observe it closely. I did have cellulitis once but not animal related. Go figure.
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(((Binney))) I just read this, after being off-line for awhile. I'm so sad for your loss!! We are training a labradoodle for seizure support/alert. I can completely relate to your article at so many levels. At 13 months and 35 pounds, she's still a bit ding-dong-ish, but she's catching on and has woven herself into our family. She also does her "job" well, and adds that social support component your article mentions. I truly cannot imagine the adjustment with the dog gone. How is your daughter doing with this?
Our newer big puppy is in replacement of our older dog, a 15 pound poodle from the pound, who started to alert us to our daughter's seizures with no prompting whatsoever. Shocked us. The little poodle is now quite elderly and does not alert consistently anymore. The little, older dog is definitely "bomb proof", the big puppy is not. Regarding LE, I much prefer the smaller dog as her lower weight does not conflict with my issues. The bigger dog's weight is a bit more complicated. She certainly has her enthusiastic moments and nearly pulls me over. And while her training is getting much better, she still forgets herself and tends to pull. As it would be, we need to train her to be on the right side, and I am the trainer, so it is my right side which is getting the workout. My daughter who uses the dog is not a consistent trainer. My LE is on the right side. I have to doubly diligent with this puppy so her training is good, but also so she does not rip my arm off.
Hugz4u - If there is no need for a bigger dog, my input is to get a smaller dog. They are just so much easier to cuddle, to hold, to bring along, groom, etc. While I am loving this particular Labradoodle, there is a special place in my heart for this littler ones who can easily fit on a lap and be lifted with no problem.
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Nicole and KC, thank you! Carol, too bad for the dog-in-bed excuse, but diabetes alert dogs can alert from their own cozy doggie bed on the floor.
It's not a rule in our house, though, and sometimes Dude sleeps with our son. It's a single bed, and the two of them are pretty much a tangle, but they manage somehow.
KC, I used an EasyWalk harness for my daughter's dog and Gentle Leader for Dude for training. Until they're about two years old (or even three!) they're so puppy-brained that I didn't trust them not to jerk my arm in sheer glee over something they might see. You're not allowed to use either for passing the CGC or Public Access tests EXCEPT if they're working service dogs, in which case you can use whatever gear you would normally use when they're working. That's because different disabilities call for different kinds of gear and they have to accommodate our needs--LE included! So Dude passes with a Gentle Leader, and I've never tried it with just a martingale. With a smaller dog I'm hoping we can stick with just a mantingale clear through her training. My daughter's not a consistent trainer either, though she's wonderful with the dogs. You are so wise to be training the new pup before you lose the older one--that's the way it's supposed to be done. Is the older dog a help with training the younger one?Hugs!
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Binney, it really is astonishing that the dog can sniff out a blood sugar problem from several feet away! I really need to have a chat with my dog about finding some way to be useful around here. Apparently, we're seriously underutilizing his potential talents. Seriously, you and KC are amazing in your patience to train the dogs to do what you need.
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Binney, do we have a Corgi alert yet? How did you come to the descision of a Corgi? I know you love the Dood breeds. Those Corgis probably have the best noses for sniffing. This may be a great choice.
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Corgi alert!
She's due to arrive in 3 hours! Our daughter wanted a smaller dog this time, and the mini breeds can be more hyper than the standard breeds, so we decided against going with a smaller doodle (although they are incredibly cute!) So we queried trainer friends, who suggested a Corgi (or Corgi mix, which this one is) because they're smart, hearty and people-oriented and not real fragile (like, say, a Papillon--which is also adorable). Since she'll need to be out in crowded public places we could have a small dog, but not a delicate one.
While I'm posting I'll just mention I have a new article up at LiteraryMama called "Belonging", which is not about either dogs or LE, but it is about coping with disabilities. If you'd like to read it, it's here:
http://www.literarymama.com/columns/seniormama/archives/2013/02/belonging.htmlCrazy excited here! Will definitely post after we've met our new little gal! Oh, there's a picture of her here:
http://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/25212045?photo_view=1Happy hugs,
Binney -
Oh those eyes say I will follow you to the ends of the earth!
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This is off topic, but Gabby Giffords got a service dog, and Binney sent me the link about how he's a dog for special needs veterans:
http://vetdogs.org/Content.aspx?id=2252
Nicole, my horse died 4 months before my diagnosis. My dog is not a service dog, but as a half aussie/half shepherd she has the brains for it, and would be happier with a job.
She consistently jumps on the bed and keeps me company when I wrap. She came from petfinders.com, a rescue from the south where her puppy mill mom mixed it up with an aussie and the litter was disposable. She's almost 9 and such a smart dog.
My daughter has a sato dog from Puerto Rico, who has her nose out of joint about my new granddaughter, while my dog is totally concerned about the baby, the little one, turns her tail and walks off, exuding "No one asked my opinion about this..."
Binney, my parents had an amazing corgi mix, who was a bit tough at first due to past abuse, but grew into a loyal smart dog who was amazing with my children when they were young.
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Binney - we had a corgi as well. He was found running loose in the Bronx and was brought to the ASPCA. He was obviously a well-bred corgi, but no one ever claimed him. I had a dear friend who was working at the ASPCA at the time and he adopted him. He got him home and after a few days realized he'd had hearing ear training! He then contacted local deaf groups to spread the word, but no one ever came forth. My friend had Simon for years, but then had a sad change in life where he was unable to keep Simon. We got him when he was about 12 and had him for 8 years. He was an amazing intelligent dog, and was one tough cookie! But I guess you have to be tough when you were bred to herd cattle by nipping at their heels. Can't wait to hear all about your new family member!
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How joyous, Binney! After having to say goodbye to your last canine friend, your daughter must be beside herself with excitement. You, too! I can't wait to hear an update after the new family member settles in!
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Binney's Corgi looks like it is addicted to Latte's. Can you see that cute little foamy latte mustache on the right side under his nose!
I wonder what he/she is mixed with. I really have no guess. Got me stumped.
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Another wonderfully written piece of prose binney!!! I have a 30 lb rust colored american cocker spaniel who is my therapy dog, and sometimes causes me to need therapy lol. When I am too depressed to do anything, I at least have her to get my out of bed, to take her out, feed her, water her, pet her, play ball with her. It is really hard to say no to those eyes, those perked up ears, and butt wagging.
However, she pulls like a sled dog. It is not so bad when I can walk in the back fields with a 50-100 ft leash (the drought was great...no weeds in the back fields), but when walking on the roads with a shorter leash, she can aggravate my LE adn PMPS, so I have a nice harness I put on her so she doesn't pull me. Although when I am walking a big hill on a bad day, it would be nice to have her help me LOL...
Anyway, what an important part our pets play in our families.
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I love reading about people's 'good luck' dog stories. Binney, special hugs.........here's hoping.
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Carol, we're all smitten! She's adorable, and she slept through the night. What more could anyone want in a puppy?!
Hugz, I share her Latte addiction--chocolate/chocolate chip, please!
NatsFan, what an amazing story about Simon! And do I understand he lived to be 20 years old?! Our little gal is a toughie too. She's 15 pounds to our other dog's 85 and not the least bit intimidated. The bigger dog is so happy to have another furry family member--he's been out of sorts since we lost Sally. But they're quite a strange combination--big hairy goofy Dude and tiny Penny.
Cinnamon, I had to laugh about your re-definition of "therapy dog." By the way, my LE Therapist Jane told me today she had a patient with a chihuahua service dog who would lie on her chest while Therapist Jane worked on her LE leg. Now THAT is a therapy dog!
Hmmm! I wonder if Penny could learn how to do MLD?Lots of laughter around here--such a lift!
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What a cutie patootie!!! Looks like she has some terrorist, I mean, terrier in her.
Nothing like puppy breath!!! -
Yep, Simon went 20 years. So here's hoping Penny follows in his footsteps and has a long healthy life. One funny memory of Simon - he had those short corgi legs and that long corgi nose - whenever he'd sneeze, he'd hit his nose on the floor with the force of the sneeze. He just couldn't help it the way he was built. It must have stung, but you couldn't help but chuckle seeing it.
[Edited because I can't spell worth beans!]
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Mary, I love it! We were working on "sit" yesterday (clicker training), and she was so intent on it she wouldn't get up once she was sitting--just stared at me, like "Hey you! More treats here! Can't you see my behind is on the floor?" So I started tossing the treats a little way from her so she'd have to get up and then sit again. But her body is so long that unless I threw it REALLY far, she'd just swivel around (bottom still securely on the floor) and stretch for it. I was laughing so hard the tears were running down my face! This little gal is gonna be fun!
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Binney - Penny's such a cutie! Here's hoping she's quick on the learning curve. I think that it's truly amazing that you can rescue a pet and then teach her to do something so important!
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I'm kinda excited for Binney's new pet venture. Penny sounds very obedient already but I bet she has a bit of little stinker in her.
I hope she learns quick because Binney is having to get up at night and check her kids sugar levels. Yikes no sleep.
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Earth calling Binney....... You need to come up for air and let us know how your corgi is doing. Is your girl in love with the cutesy pie?Are you still getting up at night or is doggy trained to use that cute nose? Please don't feel compelled to answer if you are very busy or need a rest. Just curious to now where you are at.
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Binney to earth, prepare for re-entry!
Would you believe puppy training is a bit consuming?
But it's fun, too. This little gal is so eager she comes begging to be trained. She's really quick, too, which is such a gift (though I'm feeling intimidated when she acts smarter than I am
). She's spontaneously "alerting" to our daughter's high blood sugars, so we've started scent training already to try and direct her response in the way we need it. (No, Penny, it is NOT okay to alert to high blood sugars by chewing on her leg!)
Just today I have a new column posted at Literary Mama, and it's about training for diabetes alert. It's here:
http://www.literarymama.com/columns/seniormama/archives/2013/03/good-friday.htmlI really hope you enjoy it. Hugs right back at ya'!
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Binney... I LOVED the column... You're a great writer!! I hope the dog training continues to go well.
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How you can write so elequently about real life drama and make it all sound so managable is beyond me Binney. Another beautiful story. Give Penny a pat from me. Gentle hugs to the rest of you.
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Oh heck, give Penny a hug too.
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Absolutely will pass along a hearty hug to our fur-gal! Love it! Thanks for the kind words. (Just FYI: I also have an article in the women's literary journal "Persimmon Tree" this week, memories of my chemo days.) It's here:
http://www.persimmontree.org/v2/spring-2013/raw-hunger/
Hugs right back!
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Hey, ladies, I read somewhere that it's very helpful to writers when their readers post comments online, at the sites where the writing is published. Binney's too sweet to drop any hints, but I'll bet we could all help her get much deserved notice and more opportunities to publish her work if we leave a comment when we read her columns. I put my real name with my comments, but of course, you can use a nom de plume if you like. Just a thought.
Now Binney, don't be mad at me because I asked our LE friends to put comments not only here, but at Literary Mama and Persimmon Tree! I was so touched by both of your current columns. Gotta help you expand your publishing reach any way I can!
Carol
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LMBO, well Carol, I sent Binney a PM this afternoon because I DID comment on her last creative masterpiece. I thought my comment would show at the bottom of the list but on no, it went to the top where I didn't see it so I posted again. And then posted again to say how embarrassed I was. Obviously I seem to have gotten over my embarrassment since I'm fessing up here. THIS TIME!!!
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Marple, there's something very reassuring about reading your description of posting, and posting, and posting again. Because that could have been me just as easily. Sometimes I get frustrated, sometimes I get impatient, and sometimes I'm just clueless, and my family (especially the adult kids) tell me that I'm social-media clueless! Except here on bco. How to post here, I figured out!
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Thank you Carol however, clueless would be my excuse.
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Binney
I just saw you on the ADA board! Nicely written reply about training a pup. The subject does come up there now and then. There are a lot of lurkers there, you helped more than just one!
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