March 6 is LYMPHEDEMA AWARENESS DAY!

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  • hugz4u
    hugz4u Member Posts: 2,781
    edited March 2013

    OK, Did my bit on the LE day. Exposed my arm and when someone asked I gave them the story. One gal was wide eyed taking in all. Good for her, she was in medical field.  One gal was a lab gal and she was good about it too. Since I didn't get to walk and flash my arm in the big city as planned I have decided that until Sun I will make it a point to talk about LE. Going out tonight to a meeting with many people attending. Hopefully after the meeting someone will ask.  You know I would rather hide but this week I am giving it my extra effort. All for the cause.

    That horton picture and trunk jokes are a hoot! makes me laugh.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited March 2013

    Has anyone got a brief explanation about LE for me?

    hugz (et al)

    This is not the first post I have seen where you  show concern about your sleeve/ other ppls reactions to it and have actually called yourself vain etc ...  Frankly, I do not want to be judged on how I determine to explain my LE.  I  hate to see you struggle with this, and I think  you  could use a little support from your LE buddies here !

    I would never ever dream of judging one of my BC sisters for choosing to have reconstruction rather than go au natural.  Everyone does what they feel most comfortable living with .  We are all different, and I do not consider anything about cancer to be  ' brave'- it happened to us ...NOT by choice . I dont know  about you ,  but I'd trade it in for the ' good old days' in a heartbeat .


    Say what you feel like saying to whoever on any given day, and then just move right on with the LE you will never be able to completely -' escape' from.  They will be in to the next thing.  PLEASE Do not feel guilty for your response. We have enough crap to deal with on any given day.  We do not OWE explanations.

    The other day a woman asked : " Is that an arthritis glove? " ( about my farrow)  I said :  " No.  Why- do you have arthrtitis "  She said  "Yes."  I said :  " Well, I'm no expert, but I believe the IMAK ACTIVES are good. You can search amazon online and then ask your doctor about it."  I thought THIS was helpful for her situation.

    She then  said :"  But what is your glove for ?  Whats wrong with you ?!"

    ( Hmmm...  I thought, NOTHING is wrong with ME. you're the one being rude and nosey!)

    I replied:  " Mine is medically prescribed.  It won't help your arthritis."

    Maybe some ppl think that's rude or a missed opportunity.

    I dont.

    Please say what YOU feel most comfortable with.  If anyone asked me about LE or had BC  or needed advice, you could not shut me up.  I would help in any way possible.  This was NOT the case.

    Some ppl are kind, some are  nasty, some are nosey, some rude,  others are curious...I treat each in accordance with that .

    Hippa laws were made for  a reason.

  • vlnrph
    vlnrph Member Posts: 1,632
    edited March 2013

    Purple, that was a great way to deflect the inquiry. Your parenthetical thought about having a nose problem was excellent also!

    I sent an email with a few sentences to our local newspaper earlier this week but they probably did not have room to publish it on the 6th because I didn't see it that day. Since the entire month is for LE Awareness according to the NLN, I will try again.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited March 2013

    Since the entire month is for LE Awareness according to the NLN, I will try again.


    Good for you !  It IS important...only ' we ' know how much .Wink

  • vlnrph
    vlnrph Member Posts: 1,632
    edited March 2013

    Here's the text of my email to our hometown paper: 

    Sent the original below hoping there would be space on 3/6. Would like to have you publish the following whenever possible this month!

    March is Lymphedema Awareness Month. What is LE? Chronic swelling (usually of an extremity such as arm or leg) resulting from disruption of the lymphatic system, often when lymph nodes must be surgically removed for cancer treatment. Most people don't even realize they have circulating lymph fluid in their bodies. It is nearly as important as the blood flowing through our veins and arteries. You can imagine the shock and surprise when this function is impaired and the patient learns they have an incurable condition.

    Therapies are available to minimize the long term effects, so if you know anyone with symptoms, suggest they contact their medical provider. Compression garments like sleeves and/or stockings can be employed. On-line support groups are helpful. The Waukesha Public Library has one book specifically about this topic: more research is badly needed.

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited March 2013

    vlnrph, that's a great letter to the editor!  Let us know if they find the heart and space to publish it.

  • vlnrph
    vlnrph Member Posts: 1,632
    edited March 2013

    Thanks Carol - your version would have been more eloquent I'm sure! I tried to be short & sweet so we'll see if they use it.

    BTW, I printed your excellent exercise "manifesto" and will keep it handy when I attend the new drop-in yoga class at my cancer center later this month...

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited March 2013

    vlnrph, I hope the yoga teacher embraces the idea of adapting to minimize LE risks.  We've had amazing response to the exercise documents, including some additional content suggestions that are very good, so I'll be updating the guides soon.  I just love it when we help each other!

  • hugz4u
    hugz4u Member Posts: 2,781
    edited March 2013

    Purple, Thank you for your care and input. It is true, You never know why a person is asking about your glove or sleeve? The response you gave (according to your feelings that day) came off "so smooth" I like how you transitioned into "why,do you have arthritis?" This throws the ball back into her court and then it was great how you said, "mine is medically prescribed, it won't help your arthritis.

    Your right some days we want to educate and other days we want to hide. You also make a good therapuetic point to "say, what you want and then move on." Yes, I may be stuck in the LE hamster wheel when it comes to people's reactions and googly eyes. I think this is what I need to do. Work on getting out of the LE hamster wheel and carry on with my day. After all, the people inquiring are getting on with their day, why shouldn't I? OK..... A little self growth going on here... This is good for me. 

    Carol, Your brochere pictures are really good. When you said you had made something for the medical community I pictured just words and not graphics. I think it will draw people in to read more. What a work of love.

  • carol57
    carol57 Member Posts: 3,567
    edited March 2013

    Hugz, Josh at LympheDivas gave permission to use some of their photos, and the rest are just stock photos I bought inexpensively online.  It's true that photos make umm...dry...reading a lot more palatable!  It was fun to look for the photos. The challenging part was finding pictures of exercise without showing arms, because except for the Divas photos, believe me I was not going to find photos of anyone exercising in a sleeve and hand protection.  I did not want to show an image of anyone exercising without them, which is why you don't really see arms in action in the guides.  I thoroughly enjoyed working on this project!

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