Any abuse survivors here?

With all the women who get BC, there are a large number of abuse survivors, there have to be.



The shame belongs to the abuser not the survivor.



Peggy

Dear indenial

I was abused as a toddler and have no memory of it, and the abuser was never identified although everyone knew who did it...my mother's boyfriend!

My mother was abused by her second husband (not my father). She was diagnosed with leukemia. One day he was threatening her and I stepped in. In an attempt to punch me, she shielded me and took a punch to the head. That was the final straw. She realized that not only was she in danger, but now he was going to start abusing her child as well. They had a daughter together as well. It's odd how a woman will allow a man to hit her, but when her childrens lives are at stake the veil is lifted.

Your inner voice if muffled by the sense of fear and love. Everything is confussed inside of you and around you, I get it now. I can only tell you what you already know....it is not going to change, it is not going to get better. You have to reach a place in yourself that has finally realized your self worth and know that this is not love. If someone truly loves you, they would never do anything to hurt you. You know this!!! Deep down inside you know the answers to questions you are looking to have answered. Everything you are looking for is within you my dear.

My mother died from leukemia 2 years after that incident. I am grateful it was to cancer and not that man because I wouldn't be able to share this experience with you, I would be in jail or dead from trying to rid the world of garbage.

Dear Indenial:

Love you! Sending you love and hugs. XXXXXOOOOO