So...whats for dinner?

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  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Member Posts: 2,951
    edited February 2013

    Eric, you are a man on the move...and with great biceps, I'll bet, from frequently lifting that dutch oven! ;) Have a safe and productive trip.



    Thoughts with you Debbie.....((((HUGS))))

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited February 2013

    We don't talk about beverages very much, but I thought I'd throw this out there...I have been a Diet Coke drinker since it hit the market.  And I generally don't drink anything with sugar in it - being diabetic and all.  Well, Diet Coke hasn't been tasting good to me and I figured out last night that nothing made with Nutrasweet tastes OK.  I have tried other flavors of soft drinks, hot spiced cider mix, V8-Splash, etc and it occurred to me that I am noticing the bitter aftertaste of Nutrasweet.  What a bummer!  I think splenda is ok so I'll have to try a few options to see if I can find a carbonated drink that I like.  For the moment, I'm relegated to plain iced tea and water.

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Member Posts: 2,891
    edited February 2013

    Michelle- That must be so frustrating.  I hope you can find something that you enjoy.  I have never liked the taste of diet anything, but I don't drink soda either. 

    Eric- Have a safe trip!

    Carol- I do make a lot of the same recipes my mom made.  I am glad I hung out with her in the kitchen and learned how by watching.

    Tonight is grilled chicken with balsamic tomatoes and fresh mozzarella with a salad.  I figured I should get some grilling in before the snow hits tomorrow. 

    So the last few days my back has been bothering me.  Ever since the BMX the muscles in my chest and back are always really tight.  My DH keeps saying I should stretch more etc.  So I sat down today and did light stretching for about 10 minutes and put icey hot on my back and laid down for about 45 minutes with a book and a heating pad....now I can barley walk!!!  WTH?  I am hoping a good night sleep tonight will fix things.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited February 2013

    Went to the gym early this morning with dh, about 7:30.   My first time to this gym, where dh goes twice a week on a cardiac exercise regimen.  We were finished about 9.  And I said, "How about pancakes for breakfast?"  So off to IHOP where I ordered the whole grain pancakes that have nuts in them.  And I also had bacon.  Everything tasted really good.  I haven't eaten pancakes since we returned home from our summer trip the 1st of Oct.  Nor have we eaten breakfast out during those months.

    That's all I've eaten today except for an apple.  We'll have an early dinner since dh has a woodworkers' guild meeting tonight.  Warmed up stuffed peppers and butternut squash.

    I had planned to experiment with making pasta this afternoon but got busy doing other things.  Maybe tomorrow.

    My mother had a big iron pot about the size of Deb's but it had a handle like a skillet and a lid.  She used it a lot making meals for our large family.  Later on, that pot became the outdoor fishfry skillet.  I think one of my brothers still has it. 

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited February 2013

    Carole:

    I love this story!  I don't know why... but pancakes could have something to do with it... :)

    Don't know what I'm having for dinner yet -- teaching until 7, Denise will cook -- but I know I am going to have a beer with it.  You can take that to the bank, as my grandpa would say!

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited February 2013

    DH is making pan-sauteed boneless pork chops, cole slaw and waldorf salad for dinner.  He's getting more adventurous every day!

    Laurie - I like the Trop50 drinks so I'm going to get the lemonade and see how that goes down. I had a problem with acid reflux while on carboplatin but so far I haven't had that problem with gemzar. 

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Member Posts: 2,891
    edited February 2013

    Michelle- What about the Arnold Palmers?  1/2 lemonade 1/2 tea?   Not sure if that would work being diabetic?

  • bedo
    bedo Member Posts: 1,866
    edited February 2013

    Had canned salmon brown rice salad for dinner

    Laurie I hope your back feels better soon!  :(

    Michelle have you tried flavored selzer water?  I finally gave up my addiction to ginger ale.

    Have a day off tomorrow yipee!, but have doctors apt.

    Work "may " have agreed to 3-4 weeks in Ecuador in 10 months.

    Bobo, I think we may be twins.  I have a real one.  Maybe we're triplets.  Hehe

  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 4,216
    edited February 2013

    Tonights dinner was cooked in -- grilled red snapper with wine butter sauce, grilled smoked sausages (one garlic and one pecan wood smoked), oven roasted potatoes and onions, steamed broccoli with butter

    and parmesan, salad with vinaigrette and jalapeno cornbread. It was quite delicious I must say. This was a group effort and I was only responsible for the potatoes, wine butter sauce and vinaigrette.



    A beautiful sunny day today, but a chilly wind still. Tomorrow promises warmer temps in the 70s. Hopeful!

  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited February 2013

    No one made me dinner. Instead, I made a vegetable-noodle soup. It was the perfect supper for me tonight. Never done sodas so I don't know what splenda versions there might be out there. Does a bit of juice with seltzer water appeal or the sugar content of juice too high?

    *susan*

  • eric95us
    eric95us Member Posts: 2,845
    edited February 2013

    It's chilly in Las Vegas...probably in the 40s, plus the "always there" wind. If a place could use wind power..this place is it. The wind is always blowing.



    Dinner was "out" at 5 Guys burgers.



    Laurie, I hope you feel better tomorrow....maybe a soak in a hot tub would help...



    Michelle, do Diet Coke and Coke Zero both have the same sweetener? Maybe one would taste better.





    Sharon is kind of frustrated tonight. I'm up here and she's down there....and the Internet connection died...so I talked here through using one of the cellular wireless modems I have laying around. She got it running, but she was hoping to be done already instead of spending "forever" getting a cell connection.



    I'll be glad to get home...I always am.....

  • carberry
    carberry Member Posts: 1,153
    edited February 2013

    Got snow and freezing rain last night...so I am stuck at home...groceries are low so I will have to be creative for dinner tonight. Got some frozen shrimp and frozen raviolis maybe in a wine sauce?  I always have wine! LOL

    Auntienance  that dinner sounds yummy.  Not sure I have ever had grilled snapper.  I am kinda on a fish kick, so will have to look into that when I get out.

    Laurie I have to stretch every day (nothing formal) or my arm and back shoulder blade areas get really tight, sometimes the stiffness goes all the way up my neck...very uncomfortable. Hope you get the kinks worked out. My PT always did heat, then movement, stretching, then ice to finish.

    Michelle  I love the trop50 juice also, husband balks at it, so we have separate juices in the fridge, but I dont really see the difference.  Hope it agrees with your tummy.  I am trying to train myself to drink more water, but sometimes you just gotta have some flavor.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited February 2013

    I drank diet coke, with caffeine and without caffeine, for many years.  Decided to stop drinking them about 3 yrs ago when I heard a report on tv of some study done about negative effects.  Don't even remember the report now but it did have something to do with cancer.  It just occurred to me that it was silly (for me) to pay money for a liquid with no health benefits and a lot of mystery ingredients.  Also good for cleaning motor oil off the garage floor!  I now drink water, which I happen to like, and a lot of home-brewed tea, cold and hot.  I squeeze a wedge of lemon into the cold tea and it's delicious.  We sweeten the hot tea with splenda and the batches of cold tea with Sweet'n Low.  Some of my health-conscious friends do not use any artificial sweeteners.

    Of course, I also drink wine, vodka martinis and bourbon old-fashioneds!  Occasionally a good brandy.  Poof!  There goes my virtuousness in abstaining from carbonated drinks or soda.  Vodka and bourbon may be good for cleaning the garage floor, too, but who would waste them?!

    Michelle, I hope you find a refreshing drink that you enjoy.  It sounds like your dh is turning into a good cook.

    Tonight's dinner idea began with having some ripe avocados on hand.  Also some corn tortillas in the refrigerator.  I took out a chunk of pork loin and a package of cooked black beans from the freezer.  We'll have pork fajitas.  I'll cook the pork, cut into smallish pieces with a sliced onion.  That will make dh the onion eater happy.  Quacamole, sour cream, a little shredded cheese, shredded lettuce, black beans.   It will be an easy build your own dinner.

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited February 2013

    Bedo, I was thinking we were twins!  That means we really are twins -- I've read they are psychically connected :)

    Triplets!  I want to go out right now and buy us matching outfits.  But that would mean no one would be able to tell us apart..

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Member Posts: 2,891
    edited February 2013

    Carrie- Thanks for the tip!  I alternated ice and heat last night before bed and used more icey hot while I slept and am walking up right today.  I don't know if I dare stretch again!

    Carol- Your dinner sounds soooo yummy!  I wish I had stuff in the house to make the same thing.

    We are supposed to be getting all of this snow- but it is more rain than snow.  I swear slush is coming down.  The boys (and I) are stir crazy.  I made them swords with paint sticks, foil and card board.  They are bombing around the house playing power rangers.  A quiet day it is not!! 

    I don't know what I am going to do for dinner.  Either left over chicken and make a chow mein with it or I have a ham I could bake.  We will see how the day goes....

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited February 2013

    Carberry, you caught me!  The 'baby' is six.  She's seven.  She just turned seven.

    Yikes!  My baby is seven!  I make those vegetarian chicken and dumplings and then I sit and watch her eat them, just as if she were a real baby.  I hope she is not spoiled...  :)

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited February 2013

    Bedo, how was the doctor?

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited February 2013

    Okay, I should have put all of this in one post.  I'm not good at it yet.

    Again, I'm teaching tonight, Denise will make dinner.  The kids will have one thing -- maybe leftovers --- and I never want to eat what the kids eat (reference earlier post if necessary :) ).  

    Still have organic greens -- I may force her to steam them, maybe some steamed kabocha squash, krishna dressing.  I know I should have a grain, but I am a little off my feed.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited February 2013

    Bobo and Bedo, you definitely are twins! 

    Laurie, maybe the boys will use up their energy and take a nap?  Then you could take a nap, too. Smile

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Member Posts: 2,891
    edited February 2013

    Bobo- You sound so peaceful talking about your daughter and watching her eat!  I wish it felt peaceful in my house!  Mine are tornado's!

    Carol- No luck with naps.  I just made finger paints for the bathtub and they have been in there a half hour- I think it is the closest I am going to get to a break today!

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited February 2013

    Rick is making tacos for supper.  I may make mine more of a taco salad.  It doesn't sound all that appealing but I have to eat something...I lost another 3 pounds and I'm down to 121.  I would be delighted to be back to my pre-kids weight under normal circumstances but right now I need to try and retain my weight.

    I had treatment today but got just half of my chemo.  Gemzar is nasty and it makes your blood levels tank.  My hemoglobin is 8.2 and I think my RBC is 1.7 - explaining my shortness of breath.  I've been relegated to my chair and I have to go back next Wednesday for labs.  And when I start my cycle again we are adding Abraxane to see if we can stem the ever-rising tide of tumor markers.

    Laurie - the Facebook picture was so cute!  Days like this are tough for the kids (and their moms)

    Bedo - thanks for suggesting seltzer water - Poland Springs has lots of flavors.   I forgot about them.

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited February 2013

    Laurie -- we are not as peaceful as you think!!  One seven and one eight-year-old.  One positive is that my son is very chill.  Another word for that might be lazy; however, the good thing about this is that he does not bang things with a baseball bat, etc.  I acknowledge, though, that watching her eat is peaceful!  I also watch her eat breakfast.

    How I remember finger paints in the bathtub!  I also used to make them playdough from scratch.  Of course, they would still do these things now.  But I'm too tired to clean up the bathroom at this point!

    LuvRV, please take care of yourself.  I hope you are cozy in your best pjs. 

    Carole, I swear, I could read your posts all day!  They read like a good story.  I love to hear what's going on in your day.  Vegetarian, but I will eat your tacos without the meat in them -- they sound fabulous.  I need to drink more; I look at you as a role model in that way :)

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Member Posts: 2,891
    edited February 2013

    Michelle- We need to come up with some fattening food ideas for you that are high in iron.  What is high in iron?  Spinach?  Maybe a chicken Alfredo with spinach mixed in or a spinach salad on the side?  I am so sorry this one is going to be rough for you.  I can feel  your frustration.  My mother always counted calories and watched her weight- always trying to lose weight.  To keep weight on whe started to eat ice cream sundaes at night with candy on them, she was lucky to not have to worry about her sugar in take.  I would call her and we would chat and I could here her eating, and ask what she was eating- you could here her smile through the phone as she told me about her sundae :D

    Bobo- Depending on the meal I have to repeat every 5 minutes to my boys- take a bite- eat.  They are going to hate tonight's dinner!  LOL!

    SO DH voted for chicken chow mein so that is what is on the stove right now.  The slush/rain finally turned to snow for the moment.  In light of the very long day I have already poured a glass of wine- DH should be home soon to take over Tongue Out

  • SeasideMemories
    SeasideMemories Member Posts: 3,194
    edited February 2013

    Michelle,



    So hard to eat when nothing tastes good to you. Sorry that the Gemzar is pretty rough. Hoping the cancer finds it even rougher on IT and decides "It's outta there"...



    Laurie,



    Glad your back is feeling better! Very cute pic of the boys and their snowman! They look so proud and rightfully so! That is one super snowman! Mostly rain and slushy stuff here too with brief switchovers to snow.... Just kind of a big old yucky day....



    Debbie,



    My thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow as your Dad has his surgery... Praying that everything goes well and that it brings him some relief... Sending you and your family a huge hug....



  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited February 2013

    The Boston Area thread is getting active to plan a get together

  • bedo
    bedo Member Posts: 1,866
    edited February 2013

    Deb can I come although I'm not in Boston, I'm nearby

    Bobo, the third triplet's name is Dodo.  It was actually a dentist appt.  It's amazing how expensive it is to keep your teeth up to par. I hate the dentist.

    Michelle, give me an idea of what tastes good and I'll try to come up with some ideas.

    Laurie, you better keep an eye on those boys.  I could just eat them up with a spoon and have thier snowman with maple sugar for desert.   I just realized how creepy that sounded.  I was going with the dinner theme.  Let me change that to they are so adorable!!!

    Debbie, my thoughts are with you.

  • bedo
    bedo Member Posts: 1,866
    edited February 2013

    Michelle, if you have a metal taste can you use plastic spoons? Peppermints?  I wonder if sucking on ice cubes during therapy would help?  (I'm thinking my own crazy penquin caps theory that has not been studied at all)

    Is it like morning sickness where a little eating helps?  Can taking a little decadron in addition to any you get during therapy help increase your appetite? Maybe your doctor would do this to help with appetite?

    Worst comes to worst, ensure?

  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Member Posts: 2,951
    edited February 2013

    Michelle, could you drink smoothies that have spinach, other veggies, and fruit in them (to make them taste non-vegetably) adding nuts for protein and fat and maybe some high fat yogurt mixed in ...sounds horrific to some, but very easy (and actually quite tasty), and if you drink it through a straw it may slide down easily...lots of caloric content and fat. Maybe this could be a good excuse to spring for a vitamix. ;)

    I would be a bit careful about seltzer water since that can be rough on the esophageal tract, and you don't need another concern requiring an additional med (prilosec).

    And what about stevia? Is that a sweetener that you don't like? I do like the Trader's small bottle one, but it is pretty pricey.



    Carole, your dinner sounds yum!



    Last night I met a friend for dinner at Cheesecake Factory and had a delicious herb crusted salmon with double asparagus, hold the mashed. Sadly, I am noticing that every time I eat fish at a restaurant, I end up with really painful stomach distress later. I think I just need to cook it really well, which I always forget to ask for when ordering (especially) salmon, which most people like rare). Tonight had "jump ups" of a toss of pasta, shrimp and asparagus with pesto.

    I went to the gyn (hold the OB!) today, and decided rather than return home afterwards to smell Seamus's paint there while it rained, I'd go a hunting for fabric for next year's Christmas stockings...had a groupon about to expire. I did end up getting some interesting fabrics....hope I still feel that way whenever I get to actually making the stockings. It was pretty nice to spend the whole afternoon cruising around the fabric store with no regard for the nasty wind and rain that is besieging us for these three days.



    Early tomorrow DS2 shows up for me to drive him to his Lasik's procedure....then the pick-up a few hours later. Having him home for the day and overnight will be nice.

    I understand it is a pretty easy recuperation.



    Laurie, not only are your boys lucky to have a mom that makes them great tasting, healthy and varied meals, but also to have a mom who despite struggling with a painful back provides them with implements of fun on a rainy day! They will have fond memories...speaking of which, the phone call memory of your mom eating her bulk up sundaes was just so poignant and sweet.



    We just got some sad news that DH's cousin's wife who has been battling this damn curse for at least ten years now, doing well until this past year, is possibly about to succumb. She is in a NYC hospital where she continues to need blood transfusions, has three very serious infections requiring her to be in isolation, and has lost so much weight, it is hard to imagine she will again be able to rally. But one never knows.....Please remember Kate and her DH in your thoughts and prayers.



    Goodnight all....

  • debbie6122
    debbie6122 Member Posts: 5,161
    edited February 2013

    HI everyone! I really have missed you all. I want to thank you all for the hugs, prayers well wishes etc.. It means a lot to me, I love you all. Sorry it has taken me so long to come back to let you know how things were going.

    First, Michelle I hope you are able to get your TM's back to normal and able to finish your next treatment with great results. Your pictures of Hawaii are beautiful and You look gorgous with your tan.

    Lacey- Prayers for Kate and family!!

    My dad is not having his surgery tomorrow now. We had the hotels booked for the 3 weeks he was going to be in the hosptial and had all the arrangments made, his surgeon wanted him to get another PET scan before he would do the surgey, his test came back and he got a call from the surgeon saying he had spots on his liver and lungs and could not do the surgery now. This was his only chance of going into remission esophagus cancer is very aggressive and fast growing, he has had to have his throat stretched every week so he can eat. At first I was devastated and cried but I told my dad that I was kind of relieved because I felt since he was grieving he was not in the right frame of mind and wouldn't fight and I had a feeling he would not be coming home from the hospital. He told me he felt the same way. So now he is waiting to hear from his onco to see what other choices he has, I'm hoping he will be able to do chemo again. I love my dad so much and want the best for him, passing at any time is bad but now is def not a good time so hoping for more time for him.

    As for Chuck, he will have his tumor on his brain removed sometime in March most likely the end of March because his Cobra insurance is screwing around with him.

    As for me, Im in so much pain and can not stop crying it hurts so much! I don't know how to go on without my beautiful sweet sister, she was my everything no one could make me laugh the way she did.We laughed so hard our stomachs hurt and cried. When my mom passed away Cindy was the one who I grieved with we would cry for hours on the phone, when my sister Mindy passed we did the same with her too, now I have no one to call and grieve with. I have to stay strong in front of my dad and my brother. And I don't even want to talk to anyone else anyway, I havn't even talked to my best friends on the phone yet,, just can't.

    Cindys husband Abe (actually not married but together for 20 years) He had such a beautiful memorial for her in Hawaii, so many people came, a lot from the sheraton where she worked there were hundreds of people I was told. Tony who is Abes son and his wife Kristy and there little son Christopher flew to Oregon with Cindys ashes and a lot of her personal things for me. (which I will cherish forever) The plan was to take her ashes to Mount Shasta, that is where my mom and sister Mindy's ashes are, it's a spiritual thing which I will tell you at some other time, but they got so much snow and the gate to where we wanted to go was closed until probably june or July. So we will have to put it off but the family wasn't really ready to do that yet anyway. I thought it was so sweet that Tony and his wife flew here from Hawaii just for us, she was like a mom to him, When I thanked him he said he was doing it for himself too. I cried so hard when he left I felt like a part of her was going with him I guess. I know I have a long, long road ahead of me, the pain is getting worse for me I think the first couple of weeks I was in shock and denial now I know its real and really struggling with this. I have been taking lots of xanax to get through the days, except when I have to drive to see my dad or take Chuck to appointments but keeping the pain in is worse, by the time i get home or some place private I cry so hard. Poor Chuck has to see me this way I feel so bad for him, he has just been wonderful though.

    Sorry to lay all this on you, I was bawling when I first started writing this but some how feel comforted to just write this all down and to you all who know and understand. I know all of you here have lost some one who you loved so much and know my pain. I will try to check in every once in awhile and probably try to read more often Thanks for letting me talk, I love and miss you all

    Debbie

  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Member Posts: 2,951
    edited February 2013

    Debbie, thank you for your poignant long post. I am touched that you could put that much energy into a heartfelt, tho so sad, update for us. You have had so much loss and on going health related stress in your family. Your strength comes through even while you deal with all of this pain. Please know that we are always here for you, and holding you close in our hearts, even when you don't have the energy to post.

    Again, thanks (((((Debbie))))).

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