Not quite a horder - decluttering

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  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited February 2013

    GINGER!!! How scary...hope you find answers and resources, and are improving every day!!! Big hugs....

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2013

    {{{{Ginger}}}} That has to be in the back of your mind.  So sorry!

  • Hortense
    Hortense Member Posts: 982
    edited February 2013

    Gingerbrew - It sounds like you have "chemo brain" to me, not dementia. I have it also, although it is slowly getting better. I still often search for words when talking which can be frustrating. I feel as though I am not firing on all cylinders. I am definitely not thinking as quickly as I used to pre-chemo, but I do see an improvement.

    Anything to do with numbers was a labor four months ago, even fairly simple things like writing out checks. That seems to have gone away, thankfully, but typing is still problematic. I make far too many typo's and have to go back to correct half the words and spacings in each sentence so that even a short post on here takes far longer than it should. I am learning to go slower and check more often, but it still annoying. 

    Neuropathy in one or both of your feet can definitely affect your gait. My brother, who is a big strong guy otherwise, has it in his left lower leg and foot and I can see how it affects his way of walking. 

    Hope you are feeling better.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Mandy1313
    Mandy1313 Member Posts: 1,692
    edited February 2013

    Ginger,

    Take care.  (((((Hugs)))))))

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2013

    Was Teka chasing the bunnies out?

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited February 2013

    Teka - Gotta wear that mask!!!

    UGH! The dust and dirt that arises when you clean out your garden sheds!!!

    DH and I managed to do that last weekend... we have several small sheds in the back yard that were filled to the brim with junk. I mean, "open-the-door-see-a-wall-of-crap" filled.

    So I hauled EVERYTHING out, put "like with like" items together, threw out old, almost empty, or expired stuff. DH vacuumed the insides with the shop vac, then I wiped every thing down with Clorox wipes before putting things back. 

    All I have yet to do is put labels on a few shelves, so we know where things go.

    Took a few days, but we were so happy afterwards! Now my back patio doesn't look like a junkyard.

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited February 2013

    Blessings I wish we had a LIKE buttons so I could use it for you!  That is great work and I am happy for you that you are able to do it.   Smile

    Ginger

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2013

    Ditto!  Blessings, congratulations on getting your DH on board.  Like items with like items is the key to the road to organization.

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited February 2013

    Thanks, Ginger and Meece!

    I have to admit, it felt really good to be able to haul boxes of stuff again. I let DH haul the really heavy stuff, but I pulled my share of the workload.

    (I also had to admit that it wasn't my high energy or highly developed sense of organization that forced me to do this... it was because we will be hosting a gathering at our house next month, and I would be mortified if anyone saw how "Hoarders-ish" the back patio had become!!! Embarassed )

  • ptdreamers
    ptdreamers Member Posts: 1,080
    edited February 2013

    Our son went on vacation two and half years ago and decided to stay. We never touched his room convinced that he would return any day. Finally said enough is enough and have been cleaning and packing up all of his belongings. At least we now have a guest room again but the other bedroom is now one large storage room.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited February 2013

    I need some ideas on how to store papers.

    I have TONS of boxes labeled "SORT" because I never got around to filing anything. I do have a four-drawer filing cabinet (cheap, Walmart) that is full of DH's stuff, but I have my own stuff to file.

    I also have several bankers boxes with folders of stuff in separate categories, but it seems like I am buried under mounds of papers! And more comes in every day...Yell

    I've thought about getting one of those receipt scanners, but then how many places want the ORIGINAL receipt if you have to return something?

    Any ideas on how to sort and organize and store papers?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2013

    As far as receipts go, set up a convenient place to put them as you walk in the door from shopping.  On a regular basis, at least once a month, go through that relatively small pile, and dump any receipts that you don't need anymore.  For the most part by then it will have shown up on your credit card or bank statement if you used a card and you can verify the accuracy of the transaction, you will have used up the item (like food) or it will no longer be in condition to return it, so the receipt is no longer needed.  Attach the receipts for more durable goods to the warranty for the item.  Those are the ones you might need in a few months or years to prove that the item is still within the time period covered by the warranty and they need to be together.  Everything else is confetti.

    It is hard to throw them away at first, but it does get easier over time.  

    Now I have to work on purging the warranties for things I no longer own...  It never ends.

  • Golden01
    Golden01 Member Posts: 916
    edited February 2013

    LOL I thought I was the only one with boxes labeled "To Sort".

  • BUNKIE10
    BUNKIE10 Member Posts: 733
    edited March 2013

    The basement. How many boxes of stuff does one person need. Still purging.

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited March 2013

    Boxes of paper, not many at all. We moved across country and the prospect of having to PAY to keep papers inspired me to dump tons of papers that I previously thought I needed. Even of those that I did bring along, I haven't looked at ANY of them since then.

    I have baby books from each of my kids and a manilla expansion folder each for their papers, momentoes, class photos and such. For my paper momentoes I have a couple boxes.  I have about 10 photo albums and I thiunk 12 photo boxes full of semi sorted photos. I have tons of photos on DVD and hard drives.  

    I doubt that helped but please let us know how you proceed.

    Hugs Ginger 

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2013

    I have thought of getting one of those scanners, but they are price prohibitive.  I have many boxes of "papers to sort".  I have a box for each year and at least sort through them and put them in the same year.  As I sort, I toss the receipts I no longer need.  I had a business for 18 years prior to my divorce, and that paperwork was dumped in my garage by my ex as well as the personal stuff.  Other than my tax stuff, I keep the business paperwork for a ten year span.  since I dismantled my business in 2004 I only have a few boxes left of that stuff.

    DH and I chose to use our regular scanner to scan all of 2012's paperwork.  Once I get it all scanned and in 'folders' I will burn it to a CD.  As I scan it and save it on my computer, I shred the originals.

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited March 2013

    Meece you are wonderfully organized, my hero. 

    Ginger

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Member Posts: 2,942
    edited March 2013

    DH is the bill payer in the house.  He found a giant storage box I was saving for Christmas things oh about 2 years ago.  Guess where he dumps EVERYTHING after paying the bills.  I could probably fill a good sized recycle bin with just the envelopes/inserts from those things.  YUCK - on the to do list one of these days.

    Blessings - LOL.  Mine don't even have a label.

    On the kitchen clutter end I have been sorting through outdated boxes/cans and sadly throwing them away.  But also using up some things that have been overlooked.  Wish I had a proper pantry (came out panty the 1st time I typed it LOL) and would drool over a walk in pantry.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2013

    For years I had a real walk in pantry.  One you could walk into and actually pace in.  maybe 4 x 8, but it was soooo nice.  When we built this home the floor plans could not be altered so it has a walk in pantry in  the corner, but all you could do is walk in and stand there.  If you are lucky you might be able to turn around.

    If I ever designed a house it would have the biggest kitchen and a great pantry.

  • Hortense
    Hortense Member Posts: 982
    edited March 2013

    A  big pantry! How I would love to have one. I am about to start on plans to expand and update our house and am hoping to work one in. Thanks for the extra inspiration Meece!

    I worked so hard decluttering and fixing things up for a few weeks that I ran myself down to empty and needed about five days to recharge. I am almost there, so plan to dive back in. I did accomplish an amazing amount though. I managed to throw out a ton of useless junk and papers, dithered over far too much and gave several carloads of decent things to my favorite thrift shop. I have to work on the dithering.

    I realized that if anything happens to DH and/or me at this point, not that I really think it will, our poor kids will have the most horrendous job clearing this place out. That thought is motivating me to do the job myself. I asked my daughter to be ruthless, if anything does happen, and not to do what I did after my parents passed away, which was to sort through everything in detail and keep too much. I told her that, after she and her brother decide what they want to keep, she should call in an auctioneer to take the good stuff and get one of those yard and house sales people to handle everything else and not to feel guilty about it.

    In the meantime, I ran across a large rubbermaid container in the basement chock full of old bank statements. How long are we supposed to hold things like that? Ten years? What a bore. We have more spilling off a shelf down there. I need to do something about all of them. Then, I have to attack my two four drawer file cabinets.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2013

    It is recommended that you keep bank statements for one year, and then seven years for the records and cancelled checks which are related to taxes.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited March 2013

    You might keep one month way back just to prove to your kids that things really cost a lot these days. I had a rent check for $60 (for a 2 bedroom apt).

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited March 2013

    O. M. G. !!!!!!!!! Surprised

    This afternoon I went out into the garage to get a pack of dividers for a binder I'm putting together. I have an old chest of drawers out there chock full of office supplies.

    When I opened the drawer, this HUGE wad of shredded paper popped up at me. I stood there like a dummy, thinking "What the ..." and then it hit me "MOUSE NEST!!!!"

    I ran back in the house and got DH, and he backed the car out of the garage so he could take all the drawers out.

    Have you seen those videos of kitties playing with the roll of toilet paper? How they keep unraveling it til nothing is left? 

    Well, apparently this mouse found the roll of adding machine tape and started chewing/pulling on it. We found it in three different drawers.

    The good news: no Mama mouse, no babies, and no birthing mess.

    The bad news: lots of little mouse turds, and - fresh, wet,  mouse pee on one of my notepads!!!!!

    Needless to say, everything got tossed in the trash except for items that were in sealed packages, and things that could be wiped clean with Clorox wipes. I was wearing surgical gloves, but no mask, when I thought "Hantavirus!"

    That's what sickened many tourists to Yosemite this summer. (We don't live that far from Yosemite.) But DH says these aren't deer mice, they're just field mice.

    SO - bottom line - totally cleaning out the garage has become our newest priority. 

    UGH!!! Yell

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited March 2013

    My mom's house was infested on the first floor when we needed to clear it out for sale. You have my sympathy in cleaning up the mess.  

    Ooh, not good. 

    Ginger

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2013

    Down here in the oilfields the field mice and kangaroo rats have been known to be hantavirus carriers.  That's an unfortunate way to declutter the dresser in your garage!

  • Hortense
    Hortense Member Posts: 982
    edited March 2013

    We have deer mice in my area and they do carry Hanavirus. Two people have died from it locally that I know of, one was a young doctor not that long ago, so any signs of mice droppings makes me nervous. However, we always have mice. They get in no matter what I do. I bought a "Rat Zapper" from amazon and it has been very helpful in catching and killing the mice. I make my DH empty it outside as I don't want to see them. I am such a ninny ...

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