January 2013 surgery

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  • MMSS
    MMSS Member Posts: 103
    edited February 2013

    Lmimp64, It would seem to me that you also have one other option and that would be surgical removal of your ovaries followed by an AI although you might need to take Tamoxifan for a bit first. I am assuming that when she says that you need to decide by next week she just means that you need to start some kind of treatment by then. Some of those are not mutually exclusive. Some people do really well on hormone therapy and some do not. I am one of the lucky ones and I also get really good results from it. Since you are hormone positive I would assume that they are going to want you to be on hormone therapy even after the chemo. Some people do reasonably well with chemo and some are miserable. You don't know up front which catagory you will fall in to. Everyone has to make the decision that fits them the best but I might be inclined with a borderline Oncotype to start with the easier stuff and progress to the tougher if I didn't get a good result. On the other hand some people would be forever second guessing themselves if they hadn't tried everything up front. Only you can decide which catagory you fit into. I notice there is no mention of radiation. Does she not think this would help?

  • Lmimp64
    Lmimp64 Member Posts: 219
    edited February 2013

    Thanks MMSS. No radiation as I had a BMX. They would want me on tamoxefin after chemo too. My onc was so sure of the low oncotype, she had already given me the script and I have it filled! I guess I will use it everyday. I think I need a second opinion. I'm so confused as to how options 2 and 3 differ in the impact they have on cancer cells. And why don't we hear about option 3 more often? Starting with the easier and progressing sounds good, but I hear there is a window of opportunity for chemo. It has to be started no later than 10 weeks after surgery. Nothing is easy for any of us with this disease.



  • CookieMonster
    CookieMonster Member Posts: 1,035
    edited February 2013

    Lmimp64 - I didn't have the same choices as you, but my MO did give me the option of either taking Tamoxifen for 5 years, or getting the monthly Lupron injections and going on an AI. Given those two choices, I chose Tamox as it sounded like they had the same recurrence reduction for me.  I'm not sure why it had a different reduction for you.

    Sounds like a second opinion would be good. I've gotten two throughout this BC experience and both were positive - all the doctors support you doing it and understand the need for it.

  • Lmimp64
    Lmimp64 Member Posts: 219
    edited February 2013

    Thanks CookieMonster. It's good to know someone else was offered this option. I'm calling for a second opinion Monday am. My onc wants a decision Monday but I'm not ready. The last meeting we had when she was so positive that the oncotype would be low, she called in the tamox script and we even picked it up. That's why making this decision is so hard. I didn't know there would be one.

  • gd2shuz
    gd2shuz Member Posts: 45
    edited February 2013

    Hi girls. My name is Sue, I am 66 years old and was diagnosed in early December. It was only the right breast, they thought, but the preop MRI showed that I also had it in the left. I had a BMX on 1/7 and went home from the hospital on 1/8. I live alone. I had a 4 year old cat and 2 days after I wad discharged I got up in the middle of the night to get a drink of water and found that my cat had died, and I have no idea why. As if I needed anything else. I had a very stormy relationship with my daughter which started to smooth out a couple of years ago, but she is dealing with trying to make her own ends meet with no husband and 2 kids, so she is pretty much not available. I have a triple negative, but my onc says I have a rare one that only requires surgery and no chemo. I don't understand why I feel queasy often even tnough I take no meds that I wasnt taking before, and I suffer from constipation ever since the
    surgery even though I don't need any pain meds. It's been just over 3
    weeks since the surgery and I went back to work. I am tired. Maybe I'm crazy, but I am more depressed over my financial situation than I am about this cancer. I was on the chemo forum for a while but now that I wont need chemo I don't go there much, just once in a while to keep up to date with the women I met there. I wish us all the best.

  • josie123
    josie123 Member Posts: 1,817
    edited February 2013

    Hi Sue.Welcome so sorry to hear of your diagnosis and your situation.It can be depressing dealing with everything cancer brings to the table especially when the bills start rolling in.I find that the most stressful of all.Do you have a good Cancer center that's working with you?Mine is great they offer a social worker to help you with your finances a counselor and nurse navigators call you every 4-6 weeks to see if you need anything,support groups family support and group's and the even gave me a free gift certificate for a massage good for a year.Sorry to hear about your cat.Sometimes animals can be better company than people.Yes I am a animal lover and former Vet Tech.







  • josie123
    josie123 Member Posts: 1,817
    edited February 2013

    GOOD NEWS!! My surgeon called this morning and said the margins were clear!!!Now I can concentrate on getting better and moving on to my next step Rads.

  • gd2shuz
    gd2shuz Member Posts: 45
    edited February 2013

    Glad to hear your good news! I grew up in St. Louis. Went to elementary and Jr. High in U. City, went to high school in Ladue...lived in Olivette during high school.

  • gd2shuz
    gd2shuz Member Posts: 45
    edited February 2013

    Josie hate to say it, but Florida sucks. Haven't found any help. I've gotten calls from people saying they would have someone get in touch with me but then never heard from anyone. Sent emails and left voice mails, and gotten apologies and promises. Whoop dee do. I think my karma is to do this alone like everything else. Not having a pity party, just stating what seems to be the way it is. You girls who have spouses that love and support you are very blessed.

  • Sunny_D
    Sunny_D Member Posts: 7
    edited February 2013

    Surgery was pretty uneventful Thursday.  The only change is that instead of making the incision near the areola she had to make it on the breast.  The area she had to get to was just to far to try to reach from the top.

    Had the worst post-op experience though.  Sick as a dog.  Not sure if it was from the pain meds or what, but something they gave me in post-op completely knocked me out and I could hardly stay awake or talk.  I was there for 3 extra hours just trying to come out of it, they were almost going to have me spend the night.  It was definitely some narcotic they gave me because I remember being in post-op eating ice chips and pretty cooherant and then an hour later not.

    Only complaint now is I've been running a fever 100-101 since yesterday morning.  Nothing I take brings it down.  Almost feels like I have the flu, no appetite and nauseaus feeling.  I did call the surgeon yesterday and they didn't feel like it could be a surgical infection that quickly but to keep an eye on the wound area.  Going to urgent care tomorrow if the fever is still here.

    Sandy

  • josie123
    josie123 Member Posts: 1,817
    edited February 2013

    Sorry to hear that Sue .Support and love is very important when your dealing with Cancer.I 'll pray for you and your situation.

  • josie123
    josie123 Member Posts: 1,817
    edited February 2013

    Sandy sorry to hear about your post op experience.I wonder what they gave you.I always wake up by sitting straight up in bed and having the post op nurse telling me to lie back.She told me that they sometimes will give something for the pain if you wake up too rough.Doesn't sound like your situation though.I had a similar situation after getting back to my room in the surgery center.Except my heart rate went up a little to high and just before that they were ready to send me home.I got too spend the next hour drifting in and out after a dose of Benadryl and Zofran.Every time I would dose off I would startle and wake up.Weird huh.Is the fever better? That would worry me.I woke up with my lymph nodes and neck a little sore on surgery side.

  • MMSS
    MMSS Member Posts: 103
    edited February 2013

    Lmimp, I also had a BMX but they are insisting on the radiation because before the hormone therapy I had extension in to the chest muscle. It was gone by the time of surgery but the RO is still pretty freaked by it. It looks like the data that they gave you gives you the same odds for either hormone therapy with ovarian ablation or with chemo. My next question might be what if I do both of those things? What would the numbers be then? Because that is really what they are talking about if you do chemo first and then hormone therapy. If there is no difference then what difference does it make and if there is a difference how much is it and how much are you willing to go through in order to gain that extra advantage? An Oncotype of 18 is on the low side of the in between catagory where you have some choices about chemo.

  • DebR53
    DebR53 Member Posts: 6
    edited February 2013

    Thanks Tami! A friend of mine had questioned me about my not having the pathology report. I didn't even realize it was something I should have. I will make sure I request them. I guess I am due 2 of them--one for the biopsy and one for my lumpectomy/SNB. I now realize that the info can even be helpful down the road. I just assumed my dr's method of explaining/making notes was sufficient. All this is so new to me!

  • Lmimp64
    Lmimp64 Member Posts: 219
    edited February 2013

    Hi MMSS. Onc said if I do both, numbers stay the same. No difference. More confusion. Am generating list of questions for her and will call Monday. I'm trying to find someone who has done the ovary ablation, but haven't yet. Just tired today. Thanks



    Sunny - hope you are feeling better.

  • Hopex3
    Hopex3 Member Posts: 397
    edited February 2013

    Lmimp..You had a BMX with recon...right? Are you able to sleep on your sides yet?

    I slept in a bed last night for the first time hoping I could sleep on my sides. But it was uncomfortable!

  • fight4two
    fight4two Member Posts: 146
    edited February 2013

    Ugh, my stomach still looks bloated and my surgeon said it shouldn't be a side effect of anesthesia or surgery!! I hope this is not my new normal. I can't figure out what happened or how to fix it.



    More worrisome though is when I asked her about my upper arm, she said its normal for the back to feel numb. But I've been having a lot of pain from my shoulder to my elbow on the inside of my arm, almost likea tendon or nerve is supersensitive. Its been hard to do my arm exercises because its painful to even get in the starting position. So yesterday I lifted my arm slightly and looked at my armpit in the mirror and there is a tendon or something hanging low in my armpit. I can see it when I lift my arm. I looked at my untouched armpit and nothing there! I don't think I've explained this well. I'm worried because I don't know why I have this sensitive nerve from armpit to elbow that's actually visible in the armpit. Before I just figured pain and numbness were normal and would slowly decrease over time, but it troubles me because it impedes my exercises and I want my range of motion back! Anyone know what this is or what I should do?? I wish I had better pt under my medical plan. Just a visit from a physical therapist in the hospital who obviously didn't specialize in BC patients because she couldn't answer my questions like if I can shave the armpit area or if a cut could increase chance of lymphedema. I really wish I was surrounded by more knowledgeable medical professionals. Thank goodness I have you guys!!



    I can't believe Jan went by so quickly and we've all had our surgeries!! Healing thoughts to all!!

  • Lmimp64
    Lmimp64 Member Posts: 219
    edited February 2013

    Fight for two - I have had same feeling in arm and same weird underarm thing going on. Pt and stretching has helped and it is gradually getting a little better. I am four weeks this Wednesday. It took over 3 weeks for my bloating to go down. Finally got in jeans last Thursday. :). Give it time. I did get an electric razor though.



    Hopex3, yes, I had a BMX with immediate implants. Swelling and bruising are still a major factor. They are hard as rocks and up by my collar bone. I can now sleep in an angled position - between my back and side - for a bit. I'm using a wedge pillow with my regular pillow on top and three mini pillows I got in hospital - one under my foob next to mattress, one between them and one wedged under my back to keep me tilted. This is 3.5 weeks out from surgery. Until this week I was in a rented hospital bed. I can't wait to just turn over in bed but my doctors are saying 3 months for the foobs to soften. Wasn't expecting that. It's going to take time. For everything.

  • Seriouslysammy
    Seriouslysammy Member Posts: 6
    edited February 2013

    Guess I'm a little behind to post but I've been reading lots of stories by brave women during my journey and they have helped a lot. I just finished surgery. I had a lumpectomy January 29th with a node dissection and port removal. I got my pathology results Friday and everything looks good. There was a micro amount on cells in 1 lymph node and tumor margins were clear.

    I did 6 rounds of chemo before surgery which allowed for a lumpectomy. I started with 2 tumors 1 which was 2.5cm (which was found at my first mammogram at 41) and another tumor of 1cm and 1 node at 3 cm which which was found on pet scan. The chemo did its job and shrunk everything to almost nothing before surgery. I am scheduled for hormone therapy and radiation to start in a few weeks.

    It's been up and down for sure. Half way thru chemo the doctors thought the tumor was actually growing. I'm a Canadian living in the US trying to deal with a new health care system as well.

  • peanutsgal
    peanutsgal Member Posts: 161
    edited February 2013

    Fight4two, what you have sounds like cording and is very common after breast surgery. If you do a google search on it, you can find the statistics and treatment suggestions. Most of what I've read says it can go away on its own, but sometimes it requires intervention with someone like a lymphedema therapist or a PT that specializes in breast surgery. Yes, a cut in your armpit can increase your chances for lymphedema, so please be extra careful!



    Sunny D, glad surgery went well. Sorry to hear about such a horrible post-op experience!



    Josie123, great news on your margins. Glad that swelling turned out to be mostly gauze! Love, love, love it when the fix is something so simple! : )



    Hopex3, I'm afraid it will be awhile before we are able to sleep on our sides again. Because tissue expanders have the nasty little habit of migrating under our armpits, side sleeping becomes an even bigger challenge as the expanders grow : (



    Seirouslysammy, hi and welcome. Never too late to post! Glad to hear margins are good and it sounds like you are doing well. I can only imagine how hard it is to adjust to a private insurance based system such as ours here while going through all this. My advice, be courteous, but firm if you feel you need something that is being refused. This system is pre-programmed to say NO on the first time around.



    (((((Mirmir))))), thinking of you today!

  • Seriouslysammy
    Seriouslysammy Member Posts: 6
    edited February 2013

    I just had lumpdectomy Tuesday and 5 nodes removed. I have the same pain underneath my arm to. Feels like someone pinched my arm from armpit to elbow. I have a follow up appointment on Wednesday and I'll see what surgeon has to say.

  • Seriouslysammy
    Seriouslysammy Member Posts: 6
    edited February 2013

    Thanks peanutsgal for cording info. I googled it. Sounds like exactly like what's going on with my arm.

  • josie123
    josie123 Member Posts: 1,817
    edited February 2013

    Seriously Sammy welcome and I guess we'll meet again in the Rads thread .I've been kind of avoiding that thread and therefore that reality until that begins in a few weeks.Maybe I'm afraid I will freak myself out by reading about the risks of Rads like lung complications.Nothing scares me worse than not being able to breathe.I'm the type that will read every side effect of a new medication until I almost talk myself out of taking it.Luckily I didn't have to do chemo.I guess deep down I am a scared to take risks.

  • tangles
    tangles Member Posts: 508
    edited February 2013

    Gosh my surgery will be 4 weeks out this tuesday. I cant beleive how much pain I am sitll in. I am very tired today from the first Chemo Friday, but the pain in my chest is sure just not letting up. Anyone else still in this same boat? Sleeping is still very painful it scares me to think this will go on until the expanders are taken out. I hope not. I am starting to get very depressed!!

  • NatsFan
    NatsFan Member Posts: 3,745
    edited February 2013

    Fight - info on cording from Step Up Speak Out: http://www.stepup-speakout.org/Cording_and_Axillary_Web_Syndrome.htm  Ask your surgeon or PCP or other doctor for a scrip to see a Certified Lymphedema Therapist ASAP.  There is evidence that women who develop cording after surgery tend to develop lymphedema at a much higher rate than those who do not present with cording.  An LE therapist can evalute you and give you information and exercises to help reduce your risk of developing LE.

    Tangles - if you're still feeling chest tightness 4 weeks out, talk to your surgeon and possibly get a referral to at physical therapist who specializes in b/c patients.  The PT can work on you to help ease the tightness and pain from the expanders.

  • RMlulu
    RMlulu Member Posts: 1,989
    edited February 2013

    Hi josie123, seriouslysammy

    I've been peeking ahead. We can do this.

    Sisters at local BC support group are all encouraging - it will be doable. Some have just started others part way and others just finishing and others years gone by... How blessed are we to have other sisters by our side :))

    Meet Rad/Onc Wed for course of action & start date. Hoping to get a week off to heal&play, but oh so ready to beat this thing that has interrupted my plans for my life!

  • robinlee76
    robinlee76 Member Posts: 27
    edited February 2013

    I went back for my follow up on my "infection" as I was told last week to find that the hard lump is a seroma like I asked the PA last week.  Now after suffering for a week with pain and no meds I am going in tomorrow to get both seromas in the right and left cavity aspirated.  So looking forward to that one.

  • Lmimp64
    Lmimp64 Member Posts: 219
    edited February 2013

    Robin, I hope you get relief tomorrow. Let us know how it goes. Best wishes.

  • RMlulu
    RMlulu Member Posts: 1,989
    edited February 2013

    Robinlee76 so glad you have an answer after suffering over a week & relief is in sight.

    Pray that aspirations go well tomorrow and you are feeling better soon ((hugs))

  • Shasha10
    Shasha10 Member Posts: 297
    edited February 2013

    Dear Sue

    Have you heard from the social worker yet ?? Ask your dr's office to have a social worker contact you ASAP. Is there someone at your dr's office you can speak to and ask for assistance in getting help. When I had a meltdown in my surgeons office she had the nurse practitioner contact me with the team who would work with me.

    Good luck and let us know how you're doing.

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