January 2013 chemo group
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Oh yeah, re: the port - chgogemini - I was skittish about the port as well but as gd2shuz said, veins can really take a beating. I found that out from experience - not from the chemo but as the result of intravenous vancomycin (I developed a post mastectomy infection). My oncologist suggested IVs at first but then, when he saw how much trouble the home nurses were having finding a vein (FIVE ATTEMPTS WITHOUT SUCCESS ONE NIGHT) he arranged for an appointment with a thoracic surgeon. I think the surgery only lasted 20-30 minutes and they access it for the blood draws prior to chemo as well as during chemo.
I guess a lot of it depends on your course of treatment. In my case, I have six TCH treatments (taxotere, carboplatin and herceptin) and then Herceptin is planned to continue on for a full year. I just don't think the veins in my right arm could have taken it. The port surgeon said the port is good for 10,000 sticks (wow, that's a lot of sticks!). He said he had one patient who has had the same port in place for 17 years.
Most people are anxious to have theirs removed at the end of treatment and understandably so but I have a BC friend who is thinking of having hers left in as she just finished up treatment for a recurrence and doesn't mind going in for the once-a-month port flushes.
Mine is beneath my right collarbone and just today the nurse commented on how well it has healed. Some people prefer a numbing cream before access but I don't think they've ever used a numbing cream on mine.
Re: hair - I'm not doing the cold caps because I can't stand to be that cold anywhere, let alone on my head. I loathe the idea of finally losing what hair I have left (mine was down to my shoulders but I had it cut last week when I saw so much of it starting to come out) but it is what it is and I have the hair thread on my favorites list and am very encouraged to see all the growing progress from those who are posting on that thread.
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Ah, it's evening, and time to wish a happy Happy Hour to tomorrow's heavy drinkers. Rhonda2, ldcpt, cancernoway, Mermaidia, tammi, Giraffe, you ladies try not to flirt too much with the bartender, no matter how good-looking s/he may be. And don't forget: Proper hydration is the best way to avoid a hangover. Finisci il bicchiere! (Which, apparently, is Italian for "Drink up!" Who knew?)
Ci vediamo, belle!
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NikkiLiz,
Excuse my ignorance but how do you roast broccoli it sounds delicious. Like someone else said I am eating more broccoli although I have always liked it I am craving it. Must be my subconscious talking to me because of the anti-cancer properties.
Thanks,Sheryl
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oooh yeah, share the roast broccoli recipe. I never cook lol, but i am going to have to start. I love broccoli!
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Can we take vit D during chemos? I mean I know we "can", it doesn't do anything counterintuitive to the treatment?
Bryona, I am on taxol weekly (I think its 2 weeks on, skip a week, 2 weeks on) and adriamycin injection.
In comparison to neoadjuvent treatment (that was once every 3 weeks):
I feel "flu-y" - bones ache, tummy is not upset or constipated but weird. And I had the first tx last friday. BEFORE, I would have 3 good days directly after tx, one week DOWN, then 2 weeks better than this.
and thanks a heck of a lot, LEEA, all that talk about ginger broccoli I AM DROOLING BUCKETS and NO BROCCOLI in the housethanx
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Hey Everyone,
Day 15 of TC treatment 1. Haven't noticed any shedding or thinning of my hair "yet." Hopefully the cold caps are working. Sat my PA today and she said my counts were fine, and everything looked good. TC number 2 is 1 week from today. One of my best girlfriends is flying down from Cape Cod to Dallas to hang out with me, anmd help cook, take care of laundry and drive the boys around while I'm resting. It will be great to have her here and the 3 of us (Julie, my husband and I) will all go to chemo together next week. Should be a cocktail party that only I get to "enjoy." Ha ha ! Lucky me.
That fuzzy, chemo head feeling that y'all were describing earlier..... I've had it too. Days 2 and 3 weren't that bad. Days 3-5 were the worst. It almost felt like I was hung over, but without the stomach stuff. It's a strange and odd feeling, and not one that I'm crazy about.
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chgogemini,
I was scared spitless before chemo. I definitely recommend the port. The medicine is irritating to the veins and they get really sore/tender and then they have to go above the sore part and can't use the arm with the breast cancer and so on.... The port is done quickly generally only a twilight sleep, in and out same day and they can access it right away. You can get a type of lidocaine cream (EMLA) or in my case they spray the site with lidocaine and then stick it. I didn't even feel it the last time. Also blood can be drawn and if they put a power port in future testing like CT scans with contrast can be done through the port. You can keep it for a long time too. Once established just needs to be flushed every 4 weeks. In my case my husband and I will be doing it we are both RNs. But I saw folks popping into the cancer center just to get flushed.
Whatever you decide is what is best for you.
Hang tough, Sheryl
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SeattleMama, my medical oncologist said it was fine and that was backed up by the integrative physician at the same center (as an aside, the integrative physician used to be a radiation oncologist).
From what I've gathered, the supplements to avoid are the anti-oxidants. I posted a list of supplements to avoid (per the Disney Cancer Center) a while back. If you'd like, I'll try to find it and re-post it.
Sorry about the broccoli. :-(
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Thanks ladies!! Ill try and not worry too much.
Good luck and no se's for anyone
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Thanks for the help on the Vitamin D3 you ladies! You are all so fast to respond and help out - I appreciate it. I take the Source Natural liquid, and doubled the dose he recommended, based on research, and the fact that I was extremely deficient. My original level came in at 15.
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LeeA - I believe that about the D3 with Costco. I watched a History Channel special on them one day, and they are very selective about their vendors, and they go through all types of panels/tests before they decide what brands they will carry.
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I take 6000 IU of D3 daily. I am asking for my MO to run my levels when I go on Friday. Lots of good things happen when our D levels are good.
chgogemini- my son is 10 and I have been upfront with him from the start. I haven't given him the gory details of everything but he knows whats coming. I didn't tell him I was having all this reconstruction. I just told him I needed to have surgery to remove the cancer and I would be sore for a while. When I found out I needed chemo I told him I needed medicine to help stop the cancer and it was going to make me feel bad sometimes. I also told him I would loose my hair and it wont grow back until i am done with the medicine. I also reassured him that I was going to be fine and if he needed to talk I would be able to listen. He also knows that the adults in his life know and he can talk with them too. I told him that its ok to be sad, mad, confused, etc... I do not cover my head around him and we giggle that I have no hair. We talk about my DRs appointments and he seems to be interested in the medical stuff. He thinks the port (i had him feel it) is interesting. It was incredibly difficult to talk to him without crying. He is my life and I cant think about him loosing me. So, I focused on the facts and my will to fight.
The port is an outpatient procedure. It is an incision about 1 inch long by your colarbone and the port sits just below it. I got my port on jan 2 and I forget its there now. It tales a few weeks to heal and it is tender for a while.
You have come to the right place for support... venting... advice... etc... These women are awesome and we are all in this together. You are not alone. We are here. Please keep us posted.
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Chgogemni- <<Hugs>> reading your post brought back all the feelings I had when I was diagnosed. It was scary and I cried an ocean of tears and then I cried some more. The anxiety i had never ended. Finally MO gave me celexa and that really has changed my outlook and helped the anxiety greatly. Everything you feel is normal -and thankfully you found this board of amazing ladies! My friend read a great kids book to her kids called "Mom and the polka dot boo boo" it's a kids book that gives a soft explanation of breast cancer that they can understand without being too scary.
Best of luck to you and post whatever you feel or your questions -this board can be a big warm blanket a lot of us need some days! -
{genuine} Thanks LEEA, you don't have to hunt down the list, I'll go have a looksy.
{sarcastic} yea, thanks, I feel the luv on making me drool over broccoli :P
skigirl, "Lots of good things happen when our D levels are good." you got it!!!! I take a 10,000 supplement I got at Whole Foods. I got them after Dr. Khalsa was on Dr. Oz. http://www.doctoroz.com/episode/provocative-doctor-revolutionize-your-health -
Sheryl & gd2shuz-
It really is as simple as it sounds- take an organic :-) head of broccoli (or precut) put in a big bowl and drizzle about 1-2Tblsp olive oil, a little sea salt, and some minced garlic-I add some lemon juice maybe 1Tblsp? And mix it up so its all nice and evenly covered and then spread it on a cookie tray and bake at 375-400 for about 15-20 until its browned all over. Eat then or you can sprinkle some Parmesan cheese and cracked pepper on it.
Add or subtract what you want -I've become a huge fan of cracked pepper on everything.
Let me know how it goes :-)
Nikki -
I watched that episode. He had a lot of good info.
I take that 6000 IU D3 daily with a cal/mag/zinc combo to help with absorption. Also a take a multi and an extra C. I also heard to stay away from the anti oxidants during chemo. I am not the most nutritious person, but I try. I know I don't get enough vitamins and minerals in the foods that I eat so I def need the help. And I am not out in the sun too much this time of year, so, the D is needed.
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There are studies about vitamin D3 deficiency above the 37th parallel.
Here's an excerpt from one article:
The farther north we go, the less vitamin D we can make from our skin. Experts tell us that, in the winter, it is impossible for those who live above the 37th parallel to get enough vitamin D from sunlight. This represents a line starting in Santa Cruz, just south of San Francisco, California, continuing eastward at the northern border of Arizona, New Mexico, Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennessee, and North Carolina, and ending at the coast. The majority of Americans would be vitamin D deficient in winter even if they wore no clothes and stayed in the sun all day long!
Link: http://www.ehealthdiscoveries.com/vitamind.html
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What I find kind of interesting regarding my own Vitamin D levels is that I have been supplementing with Vitamin D3 for a couple of years now. I typically take higher doses during the winter months and drop down to about 2000 IU during the summer months.
We live on the 34th parallel and my Vitamin D3 levels were tested in late November of 2012. In late September we spent 8 or 9 days on Kauai and we were on the beach for hours, i.e. from 10 am until about 7:00 pm every single day. Most days I wore 20 or 30 spf sunscreen and still had a fairly dark tan into mid-October. We have a pool and I'm out in the sun quite a bit in the summer, although this past summer I would get so cold that I didn't spend much time in the water (I've since found out that our bodies metabolize differently when we have cancer so I've wondered if that's the case with being so cold all the time, i.e. supposedly a tumor burns calories 10x faster than muscle?).
Anyway, all that sun exposure PLUS supplementation with Vitamin D3 as well as living below the 37th parallel and my levels were 42 (I would have thought with all that they would have been higher).
The integrative physician says she never recommends more than 5000 IU daily because there aren't clinical studies to support anything over that amount but I've taken 6000 IU in the past because the pills are 2000 IU each.
My husband's levels were extremely low when he went through his bout with a very serious/rare autoimmune disease back in 2007. I don't know why but when doctors prescribe vitamin D they typically do so in the form of D2.
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Nikki, that recipe sounds delicious. I just took a screenshot.
I do something similar with brussel sprouts and occasionally with cauliflower as well.
I love Celtic grey sea salt or more recently, Himalayan sea salt. My favorite snack had been popcorn popped in a brown paper lunch bag (folded over) in the microwave. After it's popped - extra virgin olive oil and Himalayan sea salt.
Supposedly, EVOO is another cancer cell fighter as is pepper (it is added to curcumin supplements as it's more formal name, bioperine, because of the synergistic properties).
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Ah yes, I love the roasted broccoli too. I may be naive, but I feel like roasting it doesn't take out all the "goods" like other cooking methods do.
And I will buy one of those t-shirts Byrona "Chemical warfare . . . death to cellular insurgents" with the our drunken emoticon mascot pictured on the back. LOL
Ciao to all the newbies. Chgogemni, you are in the best place possible for support. We have all felt what you are feeling. Now that we are in the depths of it we realize we can still see the light.
Been hydrating like crazy today too. Happy hour for me tomorrow. Veggie broth sounds so good, I already told my DH that he will need to have some stewing for me tomorrow. Already took my dexa, but I am not experiencing the steriod high this time. Can hardly keep my eyes open.
Skigirl, I've been scrubbing like crazy in the shower to get this stubble gone once and for all. We don't have any duct tape, but I did take a sticky, lint roller to my head. It didn't work very well. LOL Love the idea about the whiteboard to keep track of what/when and how much to take of everything.
See you all at the bar tomorrow . . . belly up!
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vedy vedy intwesting, LeeA, GREAT INFO!
If you watch that linky from Dr. Oz, the anglo american Dr Khalsa, said he needs 10,000 daily, but recommends 5,000 for all, atleast.
I have/had autoimmune probs (spleen out when I was 20) and so my immune system has only really gotten better the past few years with eating only organic, non tap water, etc.
Really surprised you're levels weren't higher........Im going to ask for my numbers. -
I have cooked cauliflower the same way, Nikki...it is so good, I can eat the whole tray while it's still warm. It gets all carmelized and yummy. I use frozen and just thaw under cold water, mix with a little evoo and a few pinches of Parmesan, little garlic salt and roast on parchment paper...mmmm, thanks for reminding me how good this can be, I'll have to make a batch this weekend!
Chgogemini, I'm glad you found this group, we're here for you! Wondering if your MO did an Oncotype for you? That really helped convince me to go with the chemo since I could see the statistics for how much it could be expected to help me, as well as reassure my MO that I could do just 4 rounds of the TC vs 8 that the first opinion wanted. Once I knew the plan, I didn't look back and focused my energy on planning how I could best get through it, lining up my supplies, researching tips from the boards, etc...helped me feel a sense of control over something. I know you can do it...we'll be here to help you along the way!!! You're in my prayers. -
can you all hush with the yummy food! PLEASE :P I'm hurtin' here!
<<will be dreaming of roasted veggies, EVOO and sea salt >> -
Bryona, how did you learn about Nanc? Did I miss a post? I hope everything is going okay.
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Armdbit - The Hangover without the headache is how I describe to people how I feel days 3-6. Can't decribe it in any other way.
Been kind of absent from this thread - trying to work remotely from home and staying calm/ healthy at same time - not an easy task.
Bryona - so glad you are back from the brink - I can totally relate to your "out of body" type feeling. I cry during those first days after treatment because I feel so toxic and long for feeling " normal" . Thankfully it does return - I am hoping next week will be good
Nancy - if you are reading the posts - I wish you much strength and a quick recovery so you can get back home soon ! Thinking lots of good thoughts and prayers for you !
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Ladies, I am chiming in here as today is my first day of chemo. I am hooked up to my IV as I type getting my first dose of FEC. 2 more Fec to come followed by 3 Taxetere. No idea how I'm going to go with 2 young children at home (15 months & 4) so would love to hear from any other mums with little ones who may be going through the same thing at the moment. I have been told repeatedly about what to expect but suspect that my own response to the meds will make itself known soon!
Most anxious about the dexamethazone and speeding my little head off tonight at home! Not sleeping with small kids = torture!
Will no doubt opt in over the coming days to share experiences & ask for advice.
Ciao for now.
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So how many of us have been told our vitamin D levels are low? Either before or after diagnosis. Kind of interesting. Mine was about 24 like six months or maybe a little longer ago. My Dr. Put me on 10,000 a day and retested me three months later and I believe I was in the 50's. My doc likes to see women in the 80's so she kept me on 5,000 a day. I don't always remember to take it though. I don't know what my levels are now. I take a liquid form.
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ColleenKelly, you're in a very sunny part of the country as well.
I would be curious to know what mine was during the years prior to supplementation. I'm guessing it was probably pretty low considering mine was at 42 with very dedicated supplementation (I rarely ever forgot a dose) and being in quite a bit of sunshine.
Thanks for posting that about your doctor's preference to see women with ranges in the 80s.
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Hi ColleenKelly,
Sorry I'm so late in replying. DH and I were busy getting ready for chemo round 1 tomorrow.
I experienced very little pain with the port. It was more annoying to feel a little tug when turning my head or sleeping on that side of my neck. I actually got scared and started reading about the depth of the port in the vein and found out that I was not going to pull it out by turning my head. Funny that I have these thoughts, but nothing about what we are going through is not normal. It still sticks out of my neck a little, but I think only I notice it. I hope you will get better soon!
Sending my good thoughts and hugs to everyone!! We can do this. -
Byrona,
Thanks for the encouragement that we all need for our first time!! First night on steroids and so far I've cleaned the house, did laundry, packed lunch and snacks for tomorrow, and got my clothes ready for the morning. The whole time I was picturing "crack monkey" and that made me laugh about my new found energy!
The support and knowledge that we all share is priceless!
Hugs everyone. I guess I will try to force myself to sleep as it is after midnight and I have to get up at 5 am. -
LeeA,
I live in Florida and have daily sun exposure if I go outside all year long. I don't spend time in the sun unless I have a SPF15 or higher on. My D3 was 15 in May of 12, I started 5000 IU D3 then. In Dec of 12 my levels were only 25 so my MO increased me to 6000 IU. It takes a long time to get the levels up it seems. I wonder why this still isn't a routine lab check with all the research showing the importance of D3?
Sheryl
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