January 2013 chemo group
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Judy, that's great information! I was looking around CVS last night for the Seabands/wrist bands for nausea but couldn't find them and they were so busy with people in line for prescriptions (they're saying this is a big flu season) that I didn't bother asking.
I've been using a lozenge called Gin Gins that was part of my chemo pre-packet. I thought they were effective enough that we tracked them down at Cost Plus World Market and ran out to buy more of the this past Saturday night. We also bought a container of pickled pink ginger while we were there (sushi style) but I haven't tried that yet.
So glad to hear you're keeping the nausea under control with natural methods. I've been taking the anti-nausea meds, mainly because I'm so worried it will creep up on me and they say it's hard to chase it back once it starts.
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Is the steroid the same as the Decadron?
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I haven't taken any oral steroids. My only steroid was delivered in the first IV bag along with an anti-nausea med.
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Hi ladies - I see a lot of you are talking about nail care and wearing nail polish before chemo treatments. Can anyone explain about that - I have a treatment this Friday. Thank you! Karen
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ablydec, I was prescribed the oral steroid Dexamethasone to take twice a day for three days after chemo. Some of the side effects included mood, mental, or personality changes, seizures, difficulty sleeping, increased appetite, and NAUSEA! These are just a few of the many listed side effects. I am pretty much a naturalist - we grow most of what our family eats right here on our farm. So if this script could be safely avoided (and my onc said it could), that was my choice.
For those of you just getting started, I am so pleased so far that I feel so well. I am sure it will get harder farther into this, but for now, I am just so thankful. the seabands are doing GREAT for me - still haven't had to take anything else today for nausea.
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Judy, after reading your latest post I just checked Walgreens.com and they have them in stock locally so I'm going to be making a trip there this evening. A friend of mine used them years ago during pregnancy and they helped her be a bit less nauseous.
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This probably isn't the right discussion group to introduce this topic - I'm not familiar with the various areas of this board - never posted on one before this, so feel free to correct me and send me to the right place.
But I just came across some very interesting information today. I have tried to wrap my head around getting a diagnosis of breast cancer when I have been so conscientious ALL my life of diet, exercise, lifestyle, etc. I am a mother of 11 children, which my onc said that fact alone should have protected me from an estrogen positive cancer.
Anyway, I just thought today to check further into a prescription med my mother was given when pregnant with me - it was presribed to help prevent miscarriage (and later found to be ineffective for this) but was also found to cause defects in babies born from these pregnancies. Diethylstilbestrol
(DES) One statistic I found today said a 200% increase in breast cancer in female children over the age of 50! I just thought this a significant tidbit and wouldn't mind engaging in some discussion about his if there is any interest. As I mentioned above, I'm just not sure what group to possibly bring up this topic to.Thanks for listening.
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LeeA, hope they work as well for you as they did for me. Glad to pass the experience along.
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Judy! I have to give you a link to a story I read just two or three days ago!
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Title: Four Sisters Who Had Breast Cancer Sue Drug Maker, Blaming Mother’s Medication
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Judy, Thanks for the info on the Peppermint/ginger tabs. I start tomorrow at 1:00 and I think I'll make a morning dash to whole foods to pick some up. I'm really glad your treatment seemed to go well, and that the side effects havent been too bad. YAY!! You are a rock star! Hope the rest of the week goes as well if not better for you!
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Judy, I jsut read backward through the posts and I can't believe you have 11 children. That is so awesome!!A friend of mine has 8, and I love being at her house with all of the "goings on." I love the energy. Holidays must be beyond wonderful at your house. I would have had a fleet myself, but it wasn't in the cards with the size they were born at. LOL!
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Ciao bellas! I'm back at work today, day 5, and feel great! (still knocking on wood). Yesterday was my worst day, just felt blah all day. Luckily it was a planned work from home day. I almost wonder if that had anything to do with it though.
JundyinNC I only noticed the reddish color for a day. Maybe you are just flushing better than most.
Lauren15 I am on the same treatment as you. I started getting very worried that the TAC was going to be more difficult too because the majority of ladies seem to be doing dose dense every 2 weeks instead. But, as you can see from my posts so far all is good. Take the Claritin starting the morning before your shot. Some people say it can be as close as up to an hour before, but I went for about 4 hours pre-trip. Then the nurses say to take it for about 4-5 days. Honestly, I only took it two more days and have had no issues. May also be a little late on this, but I've talked to some ladies that specialize in treating chemo patients and training spas on what is right and not. They say NO on the shalack, gel, etc. because it has to be removed with harsh chemicals.
Bryona we must have been on the same schedule. Woke up at 2:30 and couldn't get back to sleep. And I've kept a positive energy level all day. Amazing! Even worked out at lunch (okay nothing crazy, but still).
Mterkelsen never apologize about feeling down and expressing those feelings here. I've been there . . . I think we all have. This is the one time in your life where no excuses are necessary!
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Lauren15 I too start the chemo Thursday, Not sure what chemo you are getting. I am taking taxotere, and cytoxan. My oncologist told me they were as emetegenic as the adriamycin. The are going to be giving me something that begins with an A (axiol ??) at the start of treatment that is for nausea and last a long time. MY suggestion is to take the zofran as ordered even if not nauseated once you get home. I am more leary of compazine but use it to if you need to but zofran has minimal side effects and much safer.
As far a nerves I am a basket case today and every little thing has me crying. It is about the unknow even though nothing has ever been as bad as my mind made it. I have to be at the clinic for chemo at 0830 thursday morning (eastern time). I see you are in florida too I will PM you my cell phone feel free to call me.
Sheryl
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Amrdbit. you are right - wonderful memories and times together. The family pulls together so well. Wish there was a way to post pictures on here (like on Facebook). :=) Thanks for the "rockstar" comment - you made my day!
LeeA, thanks so much for the link! I'll be checking it out here in just a bit.
One caveat on the seabands. I should have thought of this. The instructions tell you to wear them on both wrists. After having them on for about 7 hours, I began to notice some swelling on the side where I had the axial node dissection. That was kind of dumb of me to wear it on that side. Guess I'll find out how effective it is wearing it on just one side.
skimommi, that's about the conclusion that I had reached, that my kidneys are functioning very well and flushed it really quickly. When I got my Neulasta shot today and mentioned it, the nurse giving the shot didn't seem surprised one way or the other.
Sweet dreams to all.
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SherylB~I think the drug you're talking about is Aloxi (spelling).
I have such a sore throat from coughing, but I've taken nothing for it but cough drops. I want my own immunity to kick it up a notch. I've never been one to take antibiotics.
Blessings
Paula -
Ciao Bellas!
Hope this finds you all in a peaceful mood tonight. My plans for beginning chemo tomorrow have been derailed for a week. We have a stomach bug running through our family and the onc PA wants me to be stronger and way less queasy. Part of me is sad and upset and the other part is happy. Our house still looks like a Christmas wonderland so I now have an extra week to get it all dismantled and put away. I also want to go into this feeling strong. I haven't been sleeping at all, even with the help of a nightly Ambien and like some of you have been having some real emotional ups and downs. While talking with the PA today I mentioned it and she phoned in a scrip for Xanax. I've also made an appointment with a naturopath that I worked with during menopause. She specializes in chemo and my onc is all in favor of having her as part of my team.
Wishing all of you well tomorrow...especially with the cold caps.
I did ask my onc about Shellac nails...got the big no :-( So I'm sticking with Sally Hansen's. My daughter and I are going for pedicures next Wed. morning before my tx. Also a big thanks for the reminder about Sea Bands and the ginger candy. We found a great ginger tea this summer after our daughter had surgery...and we have all been drinking it with success this weekend through our family plague ;-)
blessings, bellas -
JudyinNC,
That's great about your 11 children. I actually have eight (ages 8-26), and just married off the fourth last week. For years, when my oncologist would remind me to get mammograms (I was still young, but had a history of Hodgkins, and a family history of BC), I would laugh him off and say that nursing lots of babies was protecting me. Well, perhaps, but I'm sure glad I finally listened to him!
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Ok, after an hour of trial and error and a ton of laughing and picture taking with the cold Caps, my husband feels pretty confident that he can get them on and off in about 2 minutes. not bad for a newbie. By the end, my hair was a long complete mess. It looked like a squirrel had been playing in it. I told my teenaged boys to not give me any grief any time in the near future or I'd be showing up to volunteer at the high school wearing a cod cap. Lol! JK!! (But it is a darn good thing they are such good kids b/c that's something I might just do.) ha ha ha!
I saw in a post somewhere that someone said that compozine (spelling) had more side effects then the Zofran. I'm going to go out on a limb that its all a learning curve to how you react to them and each person is so different. I passed out (naked I might add) on the bathroom floor 18 years ago while taking compozine. (The first thing I thought of when I came to, was that I was so glad the bathroom look had just been washed. Lol! And..... Zofran gives me such severe headaches, that I'd rather be nauseous. It's that bad. So, just be careful and go with what meds we for you.
Nance, I really really hope your family feels better so that you can at least enjoy your extra week. Big hugs!! -
Hi ladies
Just a note about mouth ulcers, I started taking lysine for them about a year ago, it's an amino acid and you buy it in the pharmacy for cold sores, but it works for ulcers and mouth sores too. I don't get cold sores but lysine has virtually stopped me from getting ulcers which have plagued me most of my life.
So if the salt and baking soda isn't cutting it, I recommend lysine. In NZ we can buy it in the supermarket, it's about $10 for a few weeks worth. Well worth it to avoid the sores in the first place.
I hope that helps someone.
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(((Sheryl))) I’m sorry the nerves are getting to you. Hang tough, sister. You will get through this.
Grace533, ciao bella! Have you gone to the Nov. and Dec. chemo group threads? They’re further along in their tx than we are, so they may be able to tell you more about how their SEs developed over time.
Zorina, I spent years trying to make my nose wiggle like that. Sigh…
kimmeam, ciao bella! I’m glad you decided to start chiming in. Lurking is fine, but chatting is finer. J
Melanie, I’m so glad you checked in. I’ve been wondering how you’ve been. I’m sorry you’re dragging today, but I’m with skimommi: I don’t think you should ever be sorry for how you’re feeling as you go through this. We understand. It’s why we’re all here. As for your fatigue, I’ve heard some people don’t have the bad fatigue for several days after tx. If you’re one of those, maybe you can change your tx day to Wednesdays, work Thursday and Friday, and be able to deal with the fatigue more over the weekend…?
Sandra, the hair is adorable! It’s great that you’re finally feeling better, too.
Judy, I'm not sure there’s any such thing as TMI on this thread when it comes to SEs. You tell us whatever you think might help us OR you.
karen (and everyone who’s joined in the last few days with fingernail questions): Don’t panic! You’re not required to paint your nails before chemo. J The question of whether or not it’s okay to go to a salon for a mani/pedi came up here a while back, and we’ve been talking about nails ever since. What can we say? We’re girly that way.
Nanc620, I’m sorry to hear about that stomach bug, and I can completely understand the sad/happy reaction. I hope you’re able to get some good sleep. I’ve never had much luck with Ambien for more than a couple of days at a time, but when I was having trouble sleeping right after dx, I found Ativan helped. And, after a few days (maybe because when I was better rested I was less emotional), I didn’t need it anymore. Fingers crossed that Xanax works like that for you.
Whew! That was a lot, even for me!
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I almost forgot one of the most important parts:
Good luck with your first happy hour tomorrow Amrdbit and MamaK! Remember, leave some of the good stuff at the bar for the rest of us.
And tell us how things go with your oncologist, Fighter. I'll be thinking of you, too.
(That smiley face reminds me: With all the bar-hopping in this group, we need a drunk emoticon here!)
Ci vediamo, belle!
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Thanks Bryona! I'll let you know how it goes! Mamak, good luck tomorrow!! I'm sure we will both rock it.
! Big hugs, Deb
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Early Morning and Ciao Bellas!
It's 3 am'ish here and I woke up to take my next eight hours of that beautiful little piece of heaven called anti-nausea medication (and to rinse my mouth out with the salt/baking soda mixture). Praying for no mouth sores and just trying to be proactive. I’ll have to look into the Lysine drops that kiwikid mentioned.
Yesterday (1/8) was my first day up and it went fairly smoothly. It was a super busy day there so I didn't get started with pre-meds until roughly an hour after my scheduled appointment. The blood draw for labs went fine (God bless the woman who knows what she's doing around someone’s chest and a port, she nailed it---oh wait, “nailing it” may not be the best choice of words---but she was very nice and quick. On that same note, the numbing spray sort of worked, I felt a little stick. You take a good deep breath and the needle’s in.
First up: premeds, and those go in really quick 10 mins. tops for mine. The typical anti-nausea and steroid was what I got. Herceptin was my first run and that was 90 minutes, Taxotere was next for about an hour, and Cytoxan rounded it out for me at about 45 minutes. I wasn’t told Neulasta or one of its close relatives was in my future. Needless to say, I’ll be calling later this morning to verify it myself, I asked my nurse to verify that from my orders and she said no, none for me…which leads me to the nursing staff…
I had a nice enough nurse but man was she incredibly slow. I asked for a cup of ice (in my own glass container I bought) and it took her FOREVER to bring it back. Two other nurses would finish off one of my drugs and hang the next. I didn’t really get that TLC that I kept hearing I’d receive there. My suspicion of her slowness was confirmed when a different nurse made the comment that she’d infused a total of 9 people over the course of the day and my nurse had only been with 3 patients. Now I pray that dropping all these drugs in people isn’t a competitive sport there, but hearing that gave me the green light to go “hmmm”. Anyway, it was a long day for me from 9:30am – 5pm start to finish. I honestly believe I could have gotten out an hour earlier if I didn’t have Ms. Snail has my assigned nurse.
Next stop was the pharmacy and that’s when I about lost it. I had my anti-nausea meds (Zofran HCL 8 mg) called in by Ms. Slow Pants. I get to the pharmacy only to be told they didn’t have the prescription. Of course that didn’t fly with me which resulted in me having to call the on-call physician to straighten this shit out. I couldn’t get anyone at the infusion center although I had just left there. Magically, my prescription appears. It actually had been there all along, but they had my oncologist’s name spelled incorrectly and couldn’t find the doc associated with my meds. I’m like “whatever, just fill it”. I THEN learn that my d#$* insurance requires a preauthorization to get this medicine.
Whoever in their life has heard of having to have a preauthorization for anti-nausea meds for a patient undergoing chemotherapy!!!???? I was livid and felt as though the oncology staff (including my doctor) should have known this. Why allow nurses to call in scripts that a patient can’t get? I did get the medicine and just paid cash for it ($47), but it would have been just my co-pay had this not happened. Of course, this makes for another phone call later this morning to my oncologist’s office AND insurance company about this crap. All of this should be worked out BEFORE prescribing anything. I have to have this medicine after each treatment, what happened yesterday was totally unacceptable. I know stuff happens, but good grief people!
Overall, I’m doing okay. Had some soup and half of a baked potato for dinner when I got home along with a stool softner. My parents came and took me to my first chemo session, which was nice to have my A-team there. My goal for the rest of this week is to rest, eat, and just see how this goes. Water, water, water is my mantra---I was going to the potty so much yesterday and again early this morning. It’s annoying, but hey---if they say drink, I’m drinking.
Hope that helped some just as a first day overview. I’ll continue to pop in and share other SE’s as the days pass.
Peace,
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Day 5 after Chemo I - I feel better than I have for the past two days, and all things considered, I wasn’t feeling too awful. No packed lunch for Hubby today. I went back to bed with a headache. When I woke, it dawned on me (ha, ha): It may be caffeine withdrawal. Coffee no longer has a flavor, but amazingly a diet Coke tasted about the same as usual. Plus, the headache is nearly gone. Labs tomorrow, and I am truly looking forward to having over a week free from chemical cocktails!
Skigirl – French onion dip…yummy! I wanted pizza last night. Alas, it kind of tasted like cardboard, and it gave me a minor case of indigestion. The rice-a-roni I had earlier in the day tasted better. Hmm…it even sounds good now.
Soteria – I was hoping my taste buds might rebound a bit between treatments. I am a foodie and losing the full flavor spectrum is driving me crazy.
While, I haven’t had any significant nausea issues, when my Doc warned me against ginger tablets (she worries about additives!), I did get some candied ginger. (Am I losing my mind or did I mention this before?)
SherylB – The waiting is the hardest part. The roller coaster of emotions is hard to navigate, and I think it is much worse than the actual treatment! Things will go well tomorrow, and by the end of the day, you’ll have one less treatment to anticipate.
Nanc620 - Sorry your plans got derailed, I hope you are able to move forward soon. I’ve been a recluse trying to avoid the viruses that seem to have the news media in a frenzy.
Nellas – Seems like you need to request a different nurse next time. I cannot wiggle my nose, but I figure when I am going through heck, someone else can just deal with me being witchy for a few moments, and I think you’ve got a good reason to get a different nurse next time. Honestly, I really avoid confrontations!
To those of you with Happy Hour plans tomorrow, drink a toast for the rest of us! We promise to do the same for you.
Today’s celebration today is big: DH got a promotion and BFF just sent me an airline itinerary: She’s coming to visit me a week after my second treatment!
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Okay ladies, let's liven up the discussions a bit. What is the word on sex during chemo? I thought I read somewhere, at one time, that you must utilize condoms. Is that just for birth control or is that a necessity. If by necessity is that the case for the entire time we are on chemo or just for a period of time during certain days? Those of you that are two-timers, and three, might have some input from your other "partner" boards.
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My nurse told me condoms for him for 72 hours after chemo. Then, if you (or him) are fixed then no worries. If you are not fixed then condoms all the time. So, go get'em!!!! LOL
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Skigirl - LOL at "go get 'em."
Zorina - what an exciting day you've had thus far and I agree with you (and Tom Petty
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nellas36,
Ok I am lmao thanks!. I had to have pre-auth for my zofran too and it is bull. I have been trying for 3 days to get lidocaine cream to put on my port before access and I finally said f..k it. The last nurse I talked with said we will spray you with lidocaine when your here. Ok if she will let me spray her and stick a needle in her chest first then I am sure I will be fine with that.
Ms. slow pants, i love it. I have been a RN for 30 years and think a speed test should be given before you start nursing school. I don't know how some people manage to get through life. It is your right to ask that a certain health care professional not take care of you. Remember you are hiring these people, exercise your rights!
Ok I am up for 1st treatment tomorrow. Have already drank over 2 qts of water so I go in well hydrated. Took my doses of steroids today, don't even want to check my blood sugar, yikes!
Take care all, will check in tomorrow.
Sheryl
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Ciao belle!
nellas: I’m glad to hear you’re feeling okay now, but I sure hope you get a different nurse next time. I’m not voting for Ms. Rabbit, but maybe I nice Ms. Labrodor Retriever would be good. You know: lots of energy and always eager to help. But no shedding. No. And no slobber.
Zorina: Hot dog! That is a big celebration day! You might have to keep celebrating tomorrow for good measure.
skimommi: I have no answers for you, but I’ll ask my MO tomorrow. In the meantime, can I just say how much I LOVE that you’re here? I can? Good. I LOVE that you’re here!
Deb (Amrdbit) and Kristin (MamaK), I hope everything went well today. And how about you, Fighter? Did you get some scan results today from your MO? Any word yet on when you'll be starting? Sending good thoughts your way.
Sheryl, Lauren, carla, and hope (wow—big day tomorrow!), here’s hoping the service is speedy and the bartenders good-looking when you hit happy hour tomorrow!
Ci vediamo, belle!
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Just wanted to pop in and give all you fine ladies (sorry if there are men in here - you too!) a word of encouragement. A year ago I was diagnosed, and I had chemo from February through May. In the beginning it seemed overwhelming, and impossible. But I did it! Oh yes I did, and you will too!!! It is doable! And life did not come to a crashing halt during all of it either. You just enjoy the good days, and rest up on the harder ones. But I know you will all get through this! My month's group was a huge support for me through it all. And for those worried about hair, I had enough hair growth by the holidays for a short, spiky hairdo! Life is slowly moving back to normal... Best of luck to you all, and I hope you all have few side effects, and lots of love and support for one another.
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