DCIS...did anyone have a MO tell you that you don't have cancer?
Long story short...I have opted for a BMX and should have my surgery date by tomorrow. I saw the MO today and she flat out said DCIS is not cancer and a BMX is overkill. Given my own history AND strong family history, my BS says a BMX is a good decision for me. The MO was recommended by my BS and has access to all my information. I'm just frustrated by her attitude, and wondered if anyone else has experienced this.
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I, too had DCIS, non-invasive.My first meeting with my surgeon, he looked at my records and said "Why are you here?" Grrrrrrr! Then I began my story of how 25 years ago, my mother's first mamogram showed cancer in both breasts....the surgeon stopped me, and said "enough said".i had had 25 years to make my decision and never wanted to go through the anxiety I experienced after I was diagnosed again. Yes, i was told that i did not have cancer, but would likely develop into cancer if not treated. Diagnosed 8/7, bilateral mastectomy 9/12 with tissue expanders, going to PS Friday hoping to set a date for exchange for implants. I have had sooooo much support from family and gal pals telling me that they would do exactly the same thing. I have noticed many people start with a lumpectomy, but have to return for another, and finally a mastectomy. I did not want to do that!!!!! I am very happy with my decision! We need support in our decisions, not an MO questioning them!!!!!!! Good luck! Do what you feel is best for you!!!!!!
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Yes, the MO walked in and said, "Congratulations -- you don't have cancer. We don't consider this cancer." Fortunately, my BS and radiologist both considered the 7cm of high-grade DCIS to be serious and didn't laugh off my worries like she did. I'm driving 2 hrs next week to see someone else.
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Thank you both!
awmathtchr - I have always known what I would do if/when I was diagnosed as well. My mom has had BC twice (11 years apart) and the first time it was DCIS. She had 2 lumpectomies and a mastectomy in 1 week just trying to get clean margins! Then 5 years of Tamoxifin. Then a few years later, the second breast had invasive BC, so another mastectomy with lymph nodes and more hormone blockers. I didn't want to go through all of that either!
My mom's mom had BC twice (15 years apart), and my mom's only sister had BC as well.
My decision for a BMX has never wavered, but I was frustrated by the MO's attitude toward DCIS. I realize that the standard of care is for a lumectomy and radiation, but that is not enough for me.
On a good note...my husband was at the appointment with me and was VERY relieved to hear her say that it was not cancer. He still 100% wants me to go ahead with the BMX, but felt better after the appointment.
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The only doctor who told me this was one of the "doctors is training" who was following my oncologist around for a few days. My oncologist left him alone with me so he could do a "patient history" but intead he spent 10 minutes trying to tell me I don't have cancer. He probably meant well but to me he came across as ignorant and stupid and I was so totally turned off by him that I didn't even bother to set him straight.
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Yes, my MO was dead set against the BMX, too. He seemed upset that he couldn't change my mind. I had already did my research so I knew it was the right decision for me. I really didn't care what he had to say regarding my surgery choice, I was just interested in what he had to say about Tamoxifin. We have since parted ways and my new MO is wonderful.
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It is somewhat controversial within the breast cancer community as to whether or not DCIS is cancer. Most experts do consider DCIS to be cancer, but there is a movement that is trying to get DCIS reclassified as being a pre-cancer. Some experts, such as Dr. Susan Love, are quite open in saying that DCIS is not cancer.
Most definitions of cancer state that there are 3 criteria that define a cancer:
1. Abnormality of the cells.
2. Uncontrolled growth of the cells.
3. The ability to spread beyond the original site.
DCIS meets the first two criteria but by some definitions, does not meet the third. DCIS can spread extensively within the breast (I had over 7cm of DCIS) but it cannot spread beyond the breast. And that is the reason why medically there are some who believe that DCIS is not cancer. What Is Cancer?
Personally, like everyone else here, I get very frustrated when I hear someone say that DCIS isn't cancer. But the more that I've been involved with this and the more I understand the wide range of diagnoses that are included under the DCIS umbrella, the more I am starting to understand why it might make sense, at some point in the future, to reclassify some types of DCIS (but not all) to be pre-cancers. Currently however I don't think that the medical community knows enough about DCIS to know which types legitimately could be considered pre-cancers, and I worry that anyone who calls DCIS a pre-cancer today might discourage from treatment some women who have very serious, threatening diagnoses.
Tamiami, it sounds as though you ran into a MO who is in the camp of believing that DCIS is not cancer. That's unfortunate, however regardless of how she personally feels about this, given your extensive family history and your diagnosis of DCIS, she should not discount your desire to have a BMX, whether she considers DCIS to be cancer or not.
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Thank you Beesie!
As long as pathology on both of my breasts comes back as expected, then I won't have to worry about a MO anyway. Since I am pre menopausal there is no need for any treatment after the BMX. I am planning to see a genetic counselor though.
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Good point. With the BMX, you won't need the MO. Good riddance to her!
Seeing a genetic counsellor is a good idea. Has anyone in your family who's had BC been tested for the BRCA gene? And are there any other cancers on your mother's side of the family, such as ovarian or prostate?
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The first MO I saw was from some middle eastern country and was hard to understand and while he was talking to me he kept SMILING. GRRRRR don't be f'ing smiling when you are talking to me about cancer. Then I didn't have cancer, that I had pre-cancer, but he would see me AFTER I HAD RADIATION. (The asshole never reviewed my chart to see that I was scheduled for a double mastectomy).
NOW....IF all I had was PRE-CANCER (not having cancer) why in the hell would I need radiation? I didn't even respond. What a moron.
Months later I saw a new ob-gyn, I was explaining that I had cancer, DCIS. She said NO, you had pre-cancer. I said no, it was cancer. Again and now sitting up like a monster trying to intimidate me, she said NO you didn't have cancer. I explained the cell progression, etc etc. I then, stood up and said, "If that is your opinion regarding DCIS I can not have you as a doctor and you are FIRED." As I was walking out the door I yelled at her that the HEAD OF THE ONCOLOGY DEPT. OF THIS CLINIC CONSIDERS DCIS AS CANCER.
I never saw her again, but I spread the word about her where ever I go.
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Woo Hoo to you! Well done!
I have a diagnosis of DCIS too. I'd hate to think that next Wednesday when I have my right breast removed that it's for nothing because I don't have cancer.
It was my choice too, and everyone close to me has backed up my decision. I am not going to reconstruct either.
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cinnamonsmiles: I understand exactly how you felt! Good for you for standing up for yourself!
beesie: Yes, both my mom and her mom have also had bladder cancer. My mom tested negative for BRACA 1 and 2. I'm hoping I will be able to have genetic testing as well...the MO I saw said that I will probably have to pay thousands for it since I don't have cancer. I'm hoping the genetic counselor will see things differently
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I did have an MO tell me that I had never had cancer with DCIS stage 0. However, when my path report came back positive as pn0(i+) the cells were called tumour cells. Why call them tumour cells if its not cancer?
Agada
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DCIS= Ductal CARCINOMA In Situ
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Tamiami,
FWIW - I was diagnosed with DCIS and had no trouble with my insurance company paying for the BRCA testing. Due to my age at diagnosis and some family history, the genetic counselor did recommend the test, but the likelihood that I carried the gene was not high. You may want to check with your insurance company ahead of time and see what they will cover.
Good luck!
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Hells bells! I just drove 2 hours to see a new MO, and he also told me that dcis is not cancer!!! I think that, to a lot of MO's, it's only cancer if you need drugs or chemo. The good news is that, after 4 surgeries, he considers me done and recommends no follow-up. Although that is a little unsettling... He is also going to have their pathologists review my slides to give me a second opinion on the diagnosis. That will be nice.
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Thanks azul~ The genetic couselors office told me that they would evaluate me and my family history and if genetic counseling was indicated, they would send my blood sample to the only lab in the US that does the testing...I think they said Iowa?...and the lab would contact my insurance company and hammer it out.
LAstar~ I think you are right about the MO's. Hope the 2nd opinnion is a good one!
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Interesting tread, my cancer center at major San Diego hospital treats DCIS as cancer. No question. My insurance company a major national health insurance provider paid for my BRCA testing (I was negative) and my nsbmx for breast cancer not prophy. On top of that my BS said standard of care for cancer patients is 7 years follow up appointments with her and/or my MO. I'm on that plan. Please don't let people like Dr. Love influence your decision on your treatment or convence you that you do not have cancer. I have male and female breast cancer and prostate cancer on my Mom's side, I made a decision to treat my DCIS the most agressive way I could.
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Jill, are you taking any meds?
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Thanks Jill!
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Hi
Just new to this but thought I would add my two cents worth. I was diagnosed with DCIS last week - calcification found on a mammogram then a vacuum assisted biopsy. When I was told the results the Dr was very clear that I had non invasive breast cancer - ie contained in the duct. I had the diagrams in front of me and even asked - so when I explain to my husband the results I have breast cancer - YES. It would be lovely to think I could just leave things but every specialist along my path has been adamant that I need to act. Lumpectomy done 10 Dec and pathology showed 5cm high grade DCIS - this was not seen on mammogram or ultrasoud - surgeon was quite shocked - me too obviously. Now definitely MX,(surgeon's advice) trying to make the decision about BX or not.
Can not understand how medically there is such a wide varience in opinion and find it scary that some Drs are down playing the danger.
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jfimp~ You hit the nail on the head...It's scary!
My BS classifies DCIS as breast cancer, as do the insurance companies (health, short term disability, and cancer insurance). The PS never said it wasn't cancer. Just the MO. I think it's partially because she doesn't have anything to treat in my case, so it's not considered cancer to HER!
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Last summer I was diagnosed with DCIS. My BS told me that because it was Grade 3, it had a greater chance of turning into "real cancer". This upset me greatly and I felt as if I was wasting his time. Despite my strong family history, I opted for a lumpectomy. I was also told by the rad tech at the hospital the day of surgery that it wasn't considered cancer either. However, my MO kept telling me how calm I was after getting a cancer diagnoses (but I thought I didn't have 'real cancer"!!!).......Anyway, fast forward a year later. A few months later I was then diagnosed in the opposite breast with IDC. In less than a year I had 2 lumpectomies, 4 rounds of chemo and 58 radiation treatments. MY BS had a whole differant attitude with the second diagnoses. It's funny how after that he would refer to the first DCIS diagnosis as "cancer."
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What a story rn4babies! Here's hoping you are well on your way to recovery!
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It seems to me that MO's are more likely to consider DCIS "not cancer" than BS's or RO's. Maybe it has to do with how one defines cancer; for example, as a neoplasm with the ability to spread to other areas of the body. Plus, every day, they deal with people who are really sick because of their cancer.
In my personal experience, my BS and RO treated my DCIS as cancer, without question. So did my insurance company. When I first met my MO, he told me that I had "pre-cancer" or "pre-invasive cancer." He also said that it was not a matter of if it will become invasive, but how long it will take to become invasive: 1 year, 2 years, 5 years, etc. So maybe he takes DCIS a little more seriously than those who believe that the majority of DCIS will never progress. And even though I am BRCA negative, due to my "extensive" family history, my MO (and BS) seem to think I am high risk for BC in the future.
For those women who have lost one or both breasts to DCIS, it must be like a slap in the face to be told by a medical professional that they did not have cancer. Where is the care in healthcare?
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Hi LAStar: No tamoxifen for me b/c of my bmx. You may be wondering why I see a MO then, well my BS/MO will split my quarterly check up's because they are located in the same cancer center and literally 200' apart. My tumor was 99% ER+ and 100% PR+ and after reading the latest news about recommendations to take tamox for 10 years instead of 5 years I'm even more glad I chose a bmx.
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Hi m4babies; your post really is the very scenerio I keep playing out in my "what if?" thinking. I have just had my second surgery (re-excision). I really struggled trying to decide between a lumpectomy or mastectomy. I kept thinking, it's not 'real' cancer. I didn't want to 'over-react' to this cancer that my family Dr. called pre-cancer and not a concern. I opted for lumpectomy but already they have me booked for follow-up on the other breast. Now I am trying to stop thinking..."What if?" I hope you that you doing well now.
jill47;I am wondering about the tamox for 10 years news. Do you remember where you heard about it? With DCIS there seems to be a lot of decisions that have to be made about what level/kind of treatment. It seems to be such a gamble and depends on that level of 'risk' each individual is comfortable with. I find the decision making the hardest part.
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Here's the link to the news story on ABC http://abcnews.go.com/Health/CancerPreventionAndTreatment/extending-tamoxifen-saves-lives-reduces-breast-cancer-recurrences/story?id=17879346
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Teresa---I just asked my oncologist about the recommendation for using tamoxifen for 10 years now. (I took it for 5 years). She said "that's only for invasive breast cancer".
anne
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I had a RO tell me it wasn't really cancer. I gave him a "look" since I was there for radiation for a positive margin after a mastectomy. He said breast cancer is on a spectrum and that DCIS is at the very beginning. I wasn't insulted. I'm glad that's the type I had. My surgeon said I needed the mastectomy for a good cosmetic result since she would have had to remove over 1/3 of the breast to get all the DCIS.
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