Winter RADS 2012 Club...Please come join the fun!
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cypher: Ok, I will have to slap YOU silly now!
I have seen that bra in different ads. Its called the Ahhhh bra I think and its also got another name and I have been so tempted to get it...I think that would be perfect! Good choice. You sure have a lot going on right when you should have some quiet and TLC. I wish that for you. Maybe the other digs will be a good thing to get you out of your work-from-home business.
jennsmc: I am surprised constantly by the lack of communication in the radiation field! Some centers seem to be very professional and patient-focused and others are not. No deodorant with aluminum. Toms of Maine doesn't have any and neither does Alra. But I was told not to use any on the radiated side. But I don't think it would have made a difference anyway.
cowpower: How'd the concert go? Take your mind off of things?
fgm: Sorry about the day. It seems to take us down the first day. You will feel better emotionally soon. Are you doing ok tonight? Crying stopped? I've been there so often I feel like breaking out in the song from Simon and Garfunkle, "hello darkness my old friend..."
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I was told I could use deodorant too, as long as it did not contain aluminum. I've tried a lot of different brands, but the one that works the best for me is this one:
http://www.30someweeks.com/deodorant.htmlI use the roll on, and the only thing I don't like about it is the white cast after it dries. The only ingredients are water and magnesium hydroxide. My RO looked at it and said it was okay to use. I've tried almost all the natural ones at the store, but none of them kept the odor away, and a couple of them were irritating. This one keeps me from smelling bad a lot longer than any of the others.
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Good evening Cowpower, Terri and all of you wonderful ladies.
I survived the first of 16! Once I got into position, I moved my unaffected hand a bit and they had to start all over again...guess I won't do that again. They were really nice about it which was great as they were backed up. They did explain every step of the way and it was reassuring. After they left the room, I wasn't even sure if anything was happening except for the odd noise and then finally the big part came up and over me.
Just like one big, long x-ray. Funny, there seem to be a lot of male techs where I go. Had one at the sims and now one today...oh well, I'm sure they have seen it all.
I'm drained...I have just over an hour drive to the Cancer Centre, daughter returning to Alberta tomorrow so have to run her to the airport after tx. Feeling emotional about everything right now, her leaving and not being home for Christmas. She has been here for over a week...I think she needed to see me and make sure I really was okay...and I am!
Have a good night
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Outdamnedspot, yay for surviving your first treatment! Whenever I have a treatment, I always get an itch somewhere or my glasses feel like they're sliding down my nose or something. I'm sure it's all psychological, but having to hold still sometimes kills me! I'm a squirmer! At our center, most of the techs are women, but I have had a couple men. The first time, I was a bit unsettled by it, but now it's like everyone's seen my chest, so what does another man matter?
I know how hard it is when the kids leave. My son lives out of state and I always bawl when he goes back home. I'm glad you were able to spend time with your daughter, and I hope she'll be back soon for a visit. Take care!
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I've been using the tom's for months, as I was advised that the other stuff wasn't good for me, at least right now. I think you lose toxins through your armpits and so preventing that isn't good. If you've been through chemo and are hairless, I think the lack of hair helps with not being too stinky. Anyway my experience with those is at first you're really stinky but after a few weeks your body adjusts or something. I kind of ended up doing little mini spongebaths in the summer in the afternoon. At least it's winter so ....
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Wow, I go and get a little port removal surgery and recover for a day and there's too much to read here!
Congrats outdamnedspot!
I had my 1st radiation treatment today too. I didn't really count how many times I was zapped. becuase I was in the same machine for at least a half hour while they x-rayed me and adjusted me and the machine, I really had little idea when it actually started. My hands got pretty numb from being up over my head for so long. I had to speak up and ask about things too but because I had already read of experiences here, I spoke up firmly but politely and asked about things. My radiation center looks like it gets a lot of elderly patients who need assistance and possibly just reassurance. I don't get the idea that the techs are used to someone quite as inquisitive as me and frankly I wasn't asking irrelevant questions. 0_o anyhoo, 1 down, 29 to go.
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With my radiation on, they are also hitting my clavicle. I noticed tonight there's some swelling in my neck and my neck has been stiff since I started treatment Monday. I have only had three treatments so far. Anybody else having swelling in their neck?
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Hi all. So glad i found this site. I had my scan and tattoos done today. My first treatment will be next Tuesday. Guess i need to be ready with the lotions and right bras. I am a D cup so not looking forward to needing to go without. Seems like if they sag a bit, skin on skin may be uncomfortable too. Any way i will have 28 treatments and I'm so glad y'all are here to help.
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Oh also, loveofcritters, I will be working from home either here or there, but it would be kind of a nice change of pace and it will be a lot less stressful if I’m in the ‘hood. The place where I did chemo is really close to my house – if I were doing radiation over there I wouldn’t be nearly so fussed about it – could just pop over, have them nuke me, pop home…. Anyway fingers crossed that I can find something, going to look at a few places tomorrow evening after they check to see if they’ve mapped my boob properly.
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Outdamnedspot ad allurbad, Break out those sharpies and start crossing off the calendars- You're on a roll now! Allurbad, having that port out is a great feeling. For me , it was a huge step forward, headwise. Been using Mederma on the scar and it seems to be working.
Loveofcritters, Thanks for asking about the concert. My son had a big solo feature for the jazz band, and that always makes me cry. For an unsentimental toughie, I am a blubbery sap when it comes to my boys. I think I will need the mobile mental health crisis team on alert for graduation in June! Hope you were able to relax a bit last evening. Today will be better, I can feel it. As you can see, like you I am having that insomnia like chemo.. For some reason, it doesnt seem to affect me during the day. Go figure.
Lifeonitsside, I am being zapped on the clavicle area, too. I am at 20/33 today. Not much neck swelling, but it is sore. Skin is sore from rads, not really red yet. Muscles sore from position during rads and also pt exercises for lymphedema. -
heidismom,
When I first started Rads a couple of weeks ago they told me that its ok to wear 'regular' deodorant and the long standing theory about aluminum being taboo is no longer the rule.
Terri
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Life....
No swellling but I have a lot of mild sunburn above the breast and what appears to be a burn like patch on my upper chest and its growing. It hurts and itches. I am using every cream I have ....RX and otherwise. I wanted to wear a bandaid during treatment but they won't let me. I need to talk to the RO about this.
Terri -
outdamnedspot,
Yippee....you are over the first bump! Congrats. I moved my non effect hand once too. Just make sure you are comfortable before you let them leave the room. I have thought what would happen if we had a cough or needed to sneeze!!!!
I found out what they are going to do on day 16 next Tuesday. The 16th day is for the boost and THEN they are going to do Sims again. HUH? I will find out more about that today. It will take an hour. The Sims was the hardest most uncomfortable part of this journey so far. I will be sure to report back. I was elated about that being the last day but now, not so much. Oh well,
Terri -
Andrea,
I have the same thing happen with my glasses. There is nothing to 'see' anyway so we should probably take them off but who am I to offer suggestion when I have not taken mine off. I also get an itch on the side of nose that drives me CRAZY. I have to think of other things or sing to myself. Thank goodness the treatment only lasts a few minute3s.
Terri -
fgm, I know we are all different as are our ROs . I can wear regular deodorant but was told all the other things you mentioned. I am large and 'have' to wear underwire. Underwires are much different than they used to be and I have had no issues. I put cornstarch powder under the breasts and underarm when I get home from Rads and so far so good. Not bothering me a bit. I have posted this suggestion on other forums.....get bramates to cushion between bra and skin if you need underwires and they irritate you. Bramates.com. I got them last year due to all the sweating I have underneath .
Terri
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Terri, I'm at the same phase, pink/ brown and beginning to itch,, but no peeling or blistering. RO gave me this suggestion to handle both: alternate using the radiaplex gel with the following concoction:
Triple skin cream compound: Mix equal parts of:
1) clotrimazole cream (like Lotrimin)
2) triple antibiotic cream (like Neosporin)
3) hydrocortisone cream (like Cortaid)
Glad to hear about the deodorant, I was starting to get nervous, even though I have it in writing that use is fine during rads. Remember in the old days when it was thought the aluminum ingredient caused breast cancer? Hmmm, maybe it's time to switch,,even though it's never been proven. -
Hi ladies,
I was told not to use any deodorant, and not to lube the boob for 5 hours before the treatment. I had my 9 treatment this morning, and am definitely pink and itchy, but only really on the boob, not the supraclavicle region. Apparently the itchiness is your hair follicles having a reaction?!?! Weird.
Anyway, I hope you are all feeling great today!
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short6-looks like we will have just about the same schedule except that I will have 33 treatments instead of 29, but will start next week also. I have my scan and tattoos today. They give us a choice of permanent tattoos or the markers. I was thinking of permanent ones. Too bad they can't put like permanent pink ribbons all over my boob! Or maybe stars would be nice...make some type of constellation on my boob.
My RO said no aluminum deodorant. He also said that his wife is an environmentalist and that aluminum deodorant isn't good for you period, but he didn't really go into the whys of it. (That goes for drinking out of aluminum cans as well.) We got off topic a little bit at that point and he also said that people shouldn't microwave things in styrofoam or in thin plastic containers either and to be on the safe side you should just microwave things on a plate. Apparently those types of containers give off carcinogens when put in microwaves...for whatever reason. I found that interesting and just thought I would pass it along.
I hope everyone is doing well with radiation so far.
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Hi everybody, glad everyone seems to be doing ok. Had 20/33 today. Switched techs after sending an email to a social worker. It was better, and i had a glass of liquid "help", nighty night.
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Sweet Dreams Loveofcritters.
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Ony way to number 21 of 25. My boob is painful today. I really can't wait for this to be over.
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Andrea, Almost there! Hang in there. Its been a long road, but you've done it all. Keep lubing the boob:)
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Thanks cowpower! Under the boob is very red and irritated and so is my underarm area. The Miaderm burned when I used it so now I'm using aloe vera gel. Glad the weekend's almost here!
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I had my X-rays and 1/28 today. So different than chemo. Sort of lonely. Not much face to face. Just a couple voices talking to me letting me know what's going on.
And I hate that cape! -
Paula, you get a cape? I just get a hospital gown!
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2/16 and I couldn't get over how pink I was last night after one! The techs were a bit taken back as well. Not surprised though as I knew this whole thing was going too well.
Slapping on the Aloe Vera Gel and glad the weekend is coming for a bit of skin-rest.
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#2 of 30 - my right boob is definitely a warmer temp than my untreated leftie but I don't think it looks pink yet. The areola (sp?) and nipple look a bit pinker than the left but that's all. Right now I'm using California Baby Sensitive Skin unscented Everyday lotion right after rads and then sea buckthorn at bedtime. This morning at about 730 I used the sea buckthorn again (it's red-orange stuff) but then took a shower near noon so it would be all clear for radiation. I figure I may as well get used to doing it three times a day which my RO figured I'd be at toward the end. It's hard for me to start a new good habit so I'm just going to do this now... I was also told no deoderant.
Anyone else usually wear a bra at night? I have ever since I was a D to DD cup. I'm probably less than that now with chemo weight loss but they (esp the unsurgeried left) are so floppy, I still don't want them falling in my armpits at night or being in the way. I wore my usual loose sports bra last night but then went braless around my house in the AM - with a loose T-shirt on of course - to let rightie "breathe". Anyone else in similar boat? or plans?
Have a good night all -
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Hi everyone! I'm a little late in joining, but better late than never. Today was 12/28 for me. I'm just a little red on my back (I'm having the supraclavicular nodes done as well as the breast).
I have a question for those who are ahead of me: when did the fatigue set in? I was doing great until today, and now I feel just wiped out.
Sweet dreams, everyone. And it's only 5:30 where I live...
Sue
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Cider, the lonely feeling was what got to me at first. 19 treatments later and I just go to my happy place in my head. You get better at being alone, I think, because the predictability makes the treatment seem faster, if that makes any sense. I also have some mental puzzles I go to if I need a diversion. A couple of times I actually think I have been close to napping. Hang in there.
Paula, what kind of cape? If its cool, I want one! If its the big silicone "bolus" you can keep it, as I already get it every other day. -
Just found this group and I'm jumping in! I started rads today. First of 33 treatments. Looks like there is lots of advice and support here. Looking forward to getting to know you all. Hoping radiation is much easier than chemo. I am worried about being tired again, as I've just started to feel like my old self again.
Blessings!
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