December 2012 chemo group

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  • kerry18
    kerry18 Member Posts: 7
    edited November 2012

    On 12/13 I will be starting Taaxol/Herceptin for 12 weeks then Herceptin every 3 weeks.  Waiting to hear when my port will be placed. 

    Good luck to all!  I am the most nervous about my hair!

    Kerry

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited November 2012

    I am most nervous about getting chemo brain.  Middle-aged brain is bad enough.

    That and falling into the small percentage that does not get a good shrinkage response.

    If I do get chemo brain, I darn well better get good shrinkage.  It's only fair.  (Not that anything about B/C is!)


  • beckstar18
    beckstar18 Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2012

    Elimar--lol at your porta-pump decorating idea :)  Gosh, I hope I look good with short hair!  How nice it would be to shave 20 minutes of my daily morning routine if I don't have to style my long hair.  I also had a short haircut when younger, unfortunately of my own accord and not parentally mandated, and I CRIED the whole way home from the salon.  And then the next day at school.  I had no idea how to style it and it was just awkward.  Maybe I'll manage a little better with it this time around ;)

    HopeFaithCourage--I've heard of chemo brain. I'm a little worried about it and hope I don't experience too much memory loss because I'm still trying to finish grad school and work full-time through all of this.  My onco recommended a clinical research study that I'll be participating in which measures cognitive function before/during/after chemo.  Doesn't require much from me other than to do 3 computer tests so I figured why not?!

    Keetmom--gosh, when it rains it pours right?  Everytime I feel like having a pity party for myself I see something someone else is going through (like how your 2012 has been) and realize it could be worse.  Your outlook is definitely inspiring, and I feel 100% that a positive outlook in times like this is really what will see us through!   

    Kerry--welcome to the group.  Keep us posted on your port.  I had mine in Tues and it was not that bad, especially compared to my bmx w/TEs!

  • Pilipinas_09212012
    Pilipinas_09212012 Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2012

    I'm getting prepped up for December chemo. About a week ago, I chopped off over a foot of my hair.  I tried on several wigs and ended up buying the same exact hairstyle and color as I have right now. My plan is to shave my head the weekend after my 1st chemo.  Port-a-cath surgery is scheduled for tomorrow.  Still waiting for the EKG and PET Scan/CT results. No distant disease please.. please! 

    I'll have 6 cycles of Taxotere-Carboplatin-Herceptin combo every 3 weeks followed by a year of Herceptin.

    I am scared... very scared!

  • beckstar18
    beckstar18 Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2012

    Pilipinas--welcome!  Best wishes for your surgery tomorrow.  And that your scans come back clean and clear.  You and I are on the same TCH combo, except I have 4 cycles.  Not sure why...they mentioned it's done either 4 or 6 but my onco said 4 for me., then Herceptin for another 9 months. I'm scared too...of the unknown.  I wish I could just start now only to KNOW how it will affect me.  Waiting for it has been hard.

  • Nanc620
    Nanc620 Member Posts: 38
    edited November 2012

    For everyone starting this week, getting ports or wig shopping I wish you well.  

  • ConnieGreene
    ConnieGreene Member Posts: 348
    edited November 2012

    I meet my oncologist today..not sure how fast things will happen from here - my nerves are fraying quickly!

    (it's a thing I do - I deny, then panic, then deal - weird I know)

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Connie~we're going to get through this together!



    Hang in there Girl..the ride may get bumpy at times, but we'll make it over this mountain!



    Blessings

    Paula

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited November 2012

    My port is in.  It's covered up so I can't take a look til tomorrow.  They put it on my non-dominant side, which is good since the muscles don't like me moving them around right now.  Found that out when I tried to put on my coat to come home.  On a little Vicodin, so not feeling bad at all.  I know a port is a good thing.  Much better than wearing out an arm vein. 

  • keetmom
    keetmom Member Posts: 432
    edited November 2012

    Survived chemo #1......only have to do 4 cycles....because we found out today it was her2-...So relieved...he was really expecting it to be positive...so I am drinking water now...and just trying to rest...but the premeds took care of stuff!

  • Bren58
    Bren58 Member Posts: 1,048
    edited November 2012

    keetmom, so glad you survived #1Smile You are a quarter of the way there!

    I go Thursday for my first and I am beginning to get that knot in my stomach.

    Steiner, sorry I didn't respond earlier. I thought I had. It was a crazy weekend with kids, spouses and granddoggies! My lung issue seems to be better, but the area on the one side of the port is still really painful. Dr is suppose to schedule another chest xray for today to check on the lung, but still haven't heard. I would rather go tomorrow anyway as the snow is coming down at a good rate and freezing rain is predicted to follow.

  • TeachInFlorida
    TeachInFlorida Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2012

    I am actually starting 11/28... but since November is nearly over I would rather join this discussion group. I am receiving my port today and starting chemo tomorrow.  Still a little freaked out about this.  I have been reading several of the discussion forums and it really does help to know people are going through the same thing. 

  • chrisvel
    chrisvel Member Posts: 14
    edited November 2012

    I only found this site yesterday and joined up. I'll start chemo on 29th Nov, 6 cycles, 3 FEC and 3 Doc (that's the german names, no idea how they translate).

    I habe been reading lots and it helps knowing a little what to expect.

    I am still undecided on wether to shave my hair off or wait till it starts falling out. My hair is already fairly short ... well I have some days more before I have to know.

    I went looking at wigs today and ended up taking the very first I tried. It was simply the best of them all, more beautiful than my own hair. It's a bit longer than my own right now, different color and well simply different but since all my family and friends and coworkers and so on know about the chemo I thought why not?

    My best wishes to all of you. I'll be hanging around here more often now.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Chrisvel~Welcome! Sorry you have a need to be here, but you're in the right place.



    I'm getting my port in next Tuesday, and starting chemo next Friday, Dec. 7.



    I have an appointment Friday for wig fitting, then the night before chemo I have an appointment to get my long auburn hair cut in a pixie. I think it will make the fallout a bit easier than all those long hairs everywhere. I doubt I'll wear the wig except to church.

    I'm thinking I may try to get it in a lighter red than my own. Have fun with it.



    Blessings

    Paula

  • FriendGwen
    FriendGwen Member Posts: 177
    edited November 2012

    Hi everyone! I have so many appointments all leading up to chemo day on the 6th. My to do list is a mile long. Since like all of us I have no idea what to expect once I start treatment, I'm trying to get as much done as possible beforehand. It's a bit overwhelming but I find it helpful to make me feel like I'm in control of the situation.

    I find myself thinking about something coming up later in December or in 2013 and thinking about my hair, or lack of, and how I might be feeling. I'm pretty sure it will be a bald Xmas. And possibly a wiped out New Years Eve. Put I also picture myself lying in the sun this summer rocking a cute pixie cut and thinking what a survivor I am to have weathered this storm!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    FriendGwen~I like your attitude!



    Rock that look Baby! As far as anyone knows, that's the look you were trying to achieve all along.



    Blessings

    Paula

  • chrisvel
    chrisvel Member Posts: 14
    edited November 2012

    FriendGwen - I know exactly what you mean about the to-do-list ... feels like there's so much to do before Thursday, but I am glad when the waiting is finally over, sometimes that's the worst ... waiting for the next appointment, the next this .. that and so on.

    I'm as prepared as I'll be. I think I know what to expect.

    Thinking about next summer is a great idea! Nice short hair, lying in the sun and trekking all over the Isle of White that's what I look forward to.

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited November 2012

    HAIR.  Somewhere on this discussion board was a great idea for making your own "chemo wig" using your own hair.  It took taped sections of hair cut from your head and velcroed them along the border of a cap for a very natural look.  If I can find the thread, I will post the link.  It did not look that difficult to do.

  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 948
    edited November 2012

    meet with my onc today to discuss The Plan.  He wants to do the oncyotype DX test.  So I have to wait for those results to come back in, he's hoping 2 weeks.  I hate all this damn waiting. 

  • beckstar18
    beckstar18 Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2012

    Keetmom, I am glad your first treatment went well! I hope your SE remain minimal for the next few days.  How often are you going?  I'm every 3 weeks, start next Tues.  I'm very nervous for the first session, just not knowing what to expect.  I have chemo class tomorrow so hopefully that will answer a lot of questions for me and make me feel more "ready". 

    Jenjen, sorry about more waiting. :(  That's definitely been the worst part for me.  Is your onc doing the Oncotype test to determine whether or not to do chemo? 

    FriendGwen, love your outlook.  Yes...rockin' a pixie cut while lying in the sun poolside.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Hello my fellow warriors! I will start 6 rounds of TAC on the 13th. My port was installed a couple of weeks ago.  The doc just took off the bandage strips yesterday, and now I am seeing some small bumps on the port site.  Not sure if that is part of the machinery and I'm just now noticing or if I am beginning to breakout.  I have noticed it was a little itchy today.  Good gosh almighty I hope I'm just being paranoid. 

    Anyone doing any integrative methods with treatments? My onc suggested acupuncture. I'm hoping to keep up exercising (or should I say start back up).  I was finally getting into solid shape and feeling good before surgery, then started walking again until the port was placed.  Now I feel like I am starting over all over again, and can't help but think I would have been so much better off to face chemo pre-surgery.

    jenjenl I was in your shoes following surgery.  Thought I'd jump right into chemo, but had to wait for the oncotype results, which came back at 26.  Have to be 25 or lower to not do chemo.  That was a blow, but also somewhat of a relief because I just kept thinking "what if I don't have to do chemo . . . but should". That decision was pretty much made for me.  The one I'm struggling with is radiation. Then I decided to get a second opinion and had to wait another 2 weeks to see that doc.  But, here I am and all scheduled out to the last cocktail hour on 3/28/2013.

  • MommyGoth
    MommyGoth Member Posts: 3
    edited November 2012

    Hello all!

    Have first chemo 11/29, so thought makes sense to join Dec. group. 4 rounds FEC then weekly Taxol for 6 weeks. Trying to shrink tumor first then surgery may or June? Got my port last week. Here's hoping chemo goes as smoothly as the port.

    Don't know what type of port you have Skimommi, but mine is triangular and has reference bumps for them to know where to put the needle. Got to test drive it for my Muga. Way better than playing hide n seek with my veins!



    Have been doing pixie cuts for years and love playing with makeup and jewelry to set them off. Started collecting cute little hats some months ago. Planning on looking at bald as a creative opportunity! Love the idea of henna tattoos , may try that on warmer weather this summer when I'm Rad bald instead of chemo bald.



    Good luck to all and NO SE!

  • Runnergirl2013
    Runnergirl2013 Member Posts: 83
    edited November 2012

    Hi all...went to Sloan Kwrtering for a second opinion today....they recommended 8 rounds of CMF versus my Milwaukee docs recommended 3 rounds of TC. I don't know what to do and what regimen to choose.



    Did anyone else face this?



    CMF Is a older regimen w less side effects but last six months (versus 3 months with TC).



    I didn't get an oncotype score Ecause it came back inconclusive as my tumor was too small. Ugh



    CMF is supposedly a tiny bit less effective as compared to TC bit there is no true stats as far as can find.



    So it's a guessing game as to what to do....any thoughts or advice? I just want to move forward and I don't know how to decide

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Runnergirl~What type of cancer are you dealing with? Is it hormone receptive? Her2 neu positive or negative?



    I can't really answer your question, but I'd want to throw everything at the cancer I could get a hold of if I were you. So, if it were me, I'd go with the newer drugs. They use those more now for good reason.



    I hope someone on here can help you more than I can.



    Blessings

    Paula

  • Runnergirl2013
    Runnergirl2013 Member Posts: 83
    edited November 2012

    I have a grade 1 .6cm tumor that is ERPR+ and HER negative. I had a micromet in one lymph node



    I agree to be aggressive but funny how Sloan Kettering one of the top rated cancer hospitals would recommend a less aggressive chemo. I am totally confused

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Runner~I'm also ER/PR+ her2 neu negative.



    My tumor was rather large and I had a lot of lymph nodes involved, but I thought for this diagnosis the main chemo was Adria/cytoxan.



    Were the doctors good at explaining and answering all your questions?



    Was the tumor IDC? Maybe that's the difference. What type of tumor did you have?



    Blessings

    Paula

  • Runnergirl2013
    Runnergirl2013 Member Posts: 83
    edited November 2012

    Sorry I thought my info was showing up under each post.yes it was IDC. :)

  • keetmom
    keetmom Member Posts: 432
    edited November 2012

    Steiner....Honestly at 2 days I am not doing to bad...a bit tired today but otherwise not bad..I will be going every 3 weeks too..Going to try to get the kids St Nick stuff today because by next week I should be avoiding Target...

    Yesterday was the first day since surgery (11-9) that I did my normal routine...not doing to much house work yet as I am still on lifting restrictions but took kids to school and stuff...getting into the normal routine helps ALOT!

  • Bren58
    Bren58 Member Posts: 1,048
    edited November 2012

    Skimommi, I had my port put in last week and finally got off all the sticky glue from the steri strips. I too have little red bumps in the port area. I am guessing they are a reaction to that darn tape. Boy that stuff was a mess to get off! If they are still there tomorrow I will ask the nurses/onc when I go for chemo tomorrow.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Runnergirl~I'm stumped! I really thought Adria/cytoxan followed by taxol or taxetere was the main drugs for idc. But, really, what do I know?



    Somebody else chime in here!



    Runner~Check the idc thread. The 2012 girls is a good one.



    They've been through this longer than I have, and there's a lot of really good ladies on there.



    I pray you get all the answers you need.



    Blessings

    Paula

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