girlfriend w stage 4 breast cancer

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dinocencio
dinocencio Member Posts: 6
edited June 2014 in Caring for Someone with Breast cancer

I don't. Understand

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  • dinocencio
    dinocencio Member Posts: 6
    edited November 2012

    Want truth full replies

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  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 8,458
    edited November 2012

    Dinencio, what are you asking?

    We can't answer what you don't ask.

    Leah

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  • justjudie
    justjudie Member Posts: 3,397
    edited November 2012

    I was wondering the same thing. Leah

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  • dinocencio
    dinocencio Member Posts: 6
    edited November 2012

    Sorry for the misunderstanding! Gf Dx in Feb 2012 been together for 18 months been though 3 different chemos tumor not removed yet because its 2 big Gf looks healthy what to say when Gf says she is going to get cured she says the less she knows about her illness the better she can handle it. She felt a lump 6 yrs ago never checked until 2/2012 1st Dx stage 4 . Lots of ??? Where to begin? Thanx

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  • CelineFlower
    CelineFlower Member Posts: 875
    edited November 2012

    Begin with her...

    she has answers... and maybe questions too..

    stage 4.. means it is not only localised in the breast but has spread to other areas...

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  • billyb
    billyb Member Posts: 14
    edited November 2012

    Dino, get informed about breast cancer... sometimes what u say might be totaly loving in your mind..but in a womens mind with cancer it might be the most insenstive thing they ever heard...be understanding there are up and there are downs. My wife was dianosed with stage 4 breast cancer in june 2007. ( at 31 years old - we had been married 3 years ) 2 weeks ago she was diagnosed with therapy related aml..despite what were going thru we have a good life....we are tighter than paint on a stop sign..its important for u to talk to other men in your sisuation or you WILL become overwelmed...cancer dosent have to be a death sentence.....sometimes it just a setback if u want to respond to this ill give u my number

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  • dinocencio
    dinocencio Member Posts: 6
    edited December 2012

    Talked to MD some days ago said. My gf will die from. Cancer gf does not no this planning vacation doesn't. Want to face the truth what to do what to say only Dr and iknow the whole. Story. Been thru 5 different chemos dr said not satisfied with any of the results tumors not shrinking

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  • dinocencio
    dinocencio Member Posts: 6
    edited December 2012

    Talked to MD some days ago said. My gf will die from. Cancer gf does not no this planning vacation doesn't. Want to face the truth what to do what to say only Dr and iknow the whole. Story. Been thru 5 different chemos dr said not satisfied with any of the results tumors not shrinking

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  • dinocencio
    dinocencio Member Posts: 6
    edited January 2013

    Visited w dr Wednesday, gf got terrible news.dr stated that she had two choices 1:try iast chemo(navelbine) 2:stop all chemo and wait for end.gf still in shock and. Wants to try holistic cures what are the chances of a positive outcome really just want to vent I know nobody has answers

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  • Godspeed
    Godspeed Member Posts: 61
    edited January 2013

    Dinocencio, I am truly sorry to hear the news. I will pray for her, and you. As you said, I don't think anyone on earth has an answer for her cure, holistic or otherwise. Listen to her, see what she wants. See if she wants to continue the chemo or not. Prayer can give hope in this earth, and beyond. Salvation is a free gift from Christ. Still, you are in a very difficult position, and I know you are worried, so I do hope that you can find hope. I hope you can find a little peace in this storm.

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