The Hermit Club
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Oh to be young! I rarely leave the house after sundown, and even go to matinees at the movie theater. When did I become an old fogie?
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Cami- hope you are well and get some sleep again.
Markat - congrats ... I'm sure everything will be fine.
Teka ... and the sun sets so early this time of year.
Seems like they are happy with xray not being mets .. yeah ... but doesn't totally explain pain issues.
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LOL!!! You guys crack me up!!! I did not log on yesterday and I come here tonight and have 3 pages to read! You have been busy!
Bgirl thanks for bringing over the bus! Just don’t tell that it was me when they find the pile of bodies under it!!!
Yes, there are days that “I hate everyone because of everything!” LOL Camille love your “art” work!!
Markat Yeah! On the clear US! Maybe the pulled muscle is from laughing at Camille’s “art” work.
Roids…Oh, my I had the WORST case of ROID RAGE imaginable. I was so mad and bad and mad and bad and mad! I hated myself! Not to mention what anyone else thought. I complained to my MO that I was “the bi**h from hell” I could tell by the look in his eye that he “knew” all about this ROID RAGE I was having. He very “sweetly” reminded me that there was just a few more treatments. I contemplated quitting chemo it was SO bad! AAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Boy the whole transplant thingeee gives a whole new meaning to “someone giving you a bunch of sh*t”. I have never heard of that either and I work in the medical field.?.?.?. Camille I hope that they are able to help you SOON! Bless your heart for having to deal with this for so long!
Bgirl - Good news on good x-rays!
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Long live old fogies who can laugh about the indignities required to survive!
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Fl warrior - you could always plead roid rage ... wonder if that is like the insanity defense. hmmm ... now might be the time to get rid of the annoying people while you have an excuse.
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Jane I hate to say this but sometimes they can't explain alot of things LOL Just lad it's ok
Teka I'm the old one on here...so u'r not an old fogee--I don't go out an night either--none of my friends do musch, except we augh now cuz we go to Lunch our whole lives we met for dinner and vlosed the place now it's lunch no one can drive at night anymore. LOL
These young wippersnappers have to go out they have young kids and they do alot of things. but we like hermits here cuz they'd rather not right now. And I just don't want to go out actually alot of the time.
But the girls on here are so sweet they don't care I'm an oldie but goodie LOL So don't stay away cuz of age--this is a great group here really u'll be super comfy here.
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Thanks ladies!!
Bgirl- yay about the xray! But I totally understand about questioning the pain. My liver area still hurts.
Camille- thanks for understanding! Hope you're feeling good tonight.
Cute puppies! -
I feel like prior BC treatments sucked the frisky out of this 60+ year old.
However, I am going to get busy cleaning and planning Thanksgiving dinner.
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Teka Good Luck--I plan nothing I just enjoy and u'r younger than me sh*t--I thought I got someone older hahaha I love u'r avatar--I have a kitty too names Katie-Kat
Wait u'r in NY were u all right with the storm>?
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Teka is a Maine Coon. We were high and dry during Irene and Sandy. Thank You for the kind words, but I still feel like an old fogie.
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Oh I understand that this has aged me even more---like 10 years really I hate it.
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Oh my, im gone for a day and i have 3 pages to catch up on. You have been busy little hermits. I have been at work and i have to be in a midnight tonight, im tired and i don't want to go!!! I have to though, the studios are releasing spiderman tonight and i have to be there to represent the movie Studio!!
Ok im hoping everyone is well, i will go back and read now so i can catch upChey</p>
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Wow u sound like u have an exciting job ---Geeze what do u do Chey?
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Teka- glad you were away from the storm! We all may be different ages and have different backgrounds, but we all support each other and laugh and cry together!
Chey- that sounds like an interesting career. What do you do work-wise? Doesn't sound very hermitty, lol. -
markat- Its not!! I have to be out smiling!! Yuk!! Lol
i work for the major movie studios and record producers, like Disney,Fox, universal , all the top studios..i promote the NR movies, i attend the movie premieres .... movies being released on video, i make sure they are not released before the street date, i promote all the top 100 music artiest , i attend concerts, i make sure no retailer put the music out before its street date as well, big fines.. I work out of LA calif, but i do most everything, through TCS system.
i do red carpet premieres for major motion pictures, that is FUN! Hehe
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Seriously people, I cannot keep up. Now I have even more to catch up on.
Chey - interesting job!
markat - congrats on the job.
camille - sorry about the ER visit
glad they didn't keep you but so sorry they can't get you some answers
jane - yay on the xray I have the "we don't know" issue with my rib pain. I had a PET at dx, it was fine. When I complained for a couple months after chemo, had a rib xray, nothing. so frustrating but so glad nothing else has shown up.
teka - pretty cat! I have two...they are lazy and fat boys.
FL - I didn't have roid rage so much but I do get mean as hell on painkillers if I take them during the day.
Skittle - are you a teacher? Ihave a degree in elementary ed but I decided I hate other people's kids so its not working out for me.
whaevah - hi.
Lisa - why was the mo visit so bad?
Is that everyone...I need to stay more caught up. Had a "dry run" planning CT at the RO yesterday and go back for actual simulation today. Totally miscalculated the time - he said 28 tx and I was thinking 28/7 is 4 weeks. Duh, you don't go on the weekend. So if I want to finish before the end of the year, I need to start next week. Otherwise, my 100% coverage will be over and I will have to start over with insurance.
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GM--OK u guys u can not make me laugh I hurt really bad--
Kl u'r hysterical--I don't like other peoples kids hahahahaha that is so funny. So u can teach if u want to, but don't want to. LOL
Chey u job sounds fun fun fun--OMG u go to red carpet events u have to get all dressed up Where do u get u'r clothes and jewelry? U've got to tell me that--Maybe I can't talk cancer but I can talk about those things. LOL
Markat do u realize u'r job start in just a few weeks---are u ready? I'm so glad it's part time for now it'll get u out some.
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Nope camille, I don't want to. I taught 2 years straight out of college, quit when DH and I moved around a little and worked various jobs because I knew we would be having kids and I wanted to stay home w/them. Kids got older, I decided to start working but had let my certification lapse, got recertified and in 2011 I was doing a lot of long term subbing jobs while still working PT in retail. I was just doing the retail when I was dx this spring and quit that job, and sure didn't want to be around little kids while I was in chemo, etc... Now I just don't have any desire to get back into it. There is so much work that is involved in being a teacher nowadays, even outside the school day and I just don't have the passion for it. Plus you have to kill someone or sleep with them to get a job in the schools around here.
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I don't blame u Kl--I always said being a teach is super hard work and kids of all kind. Blah LOL
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Lol Ribbons! My cat's favorite. And ponytail holders. She likes to drop those in the toilet for some reason.
Chey- what an amazing job! That sounds so cool. Hope you got some rest.
Camille - I know! I went to fill out paperwork today and I started getting a little nervous! My last herceptin should be right before Christmas break, so that's good.
K - I hear you on the insurance crap. It sucks. -
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FUNNY stuff! Thanks for the laugh!
Me, I'm OK. I did a nice leg work out BUT...I have a patchy bald head. I've taken two showers today, with the hopes that when I get out of the shower, all my hair will be gone. It is of course, everywhere but on my head.
I thought I'd do OK with this. Ha! I've been pissed at my hair for like, my whole life, and even liked the buzz cut. It worked with long earings, etc. THIS really took me by surprise!
For those of you who have had long beautiful hair and have lost it, I mourn your loss. I really thought I wouldn't care but it looks, like, SO gross!
I'm grateful for my nice wigs. I'll be happier when the last of my hair has washed down the drain.
Hope everyone is having an OK day and thanks for letting me whine and complain!
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Omeggo- I'm sorry about your hair. It can be depressing at first...but for me it was kinda okay. I had long hair, it was thick and wild. I either wore it wavy or had to straighten it everyday. It was kind of nice not having to deal with it for awhile! LOL. It's easy for me to say that now because it's been almost a year since I've been through what you are going through, so I don't mean to sound passive or anything. I really loved scarves. Silk to be exact
Hated my super pricy wig that was specially made for my mellon head. Do you have to get Herceptin?
I went grocery shopping tonight! At my regular store, not the remodeled one. I have a wicked bad headache and nothing is touching it. Wah. The 7 year old has caught whatever DH had last week, so we are just relaxing.
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kit--yep. I teach. (but no sleeping/killing for my job!) :-) Some days I love it, and some days not so much. It's more from parent friction than kids, though. You wouldn't believe the stories... I love their energy and humor and honesty about what they think and feel. It's exhausting and the kids wonder why I'm freezing all the time, but life goes on and we have a lot of fun.
chey--wow. glamorous excitement. Teaching sounds pretty drab in comparison. It must be exhausting, though, too--and rewarding.
omeggo--complain all you want. Venting is healthy for the soul!
markat--love your spirit. Hope that headache goes away soon.
camille--I agree wholeheartedly with the age thing--I know I've added at least 10 years going through this mess. But I love your feisty edges.
teka--gorgeous Maine Coon. My bff in Topsham, ME, has a trio of them. Huge with massive paws. Enormous purrs. Glad Sandy left you in peace.
wishing all hermits a peaceful weekend
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Hi guys--I'm sure u'r tuched in bed---I hope.
Markat I'm sorry about u'r headache put a cool something on u'r head too. That helps me besides taking something.
Omeggo I'm sorry too for u--I didn't have really long hair it it was crummy to care for so I was actually glad to have it shaved.I mostly wore hats tho and my big old sparkly earrings. LOL But I know how when u really have long and pretty hair I think I'd be upset too. But it will be back.
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Hi Hermits!
I should be all tucked in bed and will be soon.
I have to tell you, I will be crawling out of my hermit shell for a while tomorrow. I am going to go have lunch at The Cheesecake Factory with some of the local BCO sisters. Really looking forward meeting some of the ladies from the boards! There has been several get-togethers, but this is my first time to get to join in.
Omeggo I feel your pain! Glad you have found wigs you like! I was one with long hair prior to chemo. Actually, I had long hair all my life. I totally freaked out about loosing my hair. Luckily, I had a wig that I liked and I wore it for 9 months. I would not go out the front door without it. It took my hair a good 3 weeks to finish shedding and I never lost it ALL. You can "shave" your head if you want to get past this stage. Lots of the ladies do that. I buzzed mine to 1/4 but never "shaved". The good news is it does grow back!
Camille ROFL at your Washington State pic!!! Too funny! Hope your pain is gone!
Markat hope that headache is gone by now. Also hope your DD is better!
Happy Weekend to all!
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FL that sounds so fun --when u actualy meet people that u know but don't know--I'm glad to hear u won't be a hermit tomorrow. Tell us how it goes and hace a piece of cheesecake.
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