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Nice article!! I think you look fab. Wish I could be there to sample some of your bakery items. I like the fact that the money actually helps those in treatment! Thanks!
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Momine, Cheetos IS a junk food, but I am coming from the same place oas Barbe, (who honestly depicts what so many teens do consume at school, out of the watchfuul eye of mom and dad.) Also, school lunches have a lot of questionable stuff right on the menu, so it is a little hypocritical to "single out" the Cheetos. I always felt that it was my job to offset just about everything n the school menu.
Dianarose, Love, love, love the article on you. You look good. As a sister who has never seen you before, I can say your face does not look horribly misshapen or anything, but sorry that the steroids is doing that so you can notice. While it may not be at the top of the nutrition pyramid, your "cream puff pie" sounds sinfully good! You must get a kick out of all the "virtual baking" we do on this thread, when we show up with our treats.
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Welcome, Jomama2!
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Diana, The article on you was great! You look fantastic. Wish I was closer so I could buy some of those cookies
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Dinarose you look good, I was trying to find out more info about the Zumba instructor in your local paper
Charlotte
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Elimar, yeah, I guess it may be silly to single out cheetos, but in that case, the situation muct be really abysmal. I don't think softdrinks, donuts etc should be available in schools either.
Dianerose, nice article, good job! Like Elimar, I think you look fine, but I guess that when you are not on steroids, you look even finer
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Welcome, JRyan and NYCchutzpah, to this thread.
Are the Newbies (to this thread) all friends of Dianarose, stopping by to say how good she looks? D-rose, you have a good cheering section!
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Hi elimar,
Not one of Dianarose's "friends", just cheering her on! I have been on some of the other threads since my roller coaster ride began, but thought I would jump in here, since I fall in the parameters and am always on this site getting info and support, as well as offering what I can
Thanks for the welcome!
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Great article Dianarose. I like how you got to put in the remarks about pinkwashing!!! And I agree-I think you look fine & dandy!
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Diana,How incredibly awesome!! The article is wonderful and you look fantastic!! And very proud of all those ribbons and awards, as you should be!!! I got hungry just reading the article.
Welcome to all the newbies! We are a fun group here and supportive whenever we have tests, appts or scans. Just let us know and we will hop in your pocket for a POCKET PARTY or PP for short. Eli always brings the Cheetos, it was hard to get her to share at first but now she brings enough for a small third world nation. I on the otherhand tend to splurge on the chocolate treats--expecially since there are calories allowed in our PP's. Speaking of parties, isn't it FRIDAY NIGHT? Happy hour anyone?
pass the Pinot Grigio!
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My newest granddaughter, Lydia Grace. She is 11 weeks old. She is so good. Eats, smiles, and sleeps. I had her and my 2 yr old granddaughter this afternoon while my daughter did some things. I will admit I am tired now. I will be so sad when they go back to NC on Sunday.
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Welcome to all the newbies- This is an awesome thread for info and support. Everyone is so great.
cmbear- happy hour sounds wonderful. I am on an off chemo week so I let my son buy me a rum and coke the other night. It was delicious. I would have liked one more, but I behaved. I finish my last chemo on my brothers b-day, so we are going to celebrate together.
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Dianarose, I think you look great. Wouldn't have known you were on steroids by looking at your picture. Pastry chef? That's awesome. And you are skinny to boot! I would be in trouble if I was a pastry chef.
New people! Yay. Bumbs me up in seniority by two. Welcome! Eph made me a fabulous Cheetos cake when I came to hang out here. -
Elimar, is that your dog up there decency the Cheetos? I didn't realize they make them baked. I just love mine puffy.
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Decency? Oh I love autocorrect.....supposed to say "defending the Cheetos"
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Nope, Beckers, that is not my mutt, although mine has partaken of a few Cheetos over the years. My houndog 16 1/2 yars old. Just how ancient is she? Well, she's unsteady on her hind legs and falls over a lot. Last week, I saw a turkey vulture in the yard TWICE! So, I guess you can say she is on vulture watch these days. Poor old girl. I told that story to a friend who just had a birthday. He said he is "keeping the vultures off" too. Yes, and aren't we all?
Dianarose, that is a little sweetheart you have there. Wonder if Marlegal's new grandson will go for an "older woman?" Can't help it...I have a bit of the baby matchmaker in me.
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Awww Dianarose, Lydia is so adorable!
Beckers, i am a Cheeto fanatic! My daughter catches me with my orange fingers often
Happy hour sounds good. Enjoying a nice iced sweet tea vodka with lemonade. YumIt's like summer in a glass.
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JRyan,
I am jealous! I don't think I can drink alcohol with ER+ BC....or do I even know what I'm talking about? I'm under the impression I can't. I need a do not eat, drink, put on my skin, wear, go, or eat off of list since I now have BC I think.
What is a turkey vulture El? I am so Californian...ha! -
Dianarose, what a wonderful article about your baking & fundraising. You look fabulous, sista! All those ribbons, wow! Without asking you to divulge your recipe (only if you want to, that is!), what is in a cream puff pie? Anything like a cream puff? And your new little granddaughter is precious.
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Beckers, apparently alcohol is bad news generally if you have BC. However, if you stay under 3 drinks a week, it ought to be OK. At least that is what I tell myself. Usually 2X a week I allow myself one glass of wine with dinner.
As for the food list, you will find it here: http://foodforbreastcancer.com/food-list.php
I am trying not to go to nutso over it, although I haven't been doing a very good job. Add to the bitch of it that femara can raise cholesterol and sugars. So, I had basically cut all white carbs, cut red meat, cheese and eggs down to an absolute minimum (2 eggs a week, red meat once every month, maybe). The result being that shrank completely. Now I have to try to gain a bit of weight, and am finding that it is really not easy if your diet excludes the above.
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Thanks Momine. I'm carrying 50# extra, >95% ER +, have fatty, enlarged liver, seeing dietician this week and just need to get serious. BC is a wakeup call. Started Tamoxifen last week. Not sure what it dies to cholesterol and all. I just have to try.
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JRyan,
My son just moved to Portland. He loves it. I'm coming Dec 1-5. First time there. Any recommendations on what we can't miss seeing.
(I think I have tamoxifen insomnia. I may try the glass of wine. It's 1:20 am!) -
Beckers, I can highly recommend myfitnesspal-dot-com for keeping track of nutrition and exercise.
Also, the diet I adopted during chemo apparently is very efficient at getting you to lose weight. Basically I tried to eat as many veggies as possible, aiming for 8-10 servings a day. To achieve that, it is easiest to eat the veggies raw (they take more room that way). I think you will find that if you eat a large helping of veggies at both lunch and dinner, your appetite for the rest of the food spectrum will fairly quickly get smaller.
Cabbage or bok choy based salad is good and filling, as is tomato salad. I also keep canned artichoke hearts around to add to salads, and you can add a bit of cooked chicken as well if you like. Use olive oil or yogurt as a base for dressing and skip those questionable bottled ones from the market.
The other thing I did was to eliminate all white starch and almost all sweets. This was tricky at first, but once you get used to it, it really is not half bad. I do eat carbs, but things like sweet potato, whole grain bread (not the squishy kind from the supermarket, from a crunchy-granola place), quinoa, lentils etc. This also majorly ups your fiber intake, which is a good thing for all kinds of reasons, including getting rid of excess estrogen. I do eat a sweet once in a while, but save it for when it is really worth it, like my southern girlfriend's homemade lemon-meringue pie or some really good chocolate.
If I make pancakes or other baked things, I make them with oats and buckwheat flour (lower glycemic index than wheat).
You should be able to improve your QOL by a huge amount if you can get your weight down some.
Are you able to exercise at all?
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Thanks so much, Momine, for that handy link to the list of foods. I haven't looked through it yet, but bookmarked it because questions always come up. Is the list updated periodically, do you know?
I have read that Tamox. can have a slight lowering effect on cholesterol, but it can elevate the triglycerides. My trigl. numbers have been up about 20 points (tho' still in normal range) for about the last 3 years. Is it the Tamox., or did my natural menopause do it, or both? No way to separate the two.
The alcohol guidelines seem to fluctuate every now and then. The last pronouncement came out a couple years ago and was a hot topic at that time. BCO say the following:
I know a lot of women like their dinner wine (or their jello shots for that matter) so, once again, each individual has to come to their own decision if they want to be limited by the guidelines. I don't have a taste for alcohol, so for me this one is a breeze. I am sure that a lot of you are just like me in wondering whether if there are (let's suppose) 10 factors that you can do to lower risk and you follow eight of them to the letter, but cheat a bit on two of them, do you wind up with the eliminated eight protecting you, or do the naughty two cancel the others out? THAT is the part of the equation that no one has figured out yet.
I really think we ALL are willing to make some changes in total lifestyle. I also think there is probably NOT A ONE of us that is doing EVERYTHING single thing possible to lower risk. Yes, my fellow humans, I am saying I bet we all cheat (*) a little. So, the question becomes are we DOING ENOUGH??? No one knows the answer. Considering all that, I say try to make a conscious effort to lower your risk, but don't go guilt trippin' if you are not perfect.
(*) Like if you did up Oktoberfest properly, and drank "just two" of these liter mugs, I'd say a little cheating went on.
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Elimar, I did not mean to imply that 2 drinks a week is totally safe or even a great idea, but all the articles I saw on this, including the one you posted, recommended keeping alcohol to 3 drinks or less a week, IF you are not ready to give it up completely.
I imagine that for everyone, it is a matter of weighing risk, QOL and various other factors. I will do a fair amount, and I have changed my diet and general lifestyle quite a bit, but I also need to feel normal or whatever you want to call it.
As for the list of foods, I don't know if it is updated, nor do I know how seriously one should take it. But I do check it every so often and read what research it has for any given food.
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Hi all, I've been following this group for a while, and I think it's time to join (before I'm too old). You are a fun crowd, and I think I'll love pocket parties. BTW, I'm not giving up alcohol! Being half Italian, drinking wine is part of my cultural heritage. The other half is Mexican, so I like margaritas too!
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I don't drink often, but really wanted one last night. So... :-)
Beckers, Portland is so beautiful. I highly recommend the waterfall loop in the gorge. Dinner at Salty's on the Columbia.
Thanks for the food link Momine. I will be looking into that. These 20 chemo pounds are driving me nuts.
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Welcome, TAB55! Because of a discussion on another thread I joined in on, I'm curious whether you had the Oncotype done? If so, what was your score and how did YOU arrive at no chemo? Sorry if I am grilling you. Seems like having just a couple nodes involved is the new "gray area."
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Thank you Momine for the list of foods and fitness information!!!!
Thank you too JRyan for Portland info. My son is thriving there....he just loves it. That does a Mom's heart good.
Welcome tab55. This IS a fun place to hang out.
Hope everyone is enjoying the weekend. -
Elimar...."jello shots" hey, you never know!
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