Any Stats on higher chances of recurrence for Grade 3 Cancer
Hi you'll
I'm a concerned daughter. I love my mom and wished she lived eternally. Mom lives with me and all was great. I had just gave birth to my 2nd son when the world came crashing on us. Mom diagnosed with BC.
Nevertheless, we stayed positive and went ahead with what was needed to be done. 1st Mastectomy with axillary clearance and now Rads. Afterwhich she will be on Femara or Arimidex for some time.
Mom is 74, we opted out for chemo, so was both the Onc who did not recommend chemo.
My fear and thoughts are more towards have we done enough to TRY to avoid recurrence while hoping she can have a comfortable few more years to live and not really be diagnosed with a recurrence.
But this is the catch - her path report is: 3cm Tumor, Grade 3, 1/17 nodes.
Do I need to know more? All I know is Grade 3 is an aggressive type . . .
So confused and need some insights. I have been reading a lot on this forum and my prayers go out to everyone of you making this journey.
We never know what lies ahead but make the best of the moments we have.
Please do give me some feedback.
Mummy's Gal.
We did all except chemo due to her age.
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Ugh, I just rplied and lost my post! I am so sorry you are going through all of this, it sounds like you care for your mom very much. Why did they say no chemo? Just because of her age or because of her health? My grandma had chemo at the age of 80 for colon cancer and then lived another 22 years, yep, to the age of 102, and she was pretty darn active! Grade 3 responds very well to chemo, but she may respond very well to the anti hormonals also. Did you get a second opinion? If age is the only reason they do not want to do chemo, I would get another opinion. Please keep us posted.
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Hi bak94,
Thanks for taking the effort to reply although you lost the post 1st time.
Good insight on your granny. A tough lady indeed!
Actually, here in Malaysia I think the onc's are very conservative and not risk takers. I went to 3 onc's and all had the standard answers. I checked up the NCCN guidelines for older women with BC but fail to comprehend the treatment required.
My mum is a "good" 74 with no history of diabetic, heart or any surgery before. She breeze thru' her mastectomy as well. Thus, you do make sense that why not chemo? The onc's are saying that chemo will deteriorate whatever remaining quality of life she could enjoy, thus AI and rads should keep her going. I'm just "edgy" and not satisfied.
Will seek another opinion soonest.
Thanks and hoping to hear more insights on my dillema.
God bless! -
Yes, definitely get an opinion from the best hospital in your area.
I am in Australia and suspect that the standard of care here would include chemo.
You can ask the onc for survival predictions with and without chemo.
There are calculators that can give stats on this.
Wishing you amd your mum well. Keep posting to let us know how you get on. -
The Oncotype DX test is now being done on ER+ Stage 1 and 2 tumors that have up to 3 positive nodes. The Oncotype DX test measures recurrence rate and need for chemo. Unless your mother has co-existing health issues, which I understand you believe she doesn't have, I would strongly recommend that the test be done immediately. It takes several weeks for the specimen to be analyzed.
What a great daughter you are! I wish you both the very best. -
Dear Racy
Thanks for the advise. I shall go on with my search for more opinions. Since the onc mentioned to my mum she does not need chemo, she had also set her mind towards that direction.
Nevertheless, I think one of the onc's did show me the adjuvant online thingy as well.
Shall keep my search updates posted. Thanks again.
Dear Voracioureader
Thanks on the onco type DX suggestion. I did not ask and not sure if they have it here in Malaysia. Will look it up.
Mothers are precious and I'm just trying to give her the best.
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You should find out if she's HER2 positive or negative, ER positive or negative, etc. There is much more to this than just Grade. Grade 3 means her cells were more malformed than grade 1 or 2, and usually it correlates to a more aggressive cancer, but no, that doesn't mean she'll recur. People of all grades relapse and people of all grades never see cancer again.
The good news is that the older you are when cancer is found, usually the more indolent it is. Even though it's grade 3, it might not be aggressive in other ways. She may not need chemo at all and can do very well with a mastectomy alone.
If she's HER2+, then she should do chemo and herceptin. With a 3 cm tumor, there would be no escaping chemo here in the US, unless she was completely debilitated. If she is ER+ but HER2-, they can do a test called an Oncotype which will calculate her risk or recurrance and chances of chemo helping her, based on her tumor type. This only works for ER+ ladies and it sounds like she is since she's on Arimidex.
Chemo won't destroy her quality of life, especially if she is a healthy lady. I sit in the infusion room and most of the women there are in their 70s and some 80s and a few 90s. I'm often the youngster in my early 50s. They all go home and tell stories about what they are going to cook for dinner and weekend plans the like. They do just fine. Sure, it'll make her a bit tireder than normal but she'll be okay.
So, the doctor is wrong about quality of life (unless they have some completely different kind of chemos in Maylasia). If you have a major cancer hospital there, that's where you should go. And, herceptin is a must if she's HER2+. That means her cancer is very aggressive but it can be treated with herceptin.
Good luck!
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My 70+ year old aunt was dx'd a few month before I was, and she had chemo. She also has dealt with heart issues for decades. She survived chemo and is still in remission going on 7 years now. I think your mom deserves the chance to give chemo a try.
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Hi CoolBreeze
I have being reading a little on your blog. Thanks for the reply and a little more insights. Yes, Mom is ER+ and PR- and HER - she does not need herceptin.
It helps more to check on what is Grade 3 all about in terms of formation and reaction in older women.
I'm now in search to look out for more opinions to make a final decision. My mom is undergoing Radiation, thus I truly believe I still have time.
I hope and pray for the best.
You will also be in prayers henceforth and trust me you are inspiring many!
Dear Cynthia
Thanks for the insights as well. Its always important to get this feedback as sometime treatment differ in countries with lesser population size and limited research. My prayers for you as well.
Cheers. And the journey continues. -
I would also recommend that you register at the NCCN website and read the PROFESSIONALS version of the 2012 breast cancer treatment guidelines. It contains a wealth of informative information.
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I think others have spoken well to this fact, but the simple truth is, they just don't know what they need to in order to parse out who recurs, and who doesn't. Case in point is the newish Oncotype test for ER+, node-neg women. (Edited to add: they use this in 1-3 pos nodes in some cases, but none of my doctors are prepared to do this, it's automatic chemo at my hospital.)
My doctor told me to expect an intermediate to high recurrence score based on my Grade 3. Well, I turned out to be low. It is only one of the prognostic factors, and my team recommended chemo based on my age (39 at diagnosis), grade (Oncotype is not considered as predictive in the grade 3 environment) and LVI on initial biopsy. I went to three opinions. I got "yes", "no" and "maybe". Finally, one brilliant doctor said, "We just don't know what the best course of treatment is."
There is a lot of work to be done on cancer and recurrence. Pinktober would like us to believe some get cured. Truth is, 30+% of us carry the material that will make us recur and they just don't know why exactly.
This is not to say I don't believe in the correct treatments, I do. Chemotherapies and radiation definitely up chances. Do vigilant homework. When Voracious Reader is on deck, you know you are getting some of the best research you can, she's amazing!
My advice: get as many opinions as possible, and then charge ahead with an open heart for getting through and living life!
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Chemotherapy and radiation for elderly patients becomes problematic if there are underlying, serious health issues in addition to the breast cancer. This can be heart disease, diabetes, kidney disease or any autoimmune disease that will make chemotherapy exceedingly risky or even life-threatening. They usually try to determine this by figuring out how much long-term prognosis can be affected against short-term risk.
For example, my mother had a heart condition (atrial fibrillation), as well as a personal history of heart attack and stroke (as well as other issues including diabetes, Crohn's Disease, and COPD). This meant that a lumpectomy was out-of-the-question because she was not a candidate for radiation. It, also, meant that - even though she had an aggressive Grade 3 tumour - chemotherapy was not recommended due the additional damage it might inflict on her heart. The potential benefits of chemotherapy at her age - she was 74-75 when diagnosed - did not outweigh the risks of sudden death. So, she had a mastectomy followed by five years on Arimidex and will be celebrating seven years cancer-free in the spring.
As my mother put it, "... at my age, another five years is a gift whether- or not you have cancer or not. I don't want to risk losing that five years to cancer OR to cancer treatment." And before someone jumps in with the comment that my mother may not have been given all of the facts to make a well-informed decision, she had worked most of her life as a nurse and, like me, is an obsessive researcher. Sometimes the quality of life that one has left must be considered the most important issue when determining treatment protocols and outcomes for elderly patients. -
The risk of recurrence is higher for grade 3, but that extra risk dissipates after the first five years in studies. The fact that your mother is HER2 - suggests a less hard-to-treat bc; the pr-neg suggests less good prognosis, and the fact that the cancer is in only one node is much better than it could be.
In short, there is a mixture of things here and the truth is, no one can say, based on that data alone, what would be best for your mother. She may also have a choice of hormone therapy and bisphosphonate therapy in addition to surgery and radiation.
Adjuvant Online is more predictive for people who are BOTH er-pos and pr-pos - it is also more useful for pre-menopausal than post, generally. There are several cancer predictors out there. But remember that your mother is close to her life expectancy, so her mortality "statistics" are going to be different too.
My advice: she should do what she can live with, for better or worse. I know that's a hard decision!
Best of luck to you.
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As usual, always learning something new. Didn't know that about Grade 3s, that's nice news (if I make it, god willing--I'm two and counting). Also didn't know that about Adjuvant Online. Makes sense for me given my stats that my doctor used this as the biggest factor in my treatment choices.
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Dear SelenaWolf
You said it well. My mum is 74 and she is fit and fine. Still she feels that she is on "overtime" here with us. She has seen all and have so far had a reasonable life. She feels that chemo will take that away from her and is willing to take that risk of a Mastectomy, Radiation and AI. She is undergoing 3rd week of radiation and again doing good. Her Mastectomy was a breeze as well.
Nevertheless, as her daughter I felt that "are we doing enough to keep it away". This is a great forum to get insights on information that sometimes just cannot be attained if one does not (unfortunetly) go thru' it....My prayer again to all and a super big hig as well.
Dear 1Athena1 - you said right. Do what you can do - simple. Thanks, I will be at ease a little and my super big hugs for you as well.
Dear VR: Registered at NCCN. Trying my best to read up. Sadly here in Malaysia, we do not have hospitals just for Cancer Only. -
Hi All
Living Normal
That would be my closure for the year 2012.
I had chosen the path for Mom after many trips, oncologist, consultations, professional advises, reading, attending forums, listening to survivors and those next of kin whose loved ones did not make it.
Mom completed her Mastectomy, underwent radiation for 5 weeks and now learning to live with Femara.
I opted out for chemo as for her the risk will outweigh the benefit. (I could be wrong, but then I had to make the call)
As of now, we are done with Cancer treatments and pray that Femara treats her well. Of course fatigue and bone aches are no avoiding, but we can live with it.
I truly believe this journey of Mom being diagnosed and treated for BC has taken a shift in my life and my understanding of people with cancer.
She could be cancer free for life or it might come back haunting her. That's something we leave it to GOD to decide. We manage the manageable. As a caretaker, I try to make living as normal as possible. Fill the house with love and joy. Enjoy the kids, watch the monsoon rain hitting the windows and straind of little drops seeping in to the house.
Watch my mom take all the effort to overcome her fatigue to cook a meal for us. Watch mom carry my 4 month old son and speak to him as if the world belong to both of them.
Watch mom take her meds and say "it could have been worst" let's just cherish and appreciate and pray for the rest who is taking this journey at different paths in their life
As of now, mom enjoy your precious life GOD had bestowed upon you. As a daughter, the fear of BC will never fade but I cannot stop living normal.
Cheers and Happy New Year.
My prayers for all on this blog "May God make your journey easy whichever your ultimate journey is".
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