I was on a HuffPost Live video about options after mastectomy

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I thought some of you might like to know about this half-hour program on HuffPost Live, which is the new streaming network at the Huffington Post. The subject was breast reconstruction, but they also wanted to include someone like me who has chosen not to reconstruct. I tried to represent the non-reconstruction option well. The special guest was the singer Jewel, who has made breast reconstruction a cause. She was in studio and was quite articulate and passionate about the subject. The guests also included Michelle Manahan, plastic surgeon from Johns Hopkins; Sue Friedman, who founded FORCE, a website specifically focused on women with genetic mutations; and Kathy Steligo, who has written the definitive book on reconstruction. 

On a personal note, if you watch the video, you'll see that I seem to stutter a bit each time I begin to speak. I wasn't nervous but was very distracted by an unexpected echo (wearing earbuds was supposed to prevent that but didn't). The echo made it hard to focus on what I was saying at first. :(

I thought it was a good discussion and I was happy to be part of it. Here's the link if you're interested in seeing it. After you click on the link, you'll see a "play" sign over a picture of a nude woman covering her chest. Click the "play" sign and the video chat will begin.

http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/segment/504f92012b8c2a55220003b1

Barbara 

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  • greenfrog
    greenfrog Member Posts: 269
    edited September 2012

    Bravo Barbara - excellent job - you did us proud!  I had huge problems with buffering but managed to see most of it.

    But I am seething - did that Jewel woman seriously claim at the beginning of the piece that women who have reconstruction have better survival rates?!! I am speechless.

    As for her comment about drive-through mastectomies ... what?! Medical science has known for years that patients recover better at home than in hospital and that dawdling in a bed can be very detrimental to recovery. Here in the UK where insurance is not an issue it is quite normal to leave hospital with drains in quite soon after surgery. Personally I couldn't wait to get home.

    Anyway, Barbara, very well done. You came over very well indeed. Much better than the doc who appeared to have her webcam positioned down a toilet bowl :-)

  • River_Rat
    River_Rat Member Posts: 1,724
    edited September 2012

    Barbara, you did an excellent job.  It was a good conversation all around.

  • lisa-e
    lisa-e Member Posts: 819
    edited September 2012
    I haven't watched the whole video yet (keep on getting interupted) but I did want to second what greenfrog said.  Jewel's claim left me sputtering!  Reconstruction has nothing to do with survival rates per se, but I would bet the women for whom reconstruction is an option of less agressive cancers and therefore have to have less treatment.

    Ugh!
     
  • Erica3681
    Erica3681 Member Posts: 1,916
    edited September 2012

    I noted that statement by Jewel about women having better survival rates. I didn't have any studies to cite refuting that so I didn't respond to it, but I've never heard that claim by anyone and certainly believe it's incorrect.

    I also agree that the less time, the better in hospital, but if I'm remembering correctly there was a concern in the U.S. that insurance wasn't covering even those women who wanted to stay overnight. So I think that's where the term drive-through mastectomies came from.

  • Annie62
    Annie62 Member Posts: 1,081
    edited September 2012

    Barbara - you did a great job. I thought the other participants other than the misinformed Jewel were very good as well. I find it amazing that she is a 'spokesperson' for reconstruction when she doesn't seem to know some very basic information. 

    My doctors were all shocked that I didn't want recon (immediate) and I felt some pressure. DH said the scars on the reconstructed breasts upset him more than my mx scars. No one mentioned scars I noticed.

    As for drive thru mx, I stayed one night when I had my bilateral but when I did my original lumpectomy and axillary dissection I was sent home the same day. And I shouldn't have been. I was vomiting, in a lot of pain. ONe night would have made a huge difference. So when I had my bilateral I informed the surgeon I would not be going home without staying the night given my prior experience. Don't know if partial mx (lumpectomy) is considered the same as a mx. And it was a harder surgery on my by far probably due to the lymph node removal and less nerves getting cut.

     Thanks again for representing us so well!

    Annie

  • nagem
    nagem Member Posts: 353
    edited September 2012

    Barbara, You were lovely and intelligent and well-spoken. I was a little surprised at what a dim bulb Jewel was considering that she's heading a foundation to disseminate information. You would have thought she'd have educated herself on the issue ...

  • painterly
    painterly Member Posts: 602
    edited September 2012

    Barbara, you were awesome! Thanks for sharing.

    I was disappointed to learn, though, that reconstruction is not very successful if you have had radiation. I had lumpectomy and radiation in 2008. And was diagnosed with a new primary in the form of DCIS in the opposite breast just recently for which I again had lumpectomy and I don't want radiation so now I am planning on having the BMX. The reconstruction is something I am seriously considering.

  • lisa-e
    lisa-e Member Posts: 819
    edited September 2012

    Finally watched the whole video.  Barbara, I think you helped provide balance to the discussion.  Good job!



  • beacon800
    beacon800 Member Posts: 922
    edited September 2012

    Great job Barbara!

    I also commented in the reconstruction forum.  Like others here, I thought Jewel did not have as much information as she should and felt she was approaching the problem as though every woman would definitely want reconstruction to start with.  It is good that you were there to provide perspective. 

    It's clear Jewel is trying to do good things, but I cannot imagine why she would state that women who have recon live longer.  My goodness.....that is really not a good thought and I would love to see the studies on that.  If there were valid studies that showed recon extended survivorship, it would no longer be a cosmetic procedure, but would be considered theraputic and therefore generally required, like it or not, by oncologists as part of bc treatment.  Since we do not have that, I suspect there is little validation to her comment.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited September 2012

    Wonderful job, Barbara! Thanks for sharing!

  • greenfrog
    greenfrog Member Posts: 269
    edited September 2012

    If reconstruction extends survival I will eat my own head.

  • Erica3681
    Erica3681 Member Posts: 1,916
    edited September 2012

    greenfrog,

    Your comment reminds me of my son, who used to say when confronted with something he didn't want to do, "I'd rather chew my own arm off." Tongue out

    Jewel herself seemed to back off that survival comment after I spoke, saying something about the key seeming to be feeling "empowered." 

    I appreciate all the responses. I wish I could have said a few more things. For one, I would have liked to mention the choice by what seems to be an increasing number of women to proudly go flat (i.e. not wear breast forms). Hopefully, I or others will get to talk publicly about that sometime in the future.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012
    Barbara, you did a great job. Thank you! In all, I think it was a fairly balanced discussion that allowed for differing views. Agree that Jewel needs to be better informed if she is going to represent an issue. She didn't know about nipple sparing? Please. And, Painterly, certain kinds of recon, such as implants, are not very successful after radiation. There are other choices though, such as the autologous tissue transfer (DIEP, GAP, etc) and fat grafting that produce better results.




    My main disappointment was the response to Barbara's comment that some women felt a little pressured to have reconstruction. It was interpreted as women have too much info to digest (I forget we have such little heads) during a BC diagnosis and that deciding about recon in addition to cancer TX is too much pressure. I think the point is that the pressure is felt in relation to the idea that recon would be the natural preference - which implies women would feel less whole without breasts than with recon. And I am so pleased that Barbara made the point that if she couldn't have her own breasts that she didn't want any others. Also, in metropolitan areas plastic surgery and breast recon is big business, and that is also part of the pressure the women posting here are experiencing. I doubt the surgeons and medical system's pressure for women to have recon immediately is all about better results.




    Sure, in areas where recon itself and various choices of recon are limited (I believe this is more to the point Jewel is speaking), women might not receive adequate info at the time of their diagnosis. Women definitely need to be made aware of all of their options, and where to access them if not available locally. Also, there was a time when the drive thru MX's were an issue because insurance co's were trying to cut costs (with all surgery-related hospital stays), and that was before people welcomed hightailing it out of a hospital out of fear of contracting a bacterial infection. The focus on drive-thru MX's as an issue seems a bit dated, which is kind of how Jewel's total knowledge about recon came across to me. If she cares about this issue as much as it appears she does, she needs to do some homework and get up to speed. If our little heads can do it during the time of a BC diagnosis, I'm sure she can. And I can only hope she fixes that blunder about living longer because of recon - perhaps the info she had reported something such as "greater quality of life" vs longer life. In that case I might think she is just a dingbat needing an issue to garner some publicity.




    I am just thrilled that Barbara was part of the conversation to present the breast free viewpoint, especially in light of Pink October and National Breast Recon Day on Oct 17. By the way, Jewel has partnered with the ASPS to promote this day. Here is a link with that info, and it also contains info about their other promotional events.




    http://www.bra-day.com/
  • painterly
    painterly Member Posts: 602
    edited September 2012
  • nagem
    nagem Member Posts: 353
    edited September 2012

    Painterly, I had a bilateral mastectomy after radiation, and I was told that autologous transplant was no problem and that silicon or saline might be possible as well. In the end, I decided to go without. But my understanding was that the longer I waited, the more likely the success of artificial implants since it would give the radiated skin more time to regain pliancy. Autologous transplant didn't seem to pose any issues at all. So don't despair if you have your heart set on reconstruction. Consult an experienced breast-cancer plastic surgeon, though.

     

  • greenfrog
    greenfrog Member Posts: 269
    edited September 2012

    Jewel is jumping on the pro-reconstruction bandwagon by releasing a song entitled "Flower" which is all about reconstruction for BC survivors apparently. According to her  "Reconstruction is a huge part of the healing process. It's not just vanity. It's a part of what makes us women. It's a part of our identity as women."

    So there you have it. Tits are part of our identity. A pop star says so.

    By the way Jewel has not had breast cancer.

    But she clearly has a history of boob jobs and cosmetic surgery.  http://goodbyeimplants.com/whats-happened-jewels-boobs

    Do breast cancer patients really want this woman as a self-appointed advocate?

  • greenfrog
    greenfrog Member Posts: 269
    edited September 2012

    Oh ok so now I understand. The American Society of Plastic Surgeons had appointed Jewel as their official spokesperson for their first reconstruction awareness day.

    So basically it is corporate sponsorship dressed up as altruism. Lots of vested interests cashing in on women and their boobs (or lack of them).

    Vile.

  • painterly
    painterly Member Posts: 602
    edited September 2012

    Thanks Nagem.

    I deleted the rest of my post as it wasn't of "earth shattering importance" LOL

  • Erica3681
    Erica3681 Member Posts: 1,916
    edited September 2012

    greenfrog,

    I feel pretty sure that the idea of designating a day to promote reconstruction awareness was thought up by plastic surgeons and/or implant manufacturers. If you go to the website for Breast Reconstruction Awareness day (http://www.bra-day.com/), you'll see that some of the sponsors are implant manufacturers and there's also one company that makes tissue graft material (used in implant reconstruction). I thought about this when I was asked to participate in the program but decided it was still worth the opportunity to present the non-reconstruction side. In her favor, I thought Jewel appeared receptive to my point of view.

  • chatter99
    chatter99 Member Posts: 49
    edited September 2012

    I chose not to do immediate reconstruction, after a lot of research and consideration. I decided 2 operations and chemo had already zapped my health and I could have it done later. Well, lucky for me I decided not to, as I discovered a small lump on my mx scar 2 years after surgery. It was cancerous and I had surgery and radiation as tx. I don't know how this lump would've been found, especially early on, if I had a new breast. Do they do mammo's on fake breasts? I don't know how common it is to have a reoccurrence in the incision area from a mx but glad my choice worked out.

  • Outfield
    Outfield Member Posts: 1,109
    edited September 2012

    I did a little Pubmed search.  The survival comment probably comes from here:

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22487264

    Far from definitive.  Studies like that are always confounded by a lot of factors.  You just can't control for everything.  I don't myself believe the reconstruction process is improving disease-specific survival.  It's far more likely that if you've got extra-bad things going on either with your cancer or your health in general, you're going to skip extra surgery.

    Edited to add:  Barbara, I'm so glad you were part of that discussion and got to say what you did.  It does bug me this national organization has a spokesperson with no personal experience of the disease.

  • greenfrog
    greenfrog Member Posts: 269
    edited September 2012

    In decades past cigarette manufacturers would pay doctors large amonts of money to estol the health giving properties of tobacco. I see some parallels. Breast reconstruction can be detrimental to your health - it can cause a lot of pain and discomfort and psychological anguish and infection for what is, after all, an elective procedure. But we rarely hear about that - the propaganda just bangs on about how crucial it is for our recovery. Rubbish. There seems to be a concerted effort by the plastic surgery industry to establish reconstruction as a compulsory element of BC surgery and recovery - and it needs to be challenged.

    Barbara - there is a BC charity here that used a major bra manufacturer as a sponsor. One of the conditions of entering their sponsored walk was that you purchased one of the manufacturer's bras to decorate. Ker-ching.

    I was of course being sarcastic Painterly. We do live in a western culture that is experiencing some profound breast fetishism. But it is only fashion and maybe we'll revert to the 1920s and women will start lashing them down instead of pumping them up. If my identity as a woman is defined by breasts then you may as well shoot me now.

    Outfield - I'd like to know who funded that study.

  • painterly
    painterly Member Posts: 602
    edited September 2012

    I deleted my post as it was only ramblings.

  • Outfield
    Outfield Member Posts: 1,109
    edited September 2012

    Greenfrog - me too.  I don't have the extra time on my hands to track it down.  

    But don't you suspect that if it had been well-done and believable, we'd hear about it first from someone other than Jewel?

  • greenfrog
    greenfrog Member Posts: 269
    edited September 2012

    Yes indeed Outfield. Uncovering the funding trail isn't easy. I shall have a root around when I get a moment to find out which piper called this particular tune.

    I feel a certain pity for Jewel - her heart is probably in the right place. These people are all at the behest of their advisors/managers as to what they should do to enhance their public image. I notice she is self-described as  a "humanitarian". Yikes. Up there with Ghandi eh?

  • Elizabeth1959
    Elizabeth1959 Member Posts: 346
    edited September 2012

    I am a little over 2 years out from diagnosis.  I have an appointment next week with plastic surgeon regarding reconstruction.  I am very ambivilant.  I would love to have a real boob with nipples and no scars.  I am worried about long surgery, possible complications, time off work.  Right now, I am physically strong and able to do all the things I like doing.  What if I have a complication?  What if the boob is unsightly?  etc.  I dont think reconstruction has much to do with my recovery.  I think remaining cancer free would be the best thing that would help my recovery.  I wish I never had breast cancer.  I have no idea why Jewel is a spokesperson.

     Barbara it sounds like you are the only one in that group who knows what it is like to go through breast cancer and what is important to you in terms of recovery.  Thank-you for representing that point of view.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    Barbara, You did a great job, and I am really glad that you were there. The hostess with the mostest drove me nuts the way she kept saying "massectomy" instead of "mastectomy." If you are going to do a half-hour segment on the subject, maybe read the word at least.

    Like the others, I am just aghast that this ditz-brain Jewel would seriously sit there and claim that recon ups survival rates. Later, after you spoke, she tried to fudge it into "being empowered improves survival." WTF! Seriously???!!! I also loved (not) that she spoke to you in this condescending tone and congratulated you on being educated. Bwaaaaaaa!

    Now, my main question is who she works for. She obviosuly has no knowledge on the subject, apart from 3-4 talking points. She talked about taking a break from work to be a mommy, so maybe she got this gig for pocket money, so she doesn't have to tour for a while. The obvious answer would be the Association of Plastic Surgeons. But isn't it unethical for her to be a paid shill and presenting herself as a concerned humanitarian?

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