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OMG, Fuzzy, those pics are hysterical! The one that is sideways so that it makes you turn your head sideways totally made me LOL.
When I caught on fire, it did kinda hurt. ;>) I was alone . . . as usual. I had finished cleaning the bird cage really well outside. It was an August evening, and I decided to light the tiki torches and drink some beer. At some point I had stepped away from my relaxation area, probably to finish up with the bird cage. Anyway, when I turned around, I saw fire running down the stem of the tiki torch, fire on the grass under the tiki torch, and fire in the "anti-gravity chair" next to the tiki torch. I had been making a sort of patio on the side of my house there, with large rock slabs and dirt. I started picking up the dirt to throw on the fire, so I was bent over. That was when it made like a volcano and spewed. It landed on my back and it was hot and it hurt. Everything went into extremely slow motion. I felt it land on my back, felt the burning, then heard the pffff (which must have been when my shirt erupted into flames). I thought "I think I'm on fire. I should scream." So I screamed briefly. Then I thought "that's not helping at all. Stop, drop, and roll." Thank God I remembered to do that because by now it was starting to catch my hair on fire. So I dropped and rolled and oh how it hurt. Then I tore off my shirt because it still felt like it was burning. Duh. And I ran in the house and poured ice cubes on the rug and laid on that and tried calling a friend. No answer. So I would get up and knock on my neighbor's door (right next to my door) and run back to the ice cube rug. I did that a couple times and he finally came out and I hollered for him. He came in and called 911 like I should have done. I heard the sirens indicating the ambulance was coming, and I was happy because I knew they would stop the pain. They stopped the pain very soon after arriving, and the next thing I remember I wake up in the Burn ICU of John's Hopkins.
Mom totally LOVED that call the next morning.
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Granny I am very sorry to hear of your friend's brother. That's a particularly nasty cancer. I guess that sounds stupid. All cancer is nasty. Maybe I just like to think that our's is not so bad. I gotta say, truthfully, I really don't like this "new normal shit." I guess I ought not complain, or life will hand me something worse. Drinks . . . and hugs . . . all around.
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WOW Dune! That's just crazy, I cannot imagine! Creative first aid with the ice cubes and the rug!
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Dune im scrolling back trying to figure it all out, still cant believe you caught fire!! Talk about keeping it exciting. Seriously tho glad it wasnt worse.
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I know that pancreatic cancer is really not on topic here but im devistated over this loss.my dear friend in texas has lost 3 brothers to cancer.all young.I just go a message from another friend that her brother in law has the same ti=hing...WTF..is ther an epedemic?????
When I posted this on fb.my friends daughter who lost her sista 2 yrs ago to that disease says th omeone workin on a cure...
sure and pigs fly!!!!either the fda or the fca will put the kabash on it....
Im losing my faith in them ever findig a cure for any cancer!!!!!
betta go to sleep before i get this skinny ass in trouble.
cancer suks!!!!!I hate you!!!!!find the damn cure or vacine...The friggin clock is tickin.
end of rant.thanks for listening...huggggs K
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Granny...you go girl!! Get it OUT!! It does suck! There's nothing healthy about bottling up or faking anything...thank you for posting your frustration and all. You'll get the shit hugged outta you from all of us!
Oh whew!! I wasn't sure if that pic was offensive. I couldn't believe I saw it!! Lol....
I too turned my head to read that one...laughed my ass off...then shared it!!! WAHAHAAAA!!! FUNNY!!
Mzmerz...howdy! I was pretty impressed with the ice cubes/rug too!!! I go straight into panic...don't pass go or collect $200....I would have been crispy....
Nancy...my FatBoy (he's a 22 lb Kitty...healthy as a horse for being 16 years old) gives love bites. But, he never feels bad about it!! I laughed so hard at..."I forgot, I can't eat you." WAHAHAAAHAAA!
I'm so sad for Marybe, her family and all the women who adore her. I am so impressed by the outpouring of love that is going to her. We are all sisters. We all have a very unique story that is also our common thread. I am proud to be in this sisterhood, proud to walk with each of you. I have proclaimed my admiration for BCO many times...I don't want to know where I would be without these boards and all of You.
None of us will ever be alone. In the darkest moments to the brightest....we have each other.
So, I know I can share this and end on a lighter...less mushy mushy note....I got my last stitch out tonight!!! LOL gross, right? Just one of my talents Really....hee hee -
Just read three-plus pages. The emotions roll up the mountain and down the other side, like a freight train with tons of shit and happy balloons filled with helium and little bc chicks who have been sucking down the helium and when that wears off, crying huge tears and cursing beneath the full moon. Hell.
Dunes, what a story! Next time, 911, right? Fuzzy, remember the parenting is for us to make us wiser and stronger, that is what I always tell myself. Nancy, so good to see you, hugs still. GrannyDukes, put em up, let em have it, too many dying, we need a song like the Peter Paul and Mary one, remember How Many Roads must a man walk down? Blowing in the Wind, it was. A bc song, a cancer song. Ginger, i was going to say that, about Veggy, Fried Green Tomatoes, Veggy, slam the hell out of their car next time, sure your insurance will go up or they will DROP YOU but it would be so much fun, right? Sassy, got the message about the Pink Revolution, good ideals, what a lot of thinking it would take, how about a designated group to work out details together?
The worst thing that happened to me today, my mop broke and I got stung by a bee in my cancer lymph node armpit where the LE arm feels like a dead asleep foot, and it hurt anyway. SSSSSoooooooo Now, you have to know for my pride's sake that our house is really clean, but it stays that way because every two weeks we go through this routine. We brush dog, trim the dog, wash dog, then again, then again, then condition the dog, tie him on cement in garage to dry so he will not roll in anything, then we literally RAKE the carpets with a leaf rake, all directions and still pulling up fur - and we have Granimal Dyson..... and we vaccuum, sweep and scrub floor and wash his quilts (yes, quilts, the dog is too big for blankies) and then brush the dog again and then Hubby shop vacs Suburban then he uses the shop vac on the dog. There, that should keep the furballs from flying around here. But no, he is so fluffy fuzzy there are poofs of clean wispy furballs everywhere already today. And today when I was just beginning to mop 2 bath floor, 1 foyer, kitchen and mudroom, the top 1/3 of my mop broke off and cut my hand and arm, not too bad, long scratches. This is cuz a few times back Hubby used it and did not use proper leverage for wringing it out and bent the top almost off, today it went off completely. My Hubby is in mechanical mainenance in the huge machines and furnaces at the steel mill, but he does not understand the leverage of mops. So my mop broke and I finished the floor anyway. Then took dog out and was holding nose while he oopah-ed and a bee was under my arm, the LE numb as a foot asleep arm, and it stung me and I looked but didn't see anythng so thought it was more nerve damage hurting me, I cannot feel a thing otherwise. So put arm down again and bee stung me again, obviously not a honey bee. Hubby put Rescue Remedy on me, then baking soda solution with the peeled out wet inside of the egg shell over that to draw sting. I feel nothing. Then Hubby said """maybe the good Lord sent the bee to sting you where the cancer is for your immune system, there are people who are using bee stings for healing.""" and I am thinking WHAT??!! WTF#** WTH*^# WHO IS THIS PERSON????????? But he really keeps me entertained.
My story is not horrifying like Dunes - but I hope my story entertained you a little, kind of like helium balloons blowing over a trainload of bc women full of hot air sucking down the helium and singing Blowing in the Wind. Or better yet, all of them hanging off a hot air balloon and sucking helium......
click to see when cows fly and the really scarey bird.
Sassy - I too prefer the coyotes, they do not break into my home. Well they might if they could see my skunk running around in here, well maybe not bcz she looks like a skunk and no one likes skunks, even though she does not smell like a skunk, so I guess the coyotes would see her and just leave. And the ancient medicine, it is only missing to this great extent in the USA. But it is coming back. But for the younger generations, if they could only get on the homeopathic remedies while young to divert future diseases they are destined to genetically with inherent miasms, it would relieve so much suffering. But there are only a few doctors now to guide them through, at least here. I studied to be a homeopath for three years, a lot on my own to test in at a more advanced level, I wanted it so much but I realized I wanted to not be in prison even more, that is the state of medicine in this country, so I quit and went to the flower essences and Bowen thereapy and stuff I do or did do. Now I do nothing but write and heal ... time for myself for awile. Am better though, much better. Though for awhile it was questionable, now I think I did come here to the hill to heal.
To all, will see you all later, I read every word to catch up. Off to bed, late as usual, but I did get a nappie before Hubby left for work.
LOVEEssa
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Gosh, just when I thought Marybe was getting better. Good grief, a coma. That's horrible. I feel for you ladies who are close to her. I sent up a prayer.
LOVESSA, your dog cleaning routine is so amusing! We used to have poodles, and a trim with clippers was time-consuming (I got to where I could make a pom out of the tail), and then the bath, and yes, always dog fur everywhere. The dog we have now has lots of white fur, but you know, doesn't seem to matter what color a dog is, their hairs are everywhere. My mom was so nice to me, I was sad because I can't keep the house very clean, and she said when you got two dogs living with you, it's hard to keep things clean.
FUZZY! I've thought about that acupuncture thing! I saw on TV how Cesar Milan uses it on some traumatized dogs, and it is amazing to watch them really let go of their nerves and they look so absolutely exhausted when they fall to sleep. I have gotten some Swedish (deep) massage, I got to where I couldn't walk a number of years ago, back pain and all, and took two sessions, but they got all sorts of scary kinks out of me. I KNOW I should go back to a masseuse or try acupuncture.
DUNE, that was a terrible burn you got, must have been painful and hard to take care of it, shocking photo. Love all my sisters, GG
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Another day.........................
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My husband died from pancreatic cancer 21 years ago yesterday..............................how ironic it would be a topic of conversation yesterday and today.
There is no cure for pancreatic cancer...........never will be......by the time they find it, after symptoms it is already too far advanced............I was told because of all the "vital organs" that it is near, makes it even harder......................when my husband was diagnosed they told me a 1% chance of survival...............
After he died I spoke with the surgeon who did a Whipple surger on him which gave him another 2 years and 9 months, which at that time was almost medical history...................what he said was......they were doing a lot of research on Pancreatic cancer back then, however, it was not a "common" cancer as he said they referred to it, so they were not going to spend anymore money on it............all research stopped...... remember Michael Landon, Rex Harrison, Pavoritti, Patrick Swayze and numerous others.................all died, and when you die yor a skeleton.............my husband lost 100 lbs.............
This was a man who was physically fit, never drank, smoked, or abused his body in anyway.........he was a strong, healthy Construction Carpenter. Was not a pound overweight................it is a horrible cancer, and according to what I was told the "deadliest"..............
Now they are saying "soda" can be a factor in Pancreatic cancer.................guess what..........if he drank a glass of soda a week that was a lot.....................I guess it is just fate...............sorry for your loss Granny..........
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It is so very heartbreaking about Marybe. I only "spoke" to her a handful of times. When I finally opened her "Red devil..." thread and read her first paragraph, I realized I missed out on the opportunity of getting to know a kindred spirit. I wish I had taken the time to get to know her better. The more I read, the more I find out what an extraordinary woman she is. I so hope all of this isn't due to errors of her medical team. Hopefully, the left hand not talking to the right wasn't an issue in this nightmare. It all seemed to go downhill so fast....makes you wonder if some mistakes weren't made.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your hubby, ducky. I know that even after 21 years the loss still hurts. Pancreatic cancer is a bitch...cancer at it's worst.
Granny, so sorry for your loss.
Going to get my youngest prepared for his first day of high school today. He's soooooo excited. My baby, all grown up. Don't know why that makes me cry, but it does. I don't want him to have to navigate this life without me.
Anyway, don't want to get in to too much depressing rambling because I have a lot to be grateful for.
Hope everyone has a good day.
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Ducky, I know this is not a good day for you and I send you my best wishes and hugs to use as you need them. It is . . . interesting . . . that pancreatic cancer should be such an important topic for us the past couple of days. It must make your memories even more raw. ((( ducky )))
Sassy, I hope your arm will be OK. Lymphedema is nothing to mess around with. I hope that bee did give you some good old-fashioned healing.
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Gracie...you can talk it out. We're here for ya. Milestones are hard for me Room.
ESSA, oh. Ouch..ouch again...careful!! Is you arm in check? Did DH's potion work? LOL
Ducky, arms around you tight on this day...what a great man and I'm so sad for your loss.
I woke up pissy today...then all fine...then pissy again...I loved loved loved "the healing hill". That's perfect! Just so happens to be the view from the RR...we are strategically placed near the entrance...trails that lead everywhere!!! Guess I ventured up, down, back up it and down again!! LOL I'll chalk that up to my workout for the day.
Going to make a pile of homemade mashed potatoes today. My oldest loves them. Butter....ranch dressing...more butter...a little milk....
If anyone cares to join me, I'll be on Healing Hill, somewhere between Mood Swing Point and Prozac Perch. I'll share my liquor. -
True confession....... today is my first nicotine free day in God knows how long. I just have a grand desire to rip someones lips off, probably because I'm hormonal too.
Stopped cigarettes as of 7/28.
Almost 6 years ago I stopped drinking because is wasn't fun anymore. I have to quit smoking for a multitude of reasons...thie biggest was I promised my mom. (Her b-day would have been 7/28). What forced the issue is my upcoming surgery.
I SWEAR if anyone tries to take my Sugar Free French Vanilla Dunkin Turbo away I WILL wrap their bottom lip over their forehead.
Off soapbox. Spew complete. Thanx 4 listening.
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Hi Audrey. Hang in there. I gave them up February 11th, 4 days after finding the lump. I still crave them occasionally. In fact, I just had a crave about a half hour ago, probably because I've been working my butt off cleaning this house. Now I'm all sweaty. Need a shower. But I am whooped!
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Oh.....bathed 3 dogs did the dishes mopped the floor (did I mention the whole house is hardwood?) laundry laundry, grocery stores..........even bathed and de-flead the possum. He liked the cuddle-dry-off part. Hit the cats with the flea stuff, changed the linens.........
STILL trying for 1 safe room in the midst of all the renovation.
Guess I wasn't done spewing.
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Wow audrey you have been busy! But congrats to you i am still a smoker and to my suprise my MO said now is not the time to try to quit. Dont think i could anyway, so big kudos to u. And OMG a possum? How cool is that!
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The effect and the cause- nose to nose.
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OMG. I needed that sweet picture more than you know.
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I'm all loopy so I guess I better say goodnight. Gotta get up at 5 am for the surgery. Ah! Soon I will cross to the squishie side. This is my last night with this turtle shell, um, I mean tissue expander. I wonder if I will be sleeping more, or less, comfortably tomorrow night. Anyway, the bed is clean. PJs are clean. I am clean. The house is the cleanest it hs been in a seriously long time.
Now, see, if mom had come to spend tonight here, instead of waiting to tomorrow when she picks me up to take me to the hospital, she would know that the surgery has been shoved back a half to 3/4 of an hour. I guess she'll just have to find out in the morning. muahahahaha.
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Good luck Dune.............hugs and prayers..................we love you
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Get a good sleep dunes and congrats on losing the turtle shell. No personal experience with that here but doesnt sound comfy!
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Good luck Dune!
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Dunes....take me with you!!! Bring me to the Squishie side!!! LOL!! Turtle shell!! WAAHAHAAAAA!!!! In your pocket baby!! WHOOT WHOOT! And...to end with that wicked little giggle....LOL you're awesome!!
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Please let me know what it's like to be squishy. I'm jealous, seriously.
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I hope this is appropriate to post here. Let me know if it's not. Amy
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LMAO Mz!!!!
Hey everyone. I got home around 12:30 or 1:00. That was after stopping at Panera's after the surgery. I'm always hungry after anaesthesia. Only a slight bit of pain in the boob. I am going to try to take a nap. Dang! I just thought of something. I should have asked for my turtle shell. I could torment the hell out of it like it tormented me. muahahahaha. Squishie side, I have arrived. I hope you all enjoyed the magaritas. The anaesthesiologist/bartender was very talented indeed.
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Essa--see pg 20 of PTOR plan set up. Read and see if you will be one of the slogan transfer volunteers.
Dunes--the extent of the burn oh my, but so glad you remembered drop and roll, Truly a big deal that you got the burning clothes off. That's a step that most forget. It's easy for anyone to say call 911, but fear/terror can mess the thinking up so fast.-----Here's to an uneventful recovery from TE removal: Clink oops must fill the glass first.
Fuzzy I think that was Essa with the bee or GG.
Google stinger removal should be scrapped off in a certain direction to get the stinger out. Pinching just squeeses more venom in. Meat tenderizer is excellent for those types of stings. We used to keep abottle in the glove compartment and in the house.
Grany and ducky sorry about your losses. Ducky, I know you wrote on another thread about the Sept 1st anniversary, they never get easier.
Rider ((((((hugs))))))))
Memerz --welcome to the romp room
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Nancy, I completely agree. Peace, love, and happiness are waiting for us on the other side. I hope Marybe is happy to be there. I know her family and friends will miss her, though.
Ugh. Hate this disease!
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Thanks, Nancy, for the welcome. I have more ;o)
Simply, I see a lot of possums around here, but usually they are "flat" Glad to know there is at least one nice possum in the world.
I am also sad about Marybe. This disease sucks monkey balls.
Amy
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