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Ducky Hugs sweetie, PT dreamers hugs sweetie
Infact abbig group hug gingerbrew, essa.fuzzz,veggy,gg,chabba,s-Audrey(welcome),MamaV, goodie(welcome), Mac (welcome ), Granny,Rider,Lauren, Crog , specialK, nancy
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Essa I'm getting used to him, certainly nobodies going to mess with you babe!!!!!!1111
Mac I will call you tomorrow night if I don't you vice versa.
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You are all excellent Whooters....LOL
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LoveEssa (I Like that too...)...dreams are incredible. You should have your own business just breaking down dreams...its fascinating. I'm not sure I ever go into REM anymore, but when I do...I'm coming to you!!
Oh those bird expressions are awesome!
SAS...you are so sweet! You welcome everyone and that's really thoughtful....or soupy perhaps?
DH came home today. We made him steak dinner and to bed he went....1,000 miles of road really tuckered him out.
My shrinky shrink did not seem to like my recent mood shift....although I told her I felt pretty comfortable with this because depression sucks so bad....now I'm angry...I've started spewing at people who are ignorant and its pretty aggressive....I have to find a way to be assertive....which means aggressive without getting furious I guess. So, I'm wondering if anyone has any tips & tricks for me. Honestly, I only get pissed when someone does something bad to me....like the asshole mechanic....
My DD asked me to go kayaking with her Tomorrow to celebrate the path report! I'd like to invite everyone in my pocket just for fun....
Ducky...I would like to have a red solo cup and whatever your drinking!! Cheers my dear!!! -
Fuzzy i have a friend whos been.trying to get me to go kayaking for 2 summers now but i:m a big chicken :-) I' ll come along in your pocket then i can say ok been kayaking! And if u r there it is bound to be a Hoot!
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Fuzzy sounds like fun in your pocket. Sunlight. Can I get Schats in a kayak? She fell over a huge Gopher while running, it started chasing her and snapping.. not happy. Soupy is Sappy Lovey. I just like new people to feel welcomw, but must say i'm not sappy lovey about them.LOL.
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I wish I could help you Fuzzy, but I am either passive or aggressive. Assertive seems to elude me. However, I will be happy to jump in your pocket for the kayaking, especially since it is the only way I'll get kayaking this year.
No poopy dreams. Had one where I was screaming. Don't know why except I was terrified. Somehow I knew that someone or some people were trying to get to me to help me, so I kept screaming. I wouldn't be surprised if I did actually scream out loud. Now here I am wide awake . . . until the sleeping meds kick in.
GG, so glad you got your prescriptions and love your description of your happy dance. You remind me of my best friend, Michele. LOL
For those who don't know, Puff died yesterday afternoon. He died in my hand. So now he is in birdie heaven. Maybe he'll make a connection with the angry bluebird, Essa, and put a smile on its face.
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Dunes sorry about your bird.sweetie
fuzzy--what are you on? are you still working? How long have you been angry? Interfering with daily activity? angry at MH office visit? How much does she think your angry b/c you'd have had to tell her.? Did she state why she was unhappy? You mention Mechanic , was the story to her about him, what triggered her concern? At rest, do you feel angry? Anger with STUPIDS only? have you been angry since BC dx'd? Have you been angry since chemo? Reread your post several times. Don't want to muddy your responses withmy comments.
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Fuzzy, Some would say that if we are assertive we don't even get to furious.
Ginger
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That was a good one, GINGER.
Fuzzy, WHOOOOOOOOT, Whoot, whoot, hoot. Dah'lin, like my mother says to me, "Gail, don't you know they can't kill us?" Haha. I don't dream anymore either. I only get in a bad temper these days when I run low on pills or when they tell me I have cancer (that one really set me off!). When I cried the other day, I couldn't believe the old emotions that fell out, my dog passing, the love I have for my mother. I think you're just slowly letting it all go. And after all, you're a hard rocker. That kayak trip, I can see the glassy water, hear the drip of the paddles, trees on the shore. I feel peace when I'm with you, dear one.
DUNE, God bless your budgie's heart and soul. He was a good little bird, so pretty too. I've been thinking of him and afraid to ask. I think it's a gift that he passed in your hands.
DUCKY and SASSY, I do often think what would I do without my husband, and I cannot go far down that road. It's too heartbreaking. Ducky, you are so sweet to tell us such an amazing story, loved how the Italiano workers would talk to him, loved your husband's face, he was a good one, and he is remembered so well by you.
LOVESSA, soooo, breaking necks of wild animals. I see. Hmmm. That could come in handy now and then. Have you considered being a body guard? I need one, to fight off "the slings and arrows of misfortune."
All my good friends here in Romper World, I slept and slept last night. I was supposed to go to the grocery store this morning, but after I talk to my Mom on the phone, I suspect I will put it off until tomorrow. I am in a proper daze, just normal dose of medicine is all. The sun is pouring across the road outside my house, the birds are chirping, going to be a pretty day, I only want to walk in the field near the creek with my dog. Last evening, you know how sometimes everything takes on a yellow hue? Reminds me of that neat song, "And it was all yellow," I guess the name is probably "Yellow." I wonder if that singer was talking about that special way sunlight can look. I was singing it, felt good. May all your days be yellow, my friends, dearest ladies of my heart. GG
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NICE! GG.
Granny K, I found a quarter on the parking lot. I hope my bag of poop is worth more than that. LMAO!
Going to go patrol the neighborhood looking for code violations and/or pretty yards. I know it sounds terrible to do the code violation thing, but this neighborhood is getting so bad. We had such a rat problem until the County FINALLY stepped in and did something, but they only did that because it is an election year. We have to make people take responsibility for the neighborhood. I am soooo against intrusive government, but these are row houses. Not only do we have to put up with the rats and trash outside if we let it go, we also have to worry about those critters coming inside. Then we share them. If I see a rat in my house I am soooo gone. And I still owe more on this house than it is worth. So that would be bad.
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fuzzy - I recommend taking up kick-boxing. Dispensing the aggression on an inanimate object may allow assertiveness to come out but not dissolve into aggressiveness. Kayaking is the bomb, you will enjoy it! Your arms may be sore afterward though! And, a whoot for your path report!
Prayers to all of us coping with loss, of whatever kind, may we all be lifted up.
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My intention is to learn and practice mindfulness meditation so that I can use it when I feel the need to rip someone a new one. LOL. Unfortunately I have gotten no further than the idea so far. I sure am clearing the dead wood out of my life in the meantime. It makes me sad and yet I sense it needed to happen. I just hope I learn and grow from the experience.
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Good morning!! Getting geared up for kayaking....got everyone settled in my pockets and ready to roll.
We have five kayaks....I use to go a lot before surgeries and all. And...I love kick boxing...I was a ring fighter for two years. I do need to find an outlet for sure. The lawnmower treated me like crap the other day and I didn't handle that very well...so I get po'd at really any thing.
No meds....I just can't go through that again! I'm sure this sleeping thing doesn't help!! I'm not working and I do get upset when I'm at rest....like every night when I cant sleep. I think I hit all the questions....dang phone is so tiny! LOL
Called disability people and they didn't get my 24 pages of faxes from Friday! Gr. Looks like I have to take care of that today too....it closes on Thursday....and I have move in day with DD tomorrow.
Ok....here we go!! Jump on in and hang on Sisters!!
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Fuzzy what I'm gettig closer too Did you have anger issues pre BC and did they interfere in your life. You describe excess energy that you got rid of by boxing---normal. If anger is interfering in your interactions in life then it's a problem. But it doesn't sound that way. The mechanic deserved to be laced down. You say you are in a pretty happy place right now. That's a very significant statement after every thing you've been through. Except for MH counselors response--- why did she say that----what is it she is seeing that your not?. You do say you get po'd at everything ---real rage or simple, short, term, reaction to type. What is the at rest anger and what does it feel like. It's not that I agree with her, You sound the best you've been in along time I only reached the anger phase 1 1/2 months ago. My fruitloops counselor was pleased that I finally got there. You could be in a very healthy place in the progression towards your normal Fuzzy---or you could be fruitloops like me. I perfer to be the Madhatter whom would you like to be. HMMMM L&H's LOL sheila
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Sweet Puff, waiting with all our others for us at the bridge. I really believe in that meadow and bridge where they come to us when we cross over. Hugs, Dunes, you were a good Puff mama with a lot of budgie attitude.
We had little budgies when DD was 4, TweedleDee and TweedleDum, LOL. One day TweedleDum got loose when Hubby was cleaning cage........and we had Holister the Cat, the man was running all over the house cursing after the cat that was chasing the bird, we had stairs then, up and down, those were the days when he could run, we grabbed the cat finally and saved the bird. I think the pair went to live with auntie who had no cats.
Did Puff ever get loose? When did you get him? Where?
When we just had cottage, a neighbor across street had all their garbage for the entire year piled behind their house and no one knew, then talking to her one day I realized, augh.
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I just got ack from the breast surgeon. She put me back on antibiotics for 10 days. The one scar is still red and a little infected. I told her about my oncologist and she rolled her eyes. She called their oncologist and got some information. As DH and I were sitting on her office she called my oncologist. She only left a message. But sshe is going to call me when they finally do talk and let me know what happened. I have to love my breast surgeon.
I'm exhausted from the long ride. Its almost a 5 hour ride round trip. I slept on the way home.
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veggy this is a wound thread I worked on alot. It's not my thread, but alot of the answers are. Pick and choose or ignore what ever your please is. I also store stuff there. i.e there may not be a question , but i have a response.
http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/44/topic/754935?page=1
Glad you have so many people advocating for you YaY
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my anger is not good...very aggressive. Kickboxing was competitive and not related to anger. I was actually a fighter, great technique and very focused. Loved it! At rest, I am anxious and fightingin arguments that are not really there. I don't do many many things that need to be done...my life is a fraction of what it was. When I get mad, there is no control and it seems to be building. She's right to be concerned....although I haven't been a boxer in a long time, I'm still trained and could be lethal. Wicked stuff. I'm going to get in that DBT group and I'm looking to get into a ZUMBA class....wish me luck. If I lose my insurance, I'm screwed.....no DBT OR MH after that. Then what??? Ugh.
I love my family. They make me so happy....both my family here and at home. Deep down, I'm in there....just buried under a Pike of shit right now I guess.... -
my oldest DD and her Mud Volleyball Team She would be the one in the bottom right corner...on the back of her teammate...lol
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Hi Essa. I got Puff from Petsmart in 2000. He was often loose in the house and loved sitting in the window. He was quick, so it was hard to get him back in the cage when I had to go to work. Often I would have to put food and water on the outside of the cage so I could go to work. I may have already shared this, but ---------
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hahaha Dunes - can only imagine. Fuzzy - I think we should form a mud volleyball team, that looks like fun.
Yes, I'm bad - yes it is the middle of the night everywhere but Austrailia.....
I have no self discipline whatsoever. Supposed to be on day shift, in bed by 10:30 but eBAY sent me a special message saying I could list another 975 items before August 31, for FREEEEEEEEEE so I have been attempting to get a chuck of those done. Got ea one of my 1993 historical journals all listed tonight and a McCalls and some other 1934 rag.
My nightime rant before bed.
Do you know that a dr/professor from the hugest most financially well-endowed university in our state sent a message to mmmmmmeeeeeee on eBay wondering if the historical journal that I published and now have for sale did not sell, would I donate it to their university museum, he would pay shipping and supply a write off for taxes. Seriously. This is not a meagerly funded county historical society. Is he kidding, they have the money to pay $12 + shipping for a piece for their museum, besides when I published these I donated a few to the university library and museum back in 1998. Now, after hoarding and hauling around boxes and boxes for all these years and keeing them away from mice and mildew, all safe for when I needed to sell them, I am selling these off for my alternative cancer fund (like I ever thought that would be the deal in my life) but it says I am using funds for my cancer tx, right in the ad, and it is not 'If it does not sell' .... it is 'WHEN it will sell.' Cuz it will. How does one say hhhhhhheeeeeeellllllll nnnnnoooooooo. nicely? All you assertive people, please? Because seriously, he wants to know if I have other pieces pertaining to our state history, and ah yes, I do, but not for free to all the museums in the state. I am planning to offer him a deal on a set of four 1998 then another deal on another set of four from 1993.
Gotta go to bed, am very bad, the dog even tried to get me to quit listing, good dog.
LOVEssa
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Oh honey.....let em have it!! Tell it exactly the way you said it here.
1. I have donated.
2. I have cared for these pieces like they are children.
3. You're loaded with cash.
4. I'm building my treatment account.
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DUNE, I don't know if I had seen that video or not, but it was absolutely darling! Toooo sweet.
FUZZARINA, I see you are on here when I am, so I'm a'wonderin if you went kayaking yet. Would love to hear the pretty parts. Of course, I'm fixing to wander off into the ether, but just figured I'd say a passing hello. GG
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Dune - I watched the video. It made me cry especially at the end.
I feel like I am drowning in appointmentsi found out that I had two appintments for the same day. I haven't even started chemo. I can't even imagine all the appointments I'll have soon. Relying on friends to get me there. Losing more and more of my independence. I'm kinda in the middle of my own pity party.
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Veggy, I know you have along ride. Do you have to go multiple days in a row. May be they have a overnight facility connected to them. Not a best solution, but would save on those five hour trips?
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I've asked. They have a Ronald McDonald House but they may or may not have room. I just tell them that I can't do two trips one day after another. Now I see the breast surgeon once every three months. That will cut down on some of the trips to NJ.
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Ive come to romp. Okay, I've come to scream. I hate the people I sit by at work. They are loud and obnoxious. The guy on one side of me sounds like a used car salesman. He curses and just uses the most foul language all the time. "heeeeyyyyy. What can I do to get the deal done?" that's what he sounds like all the time. The girl on the other side of me is just loud. And she and this other guy are singing rediculous songs. What is wrong with people? I'm perfect, of course, so I could never annoy anyone when I'm on the phone!
I go back to the onco on Friday. Its been 6 months. Not sure what she's going to say... Hopefully its all good *fingers crossed*
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