What did you do with your bras?

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I will have a lot of bras I no longer have use for after my surgery on 8/1.  I hate to throw them away.  Does anyone know of organizations who will take donations of bras?

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  • nwest125
    nwest125 Member Posts: 240
    edited July 2012

    I donated mine to Am vets

  • Galsal
    Galsal Member Posts: 1,886
    edited July 2012

    I'm curious...would some one really want used under garments like that?

  • New-girl
    New-girl Member Posts: 358
    edited July 2012

    At the beginning of this year, I treated myself to all new beautiful Wacoal bras.  Found my lump on Thursday of that week.  They arrived in the mail the next week.  Still wrapped and neatly put up.  Been in my hideous surgical sports bras and cannot wait to wear something pretty.  But I do not think they will fit so I surely hope someone gets to enjoy them.  36b....I will surely miss you.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited July 2012

    Marilyn, that's so thoughtful of you to be looking for others who can use your no-longer-needed bras!

    I did a little Google search with "donate bras" as the keywords (without the quotes), and found many, many organizations that accept donations of bras. Some charities focus specifically on clean, gently-worn bras to aid various women's causes, and some mainstream organizations accept them for sale or distribution to needy recipients. The Salvation Army website, for example, lists tax receipt values for clothing donations, including bras.

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  • Cindyl
    Cindyl Member Posts: 1,194
    edited July 2012

    Our local women's shelter is always pleased to get donation of clothing in good shape.

  • Outfield
    Outfield Member Posts: 1,109
    edited July 2012

    I passed on my bras that were fit to pass on.  But the ones I was wearing right around when I was diagnosed,  a couple worn out old nursing bras, I am going to bury next time we plant a tree.  

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited July 2012

    I just mailed off 2 brand new mastectomy bras and 6 barely used underwire bras to

    Support 1000  PO box 577493   Chicago, IL  60657

    www.support1000.org      click on "contribute"  to find out more info on bra donation.

    As far as I understand it, this is a non for profit organization to help under privileged women get the "support" they need.

    I offered the mastectomy bras here on BCO but did not have any takers so I thought this was a good alternative.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited July 2012

    I never had more than 2-3 bras at a time. If they have decent coverage, you can have pockets sewn into them.

  • nibbana
    nibbana Member Posts: 464
    edited July 2012

    I threw my three everyday bras and the $45 sports bras in the fireplace and torched them. Good riddence.

  • marilyn113
    marilyn113 Member Posts: 118
    edited July 2012

    Thanks for all of the ideas!  I'm glad to know someone will get use out of my collection.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited July 2012

    I had just purchased several new bras and a had a few special bras that I had hardly worn. Three days after my dx my older dd found out she was pregnant. My bra cup size was a bit bigger than hers so they worked perfectly during her pregnancy and she is still wearing them while nursing. We like to keep it all in the family ! Caryn

  • crystalphm
    crystalphm Member Posts: 1,138
    edited July 2012

    Good subject, It was a "self-cleansing" thing to do, to toss my old bras. I cried and cried even more, and I seemed to need that at the time. They were ratty but comfy bras.

    Fancy bras, I gave to the salvation army, because they do sell these kinds of things!

  • Cydney
    Cydney Member Posts: 85
    edited July 2012

    If you are a uni-boob, save your bras.  I know it sounds silly, but I couldn't toss mine for a long time.  Then one day, being tired of those hulking mascetomy bras, I tried on one of my old bras with a foob in the empty side.  It made me feel back to normal.  Now, this wasn't in the first year after surgery - my torso was too sore for that, rather it was about 1 1/2 years after.  I still keep a mascetomy bra around - I may be ready to donate it soon, but my old bras fit - and they help me to be the woman I remember.

  • jukamo
    jukamo Member Posts: 17
    edited August 2012

    I like Cydney's idea!  I, too, can't quite bear with the thought of throwing out my comfy bras.  And while stalling, came up with another really useful configuration.

    I am only 10 days post mastectomy, and really wanted support for the unaffected boob.  But I can't put any pressure on my sore, swollen underarm on the mastectomy side.  So I took a pair of scissors to a supportive old gardening bra, cut out the armpit area and fabric that would sit over my incision, and VOILA - I have the perfect post-surgical comfort bra!! 

    The band spans a region below my incision - so no pain there. My drains come out through the area I cut out, and pass over the band - perfect.  And the shoulder strap, although shifted a bit toward the unaffected side, holds everything in place.  And today in a pinch, I even discovered I could pin a fluff boob into place over the area I cut out, and look pretty good to guests. Tomorrow, I might take it out in public to for a full test drive.

    It seems someone would have invented something like this already - butI looked on-line,  and only found a pending patent for a "breast-sling".  I think my solution is more comfy!

    Now I'm trying to decide if I cut another one like this so I can change them out, while waiting for the drains to come out and armpit swelling to go down.  Or, should I save them to use as Cydney suggests, or to convert to mastectomy bras with pockets (a simple cut might do it).

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2012

    Jukamo, what a good idea, and you can definitely convert many regular bras to hold a foob.

  • cinnamonsmiles
    cinnamonsmiles Member Posts: 779
    edited August 2012

    When I got close to having my BMX, or a short time after it, I put my bras in a box to be donated at a later date. Well, I can't remember where I put the box now! I have lots of clothes to go thru and give away, but at this point, with everything else I have to deal with, it is just too much work, or I forget.

    I have a mastectomy bra and soft prosthetic inserts that I need to give away, but don't think of it until I am already near someplace...sigh. And I have so many appts. it just seems like too much work... 

    And yes, there are many women who would wear someone else's bras. There are hundreds of thousands of women in this economy that I am sure can't afford bras.

    You could ask  your local Red Cross, your Salvation Army, homeless shelters, abused women's shelters. There are many other organizations ( we have something called the Neighbor's Place that takes donations of just about anything that gives them FREE to the needy). 

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