It's only been 3 months 10 days 15 hours 13 minutes
Since my mom Rosa passed away of stage 4 breast cancer and its just now starting to hit me very hard. My mother is no longer here only in spirit. I miss the days where I could call her and laugh and simply talk. I miss her soo much. I can't stop thinking about her and wondering if she is alright or where she is or who she's with. I miss you Mom. I want you to come home. Please.
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Dear Dvillarr
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dear mom Rosa is not alone, and she is near you all the time. I don't know if it helps, but the book "Talking to Heaven" by James Praag may be helpful to you. There are others by him. I have also read Dr. Raymond Moody and attended one of his lectures.
I believe so strongly that I know, when we pass, we leave our body behind and our soul goes back home. Embraced by loving light and pure love, the spirit is welcomed home.
No longer a cancer patient, no longer in pain she surrounds you and wipes your tears. Try to feel her, talk to her. I know you miss her so much . Dont' stop talking to her, she can hear you. Blow her a kiss at night, and ask her to come to you in your dreams. She loves you and always will. And one day, you two will rejoice, for mothers and daughters can never be separated.
Let me give you a big hug this way.
Love,
Iniah
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Dvillarr,
I was just missing my Dad who's been gone 5 months. It's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that they are no longer physically with us. Just wanted to tell you I know what you are feeling. They say it takes time. I'm still waiting. Even believing wholeheartedly they are happy and in a better place, their presence is missed soooo much. {{hugs}} -
Dvillarr,
I was just missing my Dad who's been gone 5 months. It's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that they are no longer physically with us. Just wanted to tell you I know what you are feeling. They say it takes time. I'm still waiting. Even believing wholeheartedly they are happy and in a better place, their presence is missed soooo much. {{hugs}} -
I was just missing my Dad who's been gone 5 months. It's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that they are no longer physically with us. Just wanted to tell you I know what you are feeling. They say it takes time. I'm still waiting. Even believing wholeheartedly they are happy and in a better place, their presence is missed soooo much. {{hugs}}
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