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Kmtmom1
Kmtmom1 Member Posts: 27

Hi all!

When you were going through the testing (mammo, ultrasounds, etc.) and before knowing it was cancer, did your Dr sound like it was something that they were concerned about or did he/she act like it was going to be ok and it was probably normal?

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  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited July 2012

    actually my surgeon initially said she did not see surgery, radiation or chemo in my future

    so when I finished up the rads, I reminded her and she said, she should never have said that before the info was in

  • Whatashocker3
    Whatashocker3 Member Posts: 209
    edited July 2012

    Neither my gp or bs thought it was cancer

  • Kelloggs
    Kelloggs Member Posts: 965
    edited July 2012

    When I first went to my PCP she did an exam and said she didn't think it was anything to worry about.  But I knew it in my gut all along.

  • Janet456
    Janet456 Member Posts: 507
    edited July 2012

    Dr told me it was after mamo and US.  Two separate biopsy's have since come back B9.  I am now waiting for the final results of my lumpectomy, it's hard to relax and not worry about it as the Dr was so convinced.

  • mckenna
    mckenna Member Posts: 413
    edited July 2012

    due to adh diagnosis, i had an mri, on a wed, the next day when the nurse practitioner and i kept missing each other and she would just not leave a message, i knew in my gut it was cancer.  she kept saying it was likely nothing and would need an mri biopsy just to be sure and in every conversation she would say that but  i knew it was not nothing and wished she had not been like that because ever since then every time there is an issue and someone says it is likley nothing i don't believe them.  my surgeon said likely no rads and lot of other incorrect info which is why i have since switched surgeons but they should not provide info they are not sure of. 

  • Kmtmom1
    Kmtmom1 Member Posts: 27
    edited July 2012

    The reason I ask is I found a lump (oblong, about an inch long, painless, and saw a surgeon yesterday that said she thought it was fibrocystic changes and it was just a part of my breast (she did an ultrasound).  I've never felt that before and it was very odd that she said it was 'just a part of my breast'.  Anyway, I had a mammogram in 2010 that was neg.  The surgeon wanted me to get a mammo while I was there yesterday since it had been so long.  Went to the other office, had my mammo, then the radiologist wanted another u/s.  The tech said I was good to go afterwards and that he didn't need anything else.  They are wanting to compare my mammo from yesterday to the mammo in 2010, then call with results.  Just worried me that they wanted so many tests.  The surgeon was pretty confident when she said she thought it was normal.  Just curious as to how it happened for others.  I just have a bad feeling about it.  I asked her yesterday if she thought I need a biopsy and she said no.  We will see!  Thanks for your comments ladies. 

  • Kmtmom1
    Kmtmom1 Member Posts: 27
    edited July 2012

    Oh, and the surgeon also scheduled for a breast MRI in the next few weeks.  i know they want to be careful, it's just worrisome that they are scheduling so many tests when she thought it was nothing.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2012

    Kmtmom, a chunk of cancer that big would have you dead already! I was told that by the first sugeon who did my first lumpectomy 33 years ago. BUT, having said that, there could be a small little bit of cancer in the middle of it. That's why we say "The best lump is one in a jar". There is NO way for anyone to know yet, until it is under a microscope. Seriously. They can ASSume all they want, they can make fair guesses based on what they've seen before, but seriously, they can't know for sure.

    Because my MRI had vascular invasion, they were pretty sure that it was cancer. What else needs it's own blood system to keep it alive? But it was after a bad mammo, where I bled all over the panel, that I was told my lump was "worrisome for cancer". The docs exact words. They don't want you to be blindsided, and they don't want to give you false hope either. It's a fine line the techs walk. The tech after the mammo said "Don't be worried, but be concerned". Good advice.

    Good luck, sweetie! Keep us posted HERE so we know what happens. 

  • nwest125
    nwest125 Member Posts: 240
    edited July 2012

    When I got my call to go back for another mamm. she showed me what they was worried about and said it was still showing up. I think at that time I just knew.

    Nancy

  • mckenna
    mckenna Member Posts: 413
    edited July 2012

    my cancer was only found on an mri so obviously i think they are the best test out there.  others with different experiences might feel diffrent, but to me, the more tests the better, rather 5 tests come out b9 then not have gotten the 5th test that could have picked up an early stage cancer.  one thing i have learned is go with your gut, keep asking questions and don't stop till you find a dr. you feel is listening to you and taking the best possible care of you.  lots of times things are b9 and i hope you get b9 results from the mri as well but glad they are persuing an mri.  good luck

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2012

    Oh yah, my gut. Before I lay down for the MRI I was thinking "If I don't lie down, I'll never have to know". But, I did drive 6 hours north to tell my son in person BEFORE I had the diagnosis that it didn't look good. I did have a feeling, but I had almost that same feeling the other 4 biopsies I'd had. The bleeding from my nipple had nothing to do with my cancer! I think the universe was just trying to get my attention. When I got back to work after the "bad" mammo, I made one of my male co-workers sit down and I told him he "had to be a girl right now" and I told him how scared I was and what was happening. That's what it's like to work in an all-male environment!

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited July 2012

    Barbe, sounds like a hoot with telling your co worker!  I work with mostly male (or at least the English speaking workers are mostly male~~) so I can get it a little of the idea, have had some odd comments from the guys here although lately, I do believe that they talk to their wives first before commenting too much to me, better for me and them

  • DeborahC
    DeborahC Member Posts: 114
    edited July 2012
    As soon as I felt my lump I knew it was bad.  Every single person that examined it also knew/strongly suspected cancer.  Not a single person along the way told me that it was probably nothing.  I never held out any hope!  I don't know if the lump looked that ominous or they just knew I was high risk.  My surgeon was the funniest.  I asked him at our first consultation before the biopsy if it would at least be an early stage.  He said, "Oh this will not be Stage I." 
  • BLinthedesert
    BLinthedesert Member Posts: 678
    edited July 2012

    My radiologist sat down with me and went over both the mammogram and ultrasound.  There was a mass on the ultrasound and microcalcifications about 1cm underneath the mass.  She never really told me what she suspected, but later when I received her report from my PCP (about 2 months later) her report said that she was highly supicious that it was cancer.  She tried to do a biopsy - but it was tricky (because the mass was really dense and she couldn't get to the chest wall microcalcifications using ultrasound guided technology).  So, she told me that regardless of the results of her biopsy that she was referring me to a breast surgeon.

    The breast surgeon said that he suspected it was cancer - he was able to get to the mass (using bigger bore needles), but he was going to have to get to the microcalcifications surgically, regardless of what the mass biopsy showed.  

    At the end of the day, the mass was 2 separate foci of DCIS and the microcalcifications were ADH and other benign stuff.   They ended up taking about ~ 5 cm of tissue (5 x 4 x 1 -- it was a weird shape).   

    I also had a fibroadenoma and cysts, and they could see those pretty easily, and knew that they were nothing to worry about (some of them got taken out during the lumpectomy because they were "in the region" of the margins).   All together, from first mammogram and ultrasound to surgery was 3 months.

    MRI is great -- but it also has a really high false positive rate -- so don't freak out if you need a biopsy based on the results ... try (as hard as it is) to take things one step at a time. 

  • crazyride43
    crazyride43 Member Posts: 154
    edited July 2012

    I had my 1st mammogram at 41, and got called back for an ultrasound which scared the you-know-what out of me.  It turned out to be nothing - just dense breasts.  The next year I went for my mammo, got called back again and they once again said it was just dense breasts.  They recommended a screening MRI in 6 months.  So I went for my MRI in December, and when they called me back for an ultrasound, of course I wasn't nervous at all because I thought it would be fine like the others...

    To your question, I knew as soon as the radiologist came in that it was serious because it was like all the air got sucked out and the tech held my hand.  She started measuring things that sounded BIG, and told me I should think about getting the best possible breast surgeon.  I asked her if it was cancer, and she said she couldn't be 100% sure until after biopsy but it didn't look good.  Sure enough, BIRADS 5 and after biopsy IDC stage 2 and 3cm+.

    The moral to this story is - if you get told you have dense breasts, immediately insist on a screening MRI.  I am so grateful it found my cancer when it was only Stage II, but always wonder whether I could have avoided chemo etc if it had happened a year earlier. 

  • Cindyl
    Cindyl Member Posts: 1,194
    edited July 2012

    When I went to the pcp with my lump, he said "I can see why you'r worried.  We'll make you an appointment.  I got in for the mammogram and ultrasound and the imaging center said "don't worry, scar tissue" When I went in 18 months latter the rad tech who met me for my appointment told me the radiologist was "concerned about the old images" and I would need to wait while he went over the new images.  Again Mammogram and ultra sound.  Then he came in, explained that my lump had (to his eyes) been suspicious 18 months ago and was even more ominous now.  Would I mind if he did a biopsy right away?  He did and he told me he'd be calling by lunch time tomorrow and that my pcp would be referring me to a breast surgeon, even "best case" which he didn't expect that lump needs to go.  By 11 AM the cancer navigator had called, my pcp had called and the radiologist had called...

  • comingtoterms
    comingtoterms Member Posts: 421
    edited July 2012

    I had a fool for a radiologist, who also did the biopsy and flippently told me, "it doesn't look like cancer. You have nothing to be worried about." What a fool he must have felt like when he had to call me at work (I'm a teacher) and confess that he was wrong." Worse day ever.

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited July 2012

    Oh wow how awful for all of u---my Dr. has been my Dr. for 30 yrs so we get each other.  After my Mammo-he left a couple of messages and I didn't return right away. Then he finally ot a hold of me and was hysterical  (I was laughin) he said he made all my appointments for the week with my new drs. ??? He got hysterical I calmed him down and told him Don't worry so much.

    When I met my NEW drs. they told me how upset my Dr. was and when he called he wanted me to be taken immediately for all tests. I was still laughing about him. But my tests and results were pretty fast so he managed that.  My waiting was really nothing to speak of. Of course I knew it was going to be a disaster and it was but I really love my Dr. and loved the whole team he set me up with. Maybe it's not the normal way to find out and maybe some would object, but like I've said after all these yrs. that's how it is with our relationship--he such a character--we match

  • nora_az
    nora_az Member Posts: 720
    edited July 2012

    I found a lump a few short months after successful breast reduction surgery. I had to have a mammo prior to surgery and all the tissue had been biopsied after surgery. When I found the lump I was thinking it was scar tissue because it was along the scar line and it had been less than a year and it hurt when I pressed on it.  Something was nagging at me telling me to find out for sure and I went to my PCP. He gave me a breast exam, told me 90% of lumps are benign and he said I was correct, it probably was scar tissue. He sent me out for my yearly mammo with a ultrasound to follow up.

    It was at the imagining place where they scared me. I was called into the radiologists office before they even allowed me to get dressed after my ultrasound. SHE was the one putting cancer in my head and questioning me about how long did I have the lump and that it was not normal at all. When I told her that my PCP told me that 90% of lumps are benign she looked me straight in the face and said, "Do you understand I am trying to tell you I think you are the 10%"  It was at that point when I started to panic.

  • NevadaPaula
    NevadaPaula Member Posts: 42
    edited July 2012

    My tumor was so small it could not be felt. I had my annual mamo, and the radiologist who read it, saw it. He told me it was most likely cancer. I came back for more mamos and an ultra sound. I asked if he could be the Doctor that read them. Again the verdict was cancer. He told me that it would take a biopsy to conferm. I had a lumpectomy, the Doctor told my husband that it was cancer.

  • wrsmith2x
    wrsmith2x Member Posts: 410
    edited July 2012

    I see this is a forum for "High Risk Women" but am unsure what constitutes that phrase?  Can anyone enlighten me? 

  • Jen42
    Jen42 Member Posts: 246
    edited July 2012

    My story starts with my gallbladder. I know that sounds weird. But two years ago I suddenly had horrible burning pains after eating, and intense pain like something squeezing my stomach when I did eat. Primary doc put me on acid reflux meds. Didn't help. It got to point where all I could eat was cottage cheese and chicken broth. Referred to gastro who suspected ulcer(s), performed endoscopy and found no ulcers but evidence of really bad acid reflux. Put me on stronger meds. Still didn't help, I lost 20 lbs (that I could not afford) in 6 weeks. Finally had another test involving injecting dye and some kind of machine to test my gallbladder function. BINGO ! Gallbladder was starting to fail. The week before my gallbladder surgery, I was sitting on couch watching TV. Had an itch on my left boob. Felt a kidney-bean sized lump. Quite startling, to say the least. But I have had history of benign cysts that would inflate and deflate with my cycle, so didn't totally freak out. Can only assume I suddenly felt the lump because of the weight loss -- and we all know the boobs are usually the first to go when losing weight. Went to gyno the next day, he scheduled me for emergency mammo. Mammo showed it to be a solid mass, so had 3 core-punch biopsies (sorry if I'm getting terminology wrong, it's been awhile now). Had results two days later -- lump was an intraductal pappilloma (benign, wart-like growth in the milk ducts). I was told I could leave it alone or have it removed if it bothered me. Being that I was scheduled for first surgery of my life (the gallbladder) in just a few days, I decided to leave it alone. A year goes by and it's time for my annual gyno appt. He feels the lump and says "does this  feel bigger to you?" I say "maybe..." It's time for my mammo anyway, so I get that done. Now the recommendation is to remove it, "just in case". I'm not worried, as the 3 samples from biopsy the year before came back benign. I have the lump removed on March 27, 2011. Told I will have the results in a couple of days. Surgeon is confidant this was a "Better safe than sorry" situation. I'm left with a half moon scar on my left breast, no real divot or anything missing. I'm feeling pretty lucky. Until I don't hear from the surgeon about my results as the days go by. I call and am told by his nurse that "something is holding up the results, but the doctor will call as soon as he can." On April 4, the doctor calls to tell me that DCIS was hiding under the pappilloma. In his 25 years of removing papillomas, he never had one hiding cancer cells underneath it. He is so sorry to have to tell me this news. But immediately assures me it is such early-stage cancer that as long as I take steps to remove it, I should be OK. And from there I rode the roller-coaster of research, consultations, decisions, freak-outs, etc. I had choices:  lumpectomy with radiation (plus 5 years of Tamosxifen) or mastectomy (single, double, with or without recon). Due to family history and my age (42 at diagnosis) and my propensity for being a worry-wart, I ended up going with bilateral mastectomy. I was a candidate for one-step recon, so everything was done in a 7-hour surgery and I woke up with new foobs. I'm now just over a year out from surgery and do not regret my decision. I'm doing great -- and I guess I have my gallbladder to thank for that ! Funny how life works, sometimes...

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited July 2012

    wrsmith I didn't even notice it was for high risk--I just popped right in and told my story.===Well once u get it doesn't that mean high risk??? I mean can u get much higher......

  • kltb04
    kltb04 Member Posts: 1,051
    edited July 2012

    My NP who I saw for my annual exam - said she felt a "ridge" and "wasn't overly concerned but I probably needed it checked out" so she sent me for a diagnostic mammo (was only 38, had never had any kind of mammo) but said "if I wanted it could wait a few months but I shouldn't wait til next year".  I had the mammo 10 days later. 

    My first clue was when the tech asked in a conversational tone "so do you have a family history of BC"? during the mammo.  Then the radiologist straight up told me he was pretty sure it was cancer and I needed a biopsy. He thought it was DCIS.  Radiologist (different) after the biopsy said it was likely IDC and the next day had results which confirmed.

  • heero
    heero Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2012

    i am 20 years old..from previous year i was feeling that there is some mass in my left breast.today i go to doctor.he took my mammogram and told me it isfibroadenoma..what should i do.isit harmful.please reply back as i am worried.

  • heero
    heero Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2012

    one day earlier..

  • msphil
    msphil Member Posts: 1,536
    edited July 2012

    I worked at a clinic and had been in the medical field for about 15 yrs or so, so when I found the lump and felt thepain under my left arm, I kinda knew it, when I went to work the next day and had my friend a nurse and a doctor I worked for to do a needle aspiration anwhen they looked at each other (I knew).  msphil (idc, stage2, 0/3 nodes, L mast, chemo and rads and 5 yrs on Tamoxifen) and I am a 18yr Survivor) Praise the LORD GOD). 

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited July 2012

    heero, you can read more about fibroadenomas and treatment for them at the main Breastcancer.org site in the section What Mammograms Show: Calcifications, Cysts, Fibroadenomas.

    The Mods

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited July 2012

    Heero I'm glad the moderators stepped in--I have no idea what it is, but that's just me.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2012

    Heero, a fibroadenoma is a benign, NON cancerous growth. Your doctor should have explained all that to you, shame on him!!! Can you ask your PCP for a clear explanation so you feel better?

    High Risk women are; dense breasts, family history, ADHP, etc. I just responded to the title, not the category.

    I had one of the men in my office "poo poo" my lump saying "Oh breast cancer is like a chronic disease these days, it's nothing to worry about." I didn't say anything back. ONE MONTH later, his daughter in law got diagnosed with breast cancer. Ta Da! Karma bit him in the ass!! I reminded him about his comment and he didn't even remember it!

    When I went back to work after my double mast I told the guys to look out, "I may have lost my breasts, but I found my balls!" 

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