7 YEARS OUT!!
To all my her 2 sisters:
It's been 7 years since my Biopsy.
I had hideous prognosticators; 12 pos nodes 2 of which were totally replaced by tumor, lymph and vascular invasion, lobes involved, paget's of nipple, NO clear margins after mastectomy , and oh yeah for the icing on the cake ; er /pr neg, and Her2 Positve!! Blah, blah, blah, blah......
I am a nurse and the only thing my poor onc could do was hand me the path report to read and hold my hand.
I responded with " Oh Sh*t, Oh Sh*t, Oh Sh*t" etc, etc, etc.
Definitely not a good day, but ultimately a HUGE life changer
Fast forward:
I am healthy, living the life. enjoying a new Granddaughter, richer relationships, living in Paradise and truly living large!!
I have dedicated my "New Life" to providing assistance to women with this disease. I know I am blessed to be doing this, as BC has coursed through the veins of all my maternal family.
I have learned that if we don't grab onto the Day's joys , we wil never get them back;When I was dxed 5 family members cried that I would die before them; They are all gone and I am still here.
I thank God everyday for everyday , and always have a good belly laugh as well!
There is so much joy in the future especially when the future is not so certain!
Comments
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Congrats and thanks for sharing! Love reading posts like this!
V
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Hi Linda
Excellent news. Congratulations. Thank you so much for posting.
The more HER2+ survivors post, the more we will have hope.
I salute you.
Alice
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Hi Linda
Thank you for your post. It's so important to keep spreading hope and you have been kind enough to take the time to do so! I finished herceptin on May 11th. Made it to 16 months post dx.
Liz -
LKC, congrats and thanks for your inspiring post!
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Dear Ikc
Congratulation and thank you so much for giving us hope and inspiration. I hope you will enjoy your life and you will celebrate your 50th year of cancerversary.
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Lkc, Thanks for sharing and congratulations to you.
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Congratulations to you! I know how you feel. :-) I will be a 7 year NED survivor this month also. June 24 to be exact. Stage 2B. Happy...happy....happy....with much thanksgiving to my Creator for each day of good health I receive.
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lkc,
I loved your post and your positive spirit.
It's been four years for me since diagnosis. I go tomorrow for my mammogram, and I'm feeling calm and optimistic. It can be an uphill climb to reclaim a happy life after this THING, but, as you so rightly point out, if we don't grab onto the day's joys, we never get them back. This looks and feels different for everyone, but the essential truth is the same.
Thanks for sharing your experience! And congratulations for being seven years NED.
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Ikc what a wonderful post. Thank you for sharing your story and your positive spirit to encourage us
to live each day with gusto and happiness! None of us knows what tomorrow brings we must keep
the joy in our lives. Lois
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wow, thank you so much for posting that, it brought a tear to my eye.
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Ikc, congratulations!!!!! (Sorry to be so late)
Much love
MARCIA
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