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  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    So pleased you are enjoying yourself Heather.   Its a start to being back 'normal' I would imagine.    Sounds like you deserve to be with a good book for the evening.

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited June 2012

    Really...pfc stands for post final chemo?  never knew that..it was always post """F'''i..n...g chemo to me and always will be...the f word describes it so perfectly..don't you think???  We have had this discussion before about the "f' word and it certainly seems to fit in most situations on here...

    Cocker  soo..are you really coming to the states to see Inmate?  I'm only about 10 hrs from the outer banks...and Inmate has a beach house...hmmm...I think I see something in our future...lol..

    And NO. I absolutely do not want to know my expiration date....I'm 52 so I'm thinking it could be anywhere from tomorrow until maybe 40 more years....I really want to be a bitchy old lady....

    Welcome to Nance and dworley.

    Anybody got any extra pepper??  I could use some...lol

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    *passes cayenne pepper to Titan*. (you may as well REALLY enjoy yourself)

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited June 2012

    Good Morning Ladies well afternoon really. 

    LuvRVing - oh you have changed your avatar.  I can't see your face so clearly now but you look young, happy and carefree. Must be all that French Red Rhone so you go girl.  Yep you would love Aussie and NZ.  Aussie is gorgeous and warm and there is heaps to do but they have big spiders and I can't stand them.  NZ is more laid back and unspoilt but we do have beautiful scenery. Its a must visit for you. 

    Dworley - welcome to our home away from home.  Sounds to me like you have a good prognosis there with only one lymph node and 0.7mm.  (Hope I'm right) and you have really hit it well with the treatment. Wishing you heaps of luck for a clear ultrasound on Monday.

    Dormac - Ironic isn't it your DH due to retire and then has heart attack. I hit 65 yrs last October and was diagnosed with BC November.  There's just no justice in this frigging world you know. I also don't think there is a true psychic anywhere cause I haven't won lotto yet. 

    Tazzy - if you knew your expiry date no need to run around like a blue arse fly cause it would be pointless worrying until the night before and then that night you cram yourself full with chocolate cake and go out with a bang and a smile on your face lol.

    Titan - No I'm going to visit OBXK - Karen.  BUT if you and Inmate  are within travelling distance (10 hrs is nothing) we could all catch up and have a blast.  Wouldn't that be just wonderful. I worked out the OB is for Outer Banks but what does the X stand for?

    Inmate - Sorry you are losing your hair again but luckily it is summer.  Every night I wake in the night with a freezing cold head where my night hat comes off.   I have to scramble around trying to find it under my pillow and shove it back on again. I do wish you could  show your jewellery on here.  Do you have a website for it.  Last chemo.  F.... good news, way to go.

    Niprn - welcome once again.  Sending you lots and lots of positive energy for the next phase. You will do well.

    Kathrynn - the trapeze swing would be great to see.  Go on make my day and put the pic on here.                

    Tifj - my butt is the same. I can tell you if I ran naked down the lake front even the cops would leave me alone lol.  They would probably put me in some dementia unit.

    But we are what we are ladies big, fat, lumpy, wrinkly who cares its what we are like inside that counts. None of us are 22 again (I wish) so we just take each other as we come and learn to love each other with all our faults.  I can tell you are all lovely ladies anyway or you wouldn't be on here.

    NavyMom - You have a safe great trip with that wonderful Petty Officer of yours. Yep leave the pepper at home or you will be wiggling in your seat.   Give him a big hug from Nana Annie cause I'm proud of him too.        

    Heather - Great you like your new job.  Just remind your boss you have a finishing time and then you have a normal life to lead with a great book and a glass of Luvs red wine. 

    BernieEllen - Great jokes I had a really good laugh at both of them. Keep them coming cause they keep me going through my typing.

    Well ladies I thought my time was up this morning.  I was sitting here quietly typing and I heard this  awful, horrible  noise through my head phones. I thought OMG thats my chest. Panic panic. I thought all those ciggies have caught up with me, the frigging cancer has gone into my lungs.  Talk about a sweat.  Then I realized the cat had come in and was sitting on the seat behind me snoring.  Sweat over, back to typing.  I live to see another day.

    My little white rag of a dog.  Another sweat this morning.  I had just showered and put my clothes on the bed when I realized I had left my specs in the bathroom.  So I went to get them, had a brief discussion with the old feller on the way about 30 secs and when I got back to the bedroom I caught her tugging my prosthesis out of my bra edge.  You can imagine what I threatened to do. The little shit.  Every night once she knows we are asleep she gets on the bed and inches her way across so that by the time morning comes me and the old fellar look like we are glued together and she has the rest of it.   Tessa my CS can't make it onto the bed unless she has had a good poo cause she's tubby. 

    Have a great day. Don't forget to laugh. Keep well. Annie           

            

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited June 2012

    Just to prolong my post cause I'm sure its not long enough.

    A couple of years ago we were all in the tea room at work and someone started to talk about funerals.  One of the doc's asked me how I wanted to go,  buried or burnt.  I said I want to be buried but I want my knickers left on cause I don't trust the undertaker and I want my smokes and lighter with me and then one night, (deepend voice) when its cold, misty and hazy,  you will see this little curl of smoke coming out of my coffin and the doc said then we'll know you set your knickers on fire. lol

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited June 2012

    Oh CS......You crack me up.  I don't have dogs but am a cat lover through and through.  It seems not only do I have three indoor kitties, but fate has given me 4 outdoor ones as well.  My indoor kitties are all black and very sweet in their own way.  

    Fate has it that three of the outdoor kitties are also black and the old gentleman, Olms (Old man) is grey and white.  He is quite smooth and very much the gentleman.  It took me a year to convince him I was okay.  So now I have 7 cats.  Yes, I could be mistaken for the crazy cat lady down the street.  I do say they come in handy at Halloween!  My sister calls me the cat whisperer.  I'm okay with that.  

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    NavyMom - have a wonderful trip!



    Cocker - you are just an absolute hoot. *gazes in crystal ball*. I see a career change to a comedian in your future!



    Inmate - I love black cats!



    Well I beat a John Deere into submission. (what idiot man makes a tractor that you can't drain the gas tank on! Don't mess with a woman who has a turkey baster.) Oil and filters changed, new gas and air filters, new spark plugs. Battery jumped and recharged. Running perfectly! *big sigh*. How come I can do all that and not deal with a simple cable adapter or break down and re set up a computer!! !!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited June 2012

    I just had to put this on for you

  • BernieEllen
    BernieEllen Member Posts: 2,445
    edited June 2012
    Answers given by 7yr old school children to the following questions:

    Why did God make mothers?
    1. She's the only one who knows where the sticky tape is.
    2. Mostly to clean the house.
    3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.

    How did God make mothers?
    1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
    2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
    3. God made my Mum just the same like he made me. He just used bigger parts.

    What ingredients are mothers made of?
    1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world and one dab of mean.
    2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they mostly use string, I think.

    Why did God give you your mother and not some other Mum?
    1. We're related.
    2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's Mums like me.

    What kind of little girl was your Mum?
    1. My Mum has always been my Mum and none of that other stuff.
    2. I don't know because I wasn't there but my guess would be pretty bossy.
    3. They say she used to be nice.

    What did Mum need to know about Dad before she married him?
    1. His last name.
    2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
    3. Does he make at least £800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?

    Why did your Mum marry your Dad?
    1. My Dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my Mum eats a lot.
    2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
    3. My Grandma says that Mum didn't have her thinking cap on.

    Who's the boss at your house?
    1. Mum doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because Dad's such an idiot.
    2. Mum. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the bed.
    3. I guess Mum is, but only because she has a lot more to do than Dad.

    What's the difference between Mums & Dads?
    1. Mums work at work and work at home and Dads just go to work at work.
    2. Mums know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
    3. Dads are taller & stronger, but Mums have all the real power 'cause that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friend's.
    4. Mums have magic, they make you feel better without medicine.

    What does your Mum do in her spare time?
    1. Mothers don't have spare time.
    2. To hear her talk, she pays bills all day long.

    What would it take to make your Mum perfect?
    1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of plastic surgery.
    2. You know, her hair. I'd die it, maybe blue.

    If you could change one thing about your Mum, what would it be?
    1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I'd get rid of that.
    2. I'd make my Mum smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did it and not me.
    3. I would like her to get rid of those invisible things.

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited June 2012

    This is such a great thread and you ladies keep me smiling!  Heather, I'm glad things are going well and that you have found a job so quickly.  I used to live in New Jersey near PA years ago and still miss the area and the people.  I absolutely loved it there. 

    Here's a link to the good news from Canada.  It was on the facebook site but wanted to post it in case someone here had not yet read it.  Also, there is a link out there regarding aspirin and RSK inhibition - I will try to post it later.  I am running late getting to the office; forgot to set my alarm this morning.

     http://www.prweb.com/releases/CBCF/TNBCannoucement/prweb9576703.htm

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited June 2012

    Christina- I haven't read a report on the aspirin-RSK connection, but my MO told me to start taking 2 full strength aspirin a week. He attended a seminar in Miami and that was a hot topic!

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    This is my "Morning Smile" thread.  The first one I read when I log on in the morning.  

    Thanks so much for the "Morning Laugh" today CS & Bernie.  What a great way to start the day - laughing and smiling.

    Well it is still absolutely peeing down rain here, but I have no intention of going out today as Euro 2012 (soccer/football) begins today.

    Thanks for posting that link Christina... I need to read that when my brain is more awake.. not that it means I will understand it anymore.

    Enjoy your days and keep smiling and laughing.

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited June 2012

    Kathrynn......what men screw up in design women fix with inginuity.  We're just good like that!  Now, off to add a turkey baster to my tool kit. 

    Berniellen......kids.  Oh if we could only be like that when we are adults.

    Last day of chemo today.  I can't tell you how absolutley happy it makes me to be done.....FOREVER!  With that said, here is a link to a video that sums it up.  

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7cWBrGAIcc

    I hope you all enjoy!  Happy Friday!  Love to you all! 

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    YIPPEEE... Congratulations Inmate on today becomming a chemo Grad - wooo hooo (I'll be joining that club on June 22).   What a feeling you must have - FIFO Day (Finally It's F*&^ing OVER).

    A very very happy Friday !

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited June 2012

    Thanks Tazzy....  This is the 4th time I have graduated chemo and it will be my last!  It is a great feeling and I am excited for you to be done just in time to enjoy some summer.  BTW, I love Kelowna and my family have made many trips out your way to ski.  What a spectacular place you live.

  • BernieEllen
    BernieEllen Member Posts: 2,445
    edited June 2012

    loved the video.A photographer, who was also a confirmed atheist, decided to go into the woods to get photos of the fall foliage.
    It was a beautiful day....fall colours, birds chirping, babbling brook, and a gentle breeze rustling the leaves.
    While snapping shots, the atheist heard a noise behind him, and whirled around to see a huge bear coming through the bushes. He dropped his camera and ran. And kept running....... and looking behind him, he noticed the bear was gaining on him. He was so scared that tears came to his eyes. He ran faster, but the bear was closing in on him. He ran faster yet, and tripped over a root. Rolling over onto his back, the atheist saw the bear rise to his full height and raise a huge paw...... and the atheist cried out, "Oh, God, no!"
    And everything stopped. The birds stopped chirping. The brook stopped babbling. The gentle breeze stopped. And the bear froze with his paw in the air. And the atheist heard a booming voice say, "Young man. For years you doubted my very existence, but now that your life is in peril you call my name to help you. Why should I do so?"
    And the atheist thought for a moment, and said, "Yes, you are right. If you are God, then it would be hypocritical of me to become a Christian at this point in my life. But, do you think that you could at least make the bear a Christian for today?" And the booming voice was quiet for a moment and then said, "Done."
    And everything started again. The birds chirping, brook babbling, and gentle breeze rustling the leaves. And the bear slowly lowered his paw.
    And the bear put his paws together, and bowed his massive head and said, "Dear Lord, please bless this food we are about to eat."

    Two hillbillies walk into a restaurant. While having a bite to eat, they talk about their moonshine operation.
    Suddenly, a woman at a nearby table, who is eating a sandwich, begins to cough. After a minute or so, it becomes apparent that she is in real distress. One of the hillbillies looks at her and says, 'Kin ya swallar?'
    The woman shakes her head no.
    Then he asks, 'Kin ya breathe?'
    The woman begins to turn blue and shakes her head no.

    The hillbilly walks over to the woman, lifts up her dress, yanks down her drawers and quickly gives her right butt cheek a lick with his tongue.
    The woman is so shocked that she has a violent spasm and the obstruction flies out of her mouth.
    As she begins to breathe again, the Hillbilly walks slowly back to his table.
    His partner says, 'Ya know, I'd heerd of that there 'Hind Lick Maneuver' but I ain't niver seed nobody do it!'
    ________________________________________
    A Husband and wife are shopping in their local Wal-Mart. The husband picks up a case of Budweiser and puts it in their cart. 'What do you think you're doing?' asks the wife. 'They're on sale, only $10 for 24 cans.' he replies. 'Put them back, we can't afford them.' demands the wife, and so they carry on shopping. A few aisles further on along the woman picks up a $20 jar of face cream and puts it in the basket. 'What do you think you're doing?' asks the husband. 'It's my face cream. It makes me look beautiful.' replies the wife. Her husband retorts: 'So does 24 cans of Budweiser and it's half the price. 'On the PA system: 'Cleanup needed on aisle 25, we have a husband down.'

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited June 2012

    Bernieellen......hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    Inmate when you next come to visit you make sure you let me know.  Yes I do live in pretty spectacular place.

    I truly hope that today goes well for you.

    Take care

  • Luah
    Luah Member Posts: 1,541
    edited June 2012

    Bernie: Loved that Mom Q&A. So sweet... and so true!

    Inmate: Congrats on being done with chemo!!

    Christina: Thanks for that link... very proud of the researchers in British Columbia and the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation for taking up our cause. This is BIG news!!!  

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    I am sure grateful to all the researchers and everyone else involved that they do what they do.  This is absolutely magnificent news.   If they need a 'guinea pig' I'll put my hand up.

    Thanks for sending through Christina.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Bernie - "1. Mothers don't have spare time". Out of the mouth of babes



    Inmate - *throws confetti and does a happy dance*. I'm so happy for you!!!!



    Tazzy - FIFO. I f*#+ing like it!!!!



    Christina and Tifj - thank you, I'm off to get some aspirin, 2 aspirin a week can't hurt.



    ^that does bring me to my next rant of the

    week. Went to CVS Drugstore, to pick up baby aspirin for my Mom. I almost fell over in shock. Baby ASA has been around for a zillion years and used to be cheap. Now that the doctor's are recommending it, they've jacked the prices way up!!!' The best price at CVS was the store brand at $14.29 for 500 (doesn't sound all that bad does it? But I could buy the same amount of full strength ASA dirt cheap). Went to Walmart and got 300 for $2.97!!!! I don't know if Walgreens and all the other chain drugstores are doing the same thing, but if they are, this one huge consumer rip off!!!! If you can sell full strength ASA (which is 4x's the dose of baby ASA) at a reasonable price, you can sell 1/4 of the dose at a reasonable price also.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Well ladies, I want you to know you inspire me. Instead of ranting about what I think is ripping off people, I called the company and registered a complaint, and will follow it up with a letter to the CEO (locally owned company). Instead of ranting, I'll do something that will maybe make a difference. (I'm not naive, but knowing that your local competitor is selling at reasonable prices, should put a kick in your knickers!)

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    kathyrnn... YOU GO GIRL !!

    Dunno where you are from, but you may want to think about letting the local newspaper/website know about this too.    Yeah, should definitely kick them up the knickers - ha ha!

    Please keep us posted on this one. 

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 791
    edited June 2012

    I am an emotional mess. Putting the family beach house on the market and removing things I wanted was brutal. I was crying for my mommy like I was 5 years old. She's been gone 2 years, but sometimes it just slays me.



    When I got home, I had an offer on the house I grew up in - more crying.



    Then I picked up my results from my blood work last week, and for the first time, my calcium is high.



    I'll go back and read how everyone is doing. I just needed a little pity party.



    Love you all...

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    Karen, I think you are entitled to a pity party.  That is horrible and I cant even begin to imagine the roller coaster of emotions you must be feeling.  I have no words of wisdom for you, but that we're here for you in your time of need.   Pity Party away and get it out of your system.

    Thinking of ya and hoping for sunnier times ahead.

    Michele

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited June 2012

    Karen - my heart goes out to you my friend.  What a lot to go through. Can't think of any words of wisdom either except to say if having this house is stressing you out then it must go. A pity party is good for you every now and again and you must have needed a good cry.   Now your calcium is high, but this will come down and in a day or two when everything is hopefully signed sealed and settled you will feel better.

    Sending you lots of love  and warm hugs.  Will be thinking of you all day. Annie        

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Karen - my heart goes out to you!!!

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 1,344
    edited June 2012

    Karen- (((((HUGS))))))

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited June 2012

    Karen...sending you a big hug..and I'm a good dang hugger.

    Tazzy..congrats to you girl...on your graduation...whew..glad that it is over...now listen to Momma Titan and the rest of us..take it easy for awhile...your body and mind has been through a lot...take some time to get yourself back...I think you are on the right track though..you sound full of energy...good stuff!

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    Thanks Titan... actual grad date is June 22.   Then radiation/surgery or vice versa.  I see my RO and Surgeon next Wednesday & Thursday respectively to find out the next plan of action.  But sure will be good to see the back of chemo, really good.  

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