69 year old aunt just diagnosed

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SolyMornie
SolyMornie Member Posts: 1
edited June 2014 in Caring for Someone with Breast cancer

Hello everyone...

My 69 year old aunt had just been diagnosed with advanced malignant tumor on Monday. She had a CT Scan yesterday (results are yet to be discussed), will be admitted to the ward on Thursday for an operation on Saturday (May 26th, 2012).

I am devastated and was totally unprepared for this. My aunt lives with me and my parents as she has no family of her own.

I need tips and support.

My aunt suffers from several complications such as hypertension and osteoporosis. It worries me that she may not be able to handle the air-conditioned ward. I've prepared several blankets, jackets, and even a heater for her. 

I need some support and motivation as this is very sudden and shocking to me.

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  • MiniC
    MiniC Member Posts: 3
    edited May 2012

    Hi. I am rather new here myself. I think everyone's experience as a family member or caregiver is a little different. I know you don't have much time, but I have learned that you do need to learn as much as possible about what is going on with your family member's medical condition as you can. The internet is a great resource for this. As good as your medical providers may be, sometimes you may catch something that they miss. Don't be afraid to ask them questions. As scary as the upcoming surgery may seem, be glad your aunt's cancer is not too far gone to operate. Best wishes.

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  • sewingnut
    sewingnut Member Posts: 1,129
    edited May 2012

    Soly,

    I don't know where you are but the local hospitals here (in Ohio) all have heated blankets if your Aunt gets cold ask to see if your facility has them. Also depending on the surgery she is having chances are she will only be in the hospital overnight. Things will seem like they are spinning for you. Just stop and breathe. Make sure, if your Aunt agrees, that you will be able to get her medical info. The nurses and Dr's will be able to answer any question with her consent.  Good luck and know you are not alone. Prayers sent up, blessings come down.

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