April/May 2012 Chemo hang out

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  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited May 2012

    My nails are hanging in there.  Still polishing them with clear polish even though I do a very unprofessional looking job!!!!  Still icing during the taxotere which hopefully is helping. 

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited May 2012

    Sade,

       Glad you got approved for FMLA. If I was at my old job there is no way Id be able to keep working.

    Rgina, 

    My whole shoulder felt like that too. Like they went under my collarbone or something crazy like that. Felt almost dislocated. Not pain, just a weird sore feeling. I think it lasted about a week. The port was more sore than the re-excision. I remember that.

    mt4ever,

    I know how you feel about just doing your normal routine. Luckily, nobody argued with me when I said from the beginning that was what I was going to do. I made a facebook page, added close freinds and family. I update it every day, letting them know how I am feeling. Mom and gram live next door. I know they are there if I need them for something. They know that I am stubborn and won't ask for help unless I really need it. haha So, mom keeps updated there and fills gram in. I visit every couple days.

    Lynnbea,

    That sucks about the big D. I took two immodium in the morning, then two more at night and it fixed me right up. I must have caught it in time, than God. Be tough and hang in there!  

  • dancetrancer
    dancetrancer Member Posts: 4,039
    edited May 2012

    I just had another bout of heartburn...drank a cup of chamomile tea...the symptoms were GONE by the time I finished the cup.  Wow.  I had read that it helps with reflux, but had never tried it.  Amazing! 

    I just did a little more reading, and there is some research that it can also help with stomach cramps and even mouth ulcers.  Just thought I'd share in case it helps anyone else.  Here's an excerpt from an article I am reading:

    2.2.2.4. Gastrointestinal effects

    The effects of chamomile-containing oral rinse on oral mucositis or stomatitis induced by cancer therapies have been examined in a clinical trial. Results showed both prophylactic (n = 66 patients) and therapeutic (n = 32 patients) effects of chamomile mouthwash in a case series of 98 head and neck cancer patients treated with either radiation or systemic chemotherapy. After the treatment with chamomile oral rinse, in the prophylactic group, one of the 20 radiation therapy patients developed grade 3 mucositis in the final week of treatment, while 13 developed intermediate-grade and 6 developed low-grade mucositis. Of the 32 patients in the therapeutic treatment group (16 radiation, 16 chemotherapy), all experienced immediate relief from mouth discomfort and within one week nearly all patients had no clinical signs of mucositis. These results suggest that the resolution of mucositis was accelerated by chamomile oral rinse ( [Mckay and Blumberg, 2006] and [Rodriguez-Fragoso et al., 2008]).

     

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited May 2012

    MT- I drink hot decaf tea only. Mostly grren tea w a flavor.



    I am officially in bed now. Hoping I will be well enough for my niece's concert but its not looking good.

  • jjames76
    jjames76 Member Posts: 20
    edited May 2012

    2 days post  TCH tx#1 and so far so good. Lots of water day of and next day, today i'm tired of water so drinking 7up, juices, and water when i can tolerate it. I feel great and could have worked today, but am working from home so that's good at least! i feel like im waiting for a bus to hit me, i just dont know when and what it will be....ugh!

    my mom checks up on me constantly too, I think this is harder on her than on me. driving me to my first chemo she said it should be her and not me, I shut her down right away, mine is her2+ so not inherited or anything, i told her i think this thing has just been waiting for me since i was born and dont ever think it should have been you and not me, this one is mine - and we will both be fine (I hope) .

    Hope you feel better Stacie for tonight.

    DT, thank the Lord for all your research! how lucky we are to be going through this the same time as you, you do all the hard work for all of us it seems so thanks!

  • C-squared
    C-squared Member Posts: 514
    edited May 2012

    dancetrancer-that is great information!  Thanks for sharing.

  • Natm71
    Natm71 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2012

    Hello all,

    I am going to my second infusion tomorrow! I was very nauseous for several days after the first one! Can't think about eating for a few days! After being tired for a bit, I have felt good for the last five days! My hair is starting to fall out in small,small clumps! I was wondering how round 2 will go too? Are the effects cumulative?? Also, when do I shave the hair??? My head is tender??? I am so glad to hear we are all making it thru!!!!!

  • lsharvey822
    lsharvey822 Member Posts: 257
    edited May 2012

    @mt4ever - I thought I was the only one with that mom!  Glad to hear other people have her too!  yesterday I said something about look at my hair and she got all alarmed because she thought my hair was falling out already.  No Mom it's not, but it's going to and that's the end of the world so stop freaking out!

  • dancetrancer
    dancetrancer Member Posts: 4,039
    edited May 2012

    jjames - hope you continue to have minimal SE and the bus veers the other way!!!  LOL  I know how you feel.  I always feel like that on days 1 and 2 post TCH...waiting for the ball to drop!  

    natm71 - my level of fatigue was not nearly as bad round 2.  And I had less diarrhea, I think b/c I was on probiotics.   However my level of heartburn was much worse - but I have preexisting acid reflux...so that doesn't happen like that to everyone.  Hopefully your round 2 will be better!  I read that many times the first one is the worst.  Some of the effects can be cumulative, though, like if your hemoglobin goes down round 1 and doesn't recover, it will go down further your 2nd round, etc. (this has happened to me, still high enough that no transfusion is needed yet, though).  However,  I'm reading people's experiences here, and it does sound like round 3 can be a doozy, too.    I hope not, cause that's what's coming at me next week!  Hey, watch out for that bus!!!  LOL   It seems like in general it is tough to predict, as each person varies so much.

    Glad my geek research addiction is interesting and helpful to others!

    I saw a gastro doc yesterday, and he wants to do an endoscopy on me before my 3rd TCH due to the severity of my heartburn symptoms (and my history - I've been on proton pump inhibitors for eeeks...7 years now).   My onc cleared it today, says he wants me to have it done, too.  So Friday morning I'll have an endoscopy.  This should be a breeze (I've had 3 scopes without issues before), barring any issues with my blood being on the thin side.  The gastro doc said that he's done them in much worse situations (ie. pts on Coumadin) with no issues, and my onc said ok, so I'm thinking it must be pretty safe.  It will be good to find out if anything serious is going on before I move forward with my 3rd TCH.  

  • IndigoMont11
    IndigoMont11 Member Posts: 1,095
    edited May 2012

    Stacie - darn it!!  *hoping it works out* Maybe they can tape it for you..? 

    Natm71 - are you getting A/C? If not, you don't have to read this, and I'll defer to the ladies on TC or whatever you are getting. 

    If so, after my second tx, and based also on what my MO told me, the SEs per se are not so much what is cumulative, other than the fatigue.  I can attest that the fatigue was definitely worse this time - but mostly just through the "steroid crash" i.e., two days after going off the decadron.  Today I have felt much better - much more energy and not so blue/emotional.  As for the other stuff - I think how bad it is with each successive treatment kind of depends on the individual. I imagine it can seem worse as treatments go on just because A/C is tough medicine and kind of beats you up.  I think the best you can do is to just take as good care of yourself as you can, to keep your strength up.

    The only other thing that was a little harder on me this tx was that I just had a port placed the day before my tx last week, and so I'm kind of dealing with soreness from that on top of the soreness I get in my neck from the chemo (it seems to make my glands sore).  I have heard a lot of people say that under A/C, tx#3 was the hardest - but it also seems like a lot of them are referring to fatigue, too.  We'll see for me.

    My hair first started coming out in little tufts too, and only if I pulled on it - but I hated that and couldn't keep from messing with it, so after a couple of days, I made the choice to buzz it short.  For me, that's been easier than watching it fall out in chunks.  My head was tender, too, and for me, having it buzzed short did make that feel better.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited May 2012

    Natm71- Just had my #2 treatment yesterday in the big girl chair.  Hair is rapidly leaving my head.  I cut it this past Saturday very short short boy hair cut because I just so tired and annoyed of the hair everywhere plus I wanted to make a transition from my short bob to the boy cut.  My scalp was tender but feels much better.  I'm not shaving my head; just letting it do it's thing.  No panic about the hair because the chemo got my poor little hair follicles doing what it's supposed to do---- get rid of that nasty cancer out of me!!!  You will just have to decide what works best for you about the hair and when to let it go.  You are still beautiful with or without hair.......

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited May 2012

    IndigoMont11- Hey girl!!!!  Hope you are doing well.  I wore my big girl boots yesterday to my 2nd treatment and have decided I wearing those boots everytime I go in for treatment!!!  I slept through part of my treatment yesterday because I took some Activan in my IV.  I slept pretty well last night and was still a little comatose until noon time today from that med. Glad we are still hanging together and helping each other along the way.  Hugs. 

  • Natm71
    Natm71 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2012


    Dancetrancer-thank you so much for the info! I am praying round two is better! Sorry to hear about your reflux! Luckily, I have been clear from that...... the nausea and steroid high is a weird combo for the first few days after treatment!

    Indigomont11- yes I am on AC(I finally updated my treatment)! Thanks for the info! I think the fatigue is here for a while. Howver, I am trying to eat well and walk or exercise on my good days...... hopefully that will help the bad days! I am not sure which is harder..... the first treatment not knowing what to expect or going into the second KNOWing the SE....

    Melrosemelrose- so confused about the hair! It is a little longer than shoulder length, I was thinking I may not loose it....lol! Thinking it just wasn't going to happen??? I am prepared with wigs, scarf and hats so maybe I will just go real short??? I guess time will tell before it is all gone! I am hoping to change up the anti-nausea meeds tomorrow to see if it helps! How was round 2 for you? I think we may have different chemos? I just added my treatment to mt profile! I am glad to hear you are doing well! I am applying the clear nail polish like crazy!
  • Natm71
    Natm71 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2012

    Sorry for the condensed response ladies! I am still getting use to posting!!! My preview page is soooo small!

  • nofear2012
    nofear2012 Member Posts: 160
    edited May 2012

    Thanks for the feedback on the water, it helps to know I am on Target w the water. I go for my 4th a/c treatment next week & I am so dreading it. I went to a health store & the guy gave me some probiotics in liquid form & that had helped to settle my stomach a lot.



    Keep going ladies we will make it they this!

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited May 2012

    I made it to the concert. I just stayed for her 3 songs but am so glad I made it.

    Home now resting.

  • IndigoMont11
    IndigoMont11 Member Posts: 1,095
    edited May 2012





    Melrose - yep, still here! Yesterday was pretty yucky, but really just the fatigue and a spell of the blues - and oh, yeah - the hot flashes. I don't understand how a person can feel that hot without having a fever! Overall, I can't complain today. I have spent my treatments visiting with my son and watching movies - as far as I know they haven't ever given me Ativan yet. I'm glad you're here with me too!



    Natm - my hair was in a shoulder-length bob, and I cut it short before starting treatment because I thought that would be easier when it started to fall out. For me, that was right. You'll do OK - sounds like you've got the other supplies. :-)

  • rgina
    rgina Member Posts: 100
    edited May 2012

    Fierro - I love it PDAS (I may have to steal that one for future use)!  Personally among my friends and thank god for my personal support group, I've renamed the BIG C the crap so now when my friends e-mail me etc., it's about what's going on with the crap procedures/treatments/etc. and all that crap:):) Might be a little offensive to some, but whatever works and can make us laugh or smile a little.

    For those of you dealing with Mom's worrying like crazy, it's not my Mom it's my 30 year old daughter!  True, she is a breast cancer survivor and had the same diagnosis and treatment plan that I have (only her's was 3.5 years ago).  But, today after my port surgery yesterday, everytime I tried to go outside, fill bird feeders, mess with animals, walk to the mailbox it was what are you doing? Why are you outside?  GEEZ.

  • kjiberty
    kjiberty Member Posts: 1,385
    edited May 2012

    Stacie--Hope you're doing okay.  Get my TX#2 tomorrow. Neulasta on Friday.  Didn't have one after my first treatment, but was told I will need them for the duration (3 more treatments of T/C) Hopefully my platelet counts are okay.  My nails are starting to feel weird.  Like they hurt a little bit.  I am going to take off the peeling nail polish to look at it.  I can't believe your insurance denied your Oncotype test.  Even Medicare covers it!!!  Makes no sense.  I think they just like to deny it to make YOU do the work to file an appeal.  Makes me crazy.

    Sade:  I hope you don't lose your nails.  The hair was bad enough for me.  

     For those of you who have gone to the makeup class--did you go there with bare faces?  I am starting to lose my eyelashes.  

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited May 2012

    IndigoMont11- I haven't started the hot flashes yet.... so I'm wondering if I'll get chemopause or not.  Those ovaries of mine still keep reminding me they are still there and maybe working.  Oh joy....  I'll be wearing my Buffs soon!!!!  The hair is departing rapidly.... always wanted a real summer cut..... now I'll have one for sure this summer!!!  Hugs  :-D

  • anndh
    anndh Member Posts: 23
    edited May 2012

    Buzzed my hair tonight. What are you all wearing when you go out??? I'm really leaning towards trying scarves tied like turbans, but I'm nervous as hell.

  • kjiberty
    kjiberty Member Posts: 1,385
    edited May 2012

    anndh:  I wear a wig (I hate it) when I go out and go to work;  At home, I wear nothing or wear a scarf.  Chemobabies is a good site to buy pre-tied scarves.  There are some good youtube videos to use with scarves you may already own.  It's so easy to get ready now there's no hair. The shaving wasn't traumatic for me--it was the hair coming out in handfuls on day 15 after the first treatment.  

  • IndigoMont11
    IndigoMont11 Member Posts: 1,095
    edited May 2012

    Anndh - I wear my wigs when I'm around people outside the house much - wearing my Buffs or nothing around the house. The Buffs are good for taking walks outside.



    I went to my LGFB class a couple of days before starting chemo. I had a full face of makeup on but brought wipes so I could try something new. The ladies who did the class seemed to think that was okay.

  • C-squared
    C-squared Member Posts: 514
    edited May 2012

    kjiberty- The LGFB class that I attended had a mix of women with make up and without.  They provided wipes for us to remove any make up we wanted to.  Good luck and have fun!

  • chapter4
    chapter4 Member Posts: 155
    edited May 2012

    I too wear a wig at work and nothing at home and scarfs when I go out. I was mostly worried about my kids, 19 and 22 seeing me without hair...I didn't want to "look" like I had cancer....but I'm over that.



    It's been a full week and a day since my last treatment (AC 3rd one) and I'm FINALLY feeling like a person again....I can't believe it took this long this time.



    I've developed some sort of tiny bruise right on my heel....it's very sensitive and makes it painful to walk after a few hours....anyone else encounter this?

  • SadeSurvivor25
    SadeSurvivor25 Member Posts: 119
    edited May 2012

    So I was getting ready for my 3rd cycle of AC when my infusion nurse called. I totally forgot to get my blood work done yesterday so I had to reschedule for tomorrow....silly me!!!

    I hope everyone is doing well with minimal side effects!!!

  • SadeSurvivor25
    SadeSurvivor25 Member Posts: 119
    edited May 2012

    Karen, I hope not either. I agree that the hair loss was horrible enough.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited May 2012

    chapter4- Sorry to hear about the foot.  There is a side effect known as Hand-Foot syndrome.  Check it out on the main part of the BCO website-- it gives the symptoms...  I haven't had it.

    Sade- sounds like you are doing well..... well enough to forget to get your blood work done!!!!

  • SadeSurvivor25
    SadeSurvivor25 Member Posts: 119
    edited May 2012

    Lol @ Melrose, yes I'm doing pretty good. I can't believe I forgot. I hope you're doing good as well.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited May 2012

    Sade-- Glad you have gotten over the yuck and managing that better.  I'm waiting for my downhill slide that comes around Day 2 after my chemo.  I get one day to get my act together after my treatment and then I know I've got to lounge for a day.  It's always good to have an extra day of feeling good--- so glad you forget to get your blood tested!!!!  :)

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