My 3-year Smoke Free-er-versary!!
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Hello everyone, if you are still reading. I am going to keep this thread active at least until May 26 to continue the celebration of my 3 year anniversary for one month. This is " 'Athena' quitting for three years awareness month" -lol! I encourage everyone to be as public with their quit celebrations. The more we do this, the more people we might help.
Also, after what I went through to get here (see OP), it's worth that much celebrating.
So....today, I'm am going to publish some links to smoking support programs that might help some people....
BTW, if you have a spouse or housemate who smokes, it's like trying to quit heroine and staying in a crack house. That person has to either stop or not smoke or keep cigarettes in your presence. I don't have experience or knowledge in this area, but if the person cares about you and your cancer, he or she will hopefully keep the habit to themselves.
I also suggest staying away from anyone who is sagging in willpower. That doesn't help you at all. I tried to quit with a friend, that friend fell off the wagon and so did I. This takes solitary discipline, or support ONLY IN CIRCLES WHERE FAILURE IS NOT DISCUSSED. It's sad and may sound selfish, but smoking is a drug. There is a reason why rehab centers and AA have a zero tolerance policy. It's because people who fall of the wagon take others with them - whether they want to or not.
So if you are surrounded by a smoker, make arrangements for lifestyle changes.
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QUITTING RESOURCE:
Here is the National Cancer Institute guide to quitting, preparing to quit, etc:
http://www.smokefree.gov/qg-index.aspx
As much as I say that there has to be zero tolerance for falling-off-the-wagon, failure is a part of quitting. Relapse happens. So if you do relapse, you may still succeed. Just don't give yourself permission to, if you know what I mean. If it happens, don't waste time being angry at yourself, but don't give yourself a free pass either. Don't act like our public schools, in which children are told "we're proud of you, you're great" and celebrate every useless little milestone, every F grade, making bottom-of-the-line standards acceptable. Be demanding and uncompromising, but also have mercy on yourself. It can be a hard tightrope to walk. Failure is acceptable - ONLY so long as you "don't let it happen again" -lol! None of that "I'm still proud of myself for quitting for five hours." Be more like "I fell of the wagon, damn it - I will get up and try again."
Anyway, here is a useful nugget from the guide:
Quitting isn't easy. Just reading this guide won't do it. It may take several tries. But you learn something each time you try. It takes willpower and strength to beat your addiction to nicotine. Remember that millions of people have quit smoking for good. You can be one of them!
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QUITTING RESOURCE:
For some people, the AA model may work. There is a 12-step program for nicotine addicts, and it exists all over the world.
This is the mission statement:
Nicotine Anonymous is a Non-Profit 12 Step Fellowship of men and women helping each other live nicotine-free lives. Nicotine Anonymous welcomes all those seeking freedom from nicotine addiction, including those using cessation programs and nicotine withdrawal aids. The primary purpose of Nicotine Anonymous is to help all those who would like to cease using tobacco and nicotine products in any form. The Fellowship offers group support and recovery using the 12 Steps as adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous to achieve abstinence from nicotine.
To search for NA meetings by country and by US state, go to:
https://www.nicotine-anonymous.org/standard_search.php
NA Internet meetings link:
https://www.nicotine-anonymous.org/meetings_internet_meetings.php
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QUITTING RESOURCE
Ok, while I continue to search for articles linking smoking to breast cancer which can be understood by someone other than the researcher and her mother.....
Here is a really cool "craving journal" created by the Canadian Cancer Society - scroll down the page and look at the last link under "Stop Smoking Print Resources":
http://women.smokefree.gov/hp.aspx
Sometimes writing down when you have a craving can be cathartic and "put it out there" so that you deal with it emotionally before you "act out" by smoking. This kind of emotion recording has been used with success for a variety of mental health afflictions, including other substance addiction and disorders of emotional regulation. The act of handwriting itself can produce therapeutic effects - it may influence chemicals in the brain.
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I remember that before I wanted to quit smoking, I would tune out whenever it came to information about the ravages of smoking. I don't want to discourage my readers....so here is some information from the National Institute of Drug Abuse. Tobacco addiction is the most common form of drug abuse. Like all illnesses, it has treatment. Unilke cancer, it has a CURE. Many of us who are dx'd with BC lament the fact that there is no cure. If one must have a disease, isn't it nice to know that smoking addiction is one with a cure?
Here is what NIDA (http://www.nida.gov/) -the National Institute of Drug Abuse has to say about tobacco addiction treatment:
Tobacco addiction is a chronic disease that often requires multiple attempts to quit. Although some smokers are able to quit without help, many others need assistance. Generally, rates of relapse for smoking cessation are highest in the first few weeks and months and diminish considerably after about 3 months. Both behavioral interventions (counseling) and medication can help smokers quit; but the combination of medication with counseling is more effective than either alone.
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I felt more intelligent after stopping smoking. But I didn't make the connection until fairly recently, when I learned of studies suggesting an association between smoking and impaired Executive Function (EF)
Let me explain....
Before I stopped smoking, I was quite good at the work I did, but constantly plagued by what I called absentmindedness. Then, when I stopped, I suddenly also stopped making silly mistakes. I thought it was simply the brain continuing to develop better functioning, which it can do into one's early forties.
Executive functionsare located in the pre-frontal cortex of the brain (roughly behind your forehead). They are instruments of "higher thinking." In people with ADHD and other neurocognitive disorders, such as learning disabilities, they are impaired.
Executive functions are what give us the ability to:
--plan,
--organize,
--prioritize and
--follow through on tasks.
Executive functions enable us to inhibit impulses that may cause negative consequences. They are what allow us to focus on what is important, shift our focus if something more important comes back, and then shift again.
EF has been compared by one leading expert to the conductor of an orchestra. The instruments and parts of ideas are there, but a central coordinator is needed to time, prioritize and sync the different bits. People with deficient EF are therefore "scattered" if you will.
People with EF deficits (mostly with ADHD, often with other disorders such as mood disorders, schizophrenia or anxiety) experience the following difficulties:
--They have trouble with daily organization and time management
--They find it hard to complete what they start, which often leads to a sense of under-achievement or constant frustration and low self-esteem
--The are chronically late, have trouble estimating time, or always miss deadlines.
--They may find that they are not productive. Projects are begun but never seen to completion, deadlines are either not met or met with great difficulty.
--Accidents, bad situations and PREVENTABLE problems are common. People with EF impairments often "didn't see it coming."
--They have seeing the forest for the trees. They may get easily distracted by a detail, and forget or be unable to get back on track with the main project. Their house or office may be a total mess.
--Low motivation may be part of EF deficits, even though motivation is more tied in neuroimaging studies with differences in the nucleus accumbens (limbic system) of the brain than with the prefrontal cortex. But the lack of execution and sense of accomplishment may affect motivation.
Many people have these impairments to a lesser or greater degree. I had small impairments (my house and office were tidy) but only recently did I noticed that I really have NO EF impairments at all (unusual for someone with my comorbidity, BTW).
It appears that tobacco smoking is associated with lower executive functioning. In day-to-day living, this means that tobacco smoking may cause impairments in the areas mentioned above.
In some adults, serious deficits in EF have been linked to lower cognitive ability. Smoking won't help you! If you have trouble planning, prioritizing, knowing what to focus on and when, then your work and home life won't be what you would like it to be. If you smoke, tobacco may be partly or completely to blame.
I noticed a SIGNIFICANT improvement in my efficiency...and I attributed it to the trauma from the cancer. So when I read that smoking and executive functioning are related, I gasped.
Off to get the links to studies....
NOTE: If anyone wants to know the sources for my info of EF, please PM me. I can list them here, but I thought I'd save the space. Briefly, the two world-renowned experts on EF that I am most familiar with are Thomas Brown Ph D and Russell Barkley Ph. D. A lot of their work focuses on ADHD and associated disorders but can be useful for those wanting to know about EF generally.
Anyone diagnosed with cancer should learn to have a healthy disrespect for statistics. Statistics are maths. It's the science which still eludes us.
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deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/./j.1360-0443.2008.02415.x.pdf
Effects of alcoholism severity and smoking on executive neurocognitive function
Jennifer M. Glass1, Anne Buu1, Kenneth M. Adams1, Joel T. Nigg2, Leon I. Puttler2, Jennifer M. Jester 1 & Robert A. Zucker1
University of Michigan, Department of Psychiatry, Substance Abuse Section, Ann Arbor, MI1 and Michigan State University
Excerpt from discussion portion:
"The present results also show that smoking is an important variable for some measures of EF and has a pattern of effects that are distinct from AUD. In particular, smoking was correlated with measures that emphasize response speed. This adds to our previous work and shows that the effects of smoking are quite robust, because they remained significant even with education or IQ included the regression models. Although we do not know the exact mechanism through which smoking is related to EF, one possibility is that, over time, smoking leads to poor cognitive proficiency. For example, chronic smoking may have damaging effects on the brain via several routes, including neurotoxic action...."
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The relationship between smoking and executive functioning may also go the other way - that is, disorders which affect executive function may predispose people to substance abuse, including tobacco smoke addiction. There are studies --both stististical and neuroimaging ones-- suggesting this. This means that behavioral and social support for the quit may be more important for people who already have executive function deificits and wish to stop smoking.
If you have a disorder that affects executive functioning, then consider a smoking cessation treatment plan coordinated by a healthcare professional who knows about your other disorders....cold turkey may be harder for you - I may be wrong about this point, though, which is the only one I make in this particular post that is not backed by research.
The following link, from the US National Library of Medicine, is a good place to start finding studies on this:
In the search tab, type "smoking executive functions"
Here is the whole url, but I had to add spaces because otherwise it doesn't print completely. You can copy and paste it onto the address bar of your browser and delete the spaces:
http://vsearch. nlm. nih.gov/ vivisimo/cgi-bin/query -meta?query=smoking+ executive+functions&v% 3Aproject= nlm-main- website
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Note: Three posts above were edited for clarity hours after first appearing.
I hope these screeds of mine helps at least ONE person.
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Ready for more information on smoking and lower intelligence? here goes:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22309970
CONCLUSIONS:
Compared with never smokers, middle-aged male smokers experienced faster cognitive decline in global cognition and executive function. In ex-smokers with at least a 10-year cessation, there were no adverse effects on cognitive decline.
Ready for this one:
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21992872
CONCLUSIONS:
Results from this middle-aged cohort replicated previous research and provides novel findings indicating that chronic smoking was associated with inferior performance on measures of general intelligence, visuospatial learning and memory and fine motor dexterity. Research that relates measures of neurobiological function/integrity to neurocognition is needed to better understand the mechanisms contributing to the poorer performance across multiple domains demonstrated by smokers.
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Just came across a slideshow of the effects of smoking on the skin and body - and the benefits when you stop. It is from rxlist. Here is the link:
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Ok, so this is probably my last post on this thread. It is a one-month celebration, so I am supposed to turn ino a pumpkin very soon. :-)
I wish I had a great article to post as a send off, but I don't.....
I have been free of cigarettes for three years, and yet, I had a dream last night that I had cravings. Incredible! They are rare for me these days. It's nice to be able to talk about cravings as occasional urges. But the fact that they exist is a testament to the enduring stranglehold of this addiction.
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...The fact that millions have quit is also a testament to the fact that, if you think you can't do it, you are probably dead wrong! And underestimating yourself.
How strong are my very ocasional cravings? Not even as strong as craving for ice cream or some other food you know is not good for you. In the spectrum of my desires and cravings, smoking used to havce first place, and now it is almost dead last.
It is like the memory of a long-ago holiday to a nice place. The feeling of desire is still there, but only as a memory. The feeling of pride at quitting is stil much stronger. It makes me feel that I am doing what I can as an early stage cancer patient to prevent myself from becoming a permanent cancer patient in the future.
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Final note: this new formatting seems to eat up the links, but they do work - simply click on them. If you can't and need the full address, PM me and I will gladly look it up for you.
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I quit Jan,2002 so it has been 10 years for me, It was the best decision I ever made, I also went cold turkey ,after the first 4 weeks it wasnt so bad. If I can do it anyone can I was smoking about 2 packs a day and wondered why I was always sick
Nancy
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Congratulations nwest125!
De-pumpkinizing for a second:
Just came across another study showing the relationship between smoking and decreased executive and other neurocognitive function:
http://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/7/10/3760
The abstract says, in part:
Chronic cigarette smoking appears to be associated with deficiencies in executive functions, cognitive flexibility, general intellectual abilities, learning and/or memory processing speed, and working memory. Chronic smoking is related to global brain atrophy and to structural and biochemical abnormalities in anterior frontal regions, subcortical nuclei and commissural white matter.
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bump for lago and her DH
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Here is BCO's description of a study just published about a link between smoking and breast cancer:
In this study, researchers looked at information from nearly 74,000 women in the American Cancer Society’s Cancer Prevention Study II Nutrition Cohort, a large long-term study looking at lifestyle factors and cancer prevention. When the study started in 1992, the women were ages 50 to 74. They reported how much they smoked currently, as well as their smoking history. At the beginning of the study:
- 8% of the women smoked
- 36% of the women had quit smoking
- 56% of the women had never smoked
During more than 13 years of follow-up, 3,721 women were diagnosed with breast cancer. The rate of breast cancer was:
- 24% higher in women who were currently smoking compared to women who never smoked
- 13% higher in former smokers compared to women who never smoked
The researchers also looked at when the women started smoking:
- Women who started smoking before their first menstrual period were 61% more likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer than women who never smoked.
- Women who started smoking after their menstrual periods started but 11 or more years before having their first child were 45% more likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer than women who never smoked.
To try to figure out if smoking by itself – not the combination of smoking and drinking alcohol – raises breast cancer risk, the researchers then divided the women into three new groups based on drinking status: never, former, and currently drink, and looked at their risk of breast cancer. Interestingly, for women who never drank, smoking – now or in the past – wasn’t linked to a higher risk of breast cancer. Women who currently drink or were former drinkers and smoked – now or in the past – did have a higher risk of breast cancer. Ideally, all three groups – women who never drank, women who drank in the past, and women who currently drink – would have a similar risk to prove smoking by itself is a risk factor. Still, the study didn’t show that. The researchers aren’t sure why this happened, but it may be that the numbers of women who never drank were too small to show any effect. So while this study doesn’t absolutely prove that there is a direct link between smoking and higher risk, it does offer more evidence that there’s a strong association between breast cancer risk and smoking.
More here: http://www.breastcancer.org/research-news/20130313-2
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ETA: Link to the study abstract:
http://jnci.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2013/02/26/jnci.djt023.abstract
PS - I am 1 1/2 months away from my FOURTH smoke free-er-versary!
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