April/May 2012 Chemo hang out
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Wellington is right on the river. If you know I-70, we are directly North of Odessa. Between Columbia and KC.
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I buzzed mine this morning. I started losing it on Monday I think. I could run my hair through my head and get a lot. I did infusion #2 yesterday. I know Saturday should be my bad day. Like don't get out of bed and Im lucky if I drink or eat anything. I did NOT want that to be the day that my hair came out in clumps. So I shaved it today. Besides, getting handfuls was depressing me a little. At least this way, it was my choice. I wore a scarf when I went back to the MO's office to get my shot, and for lunch. I went bald at work (it's just me and my partner) Then I put the wig on for an event I was doing tonight. The scarf didn't bother me. Shaved didn't bother me. I think the wig was my least favorite. But, I guess I should wear it for weddings.
I think I had the #2 guard on the razor. I will probably take it a little shorter tomorrow.
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Oh, got it! My dad's family is all from north of Kansas City, and I remember the Odessa exit from I-70 very well. Louisiana is north of St. Louis right on the Mississippi, about an hour from Hannibal.
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Jjames- I have a desk job, too, and can telework from home. I started part time about 3 weeks ago and then last week felt well enough to put in 40 hours. I am hoping to get into my office on occasion, but mostly because of compromised immunity, I'm teleworking for the duration of my chemo. Work has been good for me, though, and we are definitely busy at my job, so I'm glad I can work (not to mention that I need to, also).
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Sandik - Twin.... is it time for me to get that close short cut since you buzzed yours ???? I look in the mirror and one can't tell that I'm losing hair. Poor little hair follicles.... they tried to do their job but alas the chemo got them..... oh well. Leg hair is going too as well as down south!!! No more shaving for me anywhere..... Going to make a hair halo. Went to the beauty supply shop today and got this hair wrap that one wears over a ponytail that I'm going to take apart and use for the hair halo.I know I could order a hair halo but I'd rather have something crafty to do. There is a thread that I saw about how to make a hair halo. Just for fun today, I had my picture taken with the Oscar Meyer wiener mobile. I saw it in a shopping mall parking lot and decided to check it out. I even got a wiener whistle..... This is what happens right before a chemo treatment.... you get out of the house and do something crazy and fun since you know you won't be able to to right after chemo.
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Hi Sandi! Bald really isn't so bad, is it?
I keep thinking about you and all the work you have coming up. I'll never forget DS#2's senior pic experience - gosh, 2 years ago almost! Not just that the pics turned out awesome (he is a good-looking kid, lol) but the photographer made the whole experience really fun. He had a blast and felt like a model. I got to hold the reflectors and follow them around (all his pics were done downtown Golden, Colorado). I had almost as much fun as he did. I'm sure like sll jobs, it had its ups and downs - sure hope you don't have to work with too many diva bridezillas - but we got to see the best of it. -
I am so there with you girls about the hair!
Ladybug after about two weeks of it coming out in my hand or really bad in the shower I decided to crew cut it! It seemed to be more emotional for me to be loosing the longer hair than when I have seen practically teh same amount come out after it was cut. I am still emotional! I had the exact same thoughts about maybe it would not come all out but I really think we are probably delusional! LOL I still do not think I am to the point where I could buzz it but who knows if I might change my mind. The shorter hair does make it easier to wear the wig!
Fierro6 I also had and am having a hard time about my hair. Whenever I go out with my wig I feel like people are starring and pointing "She has a wig" even though husband says you cannot tell. I think because that is the part that people see us and judge us on first, not necessarily our boobs, etc. I am glad I found this place for support!
Sandik you go girl! I am not that brave yet....maybe soon!!
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I haven't posted in a few days, but I've been reading everyone's posts, and keeping up. Welcome Feirro6! This is a great group, and you will learn a lot here. After my first chemo on Wednesday, I've been coming home from work and getting very sleepy-tired on the couch. I couldn't even stay awake for American Idol, which I'm addicted to! My DH has been running around every night shopping for everything I need, and even things that he thinks I might need, like 15 cans of organic soups, and 5 bags of dried fruits. He's getting so attentive, he's making me feel like an invalid. But I'll let him do it. I had my Neulasta shot about 4:00 yesterday, and today I woke up with a face that looks sunburned, and I'm very hyper. Not sure if it's from the shot or the steroids. I'm guessing the steroids, but I'm going to call the nurse when she gets in to ask. I was told the SE's will probably hit over the weekend, so I'm not expecting to have much of a Mother's Day. My mom is in an Alzheimer's home, so I'm planning on making next Sunday Mother's Day for her. I cut my hair really short, but I now wear my wig to see my mom because I don't want her to see me going from short hair back to my long hair. Too confusing.
I hope everyone has a great Friday, with minimal SE's.
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Hello all,
Well it is PostChemo day 3, still not too bad thus far, am seeming to get a little more queasy, and more tired, but nothing to severe. Haven't really lost my appeitite, but I did make dinner yesterday, and wanted to puke while I was making it from the smell and the look of it, so needless to say, I didn't eat the same dinner as the rest of the family. I stuck with a sandwhich. I went for my shot of Neulasta yesterday, evening time I think I started feeling the effects of it, my body just kind of hurt to the touch, I felt like I had the flu, was sickly feeling, tired and achy, so I just went to bed early, and laid there and watched TV. I am curious as to when to expect my hair to start falling out?, I already chopped it short, and donated it to locks of love, and I hate the way it looks. What is some good foods to eat for constipation, that is one of the SE that I am also experiencing. Thanks again for all help you wonderful bloggers are helping me with.
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Hi everybody!! Had my first TC Monday, thought I was super chemo woman Tuesday and then reality set in Wed! I've been very fortunate to not have nausea/vomiting. I have had the rest of the flu type symptoms (headache, sore throat, body aches, little D, and cotton head). I can deal with all that but in the last day or so gas pains have been killing me. I took GasX last night (realized after that I didn't clear that with onc first..oops!) and that helped enough so that I was able to rest/sleep overnight as long as I held REALLY still! Just wondering if I should contact the onc/if there's anything they could do about it/anybody else had this issue?
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Fierro6 - I start chemo on 5/21 so we will be together.
I had my hair cut really short yesterday. I don't like it, but whatever. I think I look like Dennis the Menace. Maybe I will dye it. I am all gray and have been for years. I will lose it in a month anyway.
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Gang, my first round of chemo sucked. I didn't feel anywhere close to decent for a week and I'm worried that the effect will be cumulative as I go through the chemo.
Did you find that 2nd and 3rd treatments were worse than the first due to the cumulative effect? Or were they easier to handle?
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wildflower2828- I've managed to keep the constipation away by eating/drinking certain foods. I eat those Sunsweet Ones dried prunes ( really sweet/moist) or drink prune juice/apple juice. I also eat every morning a bowl of rolled oats oatmeal with wheat bran cereal (look like twigs) sprinkled on top and banana and blue berries mixed in. I eat plenty of fresh fruit, salad and veggies and drink lots of water. As for the Neulasta shot pain, there are others on this thread who have had the shots and take 24 hour Claritin to help with the pain.
Isharvey822- After my 1st infusion, I burped like a drunken sailor and burped a lot. I didn't have heartburn just a lot of burping. You can call your onco to ask if you can take an OTC med like Pepcid, Zantac, Prolisec to help with the indigestion.
Ladies- If you have any questions about your side effects right after your chemo, call your onco asap no matter what time of day/night it is, especially if your side effects seem to be worsening. No harm in asking what to do and if you are okay since no one really knows what your own side effects will be until after you have the chemo. You can't get help unless you tell your docs what's happening. You don't have to tough it out since help is only a phone call away.
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Wildflower - I concur with the advice of Melrosemelrose, but despite that I still have some constipation issues for several days post infusions (just my finicky system I guess)...I take Miralex until something 'gives' and then I stop so I don't swing the other way. Also, to keep things balanced I eat an activia yogurt once a day...some others here take probiotics but I never cleared that with my MO, and I like the yogurt.
CarlalnNC - don't get anxious about further rounds, it really seems to vary based on all the posts I've seen. My second round would have been my best if I hadn't gotten a cold during it. The third for me hasn't been bad so far, except for being so tired. You can do this!
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lsharvey - my onc had me take 2 magnesium oxides for severe stomach cramps I had with gas pains (took my breathe way, had to stretch out and stop whatever I was doing!). It took the cramps away within about 30 minutes. Another TCH'r told me that her onc prescribed Bentyl and that it works fantastically for this issue. So ask your onc about either option. I feel your pain, literally! It was the most painful symptom I have had yet, even though it didn't last very long.
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CarlainNC - I understand. My first TCH was really rough - pretty miserable for the first 11 days. 2nd one still knocked me down but not nearly as bad. Worst of the symptoms were over by day 8 post chemo. My energy level was much better for round 2, despite continued very low white counts and now low red counts. My counts took a harder hit since they were lower to start with on Round 2 - but we also started neupogen earlier, so that has helped them from going lower than they did on the first round. So round 2 was no picnic, but MUCH better than round 1! I hope that helps!
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Good morning,
I had my first chemo treatment last thursday for Her 2 Positive Receptors Breast Cancer. I am going for my follow up at the Oncologist today to have my blood checked. I am having Adrianmycin and Cytoxan 4 times for 12 weeks. One down 3 to go. I am hoping that I don't have any problems with this. It is very scarey for me, as you all can identify.
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Welcome Pauletta.
There are several of us HER2+ gals here. I am doing the TCH regimen. Will you have Taxol w/Herceptin X 12 after the ACX4 (this regimen is called AC-TH)? Or just the ACX4?
Yes it is all very scarey, but this wonderful group of gals will be here to support you along the way. You can do it!
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Melrosemelrose - Thanks for such a well thought out post to help me through my first treatment. It went well. no issues.
I took in my list of naturopathic things that i wanted to take to ward off any problems and my onc did not okay any of them. So that worries me a bit that i cannot try to prevent anything prophylactically. He said there are some studies that are starting to show there could be some decrease in efficacy of the chemo drugs, and studies are not conclusive but he is not wanting to take that chance. He went in to a bit more depth but i can't remember now unfortunately. so no Glutamine, Flex oil, melatonin or Probiotic. Now i understand the Probiotic logic since it is a live bacteria, just as my white counts will be diving, so i get that. But a little disappointed. i think i will ask again about the Glutamine cause that is one i think most people have had some great success with.
I slept well till 5am... woke up with a bit of a tingly tongue so i am phoning now for something for that. I am drinking a ton of water. Feeling a very slight hint of gut uneasiness, so i think i will pop a ondansetron to get on top of that.
Also a weird sort of uneasiness feeling in my legs. During menopause i get "restless' legs alot and it feels like that.
My first shot of neutropen (sp?) is today, and i forgot to ask about the Clariten, i will ask about that also when i call this morning. I think that shot is given subcutaneous and i've heard it is better if not cold and if given slowly. It sounds like i only get it today and then they check counts on next Friday , how was getting that shot?
mb1024 - Looks like we are on day 1 together, although we are on different protocals. Sorry you had that drug scare, i am glad it was handled quickly and successfully. Best of luck over the next couple of days, i will be thinking of you!
Thanks everyone for all your stories, they are wonderful during this initial phase, and i imagine will be a lifeline.
Hope
Linda
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Hi all . I haven't updated in a while b\c i've been crazy busy with work. I cut most of my hair off on Monday. I have about 1/2 inch left. I hated the waiting for it to fall out and I wanted to get used to not having hair. I went in for labs on Wed which was 1 week post first treatment. Apparently my WBC was SUPER low so I had to get a shot of nuprogen which is less harsh than the nulesta. My mom has Colo-rectal cancer and is going through chemo as well so her treatment was on wed. Turns out she had a low count as well and had to get nuletsa. It was too funny in a not funny kind of way. In any case I had no issues with the first shot and totally forgot to pick up some claritin. Then I had the second shot and 3 hours later it all went downhill. I was in so much pain it was supid. So i had my sister run out and get some claritin. The silly thing is that I'm such a planner that it was so unlike me not to have had claritin just in case. I'm feeling much better today so we'll see what tomorrow brings. Overall i've had minimal SE's with my first TC treatment. I took everyone's advice and drank TONs of water. I also kept food in my stomach.
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wonderwoman123- Glad you did fine during your 1st chemo!
Everyone---- Have great weekend and minimal SE's!!!!
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Thanks Dancetrancer! I called and they suggested Gas X. ummm..yeah...I tried that, maalox and pepto along with Prevacid! At least now I'll have some suggestions to give them. Seems like it should be the other way around! Apparently mine aren't the warm blanket, friendly, helpful oncs some folks have.
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Isharvey822- sorry those oncos weren't very helpful. Drinking very cold gingerl ale might help--- it helped me burp a little more. Burping and a lot of burping was one of my side effects after my first infusion. Hope you feel better....
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I went to the Oncologist today and my white blood cell count is low, so they gave me the shot, can't remember the name...but it started with an N. Gotta go back on monday for another shot. I hope it helps and I don't have any bad side effects from it. I am really depressed today, I know...not a good thing. I think it's cuz I was hoping for good blood results today and didn't get them. My second chemo of A\C is on the 25th. I have a headache, from crying so much I'm sure. I know that I sound like a BIG baby. She gave me some pills to take so that I will get my attitude back up where it should be. I've been drinking alot of water to help, not sure why...but everyone keeps telling me to drink LOTS of water! So I am. I haven't gotten any sores in my mouth yet. My first chemo was last thursday. My tongue has felt a little sore, but seems that when I drink alot of water it really helps. I have been trying to eat protein and vegetables and fruit. Not really hungry, but making myself eat.
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Pauletta - we all get down about this sometimes. And frustrated! Cry when you need to. We'll all be here to help you along the way. Sounds like I'm just a couple days behind you but I'm on TC x 6. Did you know to take the Claritin before, during and after the shot?
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Pauletta- Sorry you are having a rough time right now. You are drinking water to help flush that chemo through your body. To help with the sore tougue/sore mouth, mix 1/4 teaspoon baking soda, 1/4 salt and one cup of water. Swish this around your mouth after you eat. You will need to make a fresh batch every time you swish after eating. It will help with the soreness. if you start getting more sores, call you onco and let her/him know..... you can get a prescription for a mouth wash. Sounds like you are doing good with the eating---- a tummy with food is a happy tummy. As for the white blood count, you have to remember, when the chemo does it's job, the white blood count can drop so that the onco may prescribe the shot of Neulasta or Neuprogen shots to help stimulate the bone marrow to make more white blood cells. Other gals on this thread take Claritin to help with the side effects of the Neulasta/ Neuoprogon. Hope you feel better.
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Thank you so much for the advise. It is called Neuprogen shot. I couldn't remember til I saw the name you wrote.
I will be mixing the baking soda, salt and water. I didn't know about Claritin. All I have is Claritin D, will that work if need to take?
I was told that I may feel aches in my bones and to take tylenol or ibruprofen. Is there other side effects that I may have from the shot?
I look forward to talking to ya'll everyday.
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Hi Pauletta! I undsrstand that Claritin D isn't advised if you have any problems with high blood pressure. I'm not sure otherwise if there is a difference with how effective it is on the bone pain, but every post I see talks about regular Claritin. I think that works better for most people than just the pain relievers.
I know that the hassle of running to the store is no fun and and name brand Claritin can be a little expensive, but the generic drug is loratadine and the Walmart kind works fine for me. -
Tx#2 is all done! I am soo glad that I got the port. They did use the anesthetic spray but compared to the last two IVs I had, the stick wasn't really anything. DS#1 said it looked like they plugged me into an electronic device. I feel a little like a Borg, but whatever, it is all so much better than all the blown veins I had last time. The whole process was so much quicker too (not just because I didn't have the teaching).
Infusions went pretty much like the last treatment - nibbled, drank water the whole time, and all I noticed was the weird feeling in my sinuses, the bitter taste (to me it tastes more like bitter medicine than like metal), and getting really cold after the Cytoxan infusion. That was kind of ironic, since I ended up with a hot flash right when I arrived. Gosh, if only the periods were really over! Normally I'd be due to start right now but after what happened after tx#1 with the 2-week period, I really have no idea what to expect.
MO appointment was good, too. He said my counts had rebounded well enough that no Neulasta/Neupogen was necessary this time, and confirmed that overall I'm doing well. He seemed to think, and I can only hope he's right, that the SEs shouldn't really get much worse from treatment to treatment, except for the fatigue.
Pauletta, one other thing - I wasn't keen at first after tx#1 about using the baking soda/salt rinses because I didn't really think they would work - but I can tell you, they do help - and they are cheap and easy to make. I did get a couple of sores on the tip of my tongue after week 2, but I had gotten lazy about doing the rinses. I did them again and the sores only lasted a couple of days, and never got so bad it was hard to eat. No thrush, either. I'd suggest doing the rinse two or three times a day. If you get a little sore throat like I have after chemo, gargling with the rinse helped soothe that, too. And, if you do get bad sores or thrush, the doc can call in some Rocky Mountain Mouthwash (aka Magic Mouthwash) that is supposed to fix that right up.
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Day 3 for me. I went commando today. No wig no scarf. I liked it better. My hair is about 1/2 an inch. But, won't be there long. My scalp hurts when I touch it.
So far my only SE are burping and being tired. I took a nap at work, but could use another right now. I am off for the weekend. My partner and the part time kids we hire are taking care of tomorrow for me. Theres nothing booked for Sunday, so Im staying home to rest since its Mother's Day. The kids can make me breakfast or lunch in bed. Whenever I get up! Haha
If I can get this pic of my new do on here from my phone, Ill change it.
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