April/May 2012 Chemo hang out
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Hello ladies,
What a great group!
I had my first treatment on May 3rd: Herceptin, Taxotere, Epirubicin only to run to my son 30th birthday surprise party. Poor boy was running around like a headless chicken trying to organize/fugure out my diagnosis, treatments, doctors etc. He spent whole day with me feeding me ice not having a clue whats coming. I must say I was scared big time, but the distraction of preparation and excitement took of the edge. I was more worried not to say something. Because of the first time my son was running late to his "very important meeting" and shortly after the treatment I end up at the party, where about 70 people were yelling "Surprise!!!!" He asked me later: You knew about it whole day?! Me: more like 2 weeks... dah
Today is a second day. I feel a bit tired, but getting ready to go for a walk. When do you think my hair will start falling off? My doctor concerned about my low iron, any suggestions?
Best wishes!
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Hi ellamilana! 2-3 weeks seems typical for hair loss. Mine started on day #13.
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My arm is sore after getting my port in yesterday, so I've been mostly sitting on the couch in my pajamas all day (doing laundry in between). Thanks for letting me know about the timing of your side effects, Staciek. I'm hoping I can get through this without missing too much work. A few ladies mentioned icing hands and feet during Taxol. How would I do that - bring a cooler with ice and towels? This wasn't mentioned in the "chemo talk" I had last week.
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Icing- I asked that very question on an older chemo thread because after all that icing talk, I just needed to practical "how to ice" instructions. Some use ice or frozen peas as the ice. You put them in ziploc bags. For your toes, you can place the bags on top of your toes and put a blanket or towel on top/ wrapped around so the bags of frozen peas don't fall off. If you have some really large men's hunting socks, you can put the zip loc bags of frozen whatever in the toe and then slide your foot in and reposition the bags so that it touches the tops of your toes. For your fingers, you want the ice bag to touch the nails. You can probably again use a pair of extra extra large men's socks and put the ice bag in and then put your hands in each,making sure that your nails are kept cold by the ice bags.
I'm still experimenting with ways to keep the ice bags on. For my hands, I used these neoprene wine bag holders that I purchased at Target ($6.99) I put the frozen peas bags in first and then placed my hands there and repositioned the peas so that I had my fingertips in the cold. I also wore a pair of fingerless gloves so I could keep the rest of my hand warm. This worked pretty well for me plus I can use the wine bag holders later on. For my feet, I had some neoprene covers that fit 32 ounce Nalgene bottles. My feet are fairly small. I put the ice bags in first and then put my foot in those and repositioned the frozen peas to make sure my toes nails were covered. I also wore some sports socks so that the ice was not directly on my toes. I also wore a pair of fleece pants on top of my leggings the day of my infusion so I could keep warm. The infusion center has warmed blankets that I could have gotten if I needed one.
Whatever way you can think of keeping the ice/peas on the nails is the key. You can even put your hands directly into bags of peas if you want. You can also use towels, socks, insulated lunch bags, even potholders --- something that has enough room for you to fit the ice bag in and your hand/foot in and allows you to position the ice so it is on your nails. If you use frozen peas, you can use them again and again. Just refreeze them when you get home and make sure you mark on the outside of the bag "DO NOT EAT". You need to ice for 15 minutes before, during and 15 minutes after the taxol/taxotere part of the infusion.
How much ice/peas to use?- Once you figured out what you want to use to hold those ice bags in place, you need to try out how much ice/peas to fill your ziploc bag with. I started with one cup in each bag and made adjustments from there.
Transporting to chemo- You put everything in a cooler. Some infusion centers have refrigerator/freezers for patient use to keep whatever a patients wants to keep cold (food,drinks,etc.) At the first infusion, you want to keep those ice bags frozen if possible. If there isn't a patient fridge, make sure your cooler has enough ice to keep everything as cold as possible. The first infusion usually takes longer because of paperwork and learning the infusion procedures so you may have to ask the nurse when the taxol/taxotere infusion is so you will know when to get iced.
Hope I haven't overwhelmed you with too much info. You have any questions, just ask here or private message me. I will help you anyway I can!!!!
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Welcome Ella and Doc.
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Ella,
I was told 14 days after first treatment I would start to lose my hair and like clockwork, that's exactly what happened. Strands and strands. Day 15, washed my hair and with each stroke of the brush, HUGE amounts came out. Day 16, I had already had an appt. to get it buzzed, and that's exactly what I did--it was yesterday. I thought I would be distraught about it, but most of my anxiety occurred on day 15 seeing gobs and gobs of hair. Glad I got it buzzed off yesterday. Wore a wig to work and took it off the second I got home. Actually, the gals I work with said they liked it better than my regular hairstyle, but it was bothering my head like a tight headband.
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Hi Karen- that sounds exactly like my last couple of days. It is better to have it buzzed off. My scalp doesn't feel so tender now. I like my wig too - just wish it was cooler.
I got a massage today, first time since my surgery. The MT isn't trained in LE massage so I just asked not to do my left arm and shoulder. I've had the bad headaches so he worked on my scalp a lot - it felt fantastic. I apologized though because he had to wipe the stubble off his hands a few times. But he said he didn't care and I am so beyond embarrassment. -
Going on Friday to get my wig, thinking to shave it off right there and walk out in the wig... so angry, but want it to be up to me, not big C
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Welcome Ella! I agree that you should cut it before hand. I wish I had. I really love my wigs but they are super hot. I breakout in sweats everytime I put it on (which is all day, everyday).
Today was a great day for me. After 8 days of nausea I am finally back to "normal". My daughter turned 3 today so we took her to the Georgia Aquarium. Even though it was crowded we had a good time and the dolphin show was amazing!!!!
I've been having some ringing in my left ear. Has anyone else experienced this??
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Sade, I have had ear ringing since my first TCH. Pretty sure it is from the Carboplatin, although it's not supposed to be all that common of a side effect. I had a hearing test done to make sure no actual hearing loss occured. After 1st TCH, it quieted some in a few weeks. Worse again now after 2nd TCH. Will have another audiogram next week. fun stuff.
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Kayaking was wonderful! I paddled and rested/floated for awhile then drifted kind of far so my hubby towed me in. It was a good exercise for my node arm. Occupational therapist approved it. I got very fatigued afterward walking in direct sun across a soccer complex. I will be spending a LOT of time indoors this summer (Texas). Rested, cooked spaghetti, packed and now just chillin until my flight tomorrow. Thank goodness for week 3. I have a teenager only still at home, so HUGE respect out to everyone of you with small children!
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Hi Sade! Sooooo glad you're feeling better, and that you were able to enjoy your daughter's birthday! Yep, the ear ringing - I was diagnosed with tinnitus when I was maybe 25. I'm usually able to ignore it, but the chemo really made it loud. Either I'm getting used to it by now or it is getting better. My MO confirmed that the chemo can cause it.
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Stacie, glad you had a good time kayaking (wow!) and have a great trip.
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Thanks ladies. It seems like chemo is full of crazy SE!!!
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My mom passed Thursday night. She lived in another city. I visited her on Monday but didn't go back because I was exhausted and not comfortable being in a hospital and around all those germs.
I hate cancer. And I hate the moments, the memories that it has robbed me of these past 5 months. I'm going to personally see cancer destroyed in my lifetime. Not sure how, but it's going to happen. Cause it's a terrible thief who doesn't deserve to live.
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Sorry to hear about your mom Lynnbea. Cancer stinks!
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Sorry Lynnbea about your mom, was it cancer? I lost my husband to a lung cancer 18 month ago, and now me...
I HATE CANCER!
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Sorry Lynnbea about your mom, was it cancer? I lost my husband to a lung cancer 18 month ago, and now me...
I HATE CANCER!
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Sorry Lynnbea about your mom, was it cancer? I lost my husband to a lung cancer 18 month ago, and now me...I HATE CANCER!
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Lynnbea - I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. My heart is with you during this time.
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Lynnbea- Sorry to hear about your Mom. There aren't enough words of comfort to say. Peace and hope be with you.
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I just wanted to stop by and encourage you guys.
When i started this journey I thought the mountain was too high. My DH said just to look at it in small chunks. It was a lot of chunks, but I did it and so can youll.
Try to keep moving, even if its only down to mailboxand back. The constipation seemed to be the worst SE for me:-) and the anxiety etc.
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Enjoying a great weekend before treatment number 3 on Wednesday.....the weekend before treatment is when I feel the best...then here we go again. Ugh. Does anyone else keep a journal? I find this very helpful to remind me of what to expect day by day after treatment.
I feel it was harder to bounce back after treatment 2.....does it get harder after treatment 3?
On the hair thing....that has been a hard part too. I wear a wig at work and can't wait to take it off when I get home. -
I hope this link works.....my boyfriend/partner made this for me....it has helped me realize the positive side to cancer...the love and support has been overwhelming!
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YXhTvoC2C_E
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looks my link doesn't work properly.....you would have to copy and paste into your browser, sorry.
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So tomorrow's D day (1st chemo) for me and I'm looking over the tips list and the first thing it says is Compazine is not going to be enough! I know I'm scheduled for Aloxi in my infusion but the only other anti nausea drug they've prescribed for me so far is Compazine so now I'm worried! Can anyone tell me if they were able to get by with just Compazine?
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fredntan, thank you so much for the encouragement. I find myself saying to myself "one treatment at a time". Otherwise, it is just too overwhelming.
chapter4, yes, I do keep a little notebook with my symptoms every day. It did help me somewhat this time, esp to see that this round is much better than my first round! It also helps me when I go in for follow-up with the doc/nurse (all the symptoms kind of run together in my head otherwise).
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Melrose, thank you so much for the valuable icing info. Do I really only need to do it 15 minutes before and 15 minutes after, or throughout the whole treatment? They told me Taxol would take 3 hours, and I think my fingers and toes would fall off if I iced the whole time.
Lynnbea, I'm so sorry about your mom. Cancer absolutely sucks. I'm right behind you to see that it's wiped out. I hope a vaccine is developed that makes cancer go the way of polio.
I got my hair cut really short a few weeks ago, and got a wig. The wig was very expensive, but it still feels like Barbie hair, and after awhile it itches. I also have a baseball cap that comes down very low. I'll probably lose my hair in 2 weeks because I start chemo this Wednesday.
lsharvey, I have my nausea prescriptions ready for Wednesday, and they are: Emend, Dexamethasone (steroid), Compazine and Zofran. I take the Emend an hour before chemo, when the nurse tells me, and then in the morning on days 2 and 3. I take the steroid in the morning on days 2, 3 and 4. Compazine and Zofran are the back-up nausea medicines. If the compazine doesn't work, I take zofran.
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mb1024- You ice 15 minutes before, during and 15 minutes after the infusion. I'm sure you can take breaks with the icing. Are you getting any other chemo besides the Taxol?
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mlb1024 - my Taxotere takes an hour, so I ice for 1.5 hours including the 15 mins before and after. However, you just cannot ice constantly that entire time without a few minutes break here and there. You'd get frostbite! (Especially if you are using ice cubes with no barrier between your skin and the ice bag.) So, I just take my fingers/toes out when I get to the point where I feel like it's too much. (I use $1 store minicoolers and 2 baggies of crushed ice to layer my nails between.) Givem' a few minutes rest, then back in when I'm ready to tolerate it again. Wow, 3 hours is a LONG time to ice. You will definitely need periodic breaks. Don't forget to chew on ice throughout, too, and swish the cold in front of your teeth (behind your lips). I forgot to do that the time before last and almost got a sore behind my front lower lip...oucho. I find that I alternate taking my hands out to drink crushed ice - gives my hands a break. My fingers tend to tolerate the ice less well than my toes. I'll be honest - the icing is miserable. However, I would much rather go through it than deal with losing my fingernails <shudder>. I keep reminding myself of that when I'm suffering during the ice, LOL!
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