Is There A September 2011 Chemo Group?
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Belleast: Can I join you on the floor wailing? Life is been difficult for me and not just the cancer. Ya'll know.
They locked oldest up today and refuse to let her remain out on bond because she is an habitual offender, which she is. Sad, but I'm moving on and refuse to take the blame for her stupid choices. Oldest daughter showed up at school today to see her son before court and I swear my phone was blowing up! Every body and their dog was calling me and I was at SES! I assured everyone that it was okay and that I had no fear that she would bolt and run. So far that is one thing I can say for her is that she will take her punishment. She told me that she had been having thoughts of hurting herself because of all the stuff she's put her kid and the rest of us that love her through. Told her that wasn't a good idea and that she should serve her time and get her life back together. I also told her not to expect the kids as soon as she got out cause she had some proving to do and this time the proving was to me. So we shall see.
Other than that, I've had a good day and spent the rest of my vacation day doing odds and ends that needed to be done. Cooking supper now and gonna put the babies in for their bath and then off to bed. Same routine, different day!
HUGS!
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Rj and Belle- I will join you all on the floor. Nothing I can point to specifically like all the stress you have been going through RJ but sort of just feel like it all catches up with me every now and then when I allow myself to slow down.
Mags- such wonderful news!!!! So happy for you.
Kelli- the hair is awesome!
My kiddos are great. We have been enjoying the spring weather before the heat really gets bad. Have my exchange surgery scheduled for may 3rd. Can't wait!
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Belle, you had treatment longer than the rest of us, mostly. Gosh I only have 1 cm frontline, tophead hair. I am on Arimidex with known side effects of male-type balding. It grows on my legs, grows in my armpits, and unfortunately does male pattern balding on my head. I have regrowth, but the front and top are 1 cm at 4 months, and the sides and backs grow in. I told the onc, I grow armpit hair in 2 weeks longer than this, what's growing on top of head front and center.. It's not easy being bald and not easy growing in. Hugs Belle. I'm not loving 1 cm in 4 months on the top of my head. I think it is the Arimidex effect. I would rather have this than cancer. Hugs, girl.
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Belle, for better or worse, you will not have to have the estorgen-sucking meds. When your hair revives, it will just revive. I just want to shake my oncoligist by his shorts about my hair, 4 months and 1 cm on top, My armpit hair grows in length 2 weeks what the top of my head cannot do in 4 months, WTF! but so it is. It is what it is. Hugs belle. It ain't pretty or back to norm here yet either, All women want their hair back. We share the pain of;...it doesn't come back fast enough.
Hugs belle. Good hair days to you and me soon.
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Belle...I hear you mine is about the same length.
Kimberly: Yeah WTF is right about the hair growth length under the arms and on my legs....superfast everywhere but my head!!!
Mags and Belle: have you checked into the Neuvax clinical trials? They are actually looking for Triple negs right now and the vaccine is showing pretty good promise.
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thanks girls for being there, you all make me feel better!!! kimberly,thanks for making me laugh,picturing you grabbing your mo by his shorts! that just sucks about your SE!
i'm glad to know i'm not the only one frustrated by the slow hair growth and the emotional rollercoaster,we are still on!
saw my regular mo yesterday so glad she is back! everything looks good,port removal scheduled for april 24!! yahoo!!! i will see her every 3 months for 2 yrs,then every 6 mo for 2 yrs,then once a yr! she said focus is on catching it early if it comes back. next app july 11 with mammo done before so she has results!
lee ann, haven't heard about study,are you in it? any info appreciated.
hope we all have good hair days soon!
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Belle: I was set to be in it until today....unbelievable!! Get to that in a minute. Here's the link to the big study http://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT01479244. The phase 2 study showed a really good outcome for triple negs. You can't be more than 2 months out of treatment, but since yours went long like mine, I figure you are still in that time frame.
I just left my doctors with my jaw hanging down. I switched oncologists at the end of my treatment because I didn't like how the one responded to questions about if it returned. Well...he decided that he wasn't convinced about the Her2 testing so he asked them to test the positive lymph node. He said that the piece they were testing was really small and he jsut wasn't as convinced. It turns out I am Her2 positive!!! I am so mad...it is most effective if given with taxotere and immediately or immediately following chemotherapy. My chemo finished 3 months ago!!! I thought my head would explode. Now he says we need to do Herceptin every 3 weeks for the next year because he wants to do "everything he can to keep this from coming back.
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lee ann, that's what is scary about this whole thing, we have to depend on others to get the tests right. it's been 3 mo since last chemo,i don't know if i would qualify plus truth to tell not too keen on putting any more chemicals in my body.
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Belle: I know what you mean. It has to be less than 2 months from any treatments...including rads. I did qualify because I just finished rads earlier this month. This particular one is actually designed to activate T-cells to attack any cells with low to moderate expression of Her2. Supposedly most cancers that aren't Her2, still have a low to moderate expression, just not enough to be called Her2+. It is a little unnerving to put test meds in your system although I liked that this sits dormant unless a gene like I described pops up and then it just turns on your own defenses. Sounded better than possibly going through the chemo crap again. I think that's one of the things that made me so frustrated today. I had gotten excited about the possibility of being able to fight it without more crap, but I was reading today and it sounds like it Herceptin works in a similar way so maybe it won't be so bad.
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Lee Ann- Unbelievable about your pathology! I cannot imagine the shock and the anger about not having it before. Though obviously having something else to prevent a recurrence is a good thing, I can imagine you have mixed feelings about starting another infusion. I was doubtful when everyone told me that Herceptin alone would be a breeze compared to chemo, but thus far, everyone seems to be right. They'll probably try to get you a MUGA soon to get a baseline before starting.
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lee ann, maybe i would qualify since i just finished rads earlier this month. i think i'll call my mo and see what she knows about the trial. anything that would help prevent a reoccurance, esp mets is a good thing. my mo doesn't do scans unless i present symptoms but from what i have been reading a lot of times you don't have symptoms with mets unless it's pretty advanced,that's scary!! how can you catch it early unless you scan which she won't do without symptoms!!
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belle- my onc. is the same way about scans- nothing routine and only if a symptom presents. it makes me nervous. good luck getting in the study!
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lee ann,i looked up the study. i don't qualify i am node negative,you have to be node positive.sounded good,esp like you would get yearly scans.
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cjrt, it makes me nervous,too. nothing we can do,my onc did tell me if i notice anything different no matter how minor it might appear to me,to tell her cause it might be major to her! i will hold her to that!!! lol
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belle- ironically i complained about this weird off-balance sensation and headaches today at my onc. appt and she now wants me to get a CT scan of the brain and sinuses. She said that she is sure it isn't the cancer and feels confident that it is inner ear/sinus related, but she said that any ENT or neurologist will want to see imaging before examining me. She said that we could do an MRI first but that we would need to follow up with a CT of the sinuses anyway, so we might as well just skip the MRI. Now I have mixed feelings and am worrying about the radiation risk of the CT after reading stuff online. UGH!
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Belle: The yearly scans were the most exciting to me too about the study, I'd say sorry you don't qualify, but node neg. is good so I'm glad for that
CJRT and Belle: My doctor was/is the same about scans, although I explained to my doctor how I could never feel it was gone without at least one clear scan and he had agreed to do that for me in May or June (once I had gotten a few months out). They say it is because early detection has been shown in studies not to have a significant effect on long-term survival in recurrence. I think that is horsehockey! They say you still get local scans (mammo's etc) to catch local recurrence and if its metastatic there is no benefit to catching it early. I dropped my first onc for this kind of thinking. My second is more reasonable and understands when I tell him that I am young and have small children. I told him that if catching it early just gives me an extra 6 months to a year, that is statistically significant enough to my kids!
Turns out I am having a CT scan next week now since they want to make sure there is no active cancer before they start treating with Herceptin...I totally feel your worry CJ, I am nervous about the effects and the results. Let us know how your scan goes.
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lee ann, i think it is horsehockey,too. they can't tell me there's no difference in finding it's spread to 1 spot or 12 spots! if you find it's spread to 1 spot then you can start treatment and prevent it from spreading further,common sense to me. hope your scan and cjrt's are all clear!!
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Good evening ladies! Hope you are all doing as well as we can!
Lee Ann: I can't believe that about your pathology! I mean, Damn! I agree with Belle about this being so scarey to have to depend on others for our diagnosis.
I feel very fortunate with my MO. He believes in scans at least every 6 months for a while then we will go to once a year. I also think that the earlier anything is found the faster I can get treatment started and hopefully stop this beast from spreading. That's common sense to me too! I just don't understand some MO's. My last scans were the end of December and I am scheduled for the next ones on June 18. Kinda, sorta dreading it but I want to know! I've just got to know since I've got these two babies to raise now.
Still taking my tamoxifen. No real bad SE's to report. The headaches seemed to clear up and the joint/muscle pain has diminished. I am taking Aleve to help with the muscle aches and pains and it seems to be helping. Other than that, I am feeling good overall.
Hope you all have a wonderful Friday and weekend ahead. Grandson has a ballgame tomorrow night! He seems to be doing better but how is a 5 year old really supposed to be on a ballfield with all that dirt? LOL! They are really funny to watch and I'm having a great time doing it! So thankful for each and every day!
Sending warm hugs and best wishes your way!
HUGS!
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hey all, i am 3 wks out from rads and i feel like i'm getting worse in the energy level not better. is this normal plus i'm retaining fluid,i think.
hope everyone had a good weekend!
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Belle- Sorry I don't know about that! That sucks! Maybe try posting the question on one of the rads boards of women that started before you. I just read an article about taking fish oil to combat the fatigue from breast cancer treatments. The article didn't differentiate fatigue related to chemo or radiation. I was going to do it but read that soy was in the ones I bought, and with the estrogen + status, I will try to find one without soy. Hope you feel better quickly!
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Belle: So sorry to hear that! I started feeling pretty good after rads about a week later. The worst part for me was the skin breaking down. After that started healing (about 7-10 days) I started feeling much better. I did retain fluid for quite a while after all my treatments. My ankles used to swell so bad! But so far, they are not nearly as bad as they were. They still swell sometimes if I eat a lot of salt. Hope things get better for ya!
HUGS!
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Thaks RJ, it really does kind of suck. Now I found out the Pathologist put a note on there that it could be a false positiver because noone recorded whether or not it was fixated within 6-48 hours. He says if not, it has been know to come up with false positives...
Belle: My fatigue got worse too and just seems to be improving some this week. (I finished April 3rd). Are you sleeping ok? I have had insomnia for awhile now and I have to take something to sleep or I just can't. I'm sure that isn't helping with the fatigue. I also think that I am being a little more active and that it is also making get fatigued quicker. I'm trying to slow things down and see if it helps.
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thanks,everyone. i think what lee ann said holds true for me, doing more,watching grandkids! i think i just have to accept my body is still healing and slow down,rest when i need to. i think i'm going to lose my big toenails,1 almost lifted off when i was trimming,yuck. i need to drink more water,might help with swelling!
on a good note,got my port out today!!!! i am so glad!!!
dang, lee ann now you don't know if you are her+ or her-,that sucks!!!
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Sorry you are having such a rough time Lee Ann
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For those of you on Herceptin- Are you getting MUGA scans every 3 months? In researching the radiation exposure I got from my CT scan yesterday, I stumbled across some conflicting information about the amount of exposure from MUGA scans. Now I am a little concerned about getting them so frequently, so I am curious about what other oncologists do for ladies on heart-toxic meds.
Although I still have Herceptin, Tamoxifen, and my upcoming TE surgery, I felt like I was moving beyong this terrible past year and thinking less and less about the dreaded "C." Then this sent me into an anxious tailspin, calculating past exposure to CT scans, feeling panicky about an increase risk of cancer, etc. UGH! I don't think anyone that hasn't gone through something similar really gets that kind of fear.
Hope everyone is doing well and enjoying the weekend. On a positive note, I have my exchange surgery scheduled for Thursday! Perhaps a bikini this summer! LOL
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Belle, I needed 2 new medications after chemo due to probably some damage from chemo (on a not perfect body system to begin with). I needed something to slow my heart rate and something to help keep the fluid retention down, which I hadn't needed before breast cancer treatment. It was kind of irritating to have another 2 meds but I felt so much better having the side effects addressed. In my case, my GP was able to throw a couple of drugs in that made me feel so much better and on the road to back to normal, back to pre-cancer, pre-treatment baseline me. I hope you can have as good treatment with your GP. Hugs. Kimberly.
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Anyone get fat grafting along with implants to make the slope look more natural? Would love to hear your thoughts.
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sorry,cjrt,i had lumpectomy! hope everyone is doing well and enjoying spring. i do believe i have chemo brain,i'll be talking and forget words,so embarrassing,i hope it is temporary!!!
thanks,kim for responding,if the swelling continues i'll talk to mo in july.
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cjrt,how did the exchange surgery go?
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Thanks so much for thinking of me, Belle. I got sick from the anesthesia (which I didn't with the mastectomy), but all else went well! I had my post-op appointment this morning, and the PS said everything looked great. Just hanging out in the recliner today. Already feels nicer without the hard rocks under my chest. Hope you're doing better with the swelling.
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