Gardening to divert depression

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  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited April 2012

    Oh Sherry, how lucky you are.  The freeze warnings are on around here in Wisconsin for the next week.  My snow peas are up and onions, but they will be fine.  So will the perennial flowers.  The warm weather followed by cool weather has made the bulbs like tulips and narcissus bloom and last much longer than some years.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited April 2012

    @sneh: it IS wonderful to see all the new gals here.. so long, it was you, me and maya.. (probably bad english)@gals: thanks for the links.. the rose bush sounds right up my alley.. and, im really lucky: my inlaws gave me all their orchids over a ear ago, and they've grown in leaps.. but, as the guy at the nursery told me, I don't fertilize them enoughtto get many blooms.. the ice cube trick is so cool.. i bookmarked both sites, so i can go back to them..and, yes, almost 1/2 of my present garden, is a plant that came from someones memorial.. ts' become a custom with my crowd NOT to send cut flowers, but a plant, with a few live cuts, so the plant is still there to plant, after..i have a few roses i lost this year, from neglect.. a very pretty lavander one left a big hole.. i'll be getting one soon. we have a great nursery here, for roses, so maybe they'll have one, soon. i find they're not as hardy, as some..

      for anyone who indulges, Happy Easter.........3jays

  • TwoHobbies
    TwoHobbies Member Posts: 2,118
    edited April 2012

    I love the idea of planting a memorial.  When my dad died we planted a tree, and it was kind of symbolic to see how it (and we) had grown and continued on.  I would love to plant a tree to commemorate my one year anniversary - living on after breast cancer. 

    My crab apple tree and creeping phlox and tulips are in full bloom.  So beautiful.

  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited April 2012

    Some of you may have been gardening from knee-high on.  I didn't make a first attempt until I was 30 but it turned out to the most fascinating thing to me.  My first attempt at flowers was a flat of marigolds, ageratum, and viola from a hardware store sale for a small box garden in front of boyfriend's house at that time.  Hah.  Had no idea that there was a difference between sun lovers and shade lovers and was so disappointed when the viola croaked. From there it took off for 20 years, getting much better each and every year.  How did you guys start?

  • Maya2
    Maya2 Member Posts: 468
    edited April 2012

    I grew up on a farm in Oregon, so I was "introduced" to gardening early. Only it was more like, "Get out there and weed! And I don't mean tomorrow." It's a wonder I still love it, but I do. Nothing like watching something you planted bloom or eating the first fruit of summer. I've gardened on rooftops, in backyards, the aforementioned farm, and in whatever nook or cranny I could find. Sometimes it was only in pots on my balcony, but that's okay. Gardens come in all shapes and sizes.

    It's nice to see so many people here. Growing things and getting our hands dirty is good for us, reduces stress and adds joy. Happy gardening!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2012

    I started gardening with my Dad when I was a little girl.  My parents sold the farm when I was in the 8th grade.  Moved to another house where there was not room to garden and life goes on Dad dies I get married never had a place to garden until a couple of years ago and I love it.  My mom laughs that I am just like my Dad when it comes to gardening as none of my brothers garden like I do.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited April 2012

    i started also, with my parents.. mom it was flats and flats of annuals, dad was the vegetable garden guy.. i used to love to use the roto tiller, and mow lawns as a kid...

      i do try to plant a "full garden, with shade plants under my bushes.. not allowed trees in our villa.. but, everything this year, is in pots for my patio.. only ones are in ground, is in the front...3jays

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited April 2012
    here's the new passion vine , and my new le "get up" ..3jays
  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited April 2012

    3 Jays, wish I could see the pictures.  Where did you upload it from?  Corporate has employees locked out of just about all videos, and also photobucket, which so many people use to post.  So I miss out on a lot.  Luckily I know what a passion viine looks like.  My neighbor has one and it grows up her house and, ha, ha, along her electrical or phone service line, not sure which.  She got fruits...which surprised her.  Do you get fruits too?

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited April 2012

    Hi ! Blessings.. OMG you want  receipe of  this hot chilli. I think  you wont be able to taste it as it is very very hot. Okay .. here it is ..

    1 chilli - without seeds cut into small rings , keep aside.

    1 tomato - cut into small cubes.

    1 onion - cut into small cubes.

    Handfull of  mint  cut into small pieces.

    1 tea spoon  mustard or olive oil.

    Mixed all the  items in a bowl. Put salt to taste and  pepper powder & serve it.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited April 2012

    Oh! That chili recipe looks hot! My daughter would love it; my taste buds are wimps for hot food.

    I started gardening after visiting a friend living in a cabin in the woods close to Anchorage, AK. She had grow lights in 2 large windows and was growing one of everything she could get her hands on. I went home and decided if she could do it there, I should be able to do it in Houston. So began my learning by killing numerous plants (poor things). Now most of mine live. 

  • Maya2
    Maya2 Member Posts: 468
    edited April 2012
    I love hot chiles, having spent many years in the southwest. My first husband said I could eat fire. Sneh do you serve this on crackers, or tortilla chips or some other way? We would call it salsa in the southwest. I can't wait to see how the mint tastes in this. Thanks.
  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited April 2012

    rajkumari -

    Thank you for the recipe! It really looks delicious, and as Maya2 said, would be similar to our salsa here, which is more tomato-based.

    The mint, as well as the mustard or olive oil, would give it a very different taste, yet I could see it going well as a condiment for different meats, fish, or poultry.

    Does your chili pepper have a name or variety?

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited April 2012

    sorry, ladies.. i CANNOT do "hot" so enjoy, for me...

      the news here, is the verbina just about gpt cooked alive the last few days.. im nursing it now, maybe itll come back. i hade it in too much sun, here, "full sun" just is too much for many plants..

      im enjoying the passion vine. glad i kept it in its pot, and the new ones, as well.

      found out today, we have to have our four villa building tented for termites argggghh

      they think all the plants in the front right may die, i'll have to come and water, and hope for the 2 days we're tented..

      they have an empty villa next door, next building.. i plan to put my potted stuff there.. i hope they wil be safe. i can't drag THEM along with all i have to take out of the house....rats, i just can't keep those poor plants safe!!!!3jays

  • Maya2
    Maya2 Member Posts: 468
    edited April 2012
    Gosh, 3jays, where do you go for 2 days? Do you have to move all your stuff to the empty house? This is all you need! Yell Have they actually found termites or is this preventative? If only preventative, there are much less invasive (to people, animals, plants) ways to prevent termites.
  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited April 2012

    My gosh, lucky the north doesn't have the same termite problem but if you move your containers outside the tent, do you know what you are witholding from termite killer and reintroducing....As long as your are going to go through an insecticide spray, might as well kill them all.

    That being said, I don't insecticide or pesticide any of my living quarters.  If termites hit here, I am afraid I would have to do the same, rather than let them take down the home....but I would hate it...and question if it killed me as well as the termites. What a miserable bug that can eat away a home.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited April 2012

    yeah, the lady 2 doors down found them in her house.. my next door neighbor and i don't have any signs.. but, its' a plus for the antique dining room set we have.. the owners are putting us up in a hotel for 3 days.. they won't let us in on the 3rd day till after 4pm, so we have to stay the extra day...

      cleaning all the pantries, closets, etc is really overwhelming, but gotta do it. trapped gas i s deadly.. so, they have to take the air testing 2xs the 3rd day.. they say there's no residue.. we're goin to air out the hose ourselves, then move in late the 3rd nite.....i'll have my laptop with me.. the hard part is moving the garden.. all the shrubs have to be dug up, and repotted. starting today. thank goodness, most are in hanging plants, and my neighbor on the other side of the st. is letting me keep the plants there... overwhelming, how much work, and trouble this is!!!!3jays

     glad your here, and ok Maya2.. after the tornadoes near you...3jays

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited April 2012

    My peonies are blooming - wooHOO!!!!

    And the California poppies are just going wild...they look so nice next to the Spanish lavender...I love the combination of orange and purple!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2012

    today I harvested green beans and spinach.  Went to a birthday party tonight so have not gotten to cook them yet.  Can't wait till tomorrow and eat some fresh veggies from my garden.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited April 2012

    got all the trees moved, put them in HUGE pots, a neighbor is letting us use her atrium.. it took almost two days to move all the plants.. i dread bringing them all back. gonna fix the gazebo in the atrium, when we get the okkay.. i told mur, this is the 3rd time my condo has made it so we had to change it.. im rooting smaller ones of the ones my mom gave me, etc.. i won't do this again.. it took a full two days.

       now, we have to go thru the house, open every bin, clean the pantry, and freezer.and so much more ugghhh im not enjoying this at all. but i so love to sit out at night in the garden.. we're putting new lights in, before we bring everything back.. it'll be pretty, at least.....I don't YET do veggies, but you guys have me considering tomatoes, and maya 2 has me get dill in the garden. its' all planted for butterflies, and they say its a food source, as well as a place caterpillars eat to become butterflies..............a host plant....3jays

  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited April 2012

    Have you ever had this experience...my 5 tomato plants I wished, grew to 20, I don't think I had that much seed in there, but transplanted.  They were lush, in the house, taking them out for sun.  Now most of them have tanked.  I think I will probably have 3 if lucky that I can plant out.  My peppers are still lush, huger than ever....but so were the tomatoes a month ago. 

    The bleeding heart which is so huge and overgrown, just shines this time of year.  The lilac are blooming a month early.  Tulips are still going.  Lettuce, peas, onions are doing well.  I can't believe someone is harvesting beans.  I am just thinking about putting them in. 

    I don't know how many of you small garden.  I just put in the prettiest semi round sections, store bought, wrought iron for my snow peas.  It is so elegant that it elevates the vegetable patch to beauty level. 

    I am really so disappointed that my tomatoes are failing before I can plant out.  Out of 20, only 3 look like they will make it.  Darn. Well, the spinach outside is doing well this year.  I also have some beets growing.  My canna have started back up.  I guess you have to take the good and the bad each year and rejoice in what worked this year.

  • Shrek4
    Shrek4 Member Posts: 1,822
    edited March 2013
  • Maya2
    Maya2 Member Posts: 468
    edited April 2012

    3jays: You can also attract the butterflies to lay their eggs on parsley. When I find the caterpillars, I carefully move them to dill or fennel, which they seem to like equally well (more parsley for me). Once they are butterflies, they enjoy butterfly bush, sage flowers or saliva. They also seem to appreciate dianthus. And if you've attracted them to your garden to lay eggs, it's only natural they'll stay, if you have blooming plants for the now butterflies. 3jays, I think your verbena will be liked by them.

    Day: Your cottage garden is already lovely. Next year, drop dead gorgeous! What a lot of work, and all worth it.

  • Shrek4
    Shrek4 Member Posts: 1,822
    edited March 2013
  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2012

    Day your garden looks great.  I had a friend who did something similar with broken up concrete and it looks great.

  • FLwarrior
    FLwarrior Member Posts: 977
    edited April 2012

    Day, Your cottage garden is really looking good.  It must be good therapy for you.  I know that working in the yard or container garden is very therapeutic for me. 

    I am doing the container gardening thing...I used some parsley from my herb garden in dinner tonight.  Right now I have chives, oregano, thyme, basil, lemon balm, parsley, mint and something that I can't remember the name of, but it has pretty little purple edible flowers (maybe Florida Violet?)  Everything is organic. 

    3Jays, You have had a huge under taking!  Wow!  I enjoy the butterflies too.  I am lucky to have lots of them.

    Sherry, How long ago did you plant your spinach?  From seed?  I have some spinach seeds I wonder if it is too late to start them?  Think I may try planting them this week.

    Kimberly, I can grow almost anything...EXCEPT tomatoes!  I have tried and tried with no success. I get your frustration.  Does anyone have the secret to growing tomatoes?

  • Shrek4
    Shrek4 Member Posts: 1,822
    edited March 2013
  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited April 2012

    FLwarrior, Try calling your extension service or master gardener and ask what varieties do well in your climate. Our summers are short and fairly cold, so we can only grow some varieties. Day is right that cherry tomatoes are easier to grow. We have grown them in containers.

  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited April 2012

    Day, what a gorgeous garden!!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2012

    FLwarrior yes do contact your county extension office.  I actually am the secretary for our county extension office and we have a map that we give out that tells you the best times to plant for both fall and spring.  We also have a active master gardener program which is under the county extension office.  They are full of valuable information. They actually helped me with how to build by raised garden beds. My next project will be a drip irrigation system.  One of our MG's is certified in drip irrigation so I get lot's of free advice.

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