Does your Lymphedema Hurt?
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Stong achiness here in LE areas when swelling. For me, yes, the heat aggravates it, and then comes the crabbiness of it all. I don't tolerate heat well for starters, but LE seems to make it worse for me.
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I was just diagnosed a month ago 3 years after BC. My swelling on the inside of my elbow and up is very painful. It's sore to rub or touch and is that nerve pain along with achiness. Does anyone out there have pain from the compression of the sleeve. They are ordering me one that's not so compressive because the pressure really hurts where the fluid is built up. They think it's because I have lupus and I have alot of pain anyway, but was just wondering if anyone else has that problem.
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It is amazing that those in the know about LE will recognize it for what it is but it seems that the Docs don't acknowledge it unless there's a huge amount of swelling.
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Galsal, you are so right! We know we have pain and even know when we have subclinical or mild swelling but they don't or won't see it.
My LE always hurts when it is acting up. I get these areas of real "pain" and soreness on my ribs or back or under my arm. Sometimes I can see or feel the swelling, other times not, but always the pain is what tips me off.
My arms get the deep aching feeling and heaviness - mostly with barometric pressure/weather changes.
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Crystal, many docs (not all) only consider it lymphedema if there is major visible swelling, and according to two surgeons I spoke to, they only consider it BC-treatment-induced lymphedema when it is in the arm. Anything in the trunk is not lymphedema as far as their stats are concerned.
Since the PTs actually treat it, their definitions are a little different.
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kawee,
Some people are pressure sensitive, so a change in compression class may help. I wore a Juzo dream sleeve which is a circular knit for 2 years or so, and got to a point I couldn't tolerate it because it squeezed my arm and got very painful when I swelled. My therapist suggested a flat knit sleeve and I switched to a Mediven. Made a huge difference. Hope you find something that works for you.
Deb
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Thank you for your input, Deb. I appreciate any education I can get!!
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Olearca- The sensations you described are exactly how it feels for me. Looking at my arms I don't think anyone could tell I have swelling but my LE therapist could tell right away. After just a few sessions with her, though, I've already got decreased swelling and most of the pain is gone.
I find it appalling that women everywhere don't have access to a qualified LE therapist. This is definitely something that needs to change! -
My problem is that I can't hold a regular job...I have to just not work some days becuase I have LE in both arms and my whole upper back. I can only work a few hours a day and then I need to lie down and elevate my arms. Lately though, I keep working becaseu I need the money and so I am swelling more and in more pain. I work for myself as an immigration lawyer.....but no client on earth would ever ever ever hire me if I showed up wrapped or even with the sleeves. I can bet my last dollar on that. I really feel I am disabled...hurts so much to type or use my arms for anything on many days. But I am sure unless I get huge, they would never give me disability. I do everything but wrap. I keep my arms looking relatively normal but they aren't normal at all. Being bilateral is so dang hard.
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Meggy- I'm bilateral, too, and have truncal so I can empathize. I was job hunting before the LE dx and now I can't imagine how women manage with this. It seems like most jobs it would be impossible to not aggravate the LE. Can you try to apply for disability? Seems like if your doctor and LE therapist document everything you might have a shot but I'm kind of new to all this. Sorry! I know the whole thing just sucks.
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it's very aggravating when things start hurting again.
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Meggy-I think you might be able to get away with wearing sleeves. I wear mine at school all day and they just look like I am wearing long sleeves. Mine are black. I am not sure how it will be in the summer but for now it is helping a lot!
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Meggy, I sent you a private message.
Gentle hugs,
Binney -
Meggy. If you can wear sleeves you can buy a product called Arm Candy. Google it. It is a colored sleeve that fits over your compression sleeve. It might do the trick. It will look more acceptable.
Cheap as I am, I found a pair of black footless tights that had a lace netting on the bottom of the ankle. I measured my length of my arm and then cut at the desired length. Then I cut a hole for my thumb in the lace area and now I have a black sleeve cover with a lace gauntlet attached to wear and hide my sleeve when I want to. I don't always wear it but sometimes I can't get over the fact that my sleeve looks so ugly with my cloths and it signals many responses so it cover it. Its the glove that I loath.
If you do this make sure you don't have a tight pair of footless hose that will bind your upper arm and cut off your lymph fluid when you wear it.
As for typing, I think there is program called "dragon speak". I myself would like to know more about it. I think you speak and it types for you. How cool is that!
Stay on the threads and you will learn so much. We are all here to help eachother.
Don't underestimate your clients. I would hire anyone that could get my job done right. We don't care what problems a person has or looks like. we just want good services.
I am just learning to wrap, Check out the thread, " hats off any that wrap" There I am getting good support and encouragement on wrapping as it can be frusterating to go at it yourself.
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My sleeve is from lymphadiva's. It is black and I think it looks fine and I don't see why I would need to cover it. They offer colorful ones and gem decorated ones too.
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Yeah those Lymphadiva's do the concealing trick but they just don't fit me. Ratz anyway. Glad you can wear them and they have cute gauntlets too.
I wish they would make gloves.
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Yes, it hurts. I can be happy as a clam thinking I am about to move on with my life and everything is going to be okay, to the next day being swollen like crazy and hurting like hell and thinking I cannot take another day and wonder "is this the rest of my life" and when will I NOT hurt? has a year and a half NOT been enough punishment? The truncal seems to cause more pain for me and less so the swelling in the arm, at least on a continual basis. When the arm swells, my hand hurts and along the upper side of the arm.
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Ginger:
I looked online at the lymphediva stuff. Cute!! I thought I had to buy them from the PT or OT. Are they as good as those? Like my girlfriend said, "if you have to wear the stupid thing, you might as well have fun with it". I didn't see the gem ones.
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Meggy, I get what you are saying, I was a preschool teacher, and I have not been employed since breast cancer / LE. Employment is a very tough issue once LE settles in.
I hope you get answers....I do think right now you are overwhelmed by all of this, it is so much to wrap your head around. We think we dodge the bullet of cancer only to get hit with LE.
I do wear my fun sleeves with my second job, an artist, but it works for that job. But it doesn't pay the bills.
I honestly don't know what women do who have to life on a job?
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Once again I get validation and encouragement from this site. I have been second guessing myself over the last 6 months...
I have sub-clinical LE in both arms and my trunc. My pain is similar to what others are saying, a burning, achy pins and needles. Sometimes my skin is so sensitive to touch that I want to scream and my compression sleeves hurt...
I haven't been back to my therapist for over 6 months ($$$ issues) and it seems to be managed ok with sleeves, glove and compression bra's/vest. I ran into my LE PT and she did a quick measurement and look over (off the books bless her soul) because I have started to notice some changes to the sub-dermal tissue in my upper arms (kinda feels lumpy and uneven). I am horrible with MLD, mainly because there is so little relief or improvement when I or my hubby does MLD. My measurements are down below the elbow but the same/maybe a bit higher in the upper arms. Plus lately I have started to notice my fingers are feeling stiff, achy and hard to bend but they are not very puffy...
I hate LE!!!! I hate wearing sleeves! I hate it when people ask what my sleeves are for and them look at my arms with this 'your not swollen look'! Well DUH!!! That's why I am wearing the damn sleeves!
I work two jobs and I am so grateful that my LE in 'managable' but at the end of the day I always hurt...After a while the pain can really wear me down and I have to hide myself in a room to avoid inadvertently hurting people with harsh words spoken in frustration. Sometimes I am so sad that this is my 'new' normal.
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Michelle- Just wanted to say I sympathize with everything you wrote. Like you, I have sub-clinical LE both arms and truncal. I have very little swelling though do have the "lumpiness" in my upper arms. (I've started dressing creatively now.) I'm still working with my LE PT and am dreading when our sessions are over because I struggle with the MLD, too. I can't quite get the hang of it. She is proposing I look into the pump but not sure if financially that is realistic even with insurance. My DH is going to go to my next session in hopes he can learn some of it but he has Parkinson's so it could be a bit of a challenge. I don't have my sleeves yet but am dreading that, too, especially since it's 100* here in Phoenix now. But without them I can't even mop my kitchen floor without paying for it later. LE just sucks!
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Kate & Michelle,
My OC says lymphedema doesn't hurt. She blames all my pain on the fact that I have Lupus. Well, then, I tell her, why don't both arms hurt. Mine is only sore when the fluid is. I can't lay my arm down on anything. And, you're right Kate, the more I do, the more my arm and hand hurts.
Not familiar wih MLD. What is that. The sleeve wasn't too bad. But once I started wearing that, my hand swelled. Now they've ordered the gauntlet. I'm afraid now my fingers will swell. Just have to wait and see I guess.
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Kawee, I'm spitting and sputtering as I read your post--one more instance of a healthcare provider denying the reality of what LE is, looks like, feels like...yeesh!
MLD is manual lymphatic drainage, and it's a critical part of LE care. MLD is a way the LE therapist uses her/his hands to gently nudge the lymph fluid from where it is trapped in the arm, to areas of the body where lymph fluid moves freely and can enter the venous system and thus eventually exit the body via the kidneys. Some call it a massage, but it's not really that--a very gently way of first stimulating clusters of lymph nodes, then clearing lymph fluid from areas to 'open' them to receive from the 'trapped' area, and then in a sense, pushing the trapped fluid to those now-open areas. It's gentle, it's painless, and it works. And...the LE therapist should teach you to do it yourself, so you can maintain the fluid reductions he/she manages during repeat sessions of professional MLD. If you have symptoms of excess fluid, and you're in a sleeve and gauntlet without also having the basic LE care management of MLD, I'm very confused! Are you in the care of a LE therapist?
I don't have a lot of swelling after learning MLD and using my sleeve/gauntlet for high activity and flying times, but I sure do feel the achiness and I know from experience that if I skip daily MLD, it aches regardless of activity or flying. I hope you can add this treatment tool to your care soon!
Carol
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Kawee, don't wait and see on this, because once you have swelling in your fingers it's hard to manage. Insist on a full glove, and don't wear the sleeve again without one.
Because LE is chronic (and unfortunately, you already know all about "chronic"
) our relationship with our LE therapists is an important one. You might want to look around for a second opinion. Either way, insist on learning both self-MLD and self-wrapping. It's a steep learning curve, but so reassuring to have those skills and be able to use them as needed. Here's how to find the ones with full training near you:
http://www.stepup-speakout.org/Finding_a_Qualified_Lymphedema_Therapist.htmGentle hugs,
Binney -
Thanks Kate & Kawee!
I am past the stage of dressing creatively...I guess I am lucky that my LE is sub clinical and for the most part I wear my sleeves well...most people think it is a fashion statement (since I have bilateral and both arms match). I do wear a Farrow glove on my right hand but leave the left 'uncovered'. I tried wearing gloves on both hands but experienced major sensory deprivation and got claustrophobic...for now the left hand is good and I can still wear my wedding ring and for that I am so thankful.
I do have a pump and feel horrible that I do not use it as diligently as I should...I really have a hard time being confined to the jacket for 45 minutes and not being able to move for all that time. It does help when I do use it, although I typically wait until I am really puffy and hurting before I plug in.
Kate - the Arizona heat is hard and I am in Northern AZ where it is at least 10-15 degrees cooler then Phoenix. I sympathize with you during the summer...it is just not fun
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Binney,
I have mild lymphodema but am a grad of FIT in NYC and studied apparel design many moons ago, still have some 7th ave connections so maybe could connect on something
lordie but dealing with all this makes me want to reinvent my life and would like to chat on it!
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Kawee- My lymphadeva sleeves work great. I ordered them in the size/pressure my LE therapist recommended. They are black and I need to get something lighter colored for the summer or I will melt for sure.
Lymphedema can hurt and any dr that says otherwise does NOT know what they are talking about. Let a bunch of fluid build up in their body and we will see how they change their tune..
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proudtospin, wow! If you want a fashion challenge to work on, you've come to the right place!
What kind of ideas have are calling to you?
Hugs,
Binney
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proudtospin, It could be fun if you start a new thread calling for LE fashion/attire/creative garment ideas! I would be very interested in seeing what everyone talks about, and you might come up with some ideas to both express your creativity and solve some LE problems. Hope you'll consider such a thread!
Carol
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Hi all,
Didn't get the MLD thing at first. She has taught me. I do it everyday. How long does it take that to work? She also does it when I go twice a week with an electrical machine. I hold one end of it and the other end attaches to her massage gloves. So, far though, no change. Course, I've only gone a few times. I just HATE this! To tell you the truth, it started as slight swelling on side of breast and a little under my arm, but it seems like the more they treat it, the worse it gets. I am out of options because this is my second and only place to get another opinion. We have no others. It is a lymphedema clinic, that's all they do there and they are occupational therapists. I already travel 45 miles one way twice a week.
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