Does your Lymphedema Hurt?
My lymphedema is painful when not completely in control. A little swelling causes a sort of burning pain and aching. I've read that it is normally painless. I feel like my doctor thinks I have neuropothy becuase of the pain I am describing but that is not the case. My pain only occurs with swelling and is relieved by reducing swelling.
Please let me know do most of you experience pain as I do or is my situation unusual?
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I have minimal swelling, but it hurts. The first sign of a problem is pain. It is a sort of sharp pins and needles thing. At first I thought it was the nerves coming back after the operation, but then I realized that it is the lymphedema.
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Meggy, yes, LE is sometimes painful. Not always though, which I think confuses doctors (and sometimes even therapists). For a long time the prevailing belief even among therapists was that if there was pain with LE then it had to have some other cause. Now, though, it's generally understood that for some of us LE can be quite painful.
There's the discomfort of swelling, of course--the achy, heavy feeling. But there's also sometimes an element of nerve pain--tingling, burning, pins-and-needles, or outright disabling pain. It can seem to move around, too, so it's hard to pin down (which makes some doctors think it's all in our heads
). The usual OTC pain relievers don't do much for it but, as you say, reducing the swelling does. Which is why there's a theory that the swelling somehow presses on nerves and that's what we're experiencing.
Thank goodness we have the tools to reduce the swelling, because otherwise this would be a truly disabling. Hope you're feeling better and managing to keep the swelling down--full time job, isn't it?!
Hugs,
Binney -
Yes, I have pain. The skin on the back of my arm feels kind of like a sunburn, and when I swell more, I get this kind of deep ache in my armpit, along with itching. When I swell even more, I feel like I seriously overdid a workout - that kind of muscle soreness. Fortunately, I've never had to go beyond that level. This, for me, is not what I'd call debilitating pain, but it tends to sap my energy. Good self-care reduces my pain - drinking lots of water, doing MLD and stretches from my OT, wearing compression, and resting with my arm elevated.
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No pain.
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I have severe post mastectomy pain syndrome. I have wondered if I have mild LE. At times I get that achey, heavy feeling, almost like there are water balloon squeezing my arms. I also get those nerve pains. Sometimes me fingers feel swollen and hard to bend, but goes away.I don't know if I have mild LE or not.
Unfortuneately, there are no certified LE therapists within an hour's drive from where I live. Last summer I spent 5 months with two different occupational therapists for pmps and scar tissue adhesions. I ALWAYS let them know all my feelings between sessions. The one in charge of my case took measurements and I was slightly more swollen at times than others. I remember one time, I was considerable less mm around the arms than before and she said it could be becuase I lost a couple pounds. I didn't believe her.
At my last session, it is like the light bulb went on and it is like she NEVER heard me the entire five months and gave me a few LE things to do at home. Of course, I forgot them.
I really don't know what to do. The other clinic that I went to was horrible. These two ladies were wonderful about pmps and scar tissue adhesions, but really suck with mild LE.
Anyone else have mild LE and have a hard time getting someone to believe them? Or is it my nerve damage acting up....Nothing seems to be black and white with pmps and Le.
Thank you for bringing up this topic. I have wondered for a long time, but just never posted it.
I hope you find help and it works.
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Meggy,
What you are describing is very similar to what I experience. And of course Binney's description of it is spot on. Why some people have pain and others don't is a mystery. And then the whole business of is it nerve pain, or not. I have found that wearing a compression sleeve during the day and doing MLD brings me relief. I wrap at night when I have had an very active day. And drink lots of water and avoid salt.
Cinnamonsmiles, I'm not good at posting links, but check out stepup-speakout.org for tips on how to find a LE qualified therapist. The site was put together by several of the wonderful ladies here. So many of us have horror stories about untrained therapists, but a therapist that is well trained and qualified to treat LE can make such a difference! Hopefully you can find someone who really knows how to treat LE. Let us know what you discover!
Deb
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Binny, I do feel it is a full time job....do you mind me asking if you work...I am feeling like working is nearly impossible. Now that I am working again, I am doing far more than my arms want to.
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Meggy, I don't work outside the home. If I did I'd have had to ask for "reasonable accomodations" to manage the LE. I've had to learn to use a left-hand-only keypad because I simply can't type or write with my right (dominant) hand without almost immediate swelling and pain. I also can't cut much with a scissors and I've given up crochet and spinning wool as well.
As Katie Schmitz discovered with her weight-lifting study (but doesn't much mention in writing it up
), LE is variable, and for some of us it is debilitating no matter how determined we are not to let it interfere with our lives.
So while I encourage every one of us to do as much as we can of our favorite activities and make the adjustments we need to help us carry on, the reality is that sometimes one activity or another is a flat-out loss. Not the end of the earth, certainly, but it does take some creativity to find substitutes for the things we can no longer do -- and it takes time and effort to grieve our losses.
Hope that's not too much of a downer, but it is my reality. I have a grandson who is a dwarf and has suffered endless surgeries on his bones to strengthen and support them, including months in a "halo" of metal attached to his skull to stabilize his neck. His activities are severely limited and will always be, but even now as an older teen his spirit is indomitable. So I have a lot to live up to in that department, and his excellent example to guide me. I'm a rich woman!
Hugs,
Binney
(P.S.-Did I mention I hate LE?!)
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Binney, as always, you provide perspective with a tremendous foundation of grace. Thank you for being a friend to all of us.
Cinnamon, I have mild LE, and it plays real games with your head! Some days I find myself wondering if I am simply mistaken, and all my symptoms are some ephemeral and variable effect of my bmx/recon; other days the heaviness, tingling and achey feeling remind me that I'm not imagining anything. Once at an LE evaluation, I was measured using a perometer (highly accurate), and it detected 10% more volume in my nodes-removed arm compared to my unaffected, dominant arm. I felt so vindicated! But even since then, I find that when I'm challenged by my MDs ('it doesn't look swollen....are you sure???') I hesitate just a bit.
Fortunately, my LE therapist has seen and heard from enough LE patients to recognize the non-swelling symptoms, including a certain fibrotic feel to a few spots on my breast, as LE even though she never picks it up with her tape measure. She validates what I'm feeling, takes me seriously, and even though I don't think she's as experienced as some of the therapists that women here write about, she earnestly wants to find solutions for me.
Long story short--mild LE is certainly better than not-so-mild LE, and I admire so many women here who find ways to deal with more advanced LE in ways that so far, I have not had to. But even 'mild' LE brings a passel of issues...I liken it to the saying 'death by 1000 paper cuts.' It's legitimate, and you've got your work cut out for you to convince the naysayer healthcare providers that the condition needs to be taken seriously. And--to convince yourself not to short-cut the precautions that are helping you to keep it mild! That's my own biggest challenge.
Carol
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Meggy- I was just dx with LE and pain was the first symptom I noticed. It scared me at first because it was only in my left arm which they say can be a early warning sign of heart issues. (Never thought I'd wish I was having heart issues rather than this **** LE!)
Cinnamon- Is it possible to travel farther to be seen by someone qualified just to get a definitive dx? If it is LE it's better to get dx before it progresses. -
Carol, mine is mild, although there has been measurable swelling, and I get the doctors trying to tell me it is all in my head and asking me why I wear the sleeve. Thing is that even when the swelling is not measurable, I can feel it if I don't wear the stupid sleeve.
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Momine, I cannot recall the exact statistic, and I hope Binney will correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe I read that the limb can have up to 20% added fluid before the increase is measurable using external methods, whether tape measure, water displacement or even perometry. So no wonder we feel it before it's visible. Using perometry to measure, my LE arm is only about 3% bigger than my non-affected (but dominant) arm now, after months of care that includes MLD and wearing compression when I'm flying or doing stress activities. But wow, can I ever tell by feel when fluid is starting to pool. Ache, tenderness, tingle..a veritable potpourri of odd sensations. In my truncal area, where measurement tells us nothing, it feels hot and tender, and there I can sometimes actually see the swelling.
I've grown accustomed to wearing compression shirts or camis all the time, but now with hot weather arriving, I cannot imagine such a thing. I do plan to search for a bathing suit that at least compresses the truncal area, which means a pretty high-cut arm hole. Or maybe one of those 1920's bathing suits? (not!!) Even if I'm not swimming, wearing shorts over a nice, compressive suit may be more tolerable than wearing a cami under clothing.
We sure have our work cut out for us, to get the doctors to understand.
Carol
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Carol -maybe we should start a clothing company that makes clothing only for lymphedema and only run by LE patients! Any business majors out there?
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Becky, Hmmm. Great idea! Big undertaking! Maybe too big. But like the wonderful cami reviews on SUSO, we sure might come up with a review site with links to great clothing products that simply work for LE (like bathing suits that compress and have higher-cut arm holes). (And on one thread here, Kira mentioned clothing that's impermeated with permethrin to repel mosquitos, and of course the continuing chatter about compression shirts that don't have beacon-like logos or necklines that peek out of every item in the closet!)
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Carol--I used to get bathing suits from a company called Junonia that came up higher and compressed. But for larger sized women only. Maybe we could talk them into a smaller size. The suits last a long time and stay dry while in the water. I think Land's End has higher cut suits but not so compressing.
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Good morning, all!
Check out the swimsuit section at StepUp-SpeakOut for some fitting tips:
http://www.stepup-speakout.org/How_You_Can_Cope_with_Lymphedema.htm#Swimming_and_LECarol, the figure I was told was 30% more fluid in the tissues than is normal before swelling is measurable--quite a lot, but it explains why we can feel so many different sensations. One of the real problems we have with getting the attention of the medical community is that the lymph system is not only slow and stupid, it's also shy and retiring. Much of it is invisible to the naked eye, so it's gone unstudied through the ages. And now when something goes wrong it waits to be noticed until the whole area is sopped and heavy before it starts to swell. Then we have this whole problem of trying to convince our doctors that LE is not "all in our heads."
Hang in there and speak up, fellow lymphers! It's not us, it's our mousy, wall-flower lymph system that's causing all the professional skepticism.
If we want good care (and better clothing products) we need to keep making all the noise we can.
Onward!
Binney -
Carol (and Binney), interesting about the fluid accumulating before it can be measured. That makes total sense, just based on what I feel when the arm is acting up.
I have seriously thought about doing clothes for mastectomy and LE patients. Way back in the dark ages, I took some patternmaking and tailoring courses, so I have half a clue how it is done.
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Oh, forgot to add, if anyone has any connections with a college or junior college clothing design program, I think that would be a good place to start asking about design and production help. Sandra Tullio-Pow's design stupents at Ryerson University in Ontario came up with some specific LE clothing and accessory products several years ago, but they've stopped producing them. There was a beautiful, warm cape for winter weather when your arm is wrapped and won't fit in a coat sleeve, a lovely artist-type shirt with roomy but graceful sleeves and magnetic "buttons" that you can fasten easily even with gauze-wrapped fingers, a modular purse with wide shoulder strap and a loop in the back so you could put your arm in it and it wouldn't hang down. Interesting stuff. If we could get some design students interested in our unique design needs they'd sure have plenty of suggestions and feedback here!
Biggest challenge: nightwear that looks sexy with a fat, clumsy, bulky, ugly night garment.
Binney
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Binney, you never cease to amaze me, in your role as information-central for all things LE! What wonderful information!
Momine...go for it!!!!
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I am so pleased to have found this thread. My breast surgeon says I do not have lymphedema, but crazy enough, he suggested i see a lymphedema trained therapist and she says I do have it.
I do have pain, this feeling of tightness or congestion is my first clue, and then comes a sunburn feeling.
Questions :
-I note mild swelling after I walk every day, should I be wearing my sleeve to walk, and gauntlet?
-Are we not supposed to swing our arms when we walk? That action seems to make me feel worse.
I thank all of you for your comments, I have got to thinking the lymphedema was all in my head too at times.
One thing I have never seen discussed before was after my surgery (mastectomy) my arm was soooo heavy for weeks... but everyone said it was normal and would go away. I never heard anyone else describe this immediately following surgery.
Thanks!
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I am very happy to read this too people make us think it is all in our heads, my LE hurts badly and is swollen badly been wearing my sleeve 24/7 it has become clear I have to do this. I felt so alone now I know I am not. Thou I am sorry any of us are going through this.
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Pink isn't it a relief when u know u'r not alone, sometimes I think I'm creatin pain myself-u go crazy. I have it all over, but I'm also overweight and I think why can't I just put a pin in it like a balloon and it will empty. LOL And when it does get itchy, u can't feel any acratching at all so u itch forever. I have it in both arms and legs so when I have all my "gear" on my kids call me "mummy"-I'm sorry any one has to have any of this from the beginning. Oh well
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Crystal, by all means try wearing your garments when you walk and see if it prevents the swelling. There aren't exactly any rules about this, as we're all a bit different, but it does make sense that walking with your arms down could create some problems.
If you mean you're swinging your arms gently down at your sides like everybody does when they walk, that can sometimes cause problems because gravity is working against the direction the lymph needs to flow. You could try pumping your arms more deliberately so you're bending the elbow and bringing your hands up toward your shoulders, or try putting an arm overhead and pumping your fist open and closed slowly from time to time.
Pink, welcome!
Sorry to hear you've joined our Sisterhood of Swell.
Do you have a good lymphedema therapist, and has s/he done a therapy intensive with you yet ( a few weeks of daily MLD massage and wrapping your arm in layered bandages, plus exercise and skin care)? If not, that can really reduce the swelling and relieve the pain. I was also wondering about the garments you're wearing--are you using night garments for sleeping? Sleeping in regular day garments can make matters worse.
Hoping you get real relief soon!
Camillegal, too funny about your kids calling you "Mummy"! Guess we have to keep our sense of humor one way or another, and kids are a big help with that.
Be well!
Binney -
Crystal,
My arm was heavier in the beginning, it feels better now. And I feel much, much better when I wear sleeve and gauntlet for walking. To keep my hands from hanging down, I also use walking poles (cheap Wal-Mart variety.) In official-sounding parlance, I say they engage my core muscles, and distribute weight more evenly on my joints. My children call them "spider walking poles." My husband calls them "canes." But they say these things from several feet away because the poles have very useful carbide tips.
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snorfia- LOL!
I just had my 2nd appointment for MLD with my therapist and have to say the pain is improving all ready. It's still there but definitely less intense. She's really optimistic that she can get the swelling down and should have to only wear the sleeves for flying, exercise and manual labor. (I try to avoid that last one, anyway- especially vacuuming!) Hope those of you with pain can find some relief, too.
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Ah, Kate, that's encouraging news!
Love it!
Binney -
Crystal, I wear my sleeve most of the time, because I find it prevents pain and swelling. However, when I walk, I also stretch my arms at intervals. One way I find useful is to lift my arms to shoulderlevel, then make a fist as I bring my hands into my chest, then open the hands as I stretch my arms out to the sides at shoulder height. I will do this 8-10 times every 15 minutes or so.
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Crystal--I wear garments while walking. I also do not let my arms hang down but bent at elbow and swing forward. I then pump my arm every 10 minutes. Put arm up in air and pump down fast. If I let my arms hang down my hand and LE arm swells.
Kate-- Good news! Keep going forward!
Camillegal--Mummy is funny. When I was wrapped I felt like the Michelin Man!
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Thanks everyone! See, I did not know this about walking! ok, so I will wear my garments as well as do the arm thing pumping. I also may look into the ski poles just because I am afraid sometimes when i am alone. It would be good for me, along the edge of the woods.
One thing I don't understand though is why I am told by a LE specialist I do have lymphedema, yet both my doctors say no. Is this a part of it too?
I am concerned about the summer...we do not have air conditioning. Does anyone think air condition is a must have?
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I really don't understand how any medical person could say there's never pain with lymphedema. The earliest sign for me was the ache I'd get. It wasn't in one spot, and this was before any swelling appeared, but I knew what it was and massaging relieved it.
Recently, with the advent of swelling in my hand and lower arm, the pain has been in my fingers. I am quite certain the lymphedema is complicating the arthritis I have had in those joints for some time. Stiff, tight, and painful to bend, even though the swelling is now back down to subclinical level.
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