Too early for April 2012 mastectomy?

HI, Ladies. Back from NYC and pre-op.  After several weeks of very pleasant denial, i will say that today hit me very hard.  it's all real now and i have my nerves revved up again big time.  on top of it-- while i am feeling better and my cold is subsiding-- i just got a note home from school about a whooping cough case in my son's class.  i am a wreck about it.  i heard there was a case in the middle school-- so i took my kids in for boosters two weeks ago.  i just PRAY the shot has taken effect and my kids (AND I) won't get anything.  can you imagine whooping cough with a mastectomy.  i am truly insane right now about this-- particularly because i have a mild cough folloiwng my cold.    I think i need a good cry tonight...and then maybe some drugs.  i've given up all alcohol (two weeks ago) and have been fine w/out anxiety meds.  but i am so sad tonight.  I need to go back into denial for the next week!!!

Questions-  has anyone else with DCIS/LCIS been told they need to do a double SNB? 

RTNYC -- Sorry not to call today.  doctors appointments went from 1- almost 4pm...jumped in the car to head home after that.  i'll call again. 

SOOOO good to hear how well you post-op girls are doing.  xxoo

also-- two other questions....how long did your docs tell you it should be before you can lift anything?  and how long before you can drive?  trying to make plans with friends....thanks!

longislandmom:the pre op kicked me into reality too, I was kind of hoping they would tell me I'm not fit for surgery!!!  Take a deep breath I guess and then drugs are good too!!  double SNB? You mean both sides.  They are doing that on me...ugg two needles. 

 Thank you all for all the well wishes, I can't believe we the  Wednesday gals only have to get through tomorrow finally!  I have to be at the hospital for 5:30 am on Wednesday, early is good since I wont get much sleep anyway!   Plymouth and Jayme Have you both in my thoughts and prayers as the date gets so close.

Thinking of Aussie1 and Jennyrjd, That surgery went well and you are resting comfortable .

Ndroby and Keonghi Drains removed that's great sure glad to hear it didn't hurt , Ndroby 2 miles that's awesome and encouraging, I am a runner and run about 30 miles a week and wonder how long it will take before I am out and running.  

 Keonghi sorry you had to go through that today, but that sure is  a true statement  that  you are saving your life

Longislanddmom,  Hope everything was smooth your pre-op.

To everyone who all ready had your surgery and those of us that are still waiting thank you for all of your posts offering such strength, courage and a great deal of support, you are a great group of women!

mardibra - I'm with you, never needed pain meds. Was on the pump in the hospital, but used it mostly when they said I should. Have now had 5 surgeries and haven't taken any pain meds after leaving the hospital. The 1st 3 surgeries I took one Vicodin when leaving the hospital just to get me home, but didn't with this last time and was OK. We're all different and having different procedures. I had UMX with DIEP.

A few times since my diagnosis I've wished for a close girlfriend, but I just don't have one, I mostly hang out with the boys. BCO has been a lifesaver for me.

Hugs to all of you recovering or getting ready to jump in. You are in my thoughts, each and every day.

I have to have a double SNB too .. had anxiety about that appointment ad going alone but my boss is coming with me . so happy I wont be alone .. anyway I wish u all well .. columbian , this is a great group of ladies .. sorry u have to be alone and here , as am I . But the girls here are wonderful support ... hugs 

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Ok ladies I am not much for supporting products but my PS told me about this because I was having much difficulty with a bra of any sort.  So I went to walmart last night and it was so comfortable that I wanted to wear it home, lol!   I was wearing a oversized sports bra prior to this that I had to cut because it was digging into my SNB area.  It also would ride under my breasts which wasn't good for my left side where PS put in the implant and would dig in.  So this was a great find at a great price, and super comfy. I think this would also be a great product for the ladies having DIEP.  It is sort of like a loose girdle so it wll hold the incsion area snug. Price for this wonder garment is only $15.68. 

Thanks Melrose ... My boss is  my best friend and like a mother to me, I love her lots .. she is going to Vermont on Surgery day so I will miss her , but she thought since my real mom will be here to care for me she could go ... I thank god everyday for the speacial people in my life .. Melrose u are one of them {{HUGS}}

Mardibra- if your drainage is down, I would call to get the dam drains out. Waiting until 5/7 is a long time. The only pain med I have taken is tylenol. So I am a freak too. I got my period the day after surgery and I have headaches with them so tylenol was needed. It did take the edge off the drain sites too.

lisamarie68- Thanks for the kind words.  We just need to keep supporting one another  throughout our journeys--- no matter that one of us has completed that part of treatment that the other one is just starting that part.  Believe it or not, you are helping the others here  because you have said what maybe they are thinking and you make a true effort to keep moving forward and get through your fears.  That is a great accomplishment for anyone.  Have a great day.  Keep that chin up girl!!! 

YAHOO DIANAROSE!!!!  Hope to hear from you once you get back from the doctor.  Happy Dance--- YAY!!!!

i am scheduled for 5-4.. way to much time to think

You are almost done plymouthpeople!  Good luck!  and thanks for starting and keeping up this thread!