April/May 2012 Chemo hang out

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Stacie
Stacie Member Posts: 607

I didn't see a thread for those of us just coming through surgery and starting chemo so here goes.*********** Finished chemotherapy (BGC):

lsharvey822- 7/12/12

dancetrancer - 6/13/2012

jennyrjd - 8/9/2012

Kjiberty 6/28/12.

Husker123 -7/5/12

Lisa 2012- 6/20/12

FightingLikeAGirl- 7/5/12

Stacie 6/28/12

vjm 6/15/12</>

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  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    I found you! I guess I'll find out next Friday when my official start date is! 

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    Welcome to our next step huh? I get my port Friday. Next week some heart work up and BRAC test. The following Monday 1st dose. I am still juicing and eating stellar healthy to prepare my body for chemo.

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    I guess I'll find out soon enough. I'm nervous about the port. But I know I'd rather the port over getting stuck every time I go in. I've also been trying to eat healthier. I was walking til my surgery. Hopefully I'll get back in the groove by the end of the week.

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    The port just makes me say to my hubby "I don't want another surgery". Sometimes i nust have to voice my lack of desire for the next step then let it go and press on.

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    I don't want it either! haha But, if I must, then I must. I think we are the only two from our group that has to do chemo. 

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    So far. I am sure some mastectomy pts will join us. If not its you and me kid...

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    Haha. What are you doing for your head? Wig, scarves, both? I'm heading down to the ACS next week to look at wigs. I got a huge packet of info from them today. I'm also going for a haircut next Thursday to chop quite a bit off.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited March 2012

    Stacie & Sandik--- Hi my friends..... I think I will be joining you on this journey to chemoland.  I got my port last week when I had my UMX and node biopsy.  I was out but was forewarned by the BS medical asst that it would be sore and might hurt for a while after the placement.  Right now, I'm just trying to ignore it.  Supposed to have a CT scan very soon and then it's an appt with the MO to see what chemo is best for me.  I already cut off my waist length hair before my surgery so its a bob now.  So much easier to take care of and my DH is washing it for me which is heavenly. 

    Kind of lost it yesterday because I got a call from the hospital to schedule the CT scan and I have only been out of the hospital five days.  Needless to say, I called the MO who wanted me to schedule it and said I was a little taken back by trying to get this done when I just had surgery and haven't even gone to see the BS for a followup appt.  Plus, I've been hypersensitive to the surgical wash, antibotics...... my body chemistry is just all shook up.  Yep, this train, I'm on keeps on moving so I just have to get over it and move forward....

    Hope both of you are recovering from your surgeries.  Sending lots  of (((HUGS))), positive thoughts, energy and prayers !!!!!

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    Sandi,

    I am getting a wig for work or dress up. Scarves and comfy stuff at home. Welcome Melrose... i get the port tomorrow. YES it's a train-- good analogy. I did a CT and PET already. Worst part is drinkng that crapola.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited March 2012

    CT scan and bone scan on the upcoming schedule for me. The hospital tried again today to set it but the MO has to change the orders because of my allergies. It is will probably be next Friday.  Hopefully by then, I will be in a better frame of mind for this next step.  Stacie- you made me feel better.... :)

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    I know I didn't pay for a train ride! ;)

    OMG I don't want to think of a PET scan! Drinking that crap!

    Did you call the ACS? They signed me up for some program called Look Good Feel Better. They teach you about skin care and makeup. They give you like $300 in makeup and skin product! They also told me to come in next week and pick out a wig. I've ordered a free scarf from a place that I can't remember the name of right now.

    All the years I've been raising money for cancer awareness I never thought I'd be on the receiving end of things!

    Melrose, hang in there!  

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited March 2012

    Thanks Sandik.... Just got from the BS and got one of my two drains removed and no more ace bandave!!!! YAY!!!!!  He and his nurse said they completely understood how rushed I felt with getting the call to schedule the Bone scan and CAT Scan.  The BS said I should be okay for the tests if they go forward next Friday.  My next MO appt is tentatively scheduled for April 3. 

    I haven't checked into the ACS yet but might give it a try.

    Thanks for the encouraging words. 

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited March 2012

    Hello April & May gang!

    Stopping in here to provide some great information from the main Breastcancer.org site on Chemotherapy, including what to expect, types of chemo meds, and side effect management.

    Hope you find this helpful!

    --Your Mods

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    Thanks Mods! Will check into it! 

     Yay Melrose! So glad they aren't rushing you! My surgeon told me after he got done, "now the ball is back in your court. You are in charge again. This show gets run how you want it to" Let them advise you, but it's your body! If it's too soon for you, let them know! 

  • beth1965
    beth1965 Member Posts: 455
    edited March 2012

    Hello all-From what i understand i will be starting chemo anytime now. I am abit behind schedule but either way am finally starting. Just wanted to say hi

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    Hi Beth, welcome! We all three came from the lumpectomy group together. The rest ditched us for radiation. Have you just had surgery? How are you holding out?

  • beth1965
    beth1965 Member Posts: 455
    edited March 2012

    Hi sandik- i had surgery a BMX with all nodes out on one side on feb 2nd and got pneumonia and then infection so had to wait to do chemo. I will be getting radiation after chemo.  I am not looking forward to chemo but i am looking forward to fighting this cancer more. I want to feel like i am doing something

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    Welcome Beth. I am in preop for my port now. Will check in when i come too.

  • Pkate
    Pkate Member Posts: 37
    edited March 2012

    Thank you for starting this group.  I, too, am starting chemo on 4/4/12 and was interested in finding some buddies. 

    My history is that I just had second BCS surgery (re-excision) which was successful.  I had the port put in at that time (3/9/12) for chemo.  I go for echo and lab next week.

    I will undergo 4 weeks of A/C and then 4 weeks of T/C, then one month off and then radiation for 6 1/2 weeks and hormone therapy for 5 years (aromatase since I am menopausal).

     Have my wig ready and going for the short cut/shave the week after chemo. 

    My heart is with all of you through this treatment.

  • wildflower2828
    wildflower2828 Member Posts: 22
    edited March 2012

    I as well have to do Chemo starting in May, and I am scared to death.  I know I need to start eating healthier, and excersing, because I am way out of shape now, but it is so hard to force myself.  I go at the end of April to  set up a date to get the port installed.  If anyone has any words of encouragement, please send them my way.  I have a 5 year old daughter, that I am afraid I am not going to be able to take care of, and have no family around me that could help....My husand works days, so that is more added stress.

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    We are together Kate.. By the way all i am home from having my port put in and feeling fine (Vicodin).

  • wildflower2828
    wildflower2828 Member Posts: 22
    edited March 2012

    Hi Stacie,

    How do they insert the port?, do they put you completely out?  Is it something you can feel?, and does it irritate you?

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    Stacie, I was just coming to see how you made out. Glad it went ok. 

    Welcome Pkate and wildflower!

    Pkate, Im going in for a big haircut this week, and to look for a wig. I meet with the oncologist on Friday. Glad your re-excision went well. 

    wildflower, It is scary, but we will all get through it! I am way out of shape as well. Do you have a smart phone? Look for the myfitnesspal app. If you don't then it's just www.myfitnesspal.com and you enter your food and water intake and your exercise. I started as soon as I found out I had cancer. Haven't been walking the last week due to the boob hurting whe I walk. haha  We can do this and we will! My hubby is getting a book from his boss. His daughter in law had stage 4 of some kind of cancer and started changing her diet, exercising, living right. That was 5 years ago and she is in remission. I figure it can't hurt! I'm triple negative, so I can't do the normal hormone stuff. When I get the name of the book, I'll post it here. 

  • wildflower2828
    wildflower2828 Member Posts: 22
    edited March 2012

    Thanks sandik

    I have a lifetime membership at fitness usa, I guess now would be the best time as any to take advantage of it.  I know this may sound dumb/strange, but chemo is a very harse thing, how does getting fit make it any easier.  I already have it in my head that I am doomed because of being triple negative, that I will be receiving some very harse/hard meds, that are going to knock me on my butt.  I even considered opting not to do the chemo, but my best friend insisted I am doing it.  I think that is just the scaredy cat coming out in me.  I just have all these worries about my family, and how we are going to cope finacially and emotionally.

  • petagae
    petagae Member Posts: 58
    edited March 2012

    Hello Ladies. Looks like i'll be joining you. I'm officially 2 weeks post BMX. Saw my MO today and was told chemo is definate (no surprise there due to my age - 27). She's ordering Oncotype but were thinking just Tax and Cyto for right now. It would be the normal 4 treatments every 4 weeks. I did see a thread somewhere where ladies took it every week for 12 weeks. I may ask my MO about that.

  • sandik
    sandik Member Posts: 482
    edited March 2012

    Wildflower, im triple neg too! It really does sound super scary that there is nothing else available for us other than chemo and rads. I had a meltdown last week over it!

    But, from what ive read, a low fat low sugar diet along with exercise helps a LOT with keeping recurrence away. The exercise even more than the diet. So, we've gotta keep putting one foot in front of the other. Literally! We will beat this!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012

    Hi Ladies,

    I just finished nearly 5 months of chemo (started Nov. 3) day before yesterday. I remember thinking that it was such a long time and how would I ever do it?  Well,I did--4 DD AC and 12 weekly Taxols.  Minimum side effects (hair loss, nausea, weight loss and loss of appetite, hyper acute sense of smell on AC; little to no SE from Taxol except a little tiredness from time to time and back pain once after tx #2--no nail problems, neuropathy, etc.)  I took l-glutamine and acetyl carnitine for neuropathy which `can come with Taxol and I iced my toe and fingernails during Taxol to keep them healthy--it all worked.  

    I kept up with my high activity level all through chemo because it felt like I was flipping a big bird to cancerSmile You know--you aren't going to GET me down!  And I worked (I teach at a Univ.) Nov-Dec as normal...but took family leave this semester and am only teaching one class instead of four b/c Ididn't know how Taxol was going to be for me.  

    My hair is growing back in--about 1" long so far; it started falling out after AC tx 2--around Thanksgiving--so I really only had to be completely bald for a few months. I'm going topless (no hairpiece) everywhere again.

    I wanted to give you encouragement and some tips on how to take care of some of the more serious SE--everyone is different, but I came through it and was so afraid of it before, and you can too.

    I get my port out in two weeks. That was a godsend and I'm glad I had one. Never had any pain or problems with it, when they put it in or anytime else. It just stung a bit when they accessed it--but ask for cold spray and it will numb the area and be easier.  After it's in you don't feel it.

    Ladies--you can do this.  That's what ladies on this board told me before I started and I was glad they did.  Now I'm telling you the same. It's just a bump in the road. Good luck to all of you.

    Claire

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    Hey I am not triple negative but I have been reading a blog about a famous reporter who is. Jennifer Griffin is the FOX News correspondent assigned to the Pentagon. You can google her if interested. I noticed she posts about TRIPLE NEG and is active nationalli on the subject.



    My doc put me under for the port. It stings some and i am on vivadin. Doing good.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited March 2012

    Claireinaz- Thanks for the post.  Needed that boost of encouragement today from someone who has traveled this part of the journey before me.  If you have any other helpful tips, please share!!!

    Melrose 

  • Stacie
    Stacie Member Posts: 607
    edited March 2012

    Meant to say that too Claire.

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