March 2012 chemo

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  • Pgjoh
    Pgjoh Member Posts: 11
    edited March 2012

    Katy - The whole wig thing is very weird I found, I am still delaying the big haircut, my hair is long long and has been that way forever, I was the type that would cry after a too aggressive trim. I'm sure your wig will be great, not ridiculous although it sure feels that way, I finally found the courage today to call a hairdresser for the cut, big steps today....



    Day 9 for you , how are you feeling???? Good Luck with the the next weeks



    Amy

  • Kadia
    Kadia Member Posts: 314
    edited March 2012

    I wear my wig to work, but other than that will probably stick mostly to scarves. If I could get my stubble down to the bare skin, I might actually brave baldness, but I hate the patchy look. I'm thinking about going to a barber to get it really bald. I wonder if it will grow back a bit between cycles, though...

  • khintul
    khintul Member Posts: 33
    edited March 2012

    Wow, so many of us, and so many posts I'd like to respond to, but I can't keep track without taking copious notes, and I'm just not that energetic!

    Welcome to everyone who's joined us recently, if you're like I was, I lurked for quite a while before starting to post anywhere. Everyone has been extremely nice and welcoming. We're all in this together.

    Got my Neulasta shot this morning, but the big deal of the day was the haircut this afternoon! My hair started coming out yesterday, which was day 15, right on schedule. And boy, today it was really letting loose, so the appointment was not a minute too soon. I did not intend to go "all the way" to bald, just was going to get a really short buzz, but we wound up just doing the whole thing. Betty, my hairdresser, took it down in stages so we could see what it was going to be like at various lengths when it grows back in. She first took it to the spike stage, which we liked, then down to the Jamie Lee Curtis stage, which while it looks great on Jamie Lee's skinny face, my face is not skinny, so that one's not for me. We then went to the Susan Powter look (remember her, the hot diet guru from several years ago with the flat top). Also not for me. At that point she just went ahead and shaved my head completely. Figured as fast as it was coming out, it would only be a matter of days til it was all gone, and might as well leave it on the beauty shop floor as have to clean it up here. I was surprised to see that I actually have a nicely shaped head, but the bald look is still not for me. 

    I had taken my wig with me, and we put it on and it didn't need a bit of trimming, and really looks great. I'm going to be very happy with it. It's much more comfortable now without a full head of hair underneath too. I also have a halo, and Betty trimmed it up for me - the bangs were too long, and it was too long in the back. After she trimmed it up, I now think I'll get some good use out of it too. 

    My MO has me taking Decadron 4 mg twice/day for the 3 days after chemo, and the steroid high has now kicked in and I feel great! I know after I stop taking them I'll come down, but for now I'll just enjoy the ride. 

    Wishing minimal to no SEs for everyone, attitudes are great and so important!

    Karon

  • Januaryice
    Januaryice Member Posts: 120
    edited March 2012

    Kim170- my score was 63, right off the chart. The chart I saw only went to 50 and every number after that was just clumped together. I guess the only good thing was that I did not have to make a major decision if I was in the gray area.

  • lostinmo
    lostinmo Member Posts: 922
    edited March 2012

    Hi everyone hope I can jump in here with you.  I've been trying to follow the posts here but got somewhat sidetracked.  Seems like everytime I turn around I have to run back to the hospital for more tests.

     Anyway, I get my port placed Tues. (very nervous about this) and start chemo a few days later.  Not sure yet what the meds will be because I'm going to be part of a study and I don't know which Arm I will be. But I'm having my chemo first and then surgery.

    As of now I don't plan on doing a wig, but you never know.  I've never seen my head without hair, it might be a scary sight.  :)

  • MichelleMassey
    MichelleMassey Member Posts: 213
    edited March 2012

    Well the docs office just called.  I get my port put in on Friday so I can start chemo Monday.  Starting to get nervous about all this, but at the same time I just want to get started so I can get it over with.  This has just all moved so fact since I was just diagnosed on the 2nd of this month! Wow, what a ride!

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 1,344
    edited March 2012

    Hey Amy - we are starting chemo the same day - what treatment are you doing?  I am doing T/C x 6.  I am not scared (at the moment) just ready to get it done so I can be finished!  

    I hope everyone starting soon has very minimal side effects!  

    Cheers

    Kim 

  • Sissydi
    Sissydi Member Posts: 516
    edited March 2012

    Don't be nervous about your ports girls....their very helpful, and you will come to rely on them. Welcome to the new girls; our group is growing, and while that is sad, I am grateful you have found us here: you will find everyone to be very welcoming and encouraging. We are a giant support group!



    Well, today is day 3 after 2nd tx, and the gross bloating feeling has set in, along with a mild headache. Just like last time! Sometimes food smells good, other times it doesn't. Sweet hubby is making fried rice for me tonight, and it smells heavenly! Ended up taking a 3hour nap today; I definitely see what the onc meant when he said the fatigue is cumulative....that definitely bit my behind this time! Looking forward to next week when I eat everything in sight!

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited March 2012
    January - I've noticed that most with scores over 50 (not all) are Her2 positive.  But then, they don't usually do the Oncotype test on Her2 positive as they will need chemo anyway.  Were you Her2 positive?
  • galena_79
    galena_79 Member Posts: 107
    edited March 2012

    Tx2 Day4. I'm feeling pretty good today. :D Slept well, woke up, took domperidone, then did 10 minutes on the exercise machine. Helps my bowels keep moving, and able to eat meals! I'll exercise again before lunch, and before dinner, if I can. Hair still falling out everywhere, but still plenty to come out. Maybe I should pull out the lint roller.

    Karon- Downton Abbey will be my next TV watch, thanks. Just finished watching a Sex and the City marathon this morning. Was fun.

    Jeanne- Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear about your wrist! I hope the surgery goes well.

    Brax- No, I didn't tell my MO it was hard to breathe. I have asthma, and it wasn't really like that. Not proper breathlessness. I think my heart beat was just so strong that breathing felt weird, if that makes any sense.

    Kim- Good luck for tomorrow. Let us know how you go. :)

    Myleftboob- Great to hear that you're feeling so normal and having a good time. :)

    Michelle- Welcome. :) Sounds like you've had a quick journey so far! The first time I showered after getting my hair cut, I automatically grabbed 2x towels... but of course didn't need one for my hair afterwards, lol. I hope your port insertion and treatment go smoothly.

    Kam- Oh I'm so sorry you've had a hard time, but your lovely cat wanted to take care of you! I wish my cat was like that, but she's entirely self-involved, lol. I am glad that you feel more empowered with your wig. (((hugs)))

    Masserz- The story about your son brought tears to my eyes, what a lovely supportive young man you're raising. :)

    Kraemermom- I agree, it's so frustrating not to feel like yourself! I have taken six months off work, there's just no way I could be 'the real me' for a while. I find it really heartening to read the posts from last year's chemo ladies, saying that life is back to normal for them now.

    fedfan- I have a wig waiting for me in the store, but I don't think I want it anymore. I am really liking my scarves, and I don't mind people knowing that I am getting chemo.

    Amy- Thanks for joining us. :) I hope your treatment goes well tomorrow, and that your SE's are small.

    Sorry to anyone who I haven't responded to. This is such a big group now!

    (((hugs))) to all of you. Wishing you all small SE's and big smiles.

    Kia kaha. 

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2012

    Hi Ladies. Wow, I can't believe how much our group has grown...so friggin sad.

    Welcome to caitlin, ltr, michelle (triplem), Amy (pgjoh), januaryice, lostinmo, and anyone else I missed. I have come to rely on this board to stay informed - sometimes more so than the medical team I have! I hope you'll find some helpful information and tons of encouragement and support here.

    kam - your cat story touched my heart. I have 3 so I can relate. By the way, pity parties are why we're here together. We all need them!

    corky - bitch all you want about anything! I hope my taste for coffee doesn't get screwed up! Its the best way to start the day...

    jeanne - dang, the last thing you need is more pain and medical appointments. I'm sorry about your wrist!

    masserz - did the Emlo cream work today? Have your TE ports moved at all? When I went for a fill yesterday, the ports on both sides have moved more toward my arm pits. PS didn't seem too concerned although he mentioned how well he stitched the TEs to my chest. I sure don't want my fills to be done by injection in my armpit!

    fedfan - I haven't bought a wig and probably won't. Summers are warm and humid in Virginia and I really don't want the hassle of a sweaty, scratchy head. I hope to be able to wear baldness as a badge of courage! I'll keep telling myself..."bald is the new beautiful" over and over and over. A couple of my best girlfriends and my mom are coming on Tuesday to buzz the hair. Thought I'd make it a going away party!

    Today is Tx1 Day 9 and my first blood draw since chemo. Wouldn't you know it - neutrophils are low so I'm somewhat in quarantine. No fresh fruits and veggies, shopping, being around a lot of people, etc. I am running a low grade fever which I now have to keep a close eye on. Bummer!

    Yesterday my tongue started getting sensitive (pepper burned me!) and today, I'm developing mouth discomfort, not to the stage of sores yet. MO has prescribed mouthwash that I'll pick up tomorrow. Otherwise, I'm feeling lucky to feel this good.

    I am also lucky to be part of a group of amazing, brave and fabulous Marching women. WE CAN DO THIS!

  • Pgjoh
    Pgjoh Member Posts: 11
    edited March 2012

    Kim...I'm doing taxotere, docruibicin and cyclophosphamide, called DAC in Canada, 6 cycles too...we can celebrate each cycle down together...they are also putting me into instant menopause with an LHRH analogue day one of chemo, craziness, 34 years old and here comes menopause!!!



    Bring it on

    Amy

  • kltb04
    kltb04 Member Posts: 1,051
    edited March 2012

    Hi ladies. I have been reading posts as they came across my email today but haven't had the energy to post. Worst day yet since first TX Monday. Headache, no appetite, a little diarrhea, sore throat. No fever Finally took phenegran so I could sleep. Feeling very emotional and upset as well all day. Just a bad day all around. :(

  • MichelleMassey
    MichelleMassey Member Posts: 213
    edited March 2012

    Sorry to hear you're feeling bad Karri.  Hopefully you'll feel better after you get some rest. 

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 1,344
    edited March 2012

    Kari - sorry you are having a bad day - ((((HUGS))))

  • Muscles
    Muscles Member Posts: 16
    edited March 2012

    Masserz

    Yup really me.  Wanted to be in the best shape of my life at 50, so I competed and three months later all this happened.  At least I'll be stronger to handle chemo.  But miss working out like I was.  My lung collapes during port surgery last friday and was hospitalized for 3 days with a chest/breathing tube.  A week later and it's still collapsed, Hope I don't have to be admitted again.

     Roostintoo

    I was just notified that the Herceptin clinical trial isn't accpeting me.  Oh well, will do TAC chemo instead.

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2012

    Muscles - so sorry to hear about your collapsed lung. I can't imagine what that must feel like. I hope you heal quickly.

    Karri - hang in there. I hope tomorrow will be a better day for you. If not, call your MO to see if there's anything he can do. (((hugs)))

    For all Marchers in tx this week - I hope your SEs are minimal and the good days outnumber the not-so-good ones!

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2012

    By the way, ice cream is great when you have a sore mouth!! lol

  • Januaryice
    Januaryice Member Posts: 120
    edited March 2012

    Kam170- HER2 neg but ER was plus 10. Nodes were clear and stage was 1. I know the grade was a 3. I think there arE only certain cases that they will even do the oncotype dx for. Start chemo on Thursday. How are you doing?

  • CAYH
    CAYH Member Posts: 99
    edited March 2012

    Hello Ladies - am starting March 29th (ACx4 + Taxolx4) as you are Januaryice.  Just trying to catch up with this thread...

    Still haven't been able to find that crystal ball & hoping I'm doing the best thing with all of this - try to research & educate myself as much as possible &  have always been a proponent of healthy nutrition/exercise to prevent medical issues...yet now dealing with BC for the 2nd time in 14 years.  I'm 55 years young & have rarely needed (or wanted) any kind of pharmaceutical drug, so this is so very difficult to get my head around...

  • CAYH
    CAYH Member Posts: 99
    edited March 2012

    Oncotype DX tests for early stage invasive BC only work with positive receptors, so don't apply for us triple negatives from what I understand, Januaryice...

  • connief
    connief Member Posts: 13
    edited March 2012

    New to this site. I had my first chemo on Monday march 19. So far so good. No nausea. I have had a dull headache since then and some constipation. Doctors office said to treat the headache with tylenol or advil but it just won't let up. I also am not sleeping very well.

  • connief
    connief Member Posts: 13
    edited March 2012

    New to this site. I had my first chemo on Monday march 19. So far so good. No nausea. I have had a dull headache since then and some constipation. Doctors office said to treat the headache with tylenol or advil but it just won't let up. I also am not sleeping very well.

  • munnybunni
    munnybunni Member Posts: 156
    edited March 2012

    welllllll....going tomorrow....first tx of a/c.....anxious nite for me and tomorrow i will be nervous nellie i am sure.  have my chemo bag ready...popsicles...for sure....wish me luck

  • brax
    brax Member Posts: 98
    edited March 2012

    Oh my gosh, I can't believe how this thread has grown today!   Welcome to all of the newcomers.  You will find much love and support here.

    Muscles...What a sad story.  I would never have thought something that serious could have happened having a port put in.  Wishing you a speedy recovery.

    Galena & Sissy...glad to hear today was better.

    Karri...Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.  Hang in there.

  • ladyfighter
    ladyfighter Member Posts: 184
    edited March 2012

    Ughhh, last I posted last night now it's 3 pages and newcomers later!?



    Had Port today and boy it was easy!! Nothing like I imagined. Little sore but tolerable :) power port.



    Hopsital scheduler called 6pm saying Im scheduled to go at 930am tomorrow, reality finally kicks in! Will start first A/C. Will let you know how it goes tomorrow after! Wish me luck! I see some people (can't keep track who is who) are also starting tomorrow. Also I see some are having port soon, I promise you it's easy procedure then again risks always during surgery. Muscle, I hope u feel better! Jeanne, odd I was thinking of riding bike this weekend maybe I shouldn't ???? I will just walk lol.

    Everyone else, stay well! Xoxox

  • ladyfighter
    ladyfighter Member Posts: 184
    edited March 2012

    Oh and, I saw posts about oncotype score. My mo ordered one for me even though I have her2+ sure enough it was high! 67 :( that why mo wants to do aggressive AC 4 x every 2 weeks then taxol 4 x every 2 weeks then herceptin at end. We shall see!



    Is anyone taking aloxi and/or decadron? Any tips? I'm supposed to have them tomorrow is it oral meds or in with A/C ?



    Took clartin at 9pm and drank 3glass of water already , probably will get up middle of night to go bathroom! And will drink lots tomorrow during chemo and after hope it will flush all out !



    Goodnight again!

  • khintul
    khintul Member Posts: 33
    edited March 2012

    ladyfighter - when I've gotten my 2 (so far) chemo tx, the decadron has been administered before the A/C, and I think I've also gotten aloxi (isn't that for nausea?).  I really wouldn't know the difference if the nurse wasn't telling me each time the bag gets changed what's going in. Then my doc has me taking oral Decadron for three days after chemo; I take 4mg twice a day. To tell the truth, I look forward to the steroid energy - but sure wouldn't want to do it on a regular basis and get the moon face.

    Good for you on getting the head start on the Claritin and drinking lots of water. I've found myself being kind of apprehensive before each treatment, but as soon as I get settled in the infusion center all is well. That port is wonderful!! and you'll be so glad you have it.

    If you have nausea meds at home, my best advice is to take one at the least thought that you might be getting queasy; some just take a nausea med whether or not, and that's probably not a bad idea either. To me, the nausea is the thing I most don't want!

    Good luck and minimal to no SEs!!

    Karon

  • lilylady
    lilylady Member Posts: 1,079
    edited March 2012

    Hello ladies,

      I thought I would pop in and say Hi. I am from the March 2011 Chemo Lounge. It is a great group and it will always be my home base. You will join your surgery threads and Rad threads but your chemo buddies will always be your best people.

      I did 6 TCH last year and didnl't get sick til the very last one. Got great results and also did a BMX in Aug and Rads in Nov/Dec. I was Stage IV from the beginning-I didn;t know if any of you are there or not. I hope not. I am now on oral chemo-Xeloda and Tykerb. I was unable to finish my year of Herceptin as the cancer started growing again. Hoping this new combo gets me back to Stable.

      Looks like a great group-I wish you all the best.

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 1,344
    edited March 2012

    Good morning!  Good luck to all that are starting today.  I slept good, feel good, ready to get going!  Eating a little breakfast probably heading in about an hour from now!

    Cheers 

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