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longislandmom Member Posts: 248

Routine mammogram thursday 3/8 --  suspicious microcalcifications.  sterotactic biopsy 3/12 and results 3/13= intraductal carcinoma, intermediate to highgrade, cribriform types and a few foci of lobular carcinoma in situ.  UGH!  4 days of non-stop phone.  3 consults with surgeons scheduled for next week.  DCIS in very small area and radiologist said it was amenable to lumpectomy and radiation...but at 47 with two young children, i don't think i can deal with the uncertainty of recurrance and am leaning towards mastectomy.  i guess i'll know more after my doc appointments next week.. i welcome any  thoughts or similar experiences.....

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  • Dalia37
    Dalia37 Member Posts: 14
    edited March 2012

    As a personal choice I would go with a mastectomy...I know it is an extreme measure but with such a serious disease dont take any chances. A close friend of mine had a lumpectomy and rads, doctors told her she would be OK and now she is dead. Don't want to scare you, it is your decision but that is what I would do. Of course you are going to get tons of answers saying it is perfectly OK to get a lumpectomy but in the end it is your life so think about it very carefully and go for what you think is best for you with no regrets. Good luck.

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    thanks for your input dalia37.  so sorry about your friend.  i have heard similar stories-- which is why i'm leaning towards a very aggressive approach.  i would probably have a different feeling if i were older than i am (i.e. 70s with grown children).  was your friend diagnosed with DCIS?  as of this moment (and i am praying hard it stays this way) the radioligist and patholigist is saying it's non-invasive and all confined to ducts...but it seems from reading other posts here, that diagnosis can change after they remove more and do path on it.  i've only had the biopsy so far.   did you have mastectomy?  how are you doing?

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited March 2012

    Yikes, Dalia, you may not want to scare longislandmom but telling her about a friend who had a lumpectomy and then died is a good way to scare someone.  Did your friend start with DCIS?  Or did she start with invasive cancer?  With invasive cancer, in most cases when mets develops, the cancer cells had already left the breast before the cancer was discovered, before any surgery was done.  So whether one has a lumpectomy or mastectomy makes no difference.  This is why so many studies have shown that the survival rate is the same whether one has a lumpectomy + radiation or a mastectomy.

    The other important factor to consider here is that DCIS is pre-invasive.  DCIS is cancer that is caught at the stage of development before the cells have the capability of leaving the breast. Mets cannot develop directly from DCIS.  The risk with DCIS is that it can over time evolve to become invasive cancer, but if it is all removed as DCIS, then DCIS is 100% survivable.

    longislandmom, your reaction is the same as many women have when they are first diagnosed. What you need to do is try to step back from the fear of the diagnosis and think about the implications of the decision.  Then you have to do whatever you feel most comfortable doing - there is no right or wrong answer here.  

    Personally I'm the analytical sort, so one of the big factors for me would be an assessment of my risk level with a lumpectomy vs a mastectomy. After a mastectomy for DCIS, generally the risk of recurrence or the development of a new BC is about 1% - 2%.  After a lumpectomy for DCIS, recurrence rates can vary considerably, depending on the specifics of the pathology.  Someone who has a small single focus of DCIS and who has large surgical margins (ideally 1cm all around the tumor) might have a recurrence risk as low as 5%, even without radiation.  Radiation cuts recurrence risk in half, so someone with this type of diagnosis can achieve virtually the same level of recurrence risk whether they have a lumpectomy w/ radiation or a mastectomy.  However someone who has a large area of DCIS, or multi-focal DCIS, particularly if it is high grade, and who has smaller surgical margins (2mm or 3mm) could have a recurrence risk as high as 40% (or even higher).  Radiation can cut that to 20% and if the cancer is ER+, Tamoxifen (a hormone therapy pill) can cut that to around 11%.  For many women that's too high a risk, and they will opt for the mastectomy.  But other women prefer this option and are okay to live with an 11% risk (which is about the same risk that the average woman has to develop BC). Most women who have a lumpectomy w/radiation have a recurrence risk level that falls somewhere in between these two examples. 

    My advice is to ask your surgeon and oncologist about what they think your risk level will be after a lumpectomy with radiation (they can't know for sure until after surgery but they should be able to provide an estimate), and decide what level of risk you are willing to live with.  Also consider the implications of having a mastectomy vs. having a lumpectomy - each has pros and cons.  Check out my post in this thread; it can help you work through your pro and con list:  http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/68/topic/783888?page=1#post_2902154

    Let us know how your appointments go next week.  

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    thanks very much for your thoughtful response.  will let you know how appointments go next week.  i can't wait to get all of this over.  i want to be on the other side and recovering from whatever option i chose. 

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    LONGISLANDMOM... I was sort of in your shoes... I had IDC, and had a lumpectomy and chemo and was supposed to have radiation, but in my time in chemo had time to research... In the end, I decided to have a bilateral MX and skip the radiation. I had read too many stories of people thinking they have a simple cancer and after MX discovered more going on than they thought... I persoanlly couldn't live wondering if there was more there than they were seeing... AND by having the MX I didn't need radiation (which has its own set of SE)...

    I was 47 at DX and wanted to do the most I could do... In the end, I had the BMX and recon, and all tissue was clean... and I have no regrets. I know I have thrown everything I can at the cancer and have reduced my risk of local recurrance to 2%. With IDC, and one positive node, I still have a 14% risk of distant recurrance, but I know I have been as aggressive as I could be. AND my breasts look exactly like they used to. I chose to do a tissue transplant instead of implants, and it was the best choice for me... 

  • bevin
    bevin Member Posts: 1,902
    edited March 2012

    Hi Longisland Mom,

    I was 45 at diagnosis a year and a half ago.  I had a 2.1 invasive tumor, no lymph nodes. I went a bit over board and consulted 3 breast surgeons and an oncologist  before my surgergical choice was made.  I opted for Lumpectomy as the NCCN guidlines and stats show that Lumpectomy + rads is the same outcome as a mastectomy. For me it was a no brainer, the same level of success and long term survival, less invasive, nothing in my body that didnt belong there (implants).  I was sold!!. For me the risks of the mastectomy were way to high. It's a very big surgery and is considered major surgery. That's too much risk of infection and then to have the process of reconstruction and all the surgery that went with that,;I was just not a fan, especially when the lumpectomy had the same survival results.

    Its a big decision; I truly empathize with you going through this. If you can bring someone with you to your appointments next week, take a lot of notes and take your time to research and understand your options. You have time to make an informed decision that is right for you.

    Wishing you strength as you go through this process ; let us know how you are.

    Bevin

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited March 2012

    I also had a young child (age 4) at the time of my diagnosis, but I had IDC.  I just wanted to do everything as aggressive as I could to give me the best odds of being here to raise my son.  I opted for BMX with reconstruction.  I was 45 when I was DX.  I am through the reconstruction and chemo and have no regrets.  It is very much a personal decision.  The survival rates are the same for lump+rads vs. MX but the recurrence rates are slightly different.  I also think having a young child impacted my decision. 

    Good luck!

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    I agree with Maria... the realization that the recurrance rates are not the same for Lumpectomy/Rads and MX is a HUGE reason I chose MX... All my doctors kept saying the survival rate is the same, and yet the path to get to survival is not equal... and I did not want to have a recurrance, and spend another year of my life dealing with cancer... plus I felt fortunate to be a stage II this time round, and knowing I have dense breasts wasn't sure I'd be as fortunate next time... and I had found my cancer, not the mammogram, and I was uncertain I could give myself a proper self exam with all my scar tissue... all of this and more contributed to my decision.

  • keonghi
    keonghi Member Posts: 111
    edited March 2012

    Longislandmom,

    I am kind of in the same boat as you.  I was just diagnosed with IDC on 3/12/2012 and meet with my BS for the first time tomorrow morning.  I feel like this past week has been the longest week of my life because all I have been doing is reading/talking/crying about BC.  I too am leaning towards a BMX but will see what the doc says tomorrow.  Please keep posting since we may be going through similar things and I would love to follow your journey.

    Thanks, Kristi

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    Kristi -  so sorry.  it's amazing how your life can flip in one week.  i've spent the week talking to friends, family, doctors, having my slides and mammograms sent everywhere, talking to my work clients and cancelling work for the next month,  and swearing like crazy (to myself).  i lie in bed in the morning and just can't believe i am dealing with this.  it totally SUCKS!  that said, i am truly and forever grateful that my brilliant radioligist found these tiny microcal. during a routine annual mammogram.  i am praying that the diagnosis remains DCIS cause i have heard too many stories where once they go in they find more and more.  Please let me know how your doc goes tomorrow and we can travel this road together.

    to  MDG and BDavis--- thanks so much for your input.  i am  leaning heavily towards a DMX (needing to learn all of these abbreviations) even though i'm guessing the doc will tell me it is overly aggressive.  But i don't think i can live with the uncertainty of recurrance.  

  • rtnyc
    rtnyc Member Posts: 155
    edited March 2012

    Longislandmom...my mammo was jan. 11th which showed three area's on the right of calcifications. I choose to have a surgerical biopsy vs. three needle biopsy little did I know I had to do three wire localizations anyway before surgery. one area came back as DCIS, stage 0, grade 3, other two high risk; sent for an MRI which showed something vascular noncancer thing on the left. BS at the time said lump w/rad and then 5 years of tamox with mammo's mri every six months or nipple saving Mastectomy on one or both side. I decided on double mastectomy, just get it out of me, who cares, just want to get rid of any chance and percentage of reoccurance. I went through genetic testing for Brac 1/2 came back negative but have cancer in family anyway. Met with BS, PS hated him yet he is well known. Went for second op at Mt Sini and glad I did. Love love love the BS met with her PS loved them as well. And second opinion is that with DCIS you shouldn't have NS becuase that's exactly where the duck goes, also second opin said take sen. nodes too; first doc didn't  I am scheduled for April 23rd,  MX with immediate reconstruction D.I.E.P. (or DEIP always screw that abbreviation up)  anyway, it's when they use your fat from another part of your body to form breasts.  At last my fat comes in handy.  it's an 8-12 hr which is crazy and week in hospital.  The way I look at this once this is all over I will have perky boobs, a flat tummy, 1% chance of breast cancer in the future. For me that's what is all about, the future! It's all very scary but there is some comfort in reading all these posts of those who are going and those who have gone through what's up and coming for me.  I know that the education of talking to doctors and reading as much as I could helped me make the right decision for me and in the end, I went with the doctors who I was able to talk to and those I felt really really comfortable with.  Good luck, hoped some of this helped.  

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    I assume you are on LI... where are you?

  • keonghi
    keonghi Member Posts: 111
    edited March 2012
    Thanks and I will keep you posted.  I had a hard time with the abbreviations at first also then I stumbled across this page:  http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/131/topic/773727?page=1#idx_1 
  • Cindyl
    Cindyl Member Posts: 1,194
    edited March 2012

    longislandmom

     I will tell you the same thing my surgeon told me.   You have a very survable form of cancer.  The choice is yours, lumpectomy + radiation, massectomy, with hormone and or chemo if appropriate for your pathology.  Any choice that you decide is right for you will be the right choice for your cancer.  The only "wrong" choice is to do nothing.

    With that in mind, I decided to avoid the major surgery and go with the lumpectomy. I work full time and have an invalid mother I take care of and it seemed to me the lumpectomy was a better fit for my situation.  

    Just take your time, ask all the questions you need to, and then do what you need to do, and get better...

  • eulabt
    eulabt Member Posts: 194
    edited March 2012

    You are in one of the hardest places right now. It was a no brainer for me. I wanted to get rid of my breasts as soon as I was diagnosed. I have heard way too many stories of people having reoccurrence after lumpectomies. I was age 40 at diagnosis and had a BMX with TE's. I and now 15 months out and do not regret my decision for one second. Do I love my implants, no, but it is a very small price to pay for being alive. Good luck!

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    RTNYC - one of my three BS appts next week is at Sinai.  I have heard fab things from several about Post -- is that who you are using?  Thanks so much-- it seems like we are in a very similar position.  i am praying that after all of this, the BRAC comes back negative and all the subsequent pathology comes back as DCIS. 

    Eublat and others with BMX -- how bad was the recovery?  from what i've heard from others, the first week is really hard, second not good but better...and then it's @ two month slow path to recovery.. thoughts?

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    I never had any pain after MX... and turned down their pain meds when they allowed it... I came home and at two weeks, was very tired, but driving, shopping etc... I did have weight restrictions so I was limited, but ok. I did have a complication which had me back under the knife one month out, but a month later I was driving to my 30 year HS reunion in CT for the weekend... and just a couple of weeks later walking in the Avon Walk in NYC (I walked 23 of the 39 miles and could have done it all had it not been for my plantar fascitis in my foot.)

  • Pegs
    Pegs Member Posts: 198
    edited March 2012

    There are a lot of things to take into consideration, do you have a family history of bc?  I would also ask for a MRI, it gives more detail.  for myself i opted for the mastecomy, i took them both, knowing myself i would be obsessed about the other one, its all such a personal decision, there are no wrong or right answers, i would see what your docs say, and do some research and once you make a decision , and feel good about it, then it doesn't matter what others think.  I went to 3 different radiation docs to hopefully hear no rads, well that didn't happen so i had rads, i my mind i wanted to do everything i possibly could so it doesn't come back and there are no guarantees of that either, but at least i know i did my best and i have no regrets, i can't say i should have ......  I did it all,

  • eine
    eine Member Posts: 67
    edited March 2012

    I was diagnosed with DCIS in 2008 and had a lump and rads and am on the 5 year tamoxifen plan.  My only advice is to be absolutely sure to understand your options for reconstruction.  You may not even want to think about that now; I was shocked and scared too and just wanted someone to take care of me and get it out.  Radiation caused permanent damage to the remaining breast tissue so recon is very difficult.  I have very small breasts and after the lumpectomy and rads, I was left with a significant deformity and attempted implants that ultimately failed.  I am now researching DIEP which would require I have a mastectomy on the remaining tissue which I was assured is not considered "overly aggressive" even though I have not had a reccurance.  Tamoxifen also has side effects, including uterine polyps, which I had surgically removed in January, thankfully benign but could develop again, per my gyne. I only wish I had this info when I made my decision, so I am hoping some of this helps.  I know each situation is so unique, so your decision will be based on your particular pathology, etc. Good luck to you and know you have lots of support here!!!!!!!!!

  • CLP821
    CLP821 Member Posts: 21
    edited March 2012

    Hi longislandmom,

    I've been going through this for a few months now and I know how you feel.  DCIS while very curable, has a lot of variables to consider when making the decision on how to treat it. I decided to take the more conservative approach and have a lumpectomy with rads. I have come back with dirty margins twice (well, three times if you count my totally f%$&ed up first excisional biopsy), and the last time two very small new foci of DCIS were found.  My surgeon is willing to go in again and I've scheduled the surgery for mid-April, but am now having second thoughts.  I may change the surgery to a UMX.  I've never been crazy about the idea of radiation anyway.  She said that the area she's excised is now well beyond the calcifications that were seen on mammogram and MRI and that there may be more in there that can't be seen.  Like you, I also have LCIS  (ADH too...I have very busy breasts!) I have dense breasts, am fairly young (41) and am getting more and more nervous about what might be hiding in my breast.

    I'm glad that you were able to get all of your appointments scheduled for this week.  It might help to prepare a detailed list of questions to ask the surgeons and record their answers so that you can refer to it when analyzing your options. Best of luck to you!

  • GreenMonkey
    GreenMonkey Member Posts: 666
    edited March 2012

    Hello LongIslandMom, 

    I was diagnosed with DCIS 5mm, Grade 3,ER+ in my right breast. I went for a second opinion at Sloan Kettering hospital and the saw something suspicisou on my left breast mammogram (taken at my local hospital in Greenwich, CT). So I had another mammogram followed by another stereotactical biopsy. The left breast was diagnosed with ADH (atypia ductal hyperpasm - spelling off) but what it is is one step before DCIS.  At that point I knew I was going to have a BMX. I went to four breast surgeons, and two reconstructive surgeons before making the decision that was right for me. I ended up switching surgeons at Sloan - my initial was Monica Morrow who is Sloans top BS, but she is all about lumpectomy and treatment zero with compassion. I ended up at Sloan with Dr. Heerdt, who I LOVED and Dr. Corderio is my reconstrucive dr.  Dr. Corderio is their top reconstructive dr. but he lacks a personality and suffers from the "god" complex. But he's their top surgeon so I guess that comes with the territory.  If he continues to piss me off I may shop for a different dr - but its hard finding one who is this qualified and part of my "in network" under my insurance Aetna.

    Anyway, I also had an MRI that showed a "highly suspicious lump" directly behind my DCIS. 

    I just received my pathology report from my BMX, and the "highly suspicios lump" turned out to be nothing cancerous but they found LCIS (lobal) in both breasts.  This is something that mammograms do NOT pick up.

    Even though the BMX is an agressive way to treat DCIS, my final pathology report proves it was the right way to go. And I am very pleased with my decision - zero regrets.  In the end you do what is best for you.  For me, I did not want radiation (I'm a fair irish) and I didn't want any part the drugs or chemo. Of course, if they found something invasive I would do everything I could. Lucky for me it was caught early and I am now cancer free!!!!

    Lots of advice here on BCO! All the best to you! Two final things: 1. you will feel so much better once you have your plan in place 2. PS and BS can be alot like car salesmen - they are selling you their services. I had one PS call me "love" and he massaged my shoulders and neck during our first meeting.  YUCK!!! :))))) 

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    Green Monkey... I have Aetna too and found out after I started my recon research that its always worth throwing in your paperwork to people you think aren't in network... I sent my insurance papers to New Orleans to the Center for Restorative Breast Surgery, thinking I was out of network, and low and behold have a third party insurance addition I never knew I had... so I was treated as IN network... you never know until you ask.

  • SAB
    SAB Member Posts: 1,498
    edited March 2012

    longislandmom, take a deep breath.  Everyone has a story, and there are great threads that you can dip into to find out about specific procedures and their aftermath.  Each choice has pros and cons. In the end though this should be a decision based on your unique situation, made between you and your doctor. As soon as you formulate a plan you will feel better and more in control, especially if you spend the time to do some research and consider all of your options.  Good luck to you, these ladies will be here for you.

  • keonghi
    keonghi Member Posts: 111
    edited March 2012

    Hi again Longislandmom,

     I had my first appointment with the BS and PS this morning and we discussed the options on the table. Basically, he said I could have 1) a partial mastectomy (pmx) 2) a unilateral (umx) or 3) have a bilateral (bmx). He said what ever I chose the outcome would be the same - in other words the cancer I presently have would be gone. The only difference between the 3 choices is that with a pmx or umx I have a minimum of 15% chance of getting cancer again whereas with the BMX the risk is 1-5% chance of recurrence. So, after asking him all my questions about each and taking into consideration that I am pre-menopausal (the cancer is feeding on estrogen and progesterone), we decided that the BMX is the best route for me. The surgery is on April 9th. I will have immediate reconstruction also done where they will put temporary tissue expanders under my pec muscles.  He said I will stay 1-3 nights at the hospital, then be released to recover at home.

    The treatment that follows (radiation/chemo/hormone suppression) will be determined after the biopsy and nodes are tested - after surgery.

    He said The surgery itself will take 1-4 weeks of recovery, then I will go in every two weeks to pump saline into the expanders until the optimum level is achieved (not going any bigger! :)) Once I've recovered from the expanders, I will go under once more to do the exchange (they take out the expanders and put in my foobs - fake boobs). The rest of the reconstruction is aesthetic (nipples and tatooing) but hopefully the whole process will be behind me in six months.

    So, that's where I  stand today.  I hope this gives you some idea as to what to expect from your first appointment.  Of course not all doctors are the same and the speed of treatment may be different.  I am a veteran so I go to the VA hospital and to tell you the truth, I don't think they see too many women there so they treated me like a queen for the day. 

    Please keep in touch because like they say in the Army, we may be battle buddies for a while. :)

    Kristi



     



     

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    Sounds like you had a good appointment and have reached a decision you are comfortable with.  it's great that you were able to schedule the surgery so quickly.  get it over with and move on to healing, right?  i am definitely leaning very strongly towards BMX, too.  will make decision by friday after two consults with BS.  i just want the stuff out of me!  btw..question...when did they determine you were estrogen sensitive?  at the biopsy?  i don't know any of that yet.  All i know is that the cells are intermediate to high grade and that i have DCIS and LCIS.  don't know any other information.  am hoping to fill in the blanks this week.  and by the way, i used to work a lot with a military organization...in fact, when i feel like screaming about all of this..i just think of them and what they have gone through.  so happy to have you as a battle buddy.  best

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    You will learn your pathology after the cancer is removed... Mine is also highly ER and PR positive (which is a good thing) and Her2 negative, also a good thing.... Once all pathology is done, they will determine the next step.. as long as remain at DCIS and LCIS you can avoid chemo... Mine was invasive and also had a little nodal involvement, so I had chemo. With the BMX you can also avoid radiation... since yours is early stage.

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    thanks Bdavis.  very helpful.  i was thinking that might be the case.   sounds like you have been through a lot but are doing well!

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited March 2012

    I grew up on LI... where are you located?

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    east hampton and you?

  • longislandmom
    longislandmom Member Posts: 248
    edited March 2012

    greenmonkey- i can't remember if i replied to you.  thanks so much for your story.  i have an appointment with dr. heerdt on thursday.  i have heard rave reviews about her from many.  my biggest fear is that both she and the other doc i am consulting with at Sinai are so popular and great that i won't be able to get surgery scheduled!

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