stagelll, I don't think I'm disabled
I feel weird for posting this. But am having fight with husband about applying for SSDI. He wants me to apply. I don't think I'm eligible.
I've been off work since my sx in sept. recovered from sx. and since I work in hosp didn't want to explose myself to all those germs. so it was my choice. I could have probably worked some for 4 hr shifts.
I think it would be a waste of my time to apply. my only issue is this BC. I started back to work this week. think I may have worked almost 8 hrs total. I was tired, but I did it. It felt so good to be at work. I mean it felt really good. I loved it. my rt breast/arm does hurt some. But I'm working on that. I think a lot of that has to do with that TE. I had a fill a few weeks ago, still trying to adjust.
I really love being a nurse and can't imagine my life not being a nurse. Yes I do feel kind of crappy right now, but given time I'll feel better. He says I need to apply, but I just think I'll be constantly turned down and I don't want that negative stuff bringing me down.
And of course we've gotten tons of credit card debt since I havn't worked. I could care less about the CC companies. BC has ruined our credit.
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I think only Stage IV is an automatic yes for SSDI. You may have to jump through some hoops to get it and prove you are disabled. I am no expert though.
If you want to work, I wouldn't give that up. I am back to working, and I had half my liver removed back in October and then a terrible bout of C-diff where I almost lost my colon in November. I'm back half days and it's really nice to have something to take your mind off yourself.
I'm trying to work my way up to full-time - that is up in the air but I'm hoping I can.
I am not sure why your husband is arguing - you are going to make 10x more as a nurse than on SSDI, and you will feel better as time goes by. If he's worried you won't improve - you will.
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thanks coolbreeze, I think I just needed validation I wasn't crazy.
am just so sick of my family now. arrgh I finished chemo over week ago and they just assume you'll feel better right away.
It felt sooooo good to go to work.
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Hi Fredntan,
I briefly considered filing for "disability retirement", which is not the same as SSDI and was told that it might be an uphill battle for stage IIIers. In the end, I knew I still wanted to work, but not continue working in my stressful public education administration position. If I left on disability, I would have to reapply annually (jumping through unknown hoops) as well as have a cap on my potentional earnings as a part-time college professor. I was told that SSDI might also be difficult to project for future years simply because drugs such as Tomaxifen are so promising.
I just wasn't up for the annual crapshoot and potential headaches involved when I am truly capable of working with accomodations my employer was willing to give. I am instead "buying" my last two years of work experience required by South Carolina for full retirement benefits for state employees and then work part time teaching graduate classes.
I don't know if any of this helps, but I have had to wrangle with the same issues.
Meredith
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yes that does help. I don't want any negativity in my life. I don't know what my DH is going through, he'l just have to work through it. He keeps saying to me hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
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I went back to work about 7 weeks ago. Full time first grade teacher in a public school. I am beyond happy. It is hectic, energizing and where I belong. It restored a great deal of normalcy to my life. I am exhausted by 9:00 pm, but so are most teachers. I sleep like a log. There will be a day when I truly need disability but I'm not going there one day sooner than I need to. Your husband means well but do what feels right for you.
Caryn -
fredntan- I too am a nurse in a hospital. Had BMX 2/20 and will start 16wks chemo on 3/15. I'm worried, financially I need to go back soon as my husband lost his job before Christmas and I do not have enough sick/vacation time to last 16wks. But I'm scared to be exposed to all the germs that are in the hospital. I know I only have this one shot at chemo and I need to do this right and stay healthy. Just don't kow what to do as my work does not have "paperwork/light duty" ect. We have 5 children too!!!
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Kraemermom,
I was never really immunosuppred. my white counts were allways good. I really think your employer has to work with you as far as lifting etc. and they can't fire you for being sick-ya know if you have call outs as long as you protect yourself with fmla.
I found some stuff under the financial section that probably could have helped us with copays and there was one that if your income was such and such and had so many kids i think it would help with disability. I'll try and find it for you tonight.
and my energy level was really good through chemo-cept for when it stopped. now I feel really tired. go figure. I'll pm you later with info
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fredntan
You can apply. DO NOT say you want to work. Express how tired you are etc ...have your DR help you to verify all. Of course, it will all be true !DO NOT leave your job, simply express how tiring it is, how sick you are .....
THEN, once you are approved, you are eligible to work up to 20 hrs per work I believe ( verfiy this LATER) IF SO, you can work those 4 hr shifts that you love.
Never hurts to apply- you can only be denied ...or approved :>)
IF you find you do not need it and end up working FT just notify SSDI...I am sure they will be thrilled !
GOOD LUCK
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This thread is somewhat old but wanted to say you need to be ready to quit your job if you want to apply for SSDI. You cannot keep working because the whole point is that your disabilities have or will prevent you from working for at least 12 months. The application asks you for your last day of work.
Stage IV will get an expedited review due to the compassionate allowance because it is considered a terminal disability, not an automatic approval. Documentation of your disability is what will get the approval. Stage III does have an uphill battle but it's not impossible.
After you have been on SSDI for some time there is a program to assist you to return to work or train for other work. Called Ticket to Work. In addition after you have been disabled for awhile you can work on a limited basis but it is $$ based not hours. Currently anything under $720 a month is not reported. 9 months of earnings over that and there is another 3 year period where you can earn up to $1010 without penalty. Amounts over will likely trigger a review of your ability to engage in SGA or substantial gainful activity.
Your best information is on the SS site. Verify anything you are told here because there is a lot of misinformation. That includes from the horses mouth at the local SS office. -
Update I am back at work. loving it. did 5 k this weekend. Going to start training for half marathon soon . Never applied for disability.
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