Fatigue
I had a bilateral mastectomy 1/20/12 and a second surgery to remove dead skin 2/15. I am fortunate that I do not require chemo or radiation. I am having difficulty with fatigue. I don't know if I'm expecting too much of myself but I just hit this wall and start to shake and just want to crash. I don't usually nap and don't sleep thru the night. I am 68 and still work. I am working from home and just starting driving this week. I've gone into the office twice this week and only lasted 2 - 2/12 hours and crashed. Some days I get showered and dressed and that's about all I want to do. Is this normal? How long does this last? I have been off all vitamins and of course taken off hormone replacement therapy 12/1/11 so none of that is helping. I've also never participated in a chat room or discussion board so no sure of any rules??
Thanks much,
Susan
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It does take time to recover from major surgery. I found that I bounced back much faster from my UMX in June than I did from the nipple construction/revision/lift on natural side surgery in November. That was two big surgeries in less than six months. Plus, I started taking Tamoxifen in July and that can cause fatigue as well. And I, like you, had to give up my HRT. All of that adds up and our bodies just need some time to regain strength and stamina. In my case, acupuncture is helping to get my energy level back up to where I can at least get through the day without hitting that wall about 3:00 o'clock. And with a little more energy, I am trying to get more exercise which helps as well. I don't sleep well either...night sweats. I am using melatonin and it helps. Just try to be patient with your body and don't push too hard. Take care of yourself and rest when you can.
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Susan, my goodness, you should be tired still after two major surgeries in less than a month, not to mention what the mental toll does to your energy. If you can take naps - take them. Hugs.
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Hi Susan and welcome to BCO!
Fatigue is a very normal side effect of breast cancer and its treatment. You can get some really great tips on fatigue and how to manage it on the main Breastcancer.org site at the following links:
- Fatigue as a side effect of breast cancer and its treatment
- Managing Fatigue section with info on causes, more tips to help manage, and ask-the-expert conference transcripts
Also, we know it can be overwhelming, joining discussion boards and chat rooms for the first time. For all the ins and outs of how the boards work, check out our Welcome section in the discussion boards (the first area of forums on the main discussion board home page). You can access it here.Hope this helps!
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Oh yes, fatigue is a huge part of all of this! Please learn to push yourself when needed, and to be double kind to yourself at all times. Anesthesia itself can take months for some people to get it out of their systems.
I don't take naps,. but I do sit and read, knit, work on something while sitting...and I am 3 months from surgery and I still take extra care.
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Hey Susan. Sorry you are struggling with fatigue, but YES its been a huge problem for me. Even now over a year out, I still have days where I just have to give in to it. I've found that pushing too hard makes any pain worse, so as frustrating as is, I sit down, have a nap, whatever until it passes. It might also be worth speaking to your doc, I had lots of blood tests etc. The bloods showed my liver enzymes to be ridiculously high and my medical team then monitored everything til they started to normalise.
It sounds like you have a very active life too. Aren't we always a lot harder on ourselves than we would be other people? :-)
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Ps I didnt have chemo or radio too, so it was a bit of a surprise that my body reacted like it did! X
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I had two lumpectomies and have had occasional fatigue plus I have a very stressful job. I'm about to start 6 weeks of radiation and hear that can cause fatigue. Any thoughts? Also does anyone have any experience or info on taking CoQ10 to help fight fatigue and boost energy?
I will say that about a month post-op, I started walking again and doing 30 mins of Yoga most mornings. I think that has helped me feel better mentally and physically and not feel so stiff and achy. I hope I can keep that up during the radiation. its going to be interesting juggling work and this, but I keep telling myself in Mid-april it will be done.
thanks much BK
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Thank you all for your advice and kind words of support.
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I've only had a lumpectomy (Feb 13) but I have really been dragging. Not much energy lately, but thinking it might be just "emotional" fatigue.
I think hillck is right, it does seem to help to get some moderate exercise. You need time to recharge your batteries so take care of yourself, Susan.
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I had a lumpectomy June of last year, a uni mastectomy w/reconstruction in August, and had exchange and a lift on native side January 4. This last surgery was a lot harder on me...I was tired and emotionally exhausted. I will have surgery at the end of this month to exchange implant, reconstruct nipple, and fix a couple of things on the native side. These past few month have been really difficult and tiresome. I kept thinking it was all in my head and I should be fine by now but after reading your posts (thank you all for sharing) it reassures me that it's normal and it may take me a little longer to get back to my normal self.
Susan: be kind to yourself
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