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  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited March 2012

    I have always wanted a Koi pond!  LJ..my dh likes landscaping..he also grows daylilies..different kinds..he even puts their scientific name on a little nameplate next to each one..they are so beautiful...he has put some holly berry in the front of our house so we have some color in the cold  gray Ohio winters..he also feeds the birds and lays corn out for the deer so they won't eat his trees..but they still do (lol)..

    Last night we went to a casino in WV and I won $400.00..I was so excited...today my daughter and her husband had us over to their place for dinner...tomorrow we are going to see our son at OSU...I'm soo excited..I miss him so much...

    Here's to everyone having a good weekend with lots of love and "cuddling"...

  • Lovelyface
    Lovelyface Member Posts: 674
    edited March 2012

    I hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend. My thoughts and love are with each and everyone of you strong women out there. I hope you all have a great Sunday!

  • gillyone
    gillyone Member Posts: 1,727
    edited March 2012

    Hi to everyone. Special thoughts to all those dealing with further treatment and those being such brave spirits in making the decision for no further treatment.

    I see MBJ has posted in the stage IV forum, and hope she gets some extra support and hope from those ladies too.

  • laurajane
    laurajane Member Posts: 321
    edited March 2012

    Happy Sunday Everyone!

    Linda- Thank you. I hope it's stress too. I guess we'll find out this week.



    Bak- Yes, how are you? What is the game plan. I'm thinking about you so much.



    Cocker spaniel- I'm not taking the metformin. From what I understand it hasn't worked by itself with stage 4 unless combined with chemo, since there arent any chemos left there is no point on taking it. Anymore weightloss is risky for me at this point too.nif anyone has contradicting info on this please forward it to me. Thanks.



    Titan - Yahoo!!! $400.00 , that's fun and fabulous, congratulations. What did you win it on? I love roulette ( is that how I spell it?) your husband sounds like a dream. I hope you get your koi pond. I just love mine. If you get one, make sure it's in the right place Fen Shui wise.



    Lovelyface- hope you and everyone else have a great Sunday too!



    My daughter with my grandson came over yesterday and we had a nice dinner and watched the movie "Hugo". I hadn't heard much about it until the Oscars, it won so many awards. We just loved it. I guess it is filmed for 3D but we just watched on regular tv. I recommend it.



    Today my son and I are going to clear the enclosed back porch off ( its been a catchall for everything from kitchen stuff to fertilizers tools, etc.and try and organize my cabinents and fit

    everything in my kitchen. It will be torn off for the new deck. Well I think I'll mainly be directing. Ha ha.

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited March 2012
    Christina......No my rash has not healed.  I took antibiotics for a week but that didn't seem to have any effect.  In fact it is still in the same place and same size but a bit more red.  It does not hurt or itch and hasn't had any blisters.  I am not convinced it is shingles, but am willing to wait until I see the Dr on Friday for my first post treatment blood work.  What did they give you for yours? 
  • laurajane
    laurajane Member Posts: 321
    edited March 2012

    Inmate- I hope you get good news from your doc on Friday.

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited March 2012

    Inmate,

    They gave me Valtrex but I ended up not having to take it as it started to go away.  At the very last of the eribulin trial I got cold sores in three different places on my face.   The last was the place near my eye.  Mine itched right before it blistered.  Let us know what the doc says.  I hope it goes away by then.

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited March 2012

    Laura...I'm too chicken to play the table games..I have had some lessons in craps but when I go to the casino I chicken out on playing them because they move so fast..I don't want to seem like an idiot so I go to the slots..I won the $$$ on a 7x machine...I had been playing the freaking thing all night..finally it hit..bar, bar, 7 times, bar, 7 times....I just sat there with my head down listening to the machine go off...it stopped at $393.00...this really cute guy next to me said what a nice win..I took it and cashed out and called the husband..he was excited to..I had to give him some $$...we then won a little more and then left...we had intended to leave at 8 pm and then ending up getting home at 1:30...man I'm tired...I was so excited my legs were shaking..but I bought a glass of wine and things were fine...LOL...

    My parents started this gambling thing..funny stuff..they are staunch churchgoers and strong Repulicans..never drink, nothing like that...My mom said the other day that all they do is go to church and gambling...this cracks me up.

    Anyway..thinking of all of you guys all the time.

    LJ..I'm going to do some research on the koi pond..what is the best time of the year to put one in?

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2012

    Well I'm off for the port to be put in tomorrow and as usual my tummy is flip flopping everywhere.  How many more things to go through.  Chemo on Wednesday so a busy week.  Hope to heck it goes ok.

    Hope all you ladies are doing well and are comfortable and free from pain.  Thinking of you all and sending warm hugs. Annie      

  • Sugar77
    Sugar77 Member Posts: 2,138
    edited March 2012

    CS - good luck today in getting your port.  Let us knw how it goes.

    Good morning ladies - hope you all have a great day! 

  • laurajane
    laurajane Member Posts: 321
    edited March 2012

    Good morning to to you all.



    Titan- that is hilarious. What a unique combination your parents are. But power to them if there having fun. My mom used to love to go when she was alive. I went with her a couple of times to the gambling boat. I've been with friends too. I'm not much fun to take because after I win I'm done. I either get a good feeling about the numbers or I don't , but when I do I bet and win. It's fun for me everyone in a while. I always thought it would be fun to go to Los Vegas. Have you ever been.

    If you decide to install a pond, google aquascape, they have good equipment for a homeowner installation. Let me know if you have any questions or want tips. I'd put one in now so you could get fish this spring. Just start with 2-3 fish until the water is regulated. I always recommend having at least 2 goldfish because they eat mosquito larva and koi don't. Moving water is not the habitat for them but with splashing and stuff occasionally there can be a little stationary water in-between the rocks. Always make the pond bigger than you think you want because most people wish they had. I also suggest you dig it at least 3' deep to prevent predators. I build caves in mine for the fish to be able to hide in. Expensive food for blue heron and raccoons.



    Cocker spaniel- good luck with your surgery today. I hope it goes smoothly.



    Sugar- nice to see you too. Hope you have a great day.

  • mccrimmon324
    mccrimmon324 Member Posts: 1,076
    edited March 2012

    Morning Ladies,

    I hope everyone had a great weekend.  I had a nice spa day on Saturday.  Spent the weekend at my BFF's house, got a mani/pedi and a cut & color, my first since Chemo.  Felt so good!  Saturday night we had a girls night out, the first I've had in years and it was soooo nice!  I think I was able to forget about FC for a little while every now and then. 

    Hope everyone has a good week and I'm thinking of you all!

  • Fighter_34
    Fighter_34 Member Posts: 834
    edited March 2012

    Checking in ladies and sending well wishes to those facing more treatment and to those who have decided to be at peace.

    I brought mulch this weekend so I am gearing up and getting ready. This project is really giving me something to look forward to.

  • laurajane
    laurajane Member Posts: 321
    edited March 2012

    McCrimmon- How wonderful for you to treat yourself to some primping. I think it's fabulous you went out and obviously way,way, way too long for you to have a GNO! I can feel your smile.



    Fighter- I'm curious. What progect? Sounds like gardening. Oh, do tell. I love talking gardens.



    I just got back from my brain scan. I asked how it looked and of douse he said "mum's the word", I would have liked a smile when he said it. Hate waiting as we all do. I'm hoping I get the all clear when I see my onc tomorrow.



    Ia friend is sending over a recliner for me today, she said it is very comfortable. The one I have I need to use a bunch of pillows as it's very uncomfortable. I can't wait to get rid of the one I have if this one is nicer. I feel awkward accepting something sight unseen but she was so insistent. I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. She is so sweet. Hopefully it all works out.



    Has anyone heard from Bac? I'm worried about her.



    Suze- I'm thinking of you too! I'm hoping they have your pain under control.



  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Member Posts: 812
    edited March 2012

    Lj praying for all clear!

    I got an email from my Onc and said she had no problem putting me on the Metformin as long as I understood it is just a trial and no evidence it helps TNBC .  I am all for it!!! 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012

    Here's a little sound of spring from a recent drive we took:

    http://albums.phanfare.com/isolated/MpDUMZ8B/1/5489856

    Also, my state has several casinos. It never ceases to amaze me the number of people who look like they don't have "a pot to piss in" feeding the slot machines. Sad... they must be using all their social security/disability/welfare money on it.

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited March 2012

    cs.....thinking about you today.  

    fighter...yes, please do tell us about your project.  gardening is such a wonderful way to take your mind off of all of this.  i was able to plant some new shrubs, a beautiful rose (i'm a rose newbie) and a new arch for my front gate.  boy am i sore, but thrilled to have a jump (albeit small) on the yard.

    mccrimmon....time with girlfriends....ahhhhhhhh!  :) 

    lj....how very sweet of your friend.  here's hoping for something with a little more style than the one on frazier....hehehe  isn't today the day you get your new deck?  can we see a picture when it's done?

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited March 2012
    Suze, MBJ and Bak.......thinking about you wonderful ladies this morning and sending you all my love!
  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2012

    LJ- we have bought some Pavestones to start a flower bed in front of the house, but haven't gotten any farther. We are both kind of plant ignorant. Any suggestions on plants that look good, but don't need constant trimming and nothing too high as it is right in front of our living room window.

    When we don't know what to do with a space we tend to stick Maiden Grass in it because we like the look, but don't what else to do!

    Suze- hope you are comfortable today. What is the cooking show of choice today?!

    MBJ- Are you gaining any strength from your exercises?

    Bak- where are you? We are concerned!

  • Fighter_34
    Fighter_34 Member Posts: 834
    edited March 2012

    So far my plans are to mulch the exisiting plants already out front. I have pink azaleas that should be waking up soon. So I am going to mulch those this weekend.

    Now I have planter boxes I brought for the front porch that hangover, and I don't know of a good flower that would last the whole summer for it. Any suggestions???

  • Fighter_34
    Fighter_34 Member Posts: 834
    edited March 2012

    Looks very peaceful Heidi!

    They are wishing for their pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited March 2012

    Heidi, What a wonderful ride!  It really makes me want to get outside. Unfortunately I have too much work to do today ARGH!!  I love frogs.  When I was young, I remember my father playing records of frog calls. He would learn to recognize the different calls.  Good memories.

  • MicheleS
    MicheleS Member Posts: 937
    edited March 2012

    just wanted to pop in and say that I am sending positive thoughts for LJ, MBJ, Becca... lots of {{hugs}} for everyone.

  • MicheleS
    MicheleS Member Posts: 937
    edited March 2012

    PS.  I've been on metformin for over a year (after giving the initial papers/animal studies to my super-onc) and ya'll are wise to be trying to get it. 

    xxoo

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited March 2012

    Loving all the garden chat......can't wait to get outside and dig in the dirt.

    Thinking of all of you ladies. 

  • ATeamNana
    ATeamNana Member Posts: 464
    edited March 2012

    Haven't popped in here for awhile...Hi Navy Mom...you may remember me from the

    Lombard, IL lunch in June of last year.  I will be there again in June this year...hoping

    to meet some gals for lunch again..  Hope you are doing well.

    Marsha

    Best to everyone else on this board as well....I am ready for full fledge Spring, except

    for the storms & tornadoes that come with it:(

  • bak94
    bak94 Member Posts: 1,846
    edited March 2012

    Hi Tif, I'm here! I am about a third of the way done with rads, pretty uneventful thank goodness! I think I have gone over 5 weeks with not seeing my mo! I better call to make sure he doesn't want to see me yet, but I seem to remember him saying he will see me when I am done with rads.

    I have about 3 weeks of this school quarter left, and I have so many papers to write! Short papers, but I am stuck on one about Kant and "groundwork for the metaphysic of morals"-sounds fun doesn't it?! It is interesting, but I had to take a break.

    LJ-thanks for posting on ponds, my hubby has always wanted one. We do have alot of predators, possibly including my cats and dogs! Although my big yellow lab mix would probably want to wade in the pond. We have a rain garden that fills up with water in the winter and he will just go stand in the water, even if it is cold outside!

    Suze-I am thinking of you! Hope you feel up to posting soon, we miss you!

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited March 2012

    LJ...it's nice to have our very own horticultorist on board here..seriously I mean it..it's amazing what you know...

    Maccrimmon..way to go...we need pampered..we all certainly deserve it!

    Heard bad news today..my friend/co-worker was just diagnosed with BC...1.5 cm er postive..had another biopsy today because they found another tumor in the same breast...ah..she told me and I just grabbed and hugged her for a long time..she told me to not cry because she would cry but I couldn't help it..I cried for her, for me, for all of us that have to go through this crap...

    Funny stuff is....I told her that being estrogen positive was a good thing..another tn-co-worker told her that it wasn't that good of thing because of the effects of tamoxifin...

    I just gave her this websites address..told to her to just read what pertains to her NOW...and to take one day at a time...she is already talking about chemo and I told her that she may not even have to have chemo...just concentrate on whether or not a lumpectomy or masectomy would be good for her...worry about the other stuff later.

    there is soo much stuff I want to tell her but too much info at once is..well too much...

    This disease sucks..

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2012

    Bak- thanks for posting!! I'm glad things are going smoothly for you! I sure admire you for going to school during all this. I remember studying Kant many years ago at The University of Kansas ( graduated in 1988). I don't think I could ever go back to school, nor do I want to! I am satisfied just helping the kids with their school work.

    We used to have a Golden retriever that loved to get into our old neighbors pond. Thankfully he never ripped or broke the liner!

    Tomorrow I am going with my son and his class to the Missouri capital (Jefferson City) for their fourth grade field trip. We leave at 6:15am and return about 7:30pm. I'd better get to bed- it's going to be a long day tomorrow!!

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2012

    Titan- so sorry about your friend- when will this beast be stopped???

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