just found out...
Im 48 and just found this week I have noninvasive ductal CA, and I'm scared.confused and overwhelmed. Lupectomy is scheduled for March 5 with radiation..and I dont know if Ive made the right choice of treatment.
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vollyball mom...I am 48 also!! I had a lumpectomy for DCIS on 2/6, it was stage 0. The lumpectomy went better than I was expecting, although I was suprised that it took longer than I was expecting to get my energy back (I was off work for 3 days and in retrospect probably should have just taken the whole week off). Since then I have been back to the surgeon for the pathology report (all evidence of cancer removed, clean margins, etc.), consulted w/medical oncologist and just today with radiation oncologist. The med. onc. gave me prescription for tamoxifen for next 5 years (one a day) and the radiation oncologist feels that if my postoperative mammogram (scheduled 1st week of March) shows no remaining microcalcifications then I won't need radiation!! He said a small percentage of DCIS patients don't need radiation if it is caught so early and is so small, no node involvement, clean margins, etc. However, if the f/u mammo shows any remaining calcifications then I would need another excisional biopsy! I was not expecting that but in retrospect I do remember others posting about that.
Try not to get too overwhelmed; the waiting for each procedure/appointment/result is sooo hard. This board has been a great source of support, information & inspiration for me, so I hope you will find that as well. Just trust your gut on what your plan is and the doctors will do their part. What state are you in? Hang in there1 -
Hi Volleyballmom
Be kind to yourself and let your brain take in this information, everyone is different and certainly deals with it in a different way. I think I went from being in shear panic and wanting to cry all the time to shear denial and vice versa. Here I am five months down the track and now needing more surgery so as I said everyone is different. I was 47 when I found out and I am now 48 so of a similar age. Find someone that you are able to talk to openly whether that be a loved one, a friend or someone completely independent. These forums are also excellent.
When you say you don't know if you made the right choice of treatment - did you have other options? If you are unsure write down all your concerns and return to your doctor or contact the Breast Care Nurse if there is one and spend some time having these questions answered before you have your operation.
Good luck and know that there are people out there that care and want to help
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Hi there and sorry you had to join us here. It is such a crazy and scary time. I know when I was first diagnosed I wondered if there would ever come a time I didn't go to sleep thinking about cancer, waking up 15 times a night thinking about cancer, and first thing in the morning? Thinking about cancer. Time does help. It does get easier.
As for the right treatment, did you ask for a 2nd opinion? I always recommend a second opinion. I don't think there is anything wrong with a lumpectomy with radiation. The survival rates are the same as if you had a mastectomy.
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volleyballmom....So sorry you are joining our little club, but you will find we are a helpful bunch. I also had a grade 3 DCIS diagnosis. For me, this part of the journey was the hardest and the scariest. Everything is so new and seems so dark. I found that the women on this board who had gone before me were able to shine a light on my path and help me find my way to the other side.
I agree with the other posters who suggest getting a second, or third or fourth opinion. Get as many as it takes to make you feel at peace with the course of treatment you choose. Many women here recommend seeing an oncologist before your surgery. They see things from a different point of view than the surgeons. I consulted with 3 oncologist before I decided on having a UMX, SNB and immediate reconstruction with alloderm. With DCIS, even a high grade, you have some time to do your homework and get a plan of action in place that you are comfortable with. My dx. was at the end of April and I had my UMX on June 15. Emaline is right about the survival rates being the same with lumpectomy/radiation and mastectomy. I decided to go with the mastectomy because I had a large area that needed to be taken and I did not think I would have much of a breast left. I wish I could have saved my breast. I really miss the sensation, but I feel at ease with my decision. It was the right one for me. We found more cancer after the fact when the pathology report came back. But, if I had decided to go the lumpectomy route, the rads should have taken out those other areas of cancer that were left. And the tamoxifen also gives me some protection. I guess I am just trying to say in my long winded way, that this is a very personal and individual decision based on your own circumstances and doctor's recommendations. You will make the right decision with the information that you have at that given time. Good luck to you and take care.
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Have you had an MRI?
MRIs have been shown to be better than mammograms at showing DCIS, and particularly high grade DCIS. So before having a lumpectomy, I think it would be advisable to have an MRI to see if it confirms that the area of cancer is what you believe it to be, i.e. approx. 3cm - or if it shows something different. In my case, while my mammogram showed two separate areas of DCIS, my MRI showed was that I had 'stuff' throughout my breast. There was no way to know for sure but my surgeon guessed that the 'stuff' was all DCIS. So as much as I would have preferred to have a lumpectomy, I realized that there it was highly unlikely that I would end up with clear margins so I opted for a mastectomy. That turned out to be the right decision, since my breast was in fact full of DCIS.
If you've already had an MRI, or if you have one and it confirms that your area of cancer appears to be 3cm in size, and if your surgeon feels that a lumpectomy can be effective at removing the 3cm area from your breast with acceptable margins, then there is no reason to not have the lumpectomy, if that's your preference. I had a mastectomy but if my area of DCIS had been smaller and a lumpectomy had been a realistic choice, I would certainly have opted for a lumpectomy.
So if both surgical options - a lumpectomy and a mastectomy - are available to you, then it's simply a matter of choice on which you prefer. With a lumpectomy, it's likely that radiation will be required as well so that's something to consider in the choice. (Radiation might also be required after a mastectomy but usually it's not.) Personally I would have been happy to have radiation if I could have avoided having the mastectomy, but that's my perspective; yours might be different. And it's all a question of what you feel the right approach is for you.
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Volleyballmom- so sorry you are beginning this journey, but remember even though every journey is unique and personal, you are not alone! Especially in the beginning , it can be overwhelming and you can feel like you are on overload. Step back and take this one step at a time. Breast cancer is my life- let me clarify- that is my profession of choice, working in a breast center. I always felt like because I had the "facts" I knew what I would do if I was faced with this disease. Sitting on the other side put things in a whole new perspective- I waivered back and forth before I made a decision I knew was best for me. It is normal to question whether you are making the right decision but in the end it has to be one that you have the most peace with for you. Going with your gut usually does not mislead you:) thinking of you!
Leah -
I had no idea that an MRI actually shows more than a mammogram. I have 3 areas of DCIS, in different quadrants of the breast. I have my MRI scheduled for this coming Wednesday, and quite frankly I didn't know why I was having an MRI . . . but now I do!
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