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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2012

    I have no idea what a knifty knitter is.  My DIL is a wonderful knitter using the regular method.  Me, no so much.

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited February 2012

    It is like a loom, oblong shaped, various lengths and even a round one, which I do not have.   You more or less weave or loop the yarn around pegs and then make a second row.   Using a hook, pull the bottom loop over the top one and repeat.   

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2012

    Oh, when we were young, my sister had a set that she could make Barbie dresses with.  She never let me try.

  • chef127
    chef127 Member Posts: 891
    edited February 2012

    Sounds like a tool or toy, from my childhood for making woven pot holders. I'm dating myself and i loved it. Meese, You have an opportunity to get back at your sister by using the knifty knitter.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2012

    I was 5 years younger than my sister, and she used the "recommended age" on toys as law.  If the game was for 6 and up, I couldn't play unless I was definitely 6.  She was creative on the ways to keep me from participating in stuff with her.

  • chef127
    chef127 Member Posts: 891
    edited February 2012

    Ah, older sisters. Mine is a complete know it all and butt-in-ski. First born syndrom. A compllete control freak. I love her anyway. She cannot even sew a button or repair a hem. I'm the opposite, like my mom. Her mind works in a different way than mine. She can do things I could not. I remember her first job at the age of 16 in a dry cleaners. She would do small sewing tasks and use different thread colors than the garment and she thought it looked nicer..lol

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited February 2012

    I remember the pot holder loom.   The knifty knitter is oblong and you wind the yarn around the pegs back and forth.  

    I am "first born", so I guess I am the bossy one !!!!!   My little sister, 6 years younger than me, was an excellent sewer.   She could look at a piece of fabric and know exactly what it was good for.   Although I can sew, used to make pant suits and jumpers for work and travel, it is hard to cut the fabric after all the hand surgeries I have had.   Even tried electric scissors and that turned into a big mess.  If I go very slowly, I can manage to cut out a pattern, but it has been a while.    

    My craft of choice is plastic canvas.   The holes are already there and a blunt needle is used so I do not stab myself like with embroidery.   Blood on a dresser scarf is not cool !!!!!   Over the years I have made hundreds of little "flags" to hang on tote bag, purse, luggage, rear view mirrors and wheelchairs in the nursing home.   Also nice Christmas ornaments.  When I volunteered at the Veteran's nursing home, they called me the flag lady and would be waiting at the door if they had not gotten a flag yet.     

  • chef127
    chef127 Member Posts: 891
    edited February 2012

    My sister. the first born, has used her attributes to guide me through BC and added more to my research than I could have done on my own. Her control and bossy nature has served me well. bless the first born. Even if she cannot sew a button.

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited February 2012

    chef, my sister is pretty much the opposite.   She can sew up a storm, but her support has been missing for the most part.    

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2012

    My sister's support stopped when I wouldn't do just what she wanted.

  • chef127
    chef127 Member Posts: 891
    edited February 2012

    Meece and gramE,

    I'm so sorry you don't have the support of your sisters. My sister lives in Calif and I'm in NJ. We have'nt spoken in over 2 years and as soon as I was dx'ed I called her. She calls me every morning on her way to work. Its really lovely. Fortunatly we share the same views on tx's, doctors and we try to understnd the a genetic relationship of the CA. We share LARGE dense boobs. I'm so glad I have her to share. She sends me suppliments, Alkalized H2O just beause, and she is my research machine.  I'm going to visit soon (she wants me to declutter her home,lol) My home can wait. I hope you have someone close to share this awful journey with. She is the one who turned me on to BCO.

  • Kaara
    Kaara Member Posts: 3,647
    edited February 2012

    I have supportive friends and family, but really not anyone that I can talk to on a day to day basis about bc, other than BCO.  I have a cousin in Texas that I thought would be very supportive, and she has all but ignored me since this happened.  When my DA passed I stayed a few extra days because she didn't want to be alone.  I don't understand and never will, but I've let it go.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2012

    Some people are just meant to "be there" and others choose to the the ones they are "there for".  My sister hasn't been to any of the milestones in my life, but I have been to hers, Graduations, babies, weddings... I don't dwell on it, but it does hurt.

    Sooooo, what can you make with a knifty knitter?  Do you make strips and put them together?

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited February 2012

    Duh, I just noticed in the header picture that the lady has an awful lot of white elephants on her shelves.  Mine don't look quite the same, but it does bring to mind that I also have too many.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited February 2012

    Yeah, I just found this thread!  Since finishing two years of treatment in January I haven't quite had the energy to jump into the cleaning and organizing that has been neglected.  Well, the other day I just did it.  The "do something" suggestion is the best.  I am not putting too many deadlines on any of the tasks.  My measure of success is whether or not I actually did something, even a little bit, on any one of my chores.  This way I can work on whatever strikes my fancy for the day.  So far so good!

    On sisters, I am very lucky to call my big sis my best friend.  She has been incredibly supportive throughout.  Her way of handling the stress of it all was knitting me a cool dozen hats to keep my head warm.   

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited February 2012

    Meece, you can make baby blankets, shawls, afghans, scarfs and "much more"  on the knifty knitter, up to 24 inches wide.   It basically allows you to make strips of various widths.   The "long loom series" has several lenghts.   www.provocraft.com

    I have made a few narrow scarfs using 2 colors of yarn - football team colors - as gifts.    Medium weight yarn is best, but thinner if using double strands.    

    I do not lose any sleep over the lack of support from friends or family.   It is what it is.   But I do treasure the ones who do step up and "are there" for me.     

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • suzwes
    suzwes Member Posts: 1,740
    edited February 2012

    Glad you found this thread inmate4232010!  A little at a time, good not to put the deadlines on, just a few items at a time!  I'm going to get offline now and declutter my desk at work!  How can I possiby get my needed work done when I have the mess of a desk?????

  • suzwes
    suzwes Member Posts: 1,740
    edited February 2012

    I forgot, I had a friend post the saying on her facebook today and I think it is perfect!

    "Tell the negative committee that meets inside your head to sit down and shut up" - Ann Bradford.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • hotandcold
    hotandcold Member Posts: 205
    edited March 2012

    Laughing my head off about the past two pages.  Had a nasty cold and just couldn'g get the gumption up to do anything for the past two weeks.  Now there seems to be more stuff on the kitchen counter and table again.This all seems so ongoing. Hello to all the new posters.  Today I'm going to clean off all my kitchen counters and polish my formica. Yep, I still have my original formica, 24 years old, and I'm keeping it.  It still looks great and it has a matte finish not shiny. I'm using fly ladys suggestion to set the timer,  My variation is I set the timer for 20 minutes and try to get a job done in that smount of time.  I get 3 jobs done and then I goof for 20 min.  No more goofing.  Off to do more jobs.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited March 2012
    yeah!!yesterday 3 bags full for donation, and 1/2 the back porch free of crap!!rearranging the furniture we decided to keep will take another day.. moving ahead, finally!!!!3jays
  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Kaara
    Kaara Member Posts: 3,647
    edited March 2012

    3jays:  Sounds like you off and running again!  That must mean you are feeling better and I'm so glad to hear that!  I'm starting to feel like my old self again too after being down with that cold for a couple of weeks...it was a hard one to kick.  Last week when I went to the holistic doc, he gave me an infusion of anti virals and it seemed to kick this thing once and for all!

    Cleaning lady didn't come last week...what's up with that?  She couldn't have an easier job cleaning this house...it hardly gets dirty with just the two of us...easy money...but they don't show.

    Busy week...app't with retina specialist to see about my advancing macular degeneration, then app't with new MO to talk about hormonal treatments....already taking tamoxifen...but going to ask about alternatives with less SE's.  Also app't to get my first thermogram on my breasts...the three month mark after surgery.  I will alternate with mammograms going forward. 

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited March 2012

    Did I tell you all that I got new cleaners. I feel like the dumbest person in the world not to jump on it right away when I first started suspecting the former cleaners were taking my meds and mom's jewelry. WHat the heck was I waiting for them to ask me to carry it to the car FOR them!  It is so weird I felt like I was somehow at fault, or being too suspicious. I was afraid I would make a fool of myself. Argh!!!!

    So now I have a big safe, I am afraid to go look at my silver and see if it is all still there! Seriously I think I will go over the edge if it is gone. What a wimp I am, you would think I would be charging to the cabinet and checking. I am going to wait until my DD is here to check. I hope the little thieves are happy when they realize all my earing and braclets are faux pearls. I wear ten dollar pearl studs. They suit me and when one comes loose of the back I just crazy glue it back on!   I am thinking that I should have just taken my mom's jewelry to a gold merchant myself.  Rant over for now. I do not like feeling this vulnerable. I was really really nice to these ladies. 

    A good thing happened. I was looking in an unopened box from moving and I found all my good tee shirts. Or knit shirts would be a better way to put it. I had wondered why I was only wearing shirts and good dressier tops. I have just been so out of it haven't I?  

    I donate my books where ever they will take them. I have a big stack still to read to I am trying to only buy non fiction for now. I tell my husband I need to get through my stack before I get a kindle type reader.  

    Have a good evening or morning depending on where you are

    Love Ginger

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited March 2012

    We need a big Kindle for magazines.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited March 2012

    I got a Kindle. It's full of obscure, free books that I never read.

    Then I got an iPad. Planned to put Martha Stewart, and Better Homes and Gardens on it. So far all I got is People. (You know, the mindless magazine they tell you to get before your surgery....)

    And all I really use it for is Pinterest. At least that saves me buying SOME magazines....

    BUT I AM STILL BUYING OTHER MAGAZINES!!!!! Surprised

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