Diep 2012
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There are parts of my one breast that are still firm after 6 months.. but most of it got much softer at about 2+ months.
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Sharon789 I had read on BCO about people with flaps being "hard" so I asked about the firm spots I had and they said the "hard" meant hard like wood, and extensive areas. I have firm spots along the cleavage curve for example. I just got the operative report via my GP today and from the descriptions in that, I am thinking the firm spots are related to where they stitched the shape of the flaps into place in the underneath layers, and scars form around them. By all means ask your PS office if you are concerned, but there's a lot of stuff that has to settle into place. I am 8 weeks and still have those but either they are less or I'm getting used to it. (The swelling that just started a couple weeks ago, I'm a little more curious about, but the word so far is as long as it's not red or hot, watch and see. I'm going to consult a LE therapist.)
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Thanks BDavis and Goldlining. I really appreciate the info.
I think I'm still ok but will keep an eye on it. I see my plastic surgeon on Feb 24 and I think I'm still able to wait to see him. I don't think I need to worry yet.
Thanks for your help.
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Thanks goldlining, I do have some Xanax. I don't take them much anymore, but the anesthesiologist did tell me I could take one the morning of surgery and I'm sure I will. Just to calm my nerves and keep my BP low. And of course, once you get there and they get the drugs flowing I get pretty calm, pretty quick! Right now, it's coming in waves. I will be fine for hours and then suddenly I feel like I can't breathe. I'd be worried if I wasn't scared.
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TexasRose I had become so stressed waiting that I had pain radiating all the way from hip to knee and I could barely walk, and chiro, acupuncture, and massage were not even touching it. I woke up from the wonderful anaesthesia and the fact that my hips were pain free totally outweighed any pain I had in chest and abs! You just have a few more days to find distractions. Hang in there.
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It seemed so far away and now it's almost here. And my husband just asked me what I wanted for my "last meal". Kind of wish he had phrased that differently. lol
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TexasRose - Xanax in the morning really helps with the nerves. I was so glad they suggested I take one before surgery. As I lay on the OR table waiting while they began hooking up IVs, monitors etc, I asked the anestheologist what music we were going to be listening to (as if I was going to hear any of it). She said my PS likes to listen to Techno Rock (whatever that is). They were so nice and I was totally relaxed. You will be too. Sweet dreams and we hope to hear from you when it's all over and you are on the mend with your brand new 'girls'.
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Thanks Diana. I have heard of him.
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Does anyone know how long after DIEP before you can go in a swimming pool? Specifically my own..not a public one or anything, but wanted to know so that I can plan for summer with my kids.
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I don't know the answer, melster, but that is one reason why I'm having the surgery now in winter. We have a pool also and we spend every available minute we can in it during the summer. I didn't want surgery to interfere with that. I might have to delay Stage 2 until later. I'll have to see how it goes and how long I'd be out of the pool after that one, but three months from now is May and getting into swim season for us. I do remember after something I had that they weren't as concerned about it because it was our private pool. Public pools- more of a problem.
c8ndygr1, with the Xanax and the drugs flowing in the IV in the pre-op area, I know the most stressful part will be the drive up to the hospital! Once I get there, I will calm down. I need to pay more attention in the OR when they take me in this time. When I had my MX, it was later in the morning and I had been getting the Versed for a long time. I was very relaxed and pretty out of it. I do remember my friend taking pictures of the gurney as they wheeled me off and saying, "She's a scrapbooker. She's going to want pictures of this." The nurses were all laughing. The only thing I remember about being in the OR was them asking me to scoot over onto the operating table and I remember thinking it was such a tiny little table. Narrow. Someone asked me something about scrapbooking and the next thing I knew, I woke up in recovery.
So it all comes back to the saying that got me through six months of chemo- You don't have to be brave. You just have to show up.
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Meister.. The general rule is that as long as you have drains or any open wound, you can't swim, anywhere.. including the bath tub. So for DIEP, drains usually are in for about 2 weeks... so assume no water for about 3 weeks or more. Your PS can tell you specifically.
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Thanks BDavis...I am not planning on swimming anywhere close to that soon! I was thinking more along the lines of do I have to wait like 3 months! I figure surgery in April..can I swim in June.
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I would say that unless you have a complication, that should be no problem at all.. I was told not to swim until my drain holes had closed up, which after DIEP was about 2 weeks... BUT when I had my GAP flap surgery and BMX, my breast incision opened at 2 weeks and was wide open at a month post op (leading to a DIEP flap), so I was one of those who had a complication... also, I had GAP drains for 8.5 weeks for the GAP flaps (usually a 6 week duration)..
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Hi--I'm new here. I was dxed with papillary carcinoma four months ago at age 45. My surgeon excised the lesion and took 5 lymph nodes (all clear but I'm paranoid about lymphedema!). I was planning for the traditional route of radiation and tamoxifen but my genetic tests came back with a BRCA2 variant of unknown significance. After consulting with my surgeon and two plastic surgeons, I've opted to do a double Mx with DIEP reconstruction.
After a slow start to this process, I'm now crashing the boards. The scheduling just fell into place three days ago. I have my mastectomies on Monday and will return for DIEP flap 16 days later. I've been running around getting pre-surg exams,ultrasound, and CT scans... all while arranging to take extended leave from work. It's been so hectic that I haven't had time to really consider what's coming down.
I'm single and live alone so have some anxiety around caring for myself. My friends are wonderful and have all offered whatever help I need but I want to use that generosity sparingly. I figure I'll get through the DMx and see how bad it is. If I have trouble at home, I'll hire someone for the DIEP aftercare.
After all that back story, a question: has anyone had DMx with no expanders? What sort of pain level/recovery should I expect?
Thanks for this great forum!
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Welcome Dressager... I had my BMX and reconstruction all in one surgery. Is there a reason they are making it two surgeries?. After my BMX and flap surgery, I was back home one and half weeks later, and accepted meals 3 times a week due to lifting restrictions, but I was driving and shopping (limited). I did like the meals as I couldn't have even lifted a pot of boiling water... I also hired a cleaning lady once a week. AWESOME! All of my personal care, I did it myself. Showering took forever with changing bandages and cleaning drains, but I was able to do it myself.
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I had a left breast mastectomy and DIEP all at once also similar to Bdavis. Wondering also about the different days for surgery for you. I do know some women actually have mastectomies followed by TEs and then have chemo and radiation before the DIEP but usually that is overly the if not a year's time between mastectomy to DIEP. I am curious too.
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Hi dressager, welcome to the thread. I don't really understand the two surgeries either. Why aren't they doing the MX and DIEP all together? I'm not sure I'm understanding the expander question either. Do you mean if you have the MX and there is nothing there for 16 days until they do the DIEP? I had my original uni MX in 2009 and there has been nothing there for three years. Recovering from the original MX was not that hard. I think most of the pain came from the lymph node removal for me and you have already had that. The mastectomy itself wasn't that bad of a recovery.
I do understand the running around and getting ready though. They originally scheduled my MX for 4/23 and then moved the surgery up to 4/3. I had two days' notice. Thank God for my sister who ran around with me doing errands, buying nightgowns, taking care of the many things that had to be done and no time to do them. I actually think it was better for me that way though. No time to think about it then. My delayed MX on the healthy side and DIEP is Tuesday. I've been working towards having this surgery since September. Too much time to think.
I am thinking about having a cleaning lady come in and clean while I recover. One less thing to worry about.
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Thanks for the welcome. Both PSs recommended down time between the two surgeries, saying it provides for better symmetry and healing. Two weeks is not their recommendation though---they'd rather it be a month but I pushed on that and got the gap closed somewhat.
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So will they put anything in there to hold the spot?? Otherwise, won't the tissue start to heal to itself?? Or are they planning on using new skin? Where are you doing this?
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Hi Dressager. Welcome to the DIEP world. And with minimal waiting and dread from the time you get your date to the time of the surgery. The suspense is very nearly the worst part. (Drains are the worst!)
I had one immediate and one delayed in my bilateral DIEP. I don't know what purpose expanders would serve. Those stretch the skin to allow room for an implant to go under. In the delayed DIEP, the abdominal skin was used for the lower half of the breast mound and there isn't a need to stretch the skin. They opened the previous mx scar and put the flap between that scar and the inframammary fold, and stuffed some of it under the chest skin above.
Mine would have been more symmetrical to use the same pattern on both sides, but there are a lot of people who do bilateral mx with immediate DIEP with fine symmetry. Part of me wonders whether the motivation could also be that separate surgeries reduces the OR time on each occasion, either for your benefit or theirs.
I do have more swelling on the delayed side, and I don't know yet if it's like bdavis says, the tissue having healed to itself and now being disturbed. I have a mild regret that I was deprived of the chance to have the bmx/immediate DIEP because I started out at the wrong mammography centre and the marble just rolled down the hill from there. I'm healthy and it looks fine, but it was an inefficient way to go.
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I don't think tissue starting to heal on itself is a problem. Hundreds if not thousands of women have delayed reconstruction after MX. I, myself, had my TEs removed prior to radiation and won't have DIEP until later this summer. I don't understand separating the surgery, though, when it could be done at the same time.
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Bdavis. I was wondering the same because my BS and PS said that with a NS SS mastectomy there would be something to 'hold the spot'. My PS specifically discussed the tissue and skin that would be left would heal to itself. Of course that was when they were explaining holding off on the DIEP until after chemo and radiation (if I really wanted to wait) was the way some did and still do this, but they heavy leaned toward immediate reconstruction for women and I went with their recommendation.
We know that each woman's story is hers. The length of the surgery is a concern for some surgeons. My PS said that is why he operates with a partner and a PA to minimize time on the table.
DressAger. Are you having any biopsies done during the operation? Like a sentinel node biopsy? Or nipple tissue biopsy? Frozen section sampling biopsies were done online while I was on the table. That led to further axillady excision (more lymph nodes removed) but a GO for saving my Nipple. Just wondering. Everyone has different stories. I think we are all intrigued with each other's journeys. -
I'm getting simple Mx--not skin-sparing so there's no need to "hold the spot." My procedure will be as goldlining describes. I do have two surgeons doing the surgeries---a general surgeon who specializes in Br Ca will do the Mx and a PS will do the recon.
I had SNB surgery when the surgeon went back in after my excisional biopsy to take more margin. My tumor couldn't be diagnosed via the first biopsy--they had to go back in and take the entire lesion.
Perhaps they're separating the surgeries because of length of time. Tomorrow is estimated to be four hours and the recon will take 10-12 hours.
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Definitely sounds like time would be an issue then for you. The estimated time of my surgery was about 6-8 hours and it ended being almost 9 hours.
Just to clarify: for the DIEP portion I had 2 Plastic surgeons working together at one time and a physicians assistant from my PS practice as well. For the mastectomy, sentinel node biopsy, and axillary excision I had my Breast surgeon. All of those surgeons were there and started at he same time on my surgery date. While my BS was doing the sentinel node biopsy and beginning the mastectomy, my PS team were beginning the DIEP in my abdominal area. This was to it down on the time that I would be under. If it had been a double mastectomy my time would have probably stretched to 13-14 hours.
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I also had a BS for the BMX and 2 PS for the recon plus the PA. I had BMX and Hip flaps my first go round, so they had to flip me over, which takes more time... I think I was under for 10 hours. Then I had a DIEP a month later (on right side) due to skin necrosis, and I had 2 PS then too.
Dressager.. I guess since you are not sparing the skin it is like any delayed recon. Was there a reason they decided against skin sparing?? I have a patch of skin on my redone side and the other side looks 100% normal... The patched side is fine, and its not a large area. I just posted pictures on Timtam (nowheregirl)'s picture forum or my necrosis and where I am today
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Betsy---I'd love to check out your pics but the site is asking me for credentials...?
I expect I'm not a candidate for skin sparing surgery due to the location of my lesion, which was pretty close the surface and the nipple.
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Yes.. to see the pictures you have to "ask" nowheregirl to get in...
My tumor was close to the surface, and I had skin sparing... When they did my lumpectomy, they got clean margins, so that was all that was needed.
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Betsy, your doctors did an amazing job of correcting the necrosis wound. How did you get such full volume? Your scars are nearly invisible. Thanks for posting your pics on the photo forum.
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Its all kind of funny... Before I sent to NOLA I went to a local doctor who told me I didn't have enough fat to make two C cup breast (I was a C/D)... and he wanted me to get implants and a lat flap.. So I went to NOLA and they agreed I didn't have enough belly fat, but said if they used my HIP and AB fat stacked I had enough... So I went with that approach... When I awoke from surgery, they said they were able to get enough just from my hips so no need for the DIEP... THEN I had the necrosis etc and needed the right side redone, so I could THEN get the DIEP. If I had had the DIEP in the first place, I am not sure I would have had an inconspicuous donor site.
During the DIEP the doctor had to patch the breast with ab skin (because of the necrosis) so I had the upside down U scar. Then in November when I came out of stage II surgery I thought he had removed the whole patch because I couldn't see part of the scar. It was like a week or two later I realized it was still there, but so faint that even I had trouble seeing it.
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Betsy, I just saw your photos. I had no idea you went through so much! You are looking awesome!! I took some photos yesterday and plan to share them there after my surgery. I do wish that I had thought to take pictures way back before the first MX. You girls who haven't had any surgery yet- take pictures! You will want them someday!!
dressager- I think you have to have a certain number of posts or been around for awhile before you will be granted access to the photo site. You can certainly understand why. They are intensely personal photos. Security is pretty tight. Keep posting away!
I'm getting down to the wire here with surgery on Tuesday. In a very odd twist of fate, it's snowing here in Texas today! That doesn't happen very often. How very cool!!
I bought a zip up nightgown yesterday. I was in town so I ran in Dillards to see if they had anything and I found one on sale for $12. Couldn't resist it. I have bought so many new nightgowns and all for around $12. Lots of clearance sales right now and I figure I will live in them for the next few weeks. I had figured I wouldn't even take a gown. Just wear the hospital gown, but they are so uncomfortable. The two I am taking with me- one zips and one buttons. I think I will be more comfortable in that. I'm not taking much with me. I live about 15 minutes from the hospital and DH and my sister and my mom will be in and out and can always bring me something if I need it.
Just relaxing today and going to order chinese delivery for dinner. Perhaps a beer.
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