Good life lost???

mumito · January 2012

Found out over the Holidays that my DH of 32 years took a woman to vegas last sept while I was looking after my Mom out of town.I am over the hurt now I am just Pissed. Our life had been very good before this.Now I am lost....

momof3boys · January 2012

Oh I'm sorry! I bet you're pissed and hurt. Did he tell you? I'm so sorry....

mumito · January 2012

No I accidently found the air ticket on his laptop.When I showed it to him he was shocked and did not even know what to say.

When I finally let him back in the house he says she was bought and paid for and it will never happen again. This all went down on xmas day.

mumito · January 2012

I was so upset I forgot to print out a copy of the ticket.It has now disapeared.

BarbaraA · January 2012

Oh mum, I am so sorry. I know the pain you are feeling. It is good that you are pissed now because now you can heal. I don;t know what I would do in your situation.

barbe1958 · January 2012

Mum, you will go through all the stages of grief as this develops. You are at the anger stage which is GOOD. It will help keep you strong. It is when you falter that you may make bad decisions. I cannot imagine how you must be feeling. What a destruction of trust, something that can never be brought back. Does he understand this?

My heart goes out to you, sweetie.....with love,

Barbe

mumito · January 2012

I believe he does realize this but he just wants our life to go on as before.Unfortunatly I am having a real problem with that.

barbe1958 · January 2012

It NEVER will go on as before. That is the decision you both have to make. Can you enjoy your new life? Can you trust him again? If not, for both of your sakes, a parting of the ways may be indicated for your mental health.

If you can get past (not over!) it, you can begin to build the next 32 good years.

And FYI, you haven't "lost" those years, sweetie, they are just clouded right now with tears....

mumito · January 2012

Tonight I am expected to attend a family chinese newyear dinner.I am bringing a good bottle of red one for the host and one for me.

Marple · January 2012

((((mum))))

barbe1958 · January 2012

Gather all the red envelopes you can find!!!!!

kmccraw423 · January 2012

Mum ... I am so sorry. Why are men so stupid and why do they think we are? I really hope things work out for you in a way that's best for you. ((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))

Meece · January 2012

Nothing to say but..{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{mum}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

sheila888 · January 2012

I go with what Meece said.............

((((((((((((((((((((((((♥MUM♥))))))))))))))))))))))

Meece · February 2012

Thinking of you, Mum...I pray things are getting better.

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