Can anyone tell me about anxiety meds plz... Desperate

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Can anyone of you tell me about your experience with anxiety meds. Which one might be the best with less side affects are they all addicting? I had a severe anxiety attack and ended up in the emergency room and the gave me Xanax . I have it as a rescue med but I won't take it on a daily basis because I don't want to get addicted to anything. I had withdrawals from pain meds after surgery and it was horrible. I don't want to go down that road again. I can't shake this darn gloom and doom and fear of everything. Will I ever really feel like me again. So sad can't stop crying...

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  • jacee
    jacee Member Posts: 1,384
    edited January 2012

    mamalu- I'm so sorry to hear of your sadness. I used to suffer with anxiety attacks and made many trips to ER thinking I was dying. I was given xanax and it worked great for me. If I would take it when I started feeling the slightest adrenaline rush, it would usually prevent the attack. Then I went probably 15 years without one. But during chemo my onc wanted me to take it. I now have xanax on hand to use whenever needed. I took it for 2 weeks once, but that's probably the longest continuous time. I don't feel any side effects when using it.

    Getting a bc diagnosis takes a toll on us all. Now is a great time to use these meds, just to regain some control where you can think clearly again. Best wishes to you...anxiety is the pits!

  • jacee
    jacee Member Posts: 1,384
    edited January 2012

    mamalu- I'm so sorry to hear of your sadness. I used to suffer with anxiety attacks and made many trips to ER thinking I was dying. I was given xanax and it worked great for me. If I would take it when I started feeling the slightest adrenaline rush, it would usually prevent the attack. Then I went probably 15 years without one. But during chemo my onc wanted me to take it. I now have xanax on hand to use whenever needed. I took it for 2 weeks once, but that's probably the longest continuous time. I don't feel any side effects when using it.

    Getting a bc diagnosis takes a toll on us all. Now is a great time to use these meds, just to regain some control where you can think clearly again. Best wishes to you...anxiety is the pits!

  • LittleFlower
    LittleFlower Member Posts: 405
    edited January 2012

    mamalu13,

    I was taking ativan during treatment, like on the day of chemo to get through the treatment and then after treatment, i felt like i needed it on a daily basis.  The problem was that it only helped for a few hours, and I need more than that.  My onc put me on Klonopin, which was longer acting, like 12 hours I think, and although she prescribed like 1mg pill twice a day, I started with half of one pill (.5 mg) and that was all i took all day, and that helped enough for me.  I was also taking celexa because she prescribed them together.  You know celexa and klonopin REALLY helped me.  about 2 years after this combination I became pregnant and stopped these meds cold turkey. It was a couple of tough weeks (you should never stop cold turkey)  after my baby was born, i started having the worst anxiety i've ever experienced.  I started on the celexa alone and that has been pretty good.  The reason I like this is because the klonopin in addicting, and supposedly the celexa isn't.  Celexa is an antidepressant, but it is also used for anxiety disorder.  You take it everyday.  I hope this helps.  The way you describe your sadness suggests you need help to feel better.  I would say for immediate relief the klonopin/ativan will help, the celexa takes a few weeks to really kick in.  I think this is why my onc prescribed them together because the klonopin helped until the celexa kicked in.  Good luck.  Big hugs, and YES YOU WILL BE YOU AND FEEL GOOD AGAIN.  You're already on the way because you recognize the problem!

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited January 2012

    I just started Lexapro in October and it has worked great for me.  I feel really good and it has helped a lot.  I am in a better mood, have less anxiety and a little more "chilled out" which is what I needed.  I wish I would have started taking it sooner.  I take xanax at night so I can sleep though. 

  • LittleFlower
    LittleFlower Member Posts: 405
    edited January 2012

    I should add that i started the celexa slowly.  the first time i started the 20 mg dose, it made me SO DIZZY ... so i started slow, like 5 mg for a few days, then 10 for a week, up to 15 then 20.  I took the liquid form so really easy to dose up or down.  good luck.

  • tabby
    tabby Member Posts: 135
    edited January 2012

    mamalu13:  So sorry to know you are going through this anxiety!  It's perfectly normal though.  You have been through a lot.  My symptoms felt like I was going down a roller coaster hill over and over and over every time I had a thought especially when I first woke in the morning.   I use prozac and take it daily.  I put it off as long as I could but when I lost my appetite I knew I had to do something.  Go to your doctor!!  The sooner you try something the sooner you will feel better.  (Remember, the first thing doesn't always do the trick--I know depressing, huh?)  Make sure you tell your doctor you don't want to be addicted to something--at least this will get it off your shoulders and onto your doctor's.  I don't know if prozac is addictive or not but sometimes you NEED it.  Will you ever feel like you again.  SURE YOU WILL only NEW AND IMPROVED!  Also, it helped me IMMENSELY that where I went for treatment offered a free therapist.  The free part was really important to me as some of my anxiety was caused by guilt that I was the cause of us having to pay medical bills.   I called and saw him right away and he was amazing.  He made me feel like I wasn't the only one going through this and that I could overcome it.  I could call him anytime and see him as often as I needed to.  He could also meet with family members too.  Is anything like this available to you?  Do anything you can to get better as soon as possible--you are worth it.  P.S.  I too take a half of a Xanax from time to time at night to sleep when I feel extra upset or nervous.

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited January 2012

    I took celexa during an extremely stressful period in my life(believe it or not, it wasn't the breast cancer portion!) and it helped A LOT. I tapered up to the full dose, and when it was time to go off of it after about 2 years, I also tapered off of it. I did not have any adverse side effects. I also visited a therapist during that time, which helped immensely. 

    When I was first diagnosed with breast cancer, my doctor gave me clonazepam to help me sleep for the first couple of weeks. Again, I tapered up then tapered down.  

    My oncologist has told me that celexa is no longer an option for me since my cancer was ER+ and I am on tamoxifen. Apparently, celexa, and many other antidepressants interfere with tamoxifen. He has told me that effexor would be my drug of choice, should I ever need one again. So far, so good. I haven't needed it, but I would not rule out taking it in the future.

    Mary 

  • shannonW
    shannonW Member Posts: 186
    edited January 2012

    I tried Zoloft after my first  "thought I was having a heart attack but just anxiety" ER trip. Weaned off it bc I thought it made me gain weight. After my 2nd anxiety attack back in 2007 I went on the generic for Celexa 20 mg 1x/day and been on it ever since.I feel it works good for me to make me less anxious and generally a nicer person!:) At least my family thinks so!

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited January 2012

    I've been taking Ativan on occasion for three years (since my bc diagnosis) - I take a very small dose and probably only once or twice a week - heavier use during scan season - it works for me but everyone is different - I do wish I'd had it many years ago (I've suffered from anxiety since my childhood).

  • Thatgirl
    Thatgirl Member Posts: 276
    edited January 2012

    ((((((((hugs))))))

  • Jennt28
    Jennt28 Member Posts: 2,021
    edited January 2012

    I was so anxious before my first treatment the other week my psych-onc recommended I get an anti-anxiety med and my PCP prescribed me Lexotan (Bromazepam) 3mg tablets. I was to take either 1/2 or a whole tablet twice daily, as needed.



    Now, he did say that this med can be addictive, but it works pretty immediately and is suitable for short-term use, and the 3mg is still 1/2 of the max 6mg ones.



    I took 1/2 tablet morning and night in the 4 days leading up to my first chemo and a whole one in the morning before my chemo. Then went back to 1/2 for the day after. Then I stopped taking them because I felt I was over the anxiety.



    I still have over 1/2 of the original box sitting there and I intend on taking them again before my next tx in a week and a bit.



    My PCP was happy to prescribe these because he knows that I do not have an addictive personality and that I was definitely anxious and not depressed (there is a big difference in those). He said he preferred not to put me on some major anti-depressant like Effexor because they are actually more physically addictive, take longer to work (up to 3 weeks for Effexor!) and have many more side effects, including loss of sexual libido and function ( which is one of the many potential SEs from chemo that I was stressing over to start with...).



    Hope this helps and you get what "fits" your needs :-)



    regards Jenn

  • Elizabeth1889
    Elizabeth1889 Member Posts: 1,036
    edited January 2012

    I have always felt anxious and four years ago, my PCP prescribed celexa for me.  The med has improved the quality of my life immensely.  My MO prescribed ativan to get me through the especially tense times during active treatment and that med really helped, too.  Mamalou13, please keep trying different med combos until you feel less anxious.  BC is bad enough without the awful anxiety.  Sending hugs to you.

  • jancie
    jancie Member Posts: 2,631
    edited January 2012

    I was given diazepam when I was first diagnosed 10 mg and took it fairly frequently as I was experiencing major anxiety attacks.  Then I ended up with a new PCP that insisted I get off the Diazepam and take Lorazepam instead.  Diazepam is longer acting - 8 hours or so whereas, Lorazepam is good for 4 hours.  Now if you are not having an anxiety attack - Lorazepam is great as a sleeping aid and will put me down for 10 hours of straight sleep.  However if you are having an anxiety attack it works differently and is only good for 4 hours.

    The only problem is that if you have to take a drug test, it will show up in your system so it is important that if you have to do this, you let the person know that you have a prescription for it.

    I take Lorazepam an average of 3x per week - no more than that. 

    I am also on Zoloft.  I tried Celexa, Wellbutrin, and some other anti-depressants and my body reacts best to Zoloft.  Everyone is different - what works for me may not necessarily work for you.

  • lioness1111
    lioness1111 Member Posts: 19
    edited January 2012

    mamula,

    My heart goes out to you, because my 11/7 dx triggered many of the emotions you describe.   Our HMO has cancer counseling, and I learned that these emotions are perfectly normal and understandable.  In fact, she said that DCIS does not get a pass in terms of emotional upheaval--in her opinon DCIS is highly traumatic especially if this is the first experience with a major health issue.

     On 11/5 my blood pressure was 108/70 (normal for me) and I had no history of anxiety or depression.  I saw the surgeon on 11/9 and my blood pressure was 150/90.   She prescibed Ativan, which I took only at night but still found it strong.  It made me feel groggy and I felt that my mental acuity was the best thing for getting me through all the decisions.  I went to see my primary care doctor, and he confirmed anxiety.  Usually my oxygen level is 100% and he checked it a 92%.   I told him I was short of breath and he said my lungs were not inflating properly due to the tension and anxiety.   He prescribed Xanax, which I found did not have the sedative effect.  It quenched the fear, but I felt that my thinking was still clear. 

     I took the Xanax as needed at night for a short time, and took the Ativan the day before surgery.  My friend has had some experience with addiction and was concerned that I was taking Xanax. She said it works well, a little too well, but I have not needed either of the meds since the surgery. 

    I know the anxiety was damaging my health.  The diagnosis was so awful for me I threw everything at it ----counseling, meditation, Reiki, exercise, sharing with close friends, work, creative pursuits, and meds were only part of the picture.  I had surgery on 12/5 and at this time BP and breathing are back to normal.

    I heard that the fear and tension are much better after the surgery, and this was certainly my experience.   Please know that you will feel better again, but the stress can do a number on you, so do what you can to take care of yourself.    

       

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