The solution to painful intercourse!!!!!! Yipeee!

Just don't forget to give your horse a hug, Jancie.  She will understand if you don't feel like riding.

I don't think you need any other Christmas presents either

I am so glad that you have that part of your life back on track.  Just so important in so many ways.

Merry Christmas! - Claire

I tried everything the onc suggested from the slippery to the oily and I never found any relief.  It hurt way to much to continue having intercourse.  BUT today I picked up my SC prescription and decided that tonight was the night.  All I can say is, WOW, it works and it works really, really well!!  It has been 2 1/2 years since he has been in me and I was initially fearful as the gyn could only use a pre-teen speculum .......very minor pain at the onset and then totally comfortable.  My DH claimed it was a Christmas miracle; I love this stuff.  Thanks to all who were kind enough to speak frankly about this problem and this solution, I am so very grateful.

No this is not the solution for painful intercourse but this is the place that let us talk about it and an idea that may hep support the work here. .

Marybe is getting her tumor markers soon. We were sort of joking around and BarbE suggested we have a lottery, I chimed in a raffle with the prize being the satisfaction of winning. I wagered that Marybe's numbers would be under 6000. Then I just decided to go make a BCO donation regardless and now, so I did. It is easy the link is right at the top of the page on the right side, just scroll up. So, as at any board meeting where one is absent, Marybe named me in charge of spreading the word about this so we might get a nice pool of donations going for BCO which has done so much for so many of us.

It is tax dedutible too and I did donate in honor of Marybe but didn't request she be notified, she might get a big head ya know. Haha

Here is what Marybe wrote on her thread.

"Just thought of this....maybe you can spread the word of the contest to some of the other threads, I don't know about honoring me so much because believe me, I am really no one special, BUT wouldn't it be great to raise a bunch of money for BCO since it has given so much to us!? Also, I think you can use it as a tax deduction."

Thanks for reading, Ginger

kmf I have seen it on the internet but chose my local compounding pharmacist as I knew him personally and trusted his work.   I did get lidocaine but found that I didn't really need it and I had not had intercourse for 2 1/2 years.  It was a minor discomfort at the onset but within a minute that discomfort was gone.  I did bleed a very small amount  (by that I mean the toilet paper was a tad pinkish right afterwards) but that has not happened since.  This cream REALLY DOES WORK.  Good luck. 

kmf  There is information about how to get to the contents of the SC on the first page of this thread.  I tried it and could no longer bring up this page however I did have it in my compputer and I copied and pasted this information.  Hope this helps.

Scream Cream
Who can benefit from using Scream Cream?
Studies have reported that over 43% of the women in America experience little or no sexual satisfaction from clitoral orgasm and only 25% achieve orgasm with intercourse. In fact, according to studies, numerous women between the ages of 18 and 80 do not even know what an orgasm is or how it is achieved. Whether someone is multi-orgasmic or among the 43% of women who are sexually frustrated, any woman who desires maximum sexual fulfillment, greater intimacy, and enhanced relationships stands to benefit from regular use of Scream Cream.
Description: Scream Cream contains a combination of prescription and non-prescription components described as blood flow enhancers and vasodilators. Each 1⁄2 gram dose contains Aminophylline 15-mg., Isosorbid dinitrate 1.25-mg, Ergoloid mesylate 0.25-mg, Pentoxifylline 25-mg. and L-Arginine 30-mg. Dissolved in a water based hypoallergenic transdermal vehicle. The vehicle is designed to enhance the rate of absorption and to cause the medication to be retained locally in order to maximize local effects and metabolism while minimizing the potential for systemic side effects.
Use: Scream Cream should be applied directly to the clitoris at least 30 minutes prior to anticipated sexual relations and gently massaged in. Duration of effect ranges from 30 minutes to 2 hours and heightens both ease of stimulation and intensity of orgasm.
Contraindications:
Patients with a history of sensitivity to any of the listed ingredients should not use this product. Patients with a history of genital herpes should use this product with caution as L-Arginine may facilitate reproduction of the herpes virus. Scream Cream is available without L-Arginine upon request. Onset is identical to the complete product but duration may be reduced.
How supplied:
Scream Cream is packaged in 30 dose multi-dose tubes.
References:
Dr. J. Kaminetsky, New York Univ. College of Medicine; Univ. of Chicago College of Medicine; J Berman, M.D., I. Goldstein, M.D., Boston Univ. School of Medicine, Dept. of Urology/Continence.

KMF - the ingredients for scream cream on the computer are totally different that the compounding formula.  Unfortunately both have the same names but are different.

If I were to venture to guess, the scream cream that you find on the internet is not much different than the stuff you buy at the pharmacy/store that gives you a tingling feeling - sort of a heated feeling when you apply it to your clitoris.

The compounding formula scream cream tells your body to naturally lubricate and be more pliable for those girthy husbands or even those not so girthy husbands.

I have also experienced some spotting but not enough for me to get to the gynocologist yet. 

I still can't totally take my dh inside of me when I am on top of him - for some reason that wonderful position of the past still hurts to some extent even with the scream cream.  Doesn't matter how slowly I try to take him in - when he gets 80% penetrated inside of me - it hurts to some extent.  Not so much if we are in the spooning position.

If my dh knew that I was telling ya'll this personal stuff he would be really unhappy with me.  He even asked me if I was telling people "our business" when I told him about this thread. 

Thank you to everyone!  Will talk to my dr. about this!  Karenanne

oops posted on the wrong thread :P

Good news!  My oncologist's working with a compounding pharmacy to get my scream cream in my hot little hands.  I have officially un-screen-shotted my onc.

The other two docs' screen shots are staying up on my wall.  Hmph. 

Hahahaha!  Make sure they get the right one.  There's another scream cream out there available without a prescription, but it's not the same thing.

Ladies, thank you so much for this thread. Poor DH is so patient. We are lucky if we are intimate a couple of times a year. It is so painful I find myself avoiding intimacy.  My Hitachi magic wand and PUR lube made everything but intercourse possible (despite a total lack of libido on my part),but we miss that. I am seeing my onc in a few weeks and will ask her for Rx. I'd love to reverse my vaginal atrophy. I find that I'm getting discomfort there just on a regular day now let alone when DH gets near me!

Re: the lubes. I found astroglide and Replens too goopy. I order PUR from drugstore dot com. It's less goopey and is a great lube.  

 I'll report back on my experience. 

 Thanks again for this post and the 'how-to's'! 

Annie - I dont have to use lubes when I use the SC Lido combo. It helps the body do it naturally!

Enjoyous - Lol... Yup thats what it is research  heh heh. Where abouts in Canada, Im on the Wet West Coast... ummm that almost sounds rude here.

Heh heh, Yes its pretty incredible living here but I sure could use some snow here right now. I'm the owner of a small contracting lot maintenance company here and in winter we salt ice and clear snow.... that hasn't happened yet this winter except a couple of freeze ups with no precipitation. Have 8 snow plows (& drivers) just waiting around in the winter because we have to contractually. Lol, Id be where the warm sunshine was if it wasn't for that (ahhh warm dry Arizona or Florida sounds awesome) But such as it is Im here. Sorry really off topic

Back to topic.. you can ask the pharmacy to put the SC in a Topi-Click instead of a cream jar. They all have them in stock for accurate dispensing of rx creams. The pdf file works out to 1 gram per use which is 4 clicks and no waste under long finger nails. I know it costs them $3 per jar as I looked into them on-line. If they don't have them they can get a sample sent to them by the company that makes/markets them (they send out a free sample of three jars/colors within a few days)

Wish I could market the cream (my entrepreneurial brain) I would have it so out there at every DR.s office & Cancer Agency in Canada. I just don't understand why women everywhere don't have the information to access it...  It is a prescription after all. Guys have Viagra and the commercials non-stop. WHAT ABOUT US? I mean like really now... it works and then these old guys (said humorously, not to offend) would have somewhere to use the Viagra. That's my rant for the week... ok enough said.

Hugs Suz

Suz....

Suspect the market is a lot broader than BC patients.  I am fortunately fine without it.  I am so happy for the women on this thread who have it all working again.  I am sure their husbands are smiling too.

There also has to be a market for "offshore holidays" with Viagra for the gents and SC for the ladies.  I mean if they can have "Toys in Babeland" here in Seattle, I would think romantic holidays at a resort would be a major draw.

My evil mind working here.....  Sweet dreams everyone. - Claire

(From the user formerly known as Enjoyous) 

I picked up my tiny tube of SC on Tuesday.  *Holding SC aloft, cackling madly, while lightning bolts illuminate the crazed glint in my eyes*  The pharmacist told me that two other ladies called looking for it the day after I called.  This thread must have quite a wide audience!

I haven't tried it yet and unfortunately don't have any prospects for using it in the near future.  Canadian BF in Canada....mad at him anyway...blah blah.  I'll have to look for a closer, willing victim or else go solo.  Whatever I choose to do, I'll report back.

Suz - glad you got your sexy back.  We should all have that feeling, dammit, and I'm so hoping for an SC miracle!

E (Scootaloo)